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I read Angel's post and had what they call a moment of clarity. I, too, am an alcoholic. I had well over 10 years of sobriety until I relapsed a few years ago. Since then, my life has transformed into something I never imagined I would be living. Tonight I will drag my sorry ass back to AA. Pride and ego have kept me away - it's hard to admit to failure. But my life now depends on it. Thank you, Angel, for giving me the courage to take what I hope will be a first step back into the world of the living.

Council has voted to get rid of the separate male/shemale/tv/ts/etc.. area and make just ONE single area for ALL service providers.

For me, there is only one definition of a duo, AKA a three-way. That is to have the pleasure equally shared by all three people. Good sex is about sharing pleasure, not about only receiving it. Great sex (at least great 3-way sex) is about enjoying the the giving, receiving, and active participation of all three people, the gender of who is pleasuring who is unimportant. BTW, the same applies for great 2-way sex!

When are we suppose to receive an email or PM saying what time and where it is?

OD, I was going to give you rep points but I already spread too much love around in the last 24 hours... I have to admit that I still have not gone skinny dipping with the Lovely Dorinda... Something else to explore in the near future ;)

I'm gonna have to say true because this has happened to everyone at one time or another. Time to see who was paying attention: I currently have the superman symbol on the crotch of my undies. Posted via Mobile Device

Jeannie - Barbara Eden... and the best thing, she is portable!!!! What about a Betty and Veronica duo?

I just want to tip my hat to all of you who can pull this off. I'm a clumsy lover and I'm barely coordinated enough to have smooth sex with one other person let alone two. I think if I tried a threesome it would end up more like a Peter Sellers slapstick reel than a porno.

I volunteer if you need some help, Sophia ;)

Hugs for Angel Starr because she starts her new life today ... yay Angel, we will miss you but something tells me you will be back soon you are a strong woman!! Oh and a good morning hug to the rest of you ;)

Thanks all. Believe me - I do know I am powerless over alcohol. Once I have that first drink, I can no longer control anything. I have tried and failed time and time again. CERB is an odd place to gain strength in this battle, but then again, maybe not. There are a lot of special, selfless people here. I am humbled and grateful.

I would love to be part of any duo that involves MILF Jade or Samantha. After being the Hostess and observer at Sam's recent gang bang, I have a new appreciation for these fine ladies. Hubba hubba.....I can't wait.

For me, fully interactive means the ladies, kiss, do daty, some finger play or toy play. For some, it could also include strap-on with one or both taking turns. Semi-interactive might be light kissing and/or, breast touching and caressing, but no touching of the genitals. Non-interactive (girl on boy only): means there are two ladies and one gent, but do not touch or interact sexually at all. When I say I do duos with ladies, it's usually Fully Interactive or Semi. If a girl is not comfortable with any contact at all, she's probably not the gal for me to be doing duos with. Just my two cents worth.

Great work on the Social here Angela. Now go to bed... cat

The Mods put in quite a bit of effort to help me out and you can see I now have a reasonable sized 80x80 avatar. It seems the problem was indeed related to how long ago my account was originally set up (2006). So thanks to you all who were so supportive!!! I was really getting frustrated; I thought I might be forever consigned to the land of the Lilliiputians (or maybe the itty bitty titty committee Social Group) LOL Touch

It's okay you 'fell off the wagon'. It happens. But don't let it keep you from regaining control of your sobriety. You can do it and we're all behind you. :)

Don't let your imagination run away with you. The vast majority of prospective clients have no intention of causing anyone any harm whatever. They see us because they want company and intimacy that will not follow them when the engagement ends. They don't want any drama. Most of the time, in my experience, new clients are a bit shy, a little awkward, eager to make a good impression, anxious about how the meeting will go, very concerned that I may not like them or that I will turn them away when we meet. They're frequently reluctant to make the first move because they don't want to be turned down or to go too fast. Personally, I find all of this to be rather endearing. I want to underscore everything that's been said about honing your intuition. If anything in your early interactions with a prospective client feels "off" to you, take a pass. It's true that you may give up the opportunity to see the greatest guy you will ever meet. Or you might be passing up an axe murderer who's just arrived in your city. You'll never know. What you can be sure of is that not seeing someone means not exposing yourself to risks and that is often a very wise thing to do. I've been in this business for awhile. I turn away about 75-80% of the men who contact me. There have been times when I turned away more than that. I have never, ever been sorry to have chosen not to see someone. In my experience, the women who often have the hardest time with clients tend to be too submissive or too desperate to make some money quickly. The desperate ones take huge, unnecessary risks. They often feel guilty or unhappy that they're in this business and they just want to get things over with, get paid and forget about it all. Women who are too submissive often have poor boundaries, let themselves get caught up in negotiating activities or rates, and are too likely to give in to what the client wants even if it's risky. Women who have a strong sense of themselves, who won't yield or compromise under pressure and who are able to take control of the engagement are less likely to be harmed.

Angel will be missed very much and I hope (if she is reading this) that her time away fulfills her needs. Take care Angel.

Awareness, Pre-screening and Intuition is the first protection: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. Weapons: having a weapon and knowing how to use it are two different things. Using it under conditions of stress is whole other ball game. The best weapons are those you have with you all the time (head, hands, elbows, knees, teeth) or things you find around you (cell phone, belt, pen, lamp). Learning martial arts is touchy subject. There is a difference between learning martial arts and learning self protection. Community colleges, local community centers and universities often offer (women) self protection courses that range from a few days to a few weeks. These are worth looking into.

For the heck of it, I googled names that start with the letter a. Up pops todaysparent.com. WOW with a bit of reading, one could certainly find an original, meaningful name! Why not take 10 or 15 minutes of your time as a new MP/SP and find a name that will stand out for it's originality and not for it's connection to an existing persona? Hmmmm now I think I want to change MY name :)

Here is the link in question. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=52867

Hey hun , there is actually another post about me that already started .. Search ur forums for Candii Ladii , xo

The best approaches are to have prevention and harm reduction combined. The Hobbyists don't need to know about either. If it doesn't feel safe, don't do it. CB

When I've done retainers, we scheduled our appointments in advance. eg. "The 2nd and 4th Saturdays of every month from 5-10pm." I'm guaranteed an appointment, and he's guaranteed I'll be available for him. I've never done it on a "call when you want your appointments" basis.

You already have the best weapon - it is between your ears.

you should check out Sophia for sure or Carly....they are both beautiful & awesome ladies, easy going & they will treat you like a "king"...just check here on cerb for their schedules