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Most of the SPs that I know consider it a professional courtesy to give recommendations. We appreciate when someone does so for us, so we gladly do it for others. Not trying to hijack the thread but I would like to point out a couple of things to the gentlemen when a referral is required... 1. If you are going to see someone who requests a referral, give your regular SP a heads up that this SP will be contacting them. Out of the blue requests from an unfamiliar SP can set off spidey senses. I'm very protective of my guests information and do not discuss them unless they have given me permission to do so. If I receive a request that the gentleman didn't contact me about, I immediately drop him a message to ensure he is aware. By letting your regular SP know they may be contacted, it will save you time in getting the appointment set up by eliminating needless communications. 2. If you have a habit of cancelling at the last minute, not showing up, not showering or behaving in a way that SPs don't appreciate, do not be upset when that information is passed on to the referral requesting SP. For some SPs request the referral strictly for safety, others prefer to know that they are going to be dealing with someone who respects their time and efforts. If in the past you have not done so, be prepared that the offending behaviors may be part of the referral process. Smiles, cat

I received a bit of an education from a lady recently. After giving her an intense orgasm simply by digital stimulation of her clitoris, she explained to me that she never gets an orgasm by intercourse, always clitorally. So I was wondering, are there some women who can get an orgasm only by G-spot stimulation as well? Who cums exclusively clitorally? Who cums only by G-spot? And who needs both?

I'm in a course entitled Sex, Feminism and Globalization and I'm getting a lot of anti-porn, anti-bdsm feminism crammed down my throat. So my question to all the gents is this: Where did you learn what constituted acceptable sexual behaviour? Keep this quote in mind: "Pornography and its manifestations in popular culture are a major force shaping sexual behaviour in America. This is where men learn sexually appropriate behaviour and what women supposedly want sexually." Personally, I think that's utter horseshit. What about how your parents raised you, what you learned in school, what your friends told you, etc etc? Thoughts? While I agree that some pornography is problematic in that it portrays both sexes rather misleadingly (women are supposed to get wet instantly at the sight of a hard cock, guys are supposed to last forever because the only good sex is penetrative, etc) but rather than condemn the entire thing, if you have such an issue with how male and female sexuality is portrayed, why not try to make pornography more accurate? Probably because it's easier to just say, to hell with it, than to actually sit down and create some new porn. So guys, where'd you learn about sex?

While not having seen the documentary you mention, my video store experience tells me that there are only two films that I can think of that depict a man giving oral sex to a woman: In the Cut with Meg Ryan and Mark Ruffalo and Blue Valentine with Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. If anyone knows of any others, PM me! By appropriate, I just meant in general. It really wasn't that relevant to my question, I could have just asked: How/Where did you learn about sex? I personally don't consider any particular sex act "appropriate," in that one is better for a particular situation than another or that one style of sex is better or worse than another. I very much try not to participate in sexual hierarchies. What people like sexually are preferences, and I'm not going to vilify someone because they like a certain act that I personally would not engage in.

I have one to add. Please don't message a lady for the first time and ask what the price of a session is if you bring wine. This offer does not entitle you to a discount. I have been known to have wine with clients I know, that book me for more than an hour. Second, if you do not know the lady yet, she will look at this as a red flag. Third, if you have experienced this with another lady, do not assume the next one will accept the same. Not all providers are drinkers and it sends out a feeling that you may be a dangerous encounter. Please use safety and discretion. There's too many people out there that assume having a few glasses of wine in under an hour and then hopping in their car is ok. In my books it is not and I do not send tipsy people on their way.

Big or small I love them all.

When visiting another city, a favourite SP cancelled our RV only two hours out because of an issue that came up suddenly involving her best friend. Although disappointed, I understood, but asked if she could recommend someone to "take her place". Within minutes she quite happily sent me five recommendations with contact numbers and web links. She just asked that I mention her name as the one who recommended. It makes good business sense if you think about it.

No, GRAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIINNNNNS.

Bring back blue nuit! :) This is a great idea! I can't stand this faux mawk porn that starts with two identical looking young females sucking a huge cock, like get real! Berlin, when is your first directed porn coming out? Client vs SP porn?

The last thing I ever want to do is offend anyone..Sometimes it happens or I'm at the wrong place at the wrong time trying hard not to say something that someone might not like. I'm trying right now not to post this thread, my fingers won't stop typing. My sympathies to the families that have lost any loved ones. Steve Jobs and Dennis Ritchie will surely be missed by many and will be remembered to us by the work the have done and many accomplishments that help us in our daily lives. Unfortunately, we can't help them now. But there are people we can help. Throughout the 1990's more than 100 million children died from illness and starvation. Those 100 million deaths could have been prevented for the price of ten Stealth bombers, or what the world spends on its military in two days!The World Health Organization estimates that one-third of the world is well-fed, one-third is under-fed one-third is starving- Since you've started reading this, at least 200 people have died of starvation. Nearly one in four people, 1.3 billion - a majority of humanity - live on less than $1 per day, while the world's 358 billionaires have assets exceeding the combined annual incomes of countries with 45 percent of the world's people. To satisfy the world's sanitation and food requirements would cost only US$13 billion- what the people of the United States and the European Union spend on perfume each year. Every 3.6 seconds someone dies of hunger

Castle, I don't know you well either, but have read your posts. I think Surf Nazi makes a good point, not that the others haven't either from their perspectives. Lonely isn't always that much fun. It is in the small hours of the morning I find it too. BUT the one person you can't escape at 4am is (often the darker part of) yourself. He's the guy who doesn't need any more anguish than he has now. "Baby steps" is right, but it is both warm and pleasant and the edge of slippery slope if you can't keep the boundaries. As was said in lots of other threads, communication with your companion upfront may be the best reassurance you can get that things will stay on an even keel. You may have to work at it ! Take Care, CB

Most know me for my frank posts and relatively conservative though honest views. I was very attached to cerb last year and the year before however, that attachment has been weakend somewhat as a result of some posts or debates or actions over the past few months on cerb and as some may have noticed I log on much less frequent and post comments and reviews much less than before. That said, I can confidently say that cerb is still my preferred board to be, though logging on to it is not the first thing I do after work or the last thing I do before going to bed as it used to be as late as 6 months ago. I do believe that mod has a very difficult job and is working very hard to maintain a civil and positive board, considering the wide variety of people, views, interests, backgrounds, ....... and though likely not perfect but has been to large extend successful in this challenging mission.

I like photos or albums where the lady shows enough to get you excited but covers enough up to make you crazy thinking about what the rest looks like. e.g. leave the naughty bits for the clients.

Absolutely Gabriella! :lovers: Ready to make our Duo Debut! :icon_wink: