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I don't think a question like this should be addressed here. Reputable spa's and Mp's do not offer extra's as it would put their license at risk. I don't know about this particular spa, but here is not the place to ask about any MP estabishment. It's no wonder some of these places get shut down as inquiries like this put them on the radar.

So you've fallen hard for a lady in the business. I know where you are, brother. I really do. I've been there too. You're in good company. This has happened to many of us in the hobby, and as much as we like to kid ourselves otherwise, it happens to the ladies too. It's hard to know which is the more powerful desire, the need for sex or the need for love. And it's hard in this hobby sometimes because one feels so much like the other. Falling hard is sneaky because it tends to happen when we lack something in our lives, but it can catch us unaware at the best of times. I'm not likely to tell you something you don't already know or haven't thought about. But since you asked, here are my thoughts in the matter. The ladies work hard to give us what we want. And we work hard to find the ones who are good at giving us what we're looking for. And it is the really good ones that pose the greatest risk, because they give so much of themselves to make you happy. Perhaps she might even have liked you a little more than the next guy. But your time runs out, you leave starry-eyed and wobbly-legged, you leave daydreaming about her. And she might be already on to her next client, who she's already trying to make as happy as you. The good ones do. And that is why you chose her in the first place..... hmmm? I used to think that it was all an act. But I came to realize that that was really selling the ladies short. Because for the good ones, it isn't an act. They really do love what they do and they do enjoy your company. But there must be boundaries to that caring. There just has to be. Otherwise, she wouldn't be able to be good at what she does for the next guy. She has to let it go. And that is what we have to do as well. And at the end of the day, most of us hardly know the lady who's given us so much pleasure. She could be anyone behind those eyes. Anyone. Good, bad, evil, divine. Think about that for a moment. You don't know her, you don't know her baggage. And she will have some, brother, as I know you will have your own. She likely doesn't know you at all either. She would be right to be wary. I'm not saying that it might not work out for the two of you. But the chances are so slim, and the impediments in your way are so large, that lasting happiness is so unlikely. It's truly a shot in the dark, as remote as a lottery win. You asked me for my advice, brother. And mine to you is to have some variety. Keep reading the ads and reviews. Find other ladies who everyone's raving over. Go see them, give them a shot at knocking your socks off. And undoubtedly some of them will. And doing that will give you perspective in this terrible and wonderful hobby of ours. For it's most healthy for you to love the experiences, but not the ladies. I can speak from experience that I know how hard it is to follow this advice, but look in your heart and see if it doesn't ring straight and true. Good luck, brother.

She is still going to stab you with the scissors.....

Most welcome too mistert. She told me she works weekdays by which I assume Monday to Friday but to be safe may be Friday is a sure thing.

Not to sound like a prude but....WTF

Just a thought about this concern about a lie of omission. Does everyone tell everyone else everything about their life. There are things I've shared with family, and only family, things I've shared with friends and only friends, and things shared here on CERB and with ladies, and things shared that overlap with family/friends/CERB-ladies...not to mention things that are kept to myself They really aren't lies of omission, we just allow, depending on the person, a glimpse into what makes us unique. Just because someone becomes a new friend doesn't entitle him/her to know everything about you, boundries must always be respected A quick rambling RG

Now that's a Warrior Princess

From a guy's perspective, I count among my friends several sex workers. I frankly don't give a damn what a person does, what they own or who they are seeing... my friends are my friends because of who they are, not what they do. I would also suggest that the initial trepidation that people have in exposing this part of their lives may meet resistance, but in fact, the more people are aware of what you do and who you are, the more intrigued they become. Again just from my own perspective, my life has been vastly enriched by the wonderful relationships I have fostered with women in the industry. I am one lucky guy.

Getting home and comfortable, I go to my jacket to check my Blackberry for messages. It's not there. I go to my car. It's not there. I check my pants (which are now lying over a chair). It's not there. I call my office... the secretary says - "Oh... it's here." No texting, messaging or calling tonight!

Dudes, Get thee to Erin if you're looking for some hot sassy fun in the shower and tantalizing touches for the main course. I had the great pleasure of her company today and think I enjoyed her girlish giggle almost as much as the sight of this stunning young lady disrobed. Yesssssssss!

Lot's of good advice, just think of it as any first date, be clean, be punctual try and communicate to the SP what your looking for!

I'd take a humble, respectful, unattractive gentleman over a cocky Brad Pitt anyday!

I'd Smurf that

Yes She Devil The Winnipeg forum is extremly slow. Slower than you and I and Mr. Green knows that it could be , considering the number of Manitoba members. This is like the problem of an underachieveing student. The way things are now Cerb is not properly peeking the full interrests of its Members in Manitiba. A poor instructor would blame the student and great instructor would look to change things that would involve that student. I think Whiterabbit's idea is an excellent start. Once we get constructive input from more members who knows where we can go. When you have a sick patient, we never say , let them drivel. You listen and you try things. If we can't see that things are ailing on the Manitoba side ; then we are acting like the ostrich and hiding our heads in the sand. The very least we could do is change the heading of this section to Courtesans/Escorts/&General discussion for Manitoba Can we try that and see what happens?

It doesn't bother me at all, look and I may even give you a wink. I like it when a nice little glance is given and much more the double glance. Makes me think to myself "oh yeah, I still got it" and puts a little pep in my step. But the constant long stare kind of freaks me out.

Well said, Birdboy. Very erudite and introspective. :bigclap: