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10:They will steal your spot on the sofa while you are up getting a soda 9:They will take the treat you gave them and bury it the yard like a paranoid crack head burying their stash 8:They will jump on your bed with muddy feet making you do laundry again! 7:They will lick visitors with an uncontrolled passion only they understand 6:They will cause children to smile 5:They will make you feel horrible for not walking them by looking at you with deep sad eyes 4:They will look at you like you commited a crime against them if you don't let them lick your ice cream 3:They will cause wide spread happiness in large group settings 2:They will crack you up by shaking their butts so hard you think they are going to snap in half 1: They will steal your heart like a theif in the night,showing you complete and pure love that only a pitbull can show These beautiful,wonderful dogs,demonized by the media are so misunderstood ,but when you meet one you will understand why those of us who adore these wonderful dogs love them so,please don't judge them by what you hear, and know for one of these dogs to be made vicious they have to be put through so much trauma and even then some will still be gentle and loving.Did you know they were once known as the nanny dog because back in the day people used to train them to watch over their children.I try to educate people about their wonderful temperment,by the way also in temperment tests they always rank 85% most other dogs including the well loved lab ranked in the 70's!If I have changed one mind I have succeeded.Thanks for reading ,Cristy

I've been in relationships while escorting and even dated a client or two. While the other person was okay about it, i always felt a bit weird. I didn't discuss my work with them and I would leave it at the front door. Ultimately there were communication problems that didn't even involve my line of work so everything just went awry. Call me old fashioned but this time I'd rather do things the right way. If I end up finding Mr. Right and I truly love him ( and am not testing the waters or anything) I would leave this business without hesitation. And financially, escorting for some time now has been a side act with me. The way I see it if i really care about someone, I can't be screwing other guys. I think in my past relationships while escorting, I cared about them but wasn't "in love" with them and that's a huge difference for me. There was one client that I had a huge crush on and met him about 3 times. There was an instant attraction and chemistry there but I never saw him after that. I always wonder if he will call again. It was weird because I didn't know much about him and felt like that. That was not normal for me. I've always stayed within the boundaries unless the feelings were mutual. The crazy thing is he lives close to me and I see him around town all the time. My SP friend knocked some sense into me and told me he was just a client and to come back down to reality.lol. So I did and left it up to the universe to decide if he were to meet me again. I had to accept things the way they were. And as far as I know he is NOT a cerb member just in case someone else thought I was referring to them. lol. If I met a client and decided to take it to the next level, I'd probably give it a try but on a couple of conditions... he doesn't give me an ultimatum, he doesn't throw my job back in my face and he is not a possessive and controlling type of person. When I witness the above things, I run away... and fast!! Honesty and communication are big things for me and I'm a straight shooter kind of woman. If something is wrong, the other person will know about it. Many times I've heard guys saying they had dated SPs but they weren't willing to give up the money for the relationship. I'm in a position where I don't have to decide which is more important ( money is no longer the driving force for security) and I'm at a point in my life where I will be looking for someone in the near future. I am the kind of person where if my job is more important at a given time, I will not be looking for anyone because it does get complicated and I really don't need bullshit in my life. I do things on my terms and will leave the business on my terms but at the same time when i'm ready to look for a serious relationship then I will be ready to leave my job. It is very easy to find love in all the supposedly "wrong" places.

1. Use condoms on toys. 2. Don't expect a provider to let you restrain her unless she can get out of the restraints easily herself without aid. And blindfolds--never. Too much of a safety risk. I can't see anything that you're doing--which includes making sure you're using a condom at all times, you're not secretly videotaping, etc. In terms of the client being blindfolded, well that's up to him.

A human pole to prance and wrap my body and legs around. I like that and the other pole sounds very interesting and you say it's portable!! YUMMY!:bj2: Kisses, Lexy

I always looked forward to having a girl dress up in any type of costume but never really happened yet. I have more then once put on my chaps only to strip for some ladies here but that was it. I would love to have the school girl play or the nurse, naughty secretary, librarian, police officer etc... I was going to please a CERB lady once with my real fireman outfit but with all the public I would see before knocking on her door it would surprise a lot of people so I decided not to. I did have handcuffs on me but no one was dressed for the role play, maybe one day soon.

As Touch has said, please vote. heather It is your democratic right! You have free choice and folks what a choice heather we have this time. The clock is winding down and hfxandy needs to receive your PM with the name heather of the lovely lass heather that you are supporting. Please do the right thing and get that PM off to hfxandy.

You know your old when talk of cougars makes you think back to Mutual of Omaha's Wild Kingdom RG :-)

I just wanted to share an experience I had with a guy not that long ago,I always have tried to be very open with those I befriend , especially if I am intimate with him,when I started escorting I had met a guy, we dated for a few months until I felt comfortable enough to open up to him about my choosen occupation,needless to say it didn't go over well,he informed others in my building,dumped me ,letting me know I wasn't worthy of a man like him and caused me alot of problems.I have since decided to keep my business to my self only,I haven't even told friends.This has obviously affected my ability to trust people,as I also had a friend turn away as well and she used to be in the business,some people are very judgemental and cruel,they judge you only by what you do and not for who you are.Thanks for the thread ,I think it's a good subject to discuss,Cristy

There is nothing left anymore to learn the hard way. Things that you buy now won't wear out. Your supply of brain cells is finally down to a manageable size. You no longer think of the speed limit as a challenge. Your investment in health insurance is finally paying off. You can quit trying to hold in your stomach no matter who walks into the room. Your secrets are safe with your friends because they can't remember them anyway. You can sing along with elevator music. Your joints are more accurate meteorologists than the guy on the television. Your eyes won't get too much worse. Kidnappers are not very interested in you. People call you at 9 p.m. and ask, "Did I wake you???? " You can get into a heated argument about pension plans. You can eat dinner at 4:00 in the afternoon. In a hostage situation you are the most likely to be released first. No one expects you to run -- anywhere. You are no longer viewed as a hypochondriac.

Nothing is a bigger kick in the pants than a last minute cancellation. If gentlemen know that its not a for sure thing, don't book.. simple as that.

yes pretty paige was awesome

I don't think a question like this should be addressed here. Reputable spa's and Mp's do not offer extra's as it would put their license at risk. I don't know about this particular spa, but here is not the place to ask about any MP estabishment. It's no wonder some of these places get shut down as inquiries like this put them on the radar.

Great responses everyone!! On my side of the fence.. Many of you already know I married a client. Several issues have come up in our relationship that makes me feel uncomfortable. My husband, being the honest man that he is...When asked what I do he told them I was a masseuse and they knew what kind of masseuse(I guess men just know these things) A few of his friends and co workers advised him to break it off and that I was using him for money-pressure to dissolve our relationship- At work functions, the wives seem to have a preconception about me that because of my job and gave me the cold shoulder, like I must be a hoochie..One even yelled at me because I told her husband that he makes a good steak and accused me of hitting on him as if I were recruiting new clients geesh! "Can't you see what she's doing"? She yelled! I feel isolated at times times because I don't attend such things anymore. My husband lost a few friends because of what I do, but that's probably a blessing in disguise because a true friend wouldn't go out their way to try to make your life miserable..Once it felt like I was Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman..One of his co-workers even approached me for services and when I denied him he got all freaky on me. Okay so these may be isolated events and most likely and hopefully not the norm for everyone..But it makes me want to pack up and leave the city, leave my job and roots behind me to love each other in peace without judgement or preconceptions..leave the worry and stigma behind us. love is love.A person is a person..It's not what you do, it's who you are.

If you have any questions regarding places I'd be happy to tell you about the area you are looking at. I've lived all over Dartmouth and Halifax. There are many places your friends may not want to vist so if you have some places in mind send a mesage. btw....Amateur Night at Ralph's is coming up soon.

Pre flip/tease leave it to regular chit chat. Good bonding time. During tease and post flip, i love a bit of cooing and some nice heavy breathing in the ears, a few whispers of "ooh baby" etc etc. in the right tone can make me melt and are always desired.