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I'm don't agree, there are numerous reasons why recos aren't made on CERB. The reason why I shun recommendations is because of the impact it has had on my personal life. If you want to find out if a provider may not provide 100% service all the time, go check the review boards. If you can't find anything negative there either than it may be a personal choice of the provider. Even completely positive reviews can have a negative impact on ones personal life... cat

This is actually a good point....and yes I will agree that the suggestion of what multiple clients per day entailed was probably what stirred the pot. As for what has changed....this summer I noticed a great flux of new ladies which seems to have continued to the fall....every week it seems there are more ladies joining cerb. which is great for the gents...but sometimes it means that we have to take on 4 clients on one day when and if the opportunity arises because the phone may not ring for the rest of the week. we can definitely say how many client we would limit ourselves to ideally (like the previous poll) if business was regular and steady....but I find that the nature of this business is hardly predictable at times. I think there are many factors that determine how available we make ourselves. And that it rarely boils down to what kind of operation we're running.

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I think it would be great if the gentlemen who had a positive experience with the lady in question posted their feedback in this thread or better yet, start a recommendation thread for her so everyone can benefit from it.

I think one of the best compliments one can receive from a client is repeat business! Seeing them again-especially shortly after our first meeting- is really sweet, it shows me that I have left an impression and they want more of my special touch! When someone says they can't wait to see me again, and really can't- how much more of a compliment can I ask for? Great question! Bethany Xoxox

READ!!!! Don't book an appt and THEN ask for donation requirements, restrictions etc... I would say that most ladies either post their info in their ads and if not they include links to their websites. Some of us utilize the "about me" tab to explain as much as we can. Don't be lazy...get your ducks in a row and everyone will have a much more satisfying time!

I don't think there is harm in asking a potential provider what her boundaries or options are as long as you do so in a courteous and respectful way. It is better to be a little awkward at this stage in the process as opposed to encountering an awkward situation during an encounter.

To a certain extent, rates are set to attract certain clients, as much as to serve as a signal to the potential clients as to what they can expect. Someone who spends a lot on themselves in other ways (5 star restaurant, 5 star hotels, more expensive lifestyle and homes) are going to spend in that 500/hr (or more range) because they are reading the signals. They can be guaranteed (probably) the sp will be in a location that they will be comfortable going to (whether condo or hotel), that she will provide the more luxurious surroundings he is accustomed to. She will be able to afford the attention to details, whether it is simply knowing which are better types of wine or just serving them. For regulars, she probably give expensive gifts for birthdays and/or Christmas/holidays. Most people who do more shopping than I do know there is a big difference in the quality of a designer made item and a knock off or a dollar store equivalent. The clothing is constructed better, and with better quality fabrics. It fits better. Accessories last decades because they are made with more attention to the details. For someone like myself (and probably my clients lol), that difference is not important. For people who are more accustomed to that lifestyle, their surroundings actually do make a difference to how comfortable they are going to be. When an escort understands this difference and caters to that clientele, she is usually successful because there are fewer who do. Meaning she is not competing for clients from the larger pool, but from a smaller market and being one of only a very few for that market to select from, she is usually quite busy in spite of the 'fact' some guys will come up with that she isn't doing more (menu items) than someone who charges 200/hr. Well, that's not usually the point, but also, she is doing more. She is doing what that type of client wants, needs and expects. Which is usually more than simple menu items.

You know your are old, when you played Twister with 3 girls in their early twenties, (after a few drinks) and you CAN'T hardly walk the next day ;) hehehe

I am going to jump into this and expect to get flamed to well done. I am NOT offended at all by the question. What I am offended at is perhaps the wording, and most of YOUR responses. What I feel I have just read is a whole bunch of folks repeatedly attacking this person for making a mistake and splitting hairs. Shame on you. Lets take it out of the forum context..... We are at a CERB social. A new person comes up to one of us and asks this question in normal verbal vernacular. You might be slightly offended; but I'm sure you would explain in a much less assertive way why this is not a question you should ask. I highly doubt one would call over some friends to rudely explain repeatedly why this is not acceptable. And then when the gent tried to rectify the matter, y'all jumped on that. Btw, I share on my site exactly how many clients I see in a day. That is my choice. I'm sure half of you are thinking, "get stuffed Chanel", but since you all felt it necessary to share your opinion, I am sharing mine.

If you aren't soliciting, or providing illegal services, or allowing SP activity in your spa... then why the need to hide? CERB is not considered a public space by the way. You have to join the community and its topic specific.

I'm of the opinion that something of this nature is really bad for this hobby. It doesn't need this type of exposure. It really fucked up the industry here. I'm also of the opinion that exploiting young people for personal finiancial gain, is abhorrent. (like her sickening auction of a girls first session for example) The over-presecense and disregard for "discretion" which is sacred. She pissed all over it. She deserves it. What she doesn't deserve is having a sex worker advocacy group pay her legal fees. Those groups are there to help women in the industry and raise the hobby to a different level other than stereotypes. She is a stereotypical opportunist.

My thoughts exactly. Rassilon if you wish to be one of the guys simply be one of them. Start posting, become involved and there you are, in the middle of it all. Hopefully having a great time and enjoying yourself. :icon_smile:

You are definitely going to stir the pot with this one Wellie. I am wondering what your motivation is. I think you are full of it when you say "very young and very old command lower prices". Where did you come up with that? Since there is no "going" rate - we are not governed by some union rules or legislated rate guidelines, believe ladies set their rates according to what they believe the market will bear. Sometimes they are realistic in their thinking - other times they are way off and learn the lesson when their phone doesn't ring. Some ladies who charge low rates do so to get the volume, or they don't know any better to charge more. Often young girls getting into the business will reason that $80 or $100 is better than working at Timmies. This is especially true with some agencies who charge $180 for the hour and give the girl $90 and keep $90 for the fee and driver. Maybe some ladies do not believe they are attractive enough to charge more. Maybe some are financially strapped and are desperate for the money. Some have habits to support and will adjust their rates to suit their desperateness. Then there are some unattractive ladies who charge high prices and wonder why they don't get a lot of calls. Then there are some attractive ladies who charge a little less than they could be, because they're happy with that number, or want to maintain volume. Then there are some attractive ladies who charge very high rates, hoping to attract a more elite type clientele. The reasons and factors are varied - I believe there is no "right" or "wrong" answers. Yes, some cities, like Montreal, seem to operate on a lower rate structure, but you still have your $300 an hour SPs living there. Age and attractiveness usually are what we consider the driving forces. But I also believe, attitude level of service and other things dictate the bottom line of how popular an SP is going to be. I learned that when I got into the business and thought I was too chunky to be an SP and learned very quickly that there is something for everyone and if you're willing to provide good service, there will always be someone out there who will be willing to see you. :butt: