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A detailed discussion about screening potential clients is better suited for the SP-only section than the public boards. While some men may be reluctant to provide personal details early in the discussion, there are other ways to qualify them, whether from verification services, references from other companions or other information. The men on this site are like men everywhere. Most are good guys who want the same things we do: the opportunity to spend some mutually-enjoyable time together on terms that are acceptable to both parties with no strings attached. Always recognize that membership in and reputation with a board or website is no guarantee that someone will be a good or a safe client. Similarly, a man who has never contacted a paid companion before and who doesn't belong to any board may be a fabulous client. Everyone starts somewhere! In general, my advice is to take your time screening prospective clients. Be wary of those who insist on meeting right away without giving information about who they are unless you're both very sure that this is the way you want to work and you have help available nearby if you need it. Take a pass on anyone who argues about your rates or demands extras or special consideration. Most troubles begin over conflicts that could have been avoided with clear communication, so make your limits and expectations extremely clear from the outset. For example, if you use condoms for everything (including oral sex performed on him), make sure you say so. Never relax your limits just because you need the money badly, because it's late at night, because you've had too much to drink, because you're tired or depressed or because you're already late paying the rent or another bill. Nothing is more important than your safety at any time. Ever.

I was thinking about the wonderful members of CERB today and wondering how so many people are doing. So I thought I would start by offering an update on how I am doing with the hopes that I'll hear from some old friends (either privately or publicly). 2011 has truly been the best year of my life. I married the man of my dreams and, after suffering from infertility issues, I finally became pregnant and gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. It happened quite suddenly with an engagement in the new year, an unexpected pregnancy (as we were starting to believe it wouldn't happen for us), a wedding and a Christmas baby. :-) For those of you who have enjoyed the experience, having a baby with the love of your life is the most beautiful thing a person can go through. We wanted a child for so long and shed many tears believing it might never happen for us. Thankfully, God blessed us with the most beautiful baby I have ever set eyes on. She is a wonderful baby who doesn't make a peep unless she's hungry. We're keeping our fingers crossed that this doesn't change. Our newborn is a few weeks old now and just the absolute pride and joy of our lives. My older child has surprised me by being very loving, helpful and mature towards the new baby. The concerted efforts of my husband and I to make sure there is no sibling jealously have worked. :-) We're very sleep deprived (as all parents are) and will be hiring a night nanny shortly to help. Other than the sleep deprivation, I'm the happiest I have ever been. I would love to hear from the wonderful people I had the chance to get to know in 2009. I think of you often and most of you fondly. :-) And to the wonderful friends I have made from the Ottawa area (you know who you are), I'd like to extend an invitation to have you over for dinner and to meet our little angel the next time you are in Toronto. There are a lot of fabulous delicatessens nearby our home and it would be a pleasure to order something and have you over for dinner and to meet our new baby. :-)

Saw this. Thought it was interesting. Voila!

@ Loopie, I sort of agree with what you're saying, but given that sex and everything surrounding it is a highly "hush hush" subject in a lot of social settings, it might make sense for someone to bring up a topic such as sex addiction in a setting like CERB where we all gather on the basis of sexual experiences/encounters amongst other things. It also seems plausible that people in this setting are experiencing similar things and thus can private message the OP with some ideas or support resources. And so while this topic may not make sense to be discussed on CERB for some, it sort of makes sense to me for the reasons I've stated above. Sky

I don't mean to be rude, but posting a thread asking for support in quitting sex on an escort message board seems a bit like having an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting in a bar. I have tried to understand this addiction because it gets a lot of press lately. And I will admit that I do not feel I understand it. Nobody has really provided me with a consistent or meaningful definition. So I can't really say I even understand what the problem is and what sex addicts feel they would need to do in order to cure themselves or treat themselves. But if you feel sex is ruining your life, I really don't think this is the place to get away from those temptations.

1. Immediately change your password. It is possible someone has your password especially if it is easy to guess. From your current description and what you posted I think someone is spamming and setting your email address as the reply-to email. Meaning any automatic replies to the message would end up in your account. Explanation: Emails have 3 addresses: To a recipient, From a sender and where Reply should go. By default From and Reply are the same. It is trivial to have a different From and Reply address. 2. Setup a filter to move all emails to adultclassified into the Spam folder. In Yahoo Mail, select Mail Options/Filters/Add Filter/recipient contains/adultclassified Move to Folder: Spam This should help keep things sane.

As someone who suffers from PTSD, and did once almost end it all by my own hand...articles like this just break my heart. I know too many soldiers who have taken their own lives over the last decade, no soldier should ever have to suffer alone. http://blogs.ottawacitizen.com/2011/12/10/18-u-s-military-veterans-commit-suicide-every-day/

"My Way" was, of course, written by Paul Anka. Here he is, covering something written by someone else... Paul Anka - Smells Like Teen Spirit

This is why we can squirt:) and have anal orgasms:) and cumming over and over and over and over and over. I love my giant clit <3

Dere mister olde dawg, Ma misses done seen yore commershell on yore websight and wen she read about two haairy back gentlemens she done got herself all cranked up. You sees, she aint never been with a hairy backed man, and for shore not with two at the same time. It is are third anniversury and too celebrate she wants me two try to set her up wif these fine loking gentlemens. For ma honey, enything she wants is wat I will gets her. She is a litle shy so I kould only send are photograf taken from behinds us. But, she is a little tiger in bed and bein with a man with a haairy back is going to give these gentlemens awl that they kan handel. So mister olde dawg, kould you please help my litle chikadee? mn2 PS: She only likes the finur things in life so she only looks at the BBM websight, not those oneses like Cerb. PPS: She done jst wispered a sweat nothing into my ear:). she wondurs if YOUSE mite be avalable too? The name Olde dawg sort of turns her on. PPS: Dont thinks you that just bekause we are from litle PEI thats we are kuntry bumpkinses. We knows are way around this techernology and lifstile. PPS: Wood you prefers cash or coulds we trade for a lobster or a bag of PEI taters? She is alredy loooking fur yere responses.

I did the test. God help me......

I can't argue with this opinion unless it is really (in my opinion, you might think otherwise) bad porn that features a guy who keeps saying ridiculous things like "I'm gonna fling out my creamy white ketchup cannon and blast it all over that filthy dirty jizzbox of yours you dirty skan......" you get the idea. Other then that I give porn during sex a YAY! If for some reason I'm not performing when it comes to the bedroom antics and I need some backup. A double YAY for porn! On the other side however, sometimes it is good to just enjoy the sounds and the visuals of the two (or more) of us. No movies playing (and no phones going off!). Just real sounds of heavy breathing, dirty talk, moaning, bodies smacking together, furniture being shifted and maybe a cough or two from the cameraman. So overall I have no preference!

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Happy Malika is happy:) Doing a inverted self-suspension with a pole between your legs is *really* awkward

It sadens me to think of the number of species man kind has caused to become extinct because of our misuse of this planet.Some of us do our part ,being"green" others just carry on as if this planet will last forever and alot of times it's people with children,just boggles my mind.I would think with all we know now more would be "greener",after all eveything from a bug to a bear has a right to be here and live it's life,not just humans,imagine having to exist in a glass,concrete,or stainless:frown: steele enviroment!!!Yes I'm a tree hugger!!!

I wonder if this will be come a new category that a SP can list her PSI or will it be a question that we are allowed to ask when booking. lol.

Ohhh yes I am always ready for hot action, ask Angelina she loves giving me DATO, we are doing it now ;)

Hey, Lee! Happy New Year! I have great news for you re: your transmission. I've got a box of trained hamsters and four wheels for them to run in. The cute little guys will run for hours and hours, especially at night. I'm sure you can rig up something or other that will make their incredible energy output workable for your van. After all, hamsters used to power the interwebs, right?

This one too??? and this one??? and this one??? or this one? what about this one???

Talking to Penelope on the phone and having her help me with some personal issues.

Well a lot of the ladies I see use verification They get (at least from me they do) happily from me Full Name Verifiable phone number A reference from another lady Email address Board Handle (confirmed through a pm) The ladies probably have more insights on this, but they may pm you And providing verification information to the ladies, well in my experience they use it responsibly, for their safety. They aren't using it to breach your privacy Always good to be safe RG

Personally, I love a good cape and kinda wish they were the fashion du jour. I'd jump on the train.

I'm of the opinion that if the OP actually has a sex addiction, then this is probably not the site to frequent. I think most people are here to explore ways to enhance their sexual activity- not explore ways to suppress it. On this site, I feel like a kid in a candy store and I am here because I enjoy the interaction. If I'm addicted to chocolate, I wouldn't take a tour of a Ganong factory. I actually do mean this post to be respectful.

Kindman If you truly suffer from sex addiction, you should be seeking help from a therapist/psychologist. If diagnosed as such already, your therapist/psychologist would likely direct you to appropriate chat rooms. He/she would also likely tell you to stay away from escort sites, such as CERB. I do understand Alexandra's point about CERB, although I have to agree with Loopie. First question coming to mind is how you came to CERB. I found CERB when I decided to begin embarking on this lifestyle, and used Google. If it were me, and I was to be looking for help regarding sex addiction, I would Google sex addiction Here's what I quickly came up with http://www.sexhelp.com/am-i-a-sex-addict/sex-addiction-test This can tell you whether you are a sex addict or not (if not already diagnosed), or at least it's a starting point. Some quick ramblings RG

I don't know if I believe in sex "addiction." I'm more apt to believe in sex "compulsion," because I believe just about anything in life can become a compulsive focus. Think about it in these terms: people who are obsessive compulsive will exhibit certain habits, like always having to place their pens in a row on their desk. They feel the need to do it, and it satisfies something in them once it is done. They can experience discomfort or anxiety if they try and resist their compulsion. I sort of think sex "addicts" are the same. They feel a compulsive need, and will obsess about the need until they satisfy it to the extent that seeking satisfaction of the obsession gets in the way of normal day to day life. I can see where some think it's an addiction because of the endorphin release and so on, but then that means anything that releases endorphins could be addictive and one activity that releases endorphins could theoretically replace another. I don't think there's anything wrong about talking sex addiction on CERB, so long as the material read here doesn't feed your compulsion. The enticing images in the ads, the nature of some of the recommendations.... I could see that as something that would more likely feed a problem than resolve it, whatever good intentions were at the outset. I think that's what loopie meant. Sent from my HTC EVO 3D X515a using Tapatalk