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This continues to be a thought provoking thread. Regarding seeing an SP versus having an affair, this raises all sorts of interesting questions. I've done both. Early on, when I was feeling sexually frustrated in my marriage, I had an affair with a co-worker. She was in a different city, and we only saw each other when business required travel to the same locations. I thought this would be sufficient distance to keep things "emotionally safe". It didn't and this resulted in a huge emotional strain ... both for me and the person I was having an affair with. It almost seemed inevitable that emotions became involved attraction and lust became affection and what ... love(?). There was always the possibility that it could be more ... that it could become a "real" relationship, and that caused huge problems. Although my SO never found out (although that too was a close call), the guilt I felt nearly tore my relationship with her apart. I vowed I would not do that again. Now, in terms of seeing SPs, I do not feel guilty, and it allows me to keep my relationship with my SO healthy and intact. That's not to say that I don't feel anything for the SPs I see. Of course I do. I hold them in the utmost respect, I genuinely like and admire them, and I consider the very best of them to be my friends. I tend not to see a lot of SPs, and frequently go through long periods of time seeing only one. But the difference is that we are both very clear on the parameters of the relationship and its purpose. Affairs carry with them the possibility of a world of hurt. Seeing your favorite SP, only a world of pleasure! Porthos

I want to say first, that I congratulate your deep contemplation on this subject. As many will DO without thinking about it first, questioning your motives, and seemingly very attentive to those around you. I see you are very loyal to your marriage in the way of support and obligation, I hope Love as well? I assume you indeed love your wife, but love for you may not be all that you seek?? So the answer to the question..."is this better than getting involved with messy emotions, or lies to some young girl?" I think you already know this answer, but need validation. In my opinion, YES IT IS!! BUT.....you need to feel good at the end of the day, good about your life and that you are being true to yourself! Weather or not you are a hobbyist or SP or MA, you need to be happy with your decision first. If you do it with shame and guilt, IT WILL EAT AT YOU IN THE END! Have I saved marriages? YES, I think I have.( I have never had an angry spouse call me yet, and have not heard from a client being caught ...yet) As many whom I have spent time with have never said they were ever caught. I have seen men come to me in complete break down mode, feeling so bad about themselves as a man. Perhaps their wife is a new mother, has no desire? Perhaps they are ill? Perhaps she is having her own affair? Perhaps they have entered a new change in a mature life? Perhaps it is the man who needs an ego boost? But as a spouse, I think it should be looked into as to why? Are you still making love to your wife??? Whatever the reason, THIS HOBBY IS NOT A CURE, BUT A WAY TO GET THROUGH IT! Perhaps this is a phase that you need to explore? Just always be very careful, as you stated.......you will never leave her, but will she leave you if caught? Always be mindful of what your limitations, mindful of how your hobby affects your home life. Make sure your hobby does not take away from the love you have from your family and home life! I hope I have answered or validated something for you, as this has been my experience and testimony from years of experience and observations. I my self am not married. Not sure If I will be, but..........I know at the end of the day, I am happy and satisfied with my path in life:)

Done with the flu, but now I've lost my voice. I literally "squeek" when I talk.

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My preference for me is to be neatly trimmed- and that's what matters! (my preference, that is) I do prefer when my gentleman callers are neatly trimmed as well. In general I do enjoy hair so long as it doesn't get in the way. It's soft, and comes in many exciting shades! (Including the illustrious firecrotch, one of my personal favourites.)

Brooke, VeronicaVaugh's profile, with thanks.

Good morning. One of our Cerb Ladies, Jennigurl27, is hurting, physically, mentally and in her heart. Jenni lost her husband a little over a month ago, has been quite ill over the last six months, and has some other "stuff" breaking her heart. Keep her in your thoughts and prayers. If you know her number, give her a call to say hi, send her a note to say you are thinking of her. She needs our support, and I know that the folks in Cerb are so good at that. Thanx all. the liquor

When she is completly shaved I am convinced it makes the oral that much better. Likewise for myself, so I always try to be hairless.

As an independent you can certainly do that. But an agency or mp booker should not be discussing services on the phone. They could refer to a tip rate or range tho. Legally, I believe they have to avoid these discussions, and if they don't, could potentially be talking to LE, which could potentially lead to a bust. just a word of caution to anyone calling and expecting full disclosure, and getting miffed if they don't get it.

About 10 years ago, spending $13,000 on a 1972 Mercedes 280 SE 4.5 that I knew needed a little work, and then, about 18 months later and $11,000 in repairs, etc., selling it for $10,000.

So, several people have observed that this comes up over and over again, and therefore doesn't need to be repeated. The former is self-evidently true. The latter, alas, I disagree with :) Yes, some of the folks here have been around a long time and have heard this before and either taken it on board or didn't need telling in the first place (most of this is common courtesy and basic hygiene, after all). But we constantly have new members joining CERB; I very much doubt that many of them spend time trawling through the archives, and I suspect quite a few don't even read the sticky threads in the various forums. So having this put up there for all to see on occasion isn't a Bad Thing, IMO. The fact that a SP feels it needs to be said - again - is probably proof that some folks haven't yet got the message, and that it *does* need repeating. And if someone, somewhere takes it on board as a result of this thread, whether it's the first time they've read this or the hundredth, then I think the thread has justified its existence. Those who know it all already are free to move along.

Id like to only address one part of the original post. I also have seen negativity towards enhanced breasts on this site. I love women, i love the way they feel, smell, taste and what's between their ears more then any of their specific parts. I do believe our mantra is if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it at all. Any negative posts should be reported or you can block or ignore the person. Posted via Mobile Device

I have felt quite a few fake tits over the years both in escorting and in porn.. and not all are fabulous. A lot has to depend on 1) how much you paid for them 2) who did the operation 3) how new the surgery is.. techniques and quality is sooo much improved 4) whether it's under or over the muscle and of course 5) as cristy points out what they looked like before. But one thing I take issue with.. is hard implants do exist! it's not just scar tissue. and as well..not naming names. I've seen some pretty bad surgeries in porn stars that can't really be fixed due to major damage/infection unfortunately.. usually they went too big :(

Hey guys, been awhile since I wrote a posting, been using another forum which is not as restrictive as this one, I am still looking for a reliable drama free SP here in the city, BP is flooded with phonies and frauds, and EC is ok but most of them are aging, anyone have any new reviews on any hot up and comers? Additional Comments: ever since Miss Mya and Jordana left there is no one fun left....

I should intersperse a thought here, really no one on this board should be critical or judgemental of anyone's (not saying anyone is) choice insofar as seeing people outside their marriage/relationship. I'm sure there are a great many married guys on CERB, and there are some ladies who are SP's/MA's who are married but their husbands might not know their livelihood We are all here for valid reasons, and it's not up to us to judge someone else's reason for being here As I see it anyway RG

But nice tatas to play with. :)

A couple come to mind of the top of my head... Both a few years back 1). I was staying in an old hotel on upper level.. No carpets in hallway... Passed a sign that said "caution .. Wet floors " I looked at it and then proceeded to walk, slip and fall down the stairs and seperate my shoulder .. 2). At a party I ran and jumped into the deep end of a private pool that had been drained for repairs ...just sprains, crutches and hurt pride a bit ;) Posted via Mobile Device

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Then you would very much appreciate my casual summer look; flip flops, surfer shorts, a t-shirt, a baseball cap with the pony tail going through the back and lip gloss- on my own time only unless requested by my gentleman ;) I also love wearing hoodies on cooler summer evenings...

With her permission, Ottawa's own Kianna:

I have worked with other ladies on the premises for years, and you would be hard pressed to know anyone else was there. Keeping your phone even on silent, can be disturbing if it beeps or buzzes. Best thing to do is to shut it off completely, or put it on silent and keep it in another room if you want to see the missed calls. I am sorry to hear you had such a bad experience, but that girl was just being immature and not using very good business sense. I understand the need for you to feel comfortable, but not all ladies who have others around are like that. Unless you have already met the lady before, if you insist to a lady that she be there "alone" that could raise a red flag. I know for example if someone asked either myself of Nicolette Vaughn to ensure the other was not there, we would probably decline the date because if we are in the house at the same time, it is two floors away behind a locked door. You would have complete privacy and neither us would have our phones on or loud TV and laughing going on. Most ladies who share in-call space or have a roommate who know what they do, ensure the other person is discrete or "goes for a walk".

Genesis Face Value- 1981 1."In the Air Tonight" 2."This Must Be Love" 3."Behind the Lines" 4."The Roof is Leaking" 5."Droned" 6."Hand in Hand" 7."I Missed Again" 8."You Know What I Mean" 9."Thunder and Lightning" 10."I'm Not Moving" 11."If Leaving Me Is Easy" 12."Tomorrow Never Knows" Talking Heads Speaking in Tongues- 1983 Side one "Burning Down the House" "Making Flippy Floppy" "Girlfriend Is Better" "Slippery People" "I Get Wild/Wild Gravity" Side two "Swamp" "Moon Rocks" "Pull Up the Roots" "This Must Be the Place (Naive Melody)"

Ok..lets just clarify, Ladies use BP as a way of advertising, this doesnt mean they are all frauds, ripoffs etc... Many of us use Bp. So lets be fair.. I dont believe that most men only use Bp to find fun and dont look around other forums first. Be kind gentleman, I know, there is trouble on there, but to say just stay away, for US profesional ladies ...advertising IS BUSINESS. Please no-body be offended! But it needs to be said once in a while! I SPEAK' FOR THE PROFESSIONAL SP! Cheers all. xxxo

What do you consider aging? I myself stick to the over thirty ladies and have many quality choices! Soliel is lot's of fun, haven't seen Zoe for a long time but hope to correct that this weekend! Daria K is supposed to be lot's of fun but haven't got around to seeing her yet! On the younger side there's Kaylee Kisses, I would love to do the duo with her and Zoe one day(bucket list) Lot's of choices just stay way from BP:icon_mrgreen:

I knew another one would come to mind Good interwoven storyline, how different sub plots combined to make a good story One of those movies you have to pay attention too And the same holds true for this movie too Not to mention good soundtracks for both movies RG

when I first saw this move I thought wow that was so bad but I think i just didn't pay attention enough to it. my 2nd time seeing it I was thinking what the hell was I thinking this is amazeing love this movie now have seen it more times then I can count. so if you've seen it didn't like it the first time try it once more. "The Dude abides"