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I may be horribly old-fashioned, but I think that people who really do operate at the top end of things don't need to say so. You can just tell, from looking at their websites, their pictures; the way they compose not just their ads but pretty much everything else they post too. And when you meet them, you can tell from the way they speak and act, too. Classy people understand that going around telling everyone how classy you are is really not a classy thing to do at all. The truly elite understand that grainy cellphone-in-the-bathroom-mirror pics don't give the impression they'd like to put out there; that a same-as-everyone-else's website won't cut it and that you need something that looks like someone has put time and effort into it. They understand that they're judged not just on the ads they put up, but on their entire online presence - website, emails, pics, posts, everything. And they're judged not just once, but continually, by everyone. The point is that if you want the world to think that you're classy/elite/whatever, it's no good just saying so in an ad - any fool can do that. You have to *be* the elite. Always. And that's a hard thing to do. A final word: I'm well aware that the stuff above sounds horribly judgemental and obnoxious. It's not meant to be - honest! The point I'm trying to make is that placing yourself at the top of the market and staying there is *hard*. It's probably not for everyone. I have a huge amount of respect for those that can do it. But the common touch is nothing to be ashamed of, and I have just as much respect for those ladies who advertise themselves as the girl-next-door, or whatever else they choose. There's absolutely nothing wrong with someone who's more... well... normal, and I'm pretty sure that most of us guys spend most of our time visiting ladies who are more like us, and less like the untouchable elite. When all's said and done, none of us can tell you how to market yourself. You know who and what you are better than anyone, and if the image you present reflects *you* then that's probably best, in the long run. The one thing I don't have any time for is people who try and sell themselves as something they're clearly not.

I like idea! I think it would be great for the hot summer months to have a massage while basking in the warm sun. Also, the fact of being outside naked seems extra naughty to me! Once hiking in Gatineau Hills, I was taken off garde by a nude couple lying in the Sun. I felt I just had the approach them. They told me that the area was a nudist beach. There are also plenty of secluded places in Gatineau Hills... I'll investigate and get back to this thread soon! I'm exciting just thinking about it !

This topic always bothers me as photos are a personal choice.This is my second time in this business and what I have learned is like any other successful business a person may run, the old saying "you have to spend money, to make money" is very true. Yes all my photos are professional, yes they are all shot to make me look my best, and yes they are 100% me. They were worth every penny I spent and I will only use photos that are shot by a professional. The whole object of professional or glamour shots is to find a photographer that will keep you - you. (hence the reason I have flown on 2 occasional across the country for photos) I look natural and real in my photos, and I feel better than any cell phone photo would. I want potential clients to see that I invest in myself (website, photos, blog, well maintained (ie: hair, nails,etc) I treat being Emily as if it were any other job that I may have, as in I give 110%. Why should I expect a client to invest in my if I have not invested in myself? The only comment I keep getting about my photos is that I look better in person(this is from men and women), so on that note i will always and only have professional photos done. (look at Victoria Jolie, Emma Alexandra, Keissy Hennessey, Gabriella Laurence, Charlotte Sinclair, Amelia Middleton and Dorinda Bloom) Those are several examples of real tasteful professional photos and all the above women look as good in person as in their photos) At the end of the day professional photos have a bad rep, one that I hope ladies like myself and others who invest in professional photos will help change.

I was climbing on my roof tonight to fix my satellite dish, had one foot on the roof and one foot on the ladder and the ladder collapsed ! So Lee went ass over tea kettle bounced off the gas BBQ, knocked over a 5 gallon pail of water (on me of course) and landed in a pile of leaves I just raked up of course !! So I jumps up looking like I was tarred and feathered in leaves....looked around to see if anyone saw me.... nope they didn't...walked in my garage and collapsed cause I nutted myself on the BBQ ;) F**K !!! While I was recovering my Blackberry beeped at me so went to check my email and the screen was broken. So you folks I random text will have a reprieve because I can't see the bottom half of my screen so wouldn't have a clue what I was sending you ! haha So cheers folks !! Now I am having a beer and chuckling about it cause the end result coulda been worse :D

Thank you for caring! She has an upper respiratory infection :( but hopefully the antibiotics will kick in soon! Phew, I thought I was going to have to put her down!

Amateur or professional doesn't matter, as long as they are real and show who you are. As for the oversell, I tend to look at it like any other ad. If she/he sounds like a used car or snake oil sales man I'll usually skip on by. Be true to yourself and any prospective client and things will fall nicely into place. If things start with an open and honest conversation, they can only get better

A lady of that certain quality, such as those mentioned here, would enhance whatEVER city you might be with her in. It's not the locale that makes the company great, it's the company that makes the locale great

I like Angela because she is super cool, intelligent, witty, helpful, funny, sexy, horny, and wants to get naked with Lee in his van that is not down by the river anymore ;) Plus she is a classic rocker....so when Angela is too old to SP and Lee is too old to hobby....we are going to retire, get married, buy a couple scooters, I will put a wheel chair lift in my van and we will attend every rock concert and rock festival that we can :) Yeah Baby !! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XzbdY_rPtjw

Thought I had the flu, now it's looking more and more like pneumonia (never felt so tired and winded in my life)...and the real downer, I had to cancel my encounter with a great lady this past weekend RG

I would simply like to extend a heartfelt thank you to all of you who took the time to so thoughtfully respond to my quandry. Mutau, mrrnice2, Kyra Graves, spong, Phaedrus, backrubman, Angela of Ottawa, milfhunter67, castle, Porthos, MatureLee, nntsci, Cristy Curves and UlixesTrojan you all touched my heart by your support and advice. I truly do appreciate every one of you!

I need help enjoying my Monday at work :) and you can start your week right with some well deserved TLC :) I Offer a Sexy and very sensual massage with a pretty girl with a great positive personality and wonderfully magical hands!! And a nice bum too!! I'm only happy if my clients leave with a smile on their face! If you have special requests let me customize your massage so that it's an experience you won't forget!! Treat yourself tonight! 9am to 9pm Monday Private message to book appointment, questions or the phone number) Located in Bells Corners (3710 Richmond Road) xoxoxoxoxoxo Please feel free to message and say Hi! Cheers and all the best Melody

I like Penelope because she is a true beauty inside and out....throw in an awesome personality, a rockin sense of humor, love for music and a really nice bum ;) and that is our Pen :D

The rule in advertizing is to present an image that makes the recipient feel that you know them. That you know how they feel and think and that you will connect with them in a personal way. Effective ads click with the recipient of the ad. They make me think, yeah this person is speaking to me directly. I focus (probably too much) on the visual image in photographs. I like a photograph that intices me to think about what it would be like to be there in the photo. The outfit and pose clicks with me and says to me this girl knows how I think. And its often not nudity that works best, but an outfit that leaves something to the imagination because its the imagination that you want to stimulate. Similalry, the words too should prompt me to imagine myself there, with the girl. A list of words like "classy,vip,elite,upscale,the best,top notch" wouldn't really connect with me because they are overused and not personally descriptive. They don't encourage me to think of myself with the girl posting the ad.

Honestly I just ignore writing like that. In ads I just look for the basic information like location, services, price. It's much easier to get a sense for personality from normal forum posts, not the advertisement itself.

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Thanks for the positive birthday vibes. There are many who walk this earth in hunger, there are many who walk this earth alone, there many who walk this earth in fear and many who walk this earth in poverty, despair and poor health..... I am not one of them and know how lucky and blessed I am. I am grateful and appreciative! Have a great day!! Peace MG

I think what you're doing wrong is letting the assholes get you down :) Alas, there will always be assholes. I don't see that we can do much about it, and I don't see that it's worth worrying about...

Soft touch of the perky breasts because once you start rubbing those jewels and out pops an Emerald. You know you struck the right place for Treasure. BD

This continues to be a thought provoking thread. Regarding seeing an SP versus having an affair, this raises all sorts of interesting questions. I've done both. Early on, when I was feeling sexually frustrated in my marriage, I had an affair with a co-worker. She was in a different city, and we only saw each other when business required travel to the same locations. I thought this would be sufficient distance to keep things "emotionally safe". It didn't and this resulted in a huge emotional strain ... both for me and the person I was having an affair with. It almost seemed inevitable that emotions became involved attraction and lust became affection and what ... love(?). There was always the possibility that it could be more ... that it could become a "real" relationship, and that caused huge problems. Although my SO never found out (although that too was a close call), the guilt I felt nearly tore my relationship with her apart. I vowed I would not do that again. Now, in terms of seeing SPs, I do not feel guilty, and it allows me to keep my relationship with my SO healthy and intact. That's not to say that I don't feel anything for the SPs I see. Of course I do. I hold them in the utmost respect, I genuinely like and admire them, and I consider the very best of them to be my friends. I tend not to see a lot of SPs, and frequently go through long periods of time seeing only one. But the difference is that we are both very clear on the parameters of the relationship and its purpose. Affairs carry with them the possibility of a world of hurt. Seeing your favorite SP, only a world of pleasure! Porthos

Hmmm... I'm gonna say something, and you guys might disagree but... I have found that when it comes to a woman's figure and what catches my eyes first, it isn't neccessarily the figure as much as how she uses her body to attract your attention. I.E. I have seen girls with a fantastic body: round bottom, firm breasts, and a tight tummy; but then you see her walk or attempt to be sexy, or alluring, and it just kinda falls short of a "Buzzinga" moment. Now on the other side of the coin, I have seen a woman who is very curvy, or maybe not curvy at all... maybe she has a flat sorta bum, and small breasts... but when she moves, or looks at you, and talks to you... or the way she eyes you as she turns away only to allow you to feast on her from behind... to see what you can't have... to tell you with her body that, "you are gonna have to try harder than that boy..." but all the while, giving that hint of, "there may just be a chance she will... " turn around one more time and look at you? Yeah... thats the kinda bum and breasts I like... You can buy the best giutar on the planet... but unless you can play it right... its still gonna sound like crap. You can have the best actors in a movie... but unless the script is well written... It aint gettin an Oscar... And, the same go's with guys too. You can have a shower, or a grower (I just found out what these mean the other day lol.) But unless the guy is a "know-er" then the end result will be a "NO-er" So, in finishing... Its better to have an average body and know how to use it, then to have a great body and be clueless. "And that's all I have to say about that..." - Forest Gump

Oh I know just what I am asking for! Here is my review of Katherine which may give you some insight into what I like! Lol http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=204213&postcount=48 Posted via Mobile Device