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Thank you. I'm happy to see a gentleman that has seen sweettiffany come in and clarify such harsh statements and put a stop to this thread that has totally turned in to something that looks and sounds so unkind. You say you saw her and the other lady was a B&S. There you go. Threads like this will not only make other new ladies not want to visit but makes some people seem like they are a person you surely may not want to accept and book an encounter with and to top it off to go and start recommending other ladies on a thread asking specifically about one lady is IMHO rude. Why not simply create another thread with your happy with highlight list, that would have been nice. sweettiffany: I hope your visit in Halifax was pleasant and I do hope you return. I hope I did not offend anyone by adding my opinion but threads like this are very disturbing to me and many of the ladies here and sometimes just seem rude and very unkind. This is not the CERB way.

Drama......drama sucks. It's a piss off when a plutonic female friend starts acting like a pissy girlfriend and I have to start watching every little thing I say. I just feel like telling her "Hey! If you really want to start acting like my wife then you may as well start having bi-monthly sex with me while you're at it!" :p Posted via Mobile Device

I'm getting kind of worried that I'm to young to hobby lol, being only 24. It seems i might have to wait a few years before i see another lady :(

My main concern is whether they're going to round things up or down. A few cents here and there adds up to a whole lot of money. Call me a cynic, but I think it's just another way to surreptitiously screw people out of their money. Posted via Mobile Device

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Good thread! And a very subjective one. Gentlemen, if I may make a suggestion; take note here what the Ladies say. This is what is important for us, so we know whats important to you. :) This is my perspective: Seeing naked bodies in an intimate environment is different that just being around naked people at camps and events or photoshoots. One is sexual and one is not. Somewhere along the way I think my lines got blurred (in a good way), and so I do not see parts but the whole. An example: David Lee Roth. OMG sexy in the day and I bought into it. Until he opened his mouth. Crass, no class, and in my opinion, stupid as a bag of nails. Completely lost it for him right there and still find him revolting. So since 99.9% of us are "normal" by our own cultural dictates; I have to look further than a body to prefer a Client. Lady or Gent, you must be squeaky clean. Respectful, but also understand that I am also part of the 99.9 that you walk beside everyday. I am much more than you see, and live on the same planet you do. Therefore, friendly; and it will be reciprocated. In other words some should lose the "whore and slut" attitude, because what does that make you? With women I am totally enamoured of boobies!!!! And nipples!!! Oh my! I do admit to loving mens butts however. And believe me, cute bottoms come in all shapes and sizes! Age again is a no go with me. I know too many people that defy their chronological age....unfortunately both ways! lol But in this biz, I draw the line at around 25 or so. I have a Gent who is 81 and a snowbird. He WALKS to my location for our playdate. There is nothing gross or disgusting about this man. He is eloquent and open, and I look forward to our summer sessions together. There are so many versions of "married" out there these days, I rarely ask or look. Sometimes it is shared, and if I see the Gent regularly and we have such a rapport; I will sometimes quietly ask why they see me. The answers are usually the same variation. For the younger men, I tend to mostly get single ones.

Please DO NOT have conversations on the ladies recommendation threads, if you want to ask questions about a lady do it in the discussion areas (put a link to the recommendation if you wish) but please DO NOT ask questions or make comments on the recommendation threads that are not adding to the recommendation. Your just BUMPING it and in some cases posting bad questions. Today alone I had to remove a comment from someone bitching that the lady owed him money, I had to remove a comment asking if she does BBBJTC and another asking about a different lady! Come on guys please DO NOT do this. and ladies... remember you can not post a reply on your recommendation threads either. If someone has posted something you do not like on your rec thread simply FLAG it using the REPORT THIS icon on the post.

Dear backrubman, There are already a number of sites that do this already. Including, to a certain extent, this one. preferred411, date-check, verifyhim, etc etc charge fees, clients can register with their private details thru the site, get verified, and book with ease using only a reference name or number. The sps on the site have access to prescreened clientele. However, that, like any clients who know about review sites or escort forums, is such a teeny tiny fraction of the entire client pool out there, it is one of those things nice in theory, and not viable in reality. The reality is that many guys refuse to divulge personal details to a 3rd party. Another is they will choose to see street workers or walk into massage parlours rather than even divulge their phone #, let alone anything else. Sps who want someone else to handle every aspect of their marketing and booking, and there are oodles of them, will always work with agencies or at massage parlours. Sps who grow tired of being sent to anyone with a wallet, go independent and decide for themselves who to see. And also, if they start to dislike the cut the agency takes. Nothing in the decriminalization will change any of this, imo. It is unlikely that anything other than the majority of sps who work from home will now no longer fear the next knock on the door is LE shutting down their illegal incall. I definitely don't see any link between decrim and rates. I also am fairly convinced there is no link between decrim and any increase in new sps. And going into the priceline, pay by CC, etc etc, well just go back to my comments about how much detail most clients are willing to provide. They are not willing to provide to the sp or a 3rd party, in the majority, full name, address, CC info, expiry date and 3 digit pin, just to secure an appt with most sps. And even if there was an enterprising person out there to come up with that idea, do you have any idea at how few sps would have anything to do with it? If an sp is indy, she is indy all the way. NO one is going to get between her and her level of what is considered enough or reasonable screening. NO one is going to take an additional fee to process CCs, or any other consideration. I am at a loss in general as to why or how so many people come up with so many elaborate ideas about the results of decriminalizing the bawdy house law, and the living off the avails. I think there is this assumption about thousands of people sitting around waiting for the opportunity to become sex workers, or work for one, or build and open brothels, and oh but for the sake of those two little laws, they would have done it 25 years ago. There weren't any brothels built 25 years ago before these laws were created. There were no bawdy house laws, no living off the avails, no laws against public solicitation. So why weren't there any brothels? Why no priceline set up for prostitutues? Why did sps work for agencies, and mpas go to work at massage parlours. Why did sps rent hotel rooms instead of setting up their own incall in the privacy of their own home? Lots of things to consider, but also to get a bit of perspective as well.

i think she is telling the truth. i remember the girl from a month ago...i met her as well. when i saw tiffany's ad, i thought it looked similar, but the phone # is different. anyway, before i booked, i inquired that it was indeed her first time her, and the girl reassured me. i took a chance and booked, and she was a different girl, and not one I met before. I'm fairly certain the pics are real....she is cute and has a great body.

very insightful sophia...and yes it is very true, we men notice these small things on a regular basis. the way women walk, eat, drink, talk, stand , sit, its all very noticable.even if a man says he doesnt see these things, his subconcious is. men can be very attentive and compassionate, intense and downright appreciative......if he is presented with the right treat!! lol

Maybe I'm missing the point (I sometimes do) of the Priceline analogy but really will anything change. I can see agencies handling the bookings of ladies they represent, as they do now...if you are interested in seeing an agency lady. Independent ladies, they can handle their own bookings, as they do now. The ladies' safety and security, well now they can legally hire drivers/security. And verification, that wouldn't change. Either verification information is provided by a prospective client, as is the case now, to the lady, or a verification service can be utilized. Some ramblings, but maybe I missed the point RG

I fully agree here! A gentleman, good hygiene and pays (without having to be asked) is definitely my preferred client. Age, weight, marital status,height, hair.... irrelevant, it's how they conduct themselves while they are with me that's more important.

The excitement and thrill of anticipating an upcoming meeting with one of the lovely ladies of CERB. Sweet and (almost) indescribable!

Really nothing original to add to the thread Basically it's what goes around comes around, do unto others as you would have them do unto you etc etc etc Be a good person, you will be rewarded in kind Be a bad person, you will be treated in kind My morning quick rambling RG

The momentum of our actions perpetuates and can dictate future actions. So yes, in the since of transgression of our soul, reincarnation theories do say what do in this life time directly can influence our next life. Pretty broad view however, as then we have to get into the topic of what is sin, what does sin mean in my mind vrs your mind....whole other nasty topic though, lol. In Buddhism, they fallow a code of living, The Eight Fold Path. Claims if you were to live by this code of conduct you will have good karma for your life as you are now and the next. Somewhat like the Christain 10 commandments. Every action has a reaction!! Simple science perhaps? or Divine universal rule?

Karma's fundamental idea is that "even if you can't see or predict how, your moral behaviour in the past affects your present; and your moral behaviour in the present will be repaid in your future." For me two questions arise: a) do you believe this is literally, objectively true as a rule of existence? b) what does the idea mean to you, and how would it affect your life to believe it? I don't believe the rules of karma are literally true; I've seen too much evil rewarded, and good unrewarded, to accept the idea as a rule of nature. The postponement of promised rewards and penalties to future lives is just a way to prevent us from ever testing and proving/disproving the idea. But... despite this, I try to live as though it is true. Because something in me responds to the idea, and I would prefer that the world did work that way. So I try to make karma come true around me, by rewarding the good I find in people around me and not rewarding evil. And for the same reasons I try to act well, and not evil, myself. If enough of us act as though the rules of karma are true... well, eventually they become true because we made it so. And I like that world better than the alternative.

I sure hope your culinary skills doesn't have an end -result like this MrNice ;) If it does Ravioli outta the can and Kraft Dinner works nicely when a quick fix is needed :)

It's interesting that a few ladies have mentioned that they prefer married or attached men as clients. I've always figured there would be more drama involved with married men...not less. But apparently I was mistaken As a single man this honestly makes me feel a little self conscious now. I've always thought of myself as the ideal client....but it looks like I'm not :( Hmmmmm....maybe I should go get myself hitched so I can be a better client :p

Chanel in her post above was right on in so many areas. The basics apply to both men and women, client and service provider. Her statement "I do not see parts but the whole," is what attracts me to this business. In the same light, I have to look further than a body to prefer an SP.

My preferred customers are those that have good hygiene, don't push my limits, respect me and are polite... BUT if you want facts and numbers... I would that 80% are in a relationships or married (also guys...don't need to remove your wedding band, we do see the different skin color:P) 85-ish give or take are caucasians, 10% asians et 5% others ethnicities. The average age seem to be from late 30's to mid-50's, I will see more late 20's/early 30's than late 50's/early 60's. I would probably guess this because the fact that I am young myself and older gentlemen don't always feel comfortable with women that can be as young as their daughter. Most people are average BMI, maybe a little bit of the belly, but I wouldn't say that most people are obese, I don't seem to get a lot of skinny guys Personally I prefer people that in a relationship, as I don't have as much drama that some of my customers that are single (for example when they start to fall in love or would like to have a FwB arrangement...) and I prefer gents over 35+ as most of them are often more considerate and don't always try to do a sex marathon or do the best performance of their life...

If tomato is a fruit...then it theory wouldn'T ketchup be some type of smoothie?

I like RG because he can outfish Lee, but makes Lee think he's a better fisherman.

Although I generally agree with the above I have to be 100% honest and admit that I sometimes 'roll my eyes' when I feel like certain words are being misused due to a total lack of consistency between the elements (ads, actual language used, posts, pictures, website, overall presentation, ect.). For example, when a lady chooses to call herself a 'classy upscale elite courtesan' and addresses her audience in the 'hey boys cum c me u will not regret it i have no restrictions' manner, focuses on 15 minutes specials, goes on car dates, has grainy amateur pictures taken with a blackberry and all you see in the background are clothes on the floor and beer cans on the night stand next to an ashtray full of cigarette butts... well I have to say that none of it makes sense to me and this is when I roll my eyes and ask myself if I missed something. Yes, it is up to each and everyone of us to advertise ourselves in the way we desire and see fit but I also believe consistency and correlation should play an honest part in the marketing process.

I don't have an issue with someone using the words classy, elite or upscale... but I sure roll my eyes when someone claims to be 'the best'. Look at the uproar recenty over who was the hottest man Ryan Gosling vs Bradley Cooper. It was ridiculous how many people got involved in the debate.. which is all to say that 'the best' is completely relative. No one in their right mind claims it. I always keep it simple.. I leave the adjectives to others.. because after all.. they are all relative to the beholder.

I read the entire tread and must say few things; education does not equal classy or upscale as they are many many people that have high education but could not attend to a bussiness function,a twelve courses dinner as they don't understand what well manner mean and have an hard time functionning socially. Also they are quite few people that own a phd/university degree and do not know when it is time to stay quiet as they are stepping in a field they don't know. I personally make grammar and spelling mistakes from time to time but my first language is french.Does it mean i oversell?I don't think so.. As personal wide knowledge is also a key.I also came accross few people that though that they were upscale,vip has they can write and romance perfectly in papers or on the internet but in fact they are snob.As someone that trully aquire that status would have no problem helping other instead of looking down on others Having higher rates or minimum of hours does not equal either been more upscale then an other...It just mean that you have evaluate your time at that price and leaning sometime to different goals. I always made a point to never say that i had an high education as i have no degre...There is no point for me to lie. To my opinion if you always have to remind people how classy and how the best you are,and also point out how your reviews reflect how great you are not only you are trying to convince yourself but all that surround you. Repeat and return clients is usually were you should have self gratification. VJ

Why is any one worried about walking through the lobby to the elevators at the Hilton? Id feel more comfortable coming in that way as in case you did not notice there are cameras on every floor(even in the lower lobby by the parking garage) and outside the elevators, plus hotel security. The cameras are watched at the front desk so no matter how secret agent you think your being, you are being watched. Look like you belong, and pick company that can dress like a lady and you will never have any problems.

This topic always bothers me as photos are a personal choice.This is my second time in this business and what I have learned is like any other successful business a person may run, the old saying "you have to spend money, to make money" is very true. Yes all my photos are professional, yes they are all shot to make me look my best, and yes they are 100% me. They were worth every penny I spent and I will only use photos that are shot by a professional. The whole object of professional or glamour shots is to find a photographer that will keep you - you. (hence the reason I have flown on 2 occasional across the country for photos) I look natural and real in my photos, and I feel better than any cell phone photo would. I want potential clients to see that I invest in myself (website, photos, blog, well maintained (ie: hair, nails,etc) I treat being Emily as if it were any other job that I may have, as in I give 110%. Why should I expect a client to invest in my if I have not invested in myself? The only comment I keep getting about my photos is that I look better in person(this is from men and women), so on that note i will always and only have professional photos done. (look at Victoria Jolie, Emma Alexandra, Keissy Hennessey, Gabriella Laurence, Charlotte Sinclair, Amelia Middleton and Dorinda Bloom) Those are several examples of real tasteful professional photos and all the above women look as good in person as in their photos) At the end of the day professional photos have a bad rep, one that I hope ladies like myself and others who invest in professional photos will help change.

If an SP is using words or phrases such as "top notch", "the Best", etc it usually is an indication that they are trying to oversell their services and a tall order to live up to if you ask me. If a potential client falls for this sort of advertising, they are bound to be disappointed. There is a reason a person will look at your ad. Something obviously caught their eye but if it is something like "I am the best", they may or may not believe it. Then again what is considered the best? The words "classy", "VIP", "Elite" are often overused in my opinion and once again a way to make clients believe they are offering something that may be better. Now I know many SPs use this words and many may provide a great experience for clients while others just tend to throw it in there. It's just like the term GFE used in advertising which may or may not be true. All of these terms are common within the adult industry. I find the best way to describe yourself is by being genuine. While we as SPs are offering a fantasy, if you let your audience know who you are as a person while describing your attributes in a way that reflects on your services, you will definitely create a buzz where they will want to know more. This will lead to more bookings. Everyone is intuitive to a certain extent and they can hone in on what is considered phony or fake. Your advertising should clear, concise and above everything else, keep it real! Be yourself and you will reap the rewards.

I have found that if the advertisement says she is everything to everyone, I'm less inclined to believe it or take it at face value. If it's all over the place there is no sense of "focus". Of course it's hard to beat a good review (and CERB is a review board first). Who can say they are "the best"? There is always somebody better, but when a review says they are "the best" then I have to accept that they are "the best" the reviewer has encountered. But if the ad uses way too many complementary words, it's either not true or she probably isn't really great at many of them (a true chameleon being the exception), I guess that would be over selling. Of course always use the words "utmost discretion guaranteed" and mean it. I like ads that appear to be honest, tasteful and point to reviews that speak for themselves. They only need to contain the basic information with a "hint" of any thing she might specialize in or be particularly good at. I guess I really view ads as a notice of availability and don't really try to interpret them too much anyways (unless they are way over the top, too good to be true), it's the reviews matched with the availability that the ad conveys that count. Truth in advertising is definitely the way to go. You'll attract the right sort of clients for you and they will give good reviews as their expectations are fully met. My tastes are probably different than many, I'm more interested in the person and how easily I can get to know them on a "professional" level. Others are likely way more interested in services but I can only get interested in that if I like the SP as a person first.