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Sex is everything worthwhile ... All the senses at work. Touch, taste, sight, hearing (listening to my partners breathing change, her sighs, gasps, moans.... Is hugely erotic) and smell ... Whether it be the aroma of a seductive perfume or the smell of sex itself. And it combines these ... Taste produces touch, etc. And every time can be a different combination!!! The promise and expectation of sex, seduction and flirtation, the passion of sex itself (whether slow, gentle, and luxurious or frenzied and wild) and the warm afterglow of holding your partner in quiet tenderness. Wow!!! Can anything be better??? Porthos

Flowers, flowers and flowers. If you give them to me when I am travelling I will see that my favouite lady gets them and they will not be wasted. If I don't get any flowers I buy my owm. Flowers are one of those things that accomplish absolutly nothing but bring me the greatest joy.

This thread wouldn't be complete without acknowledging the many fine lingerie selections that the ladies of CERB have shared with us. One of my favorites has always been Gia's pink and white lace ensemble. She tells me the bra and panties are from the Eliza collection of Panache., and the rest she put together. With thanks for her permission, here are the pics from her web site ...

I do not have a tattoo yet maybe I should get this one. Go ahead and lie to me. :icon_biggrin:

If you found out that someone you were involved with had been a veterinarian, would it affect your relationship? A dentist? A physicist? No? So why would another occupation she might have had bother you? Think seriously about this. Tease out exactly what it is that you're hung up on, don't just settle for a sense of vague, undefined discomfort. If it's "she'd have slept with a lot of guys other than me", this could be equally true of any partner you meet. But it doesn't matter, because those events were in the past. You just need to worry about your relationship, in the present. If her past experience really bothers you now, then you're sexually insecure. The problem isn't her; it's you. If it's "she was intimate with men and took money for it", then you need to examine your attitude toward the women whose company you (presumably) pay for from time to time. There's nothing wrong with the work an SP does, and she's not cheapened by having done it. If you can't accept that, please stop seeing SPs. Me? Frankly I would admire the implied sexual maturity and her comfort with her sexual self, and 'd be happy for what she might be able to teach me because her experience would be far vaster than my own. If she was willing to share I'd love to hear her stories, because she'd have learned many, many, many first-hand lessons about human behaviour I'll likely never be in a position to learn myself. But mostly I wouldn't really care, because I'd be dating a whole person, all of her, as she is today, and as she wants to be tomorrow; and there's infinitely more to know and love and care about her than how she once chose (or chooses) to make her living. I'll leave aside the "but what if you'd seen her as an SP first?" because that falls into the same old "I've fallen in love with my SP!" discussion for the gazillionth time, and Search can provide all the insight you need.

... well it is, if you offer your CERB ID as verification to get around identifying your more personal details and there is little or no posting history! A recent thread by VictoriaJolie about posting history being one tool providers use to get to know a client inspired this post, and since this one is more general in nature, I've decided to post it here. As a client, we usually know much more about the lady we are planning to see, until we make an actual booking and provide the information she requires in consideration of our request to see her. I am in amazement of the effort and diligence most, and especially the well-respected, SPs/MAs go through in screening and verification. With a modicum of information and references, they must decide if they will grant your request for a meeting, based on a myriad of factors and a 'gut feel' about you, the person, never having met prior, and not knowing too much else besides these few bits that they ask for in their ads or on their websites. I believe that the majority of clients on the board are sophisticated and wise to the ways of treating the ladies with respect, having read widely among the various forums, but there are some bad apples out there. How is a provider to know from whom she is getting an inquiry or booking? You will fare much better if you give her signs and assurances of your good intentions early on and by playing by her rules. Don't forget, she is sharing her most intimate self with an almost complete stranger and is entrusting you to do your part in that bargain. We both want the same things, but providers, beyond needing to feel safe, of course want that encounter to be in an environment where they themselves are comfortable to give you the best time of all - and so you should care, too. Contacting a lady for a booking and showing with every action and word (rudeness, brashness, ignorance, laziness, etc.) that you haven't bothered to check her website or ad post is the first red flag to the lady that there may be things she doesn't know that would worry her if she did, and this puts her on guard with you right from the start - generally not the best way to initiate a dialogue. Taking care to consider all the points of etiquette and following her preferred method of setting up an appointment will make the lady's life much easier and will assure her that you take her concerns for safety and peace of mind to heart. It will be like magically becoming a lottery winner ;-), meaning that she will appreciate when you meet that you had already established yourself from the start as a respectful and diligent client worthy of her time. I know it is not everyone's wish or goal to become an active and prolific poster, but it does help the ladies get a glimpse of the person behind a handle. Having no posts doesn't. Just think of the ways in which you select the lady of your choice - maybe by her beautifully written ad, her many glowing recommendations by other clients, her gorgeous photo album, or the well-crafted website that she spent so much time building. There are other ways to distinguish yourself and get a good or even high standing besides that, of course. Which route you choose to take is yours to decide ... but giving her the comfort level about you - in one way or another, making her feel like you respect her wishes and her need to feel safe and at ease, will put you miles ahead right from the start. And that is likely to reap significant good will on her part and generally, IMHO, yield to better client-provider relations! Pun absolutely intended! ;) A #nobrainer? I think so! :D FR P.S. Apologies for the intial 2-paragraph ramble. It's mostly all been said before in different ways, but it helps to refresh this from time to time in the 'New to this?' forum.

This is a great subject. You can't really resolve it without looking at how the mind works. Every one of us has a map deep in our subconscious about who we think we are, how we think about other people, and how we think about our interactions with others. These maps get laid down while our age is in early single digits, and we can never, ever perceive them directly. They're completely beyond direct reach, yet they completely dominate how we move around the world of other human beings. One part of that map is devoted to sex, and once again it's completely beyond our ability to perceive directly. We can only get clues about it indirectly, when something we perceive or experience triggers a response. Do enough of that, and you slowly build up a sense of what makes you work sexually, like mapping the sea floor with sonar; most of it is flat, but every so often you stumble across a bump that tells you "something is here!". Thing is, that map is completely irrational. Some of it is built up automatically to guide us to reproduction, but it's also littered with whatever your single-digit mind had access to at the time. It's full of symbolic meaning that often has nothing at ALL to do with reproductive-oriented sex. There's no way to predict what might provoke a sexual response from your deep subconscious until you go exploring and stumble across what works for you. That's how you end up with sexual fetishes, or simple preoccupations. Some thing are charged with meaning; we have a growing thread here devoted to stockings (awesome!) which, objectively speaking, are just an impractical kind of legwear. Yet they trigger ideas about clinging closely to a shapely leg, of something slightly-hidden-but-visible, and of a woman's body pointedly dressed up to emphasize gender and therefore sexuality, rather than practicality. I'm always amazed by the variety of things that can symbolize sex, and provoke a sexual response, without being explicitly sexual. There are entire languages being spoken with clothing, with postures and attitudes, with dominance and submission, risky ventures, simple shared "naughtiness", Good vs. Bad, and the potency of sharing a secret desire. It's --so-- much more about the brain; the body follows afterward.

I may have spoken too quickly. :( The fall social is looking less and less a possibility, but, early December, that is a count me in for sure!

FINALLY getting my AC set up! It ain't pretty (yay duct tape lol) but at least it's working! Now I can, in good conscience, have me some sexy company ;)

I like RG because he recognized Dorinda and seriously how could you miss her !!! She has really really really nice T & A baby !!!! and I happen to be quite fond of her ;) Also because he is going to teach me how to reel in those big fish out in Ontario there ....... :D

For me kissing is sex. I find kissing much more intimate and sensual than say intercourse. Some might argue I'm just not doing it right and that could well be true. I can have intercourse and never look at my partner....kissing I can't. The eyes are the window to the soul and I like to look in windows. Peace MG

White wine sangria! If it is made properly, it is refreshingly good.

Would I get involved with an SP? Absolutely! From my limited experience I have found SPs to be some of the nicest people around, so I would certainly not rule out the whole group. If I was to generalise and rule out an entire class of people as unsuitable partners, it would probably be Lawyers. Or maybe Nickelback fans.

Do I need another reason to love women? fuck me. the curves. tats, retro lingerie... or this one.

webCamming for the first time with a really good friend of mine! We had so much fun together...yay new way of making money with some friends:)

I met Claire from the Heavens just last week. And I must say,..I have NEVER had a VERY HUGE n HUMONGOUS smile on my face after such a massage session. I HONESTLY dont go much for such types. but since I have read tons and lots of positive things about this HOT n GORGEOUS lady, I decided to give it a go. The monet she opened the door,...I knew I wa sin for such a VERY HOT, WET, SENSUAL n STICKY surprise for my day! :) (winks) I just love Emily aka Claire's veyr slim n seXXXy body, her smile, the way she touched and caressed me in all angles!!! I would definitely HIGHLY recommend this lady. And I would surely be back next month!!! Claire,..I just LOVED the way yah treated me like a KING last week! MUAH XOXO

So, Monty Python may have come up with the , but someone has subsequently invented... the Chap Olympics. Umbrella Jousting: Ironing Board Surfing: Butler Racing Moustache Wrestling (no, I have no clue what the lobster is for): Three-legged Race: More here and here.

Yeah I believe in love...I think the problem with high divorce rates is that our culture has become a very disposable one...in the sense that EVERYTHING is disposable. Whether it be a cell phone, a kitchen appliance or a relationship. Once upon a time, when something started showing signs of wear and tear, say, a VCR or something, we didn't automatically kick it to the curb and go out and buy a new one. We would open it up and tinker around with the insides and try to find the problem, often getting a shock, slicing our finger open, and cursing all the while, literally putting our blood, sweat and tears into it....but once it started working again, the feeling of reward and satisfaction was that much greater for the work we put into it. Or, worst case scenario, if we couldn't fix it ourselves we'd take it out and pay to have a professional repair it (read: tv repairman/marriage counselor). And only as a very last result would we even consider going out and buying a new one. This is not the case anymore, I think we've gotten it into our mind that everything is so easily disposable and replaceable, and whether it be consciously or subconsciously, this somehow includes relationships too. I'm not being holier than thou, I'm guilty of this too. I've never been married but I think every relationship I've been in, has ended too easily without putting up much of a fight, neither one of us made the necessary efforts needed to keep things going. Once things started getting boring or stale, we abandoned ship. The problems marriages/long term relationships encounter today are the exact same problems which were encountered 20, 30, 50, 100 years ago. The love felt today between two people is no less powerful than it was by two people in the past. The difference is now, in our culture today, no one is willing to put the necessary work into making something work. We just go on ebay and find a new one, often at what we perceive to be a better price. At least that's how I see it.

I love my tattoos. They all have meaning, and whenever i look at them i remember that period in my life, I can look back and smile. The one i have that takes up my whole left thigh is my fave, it was birthday present from a very close friend who drew it and tatooed it just for me. I represents me and my story; my life and who i am. I know no one will ever have that tattoo, its mine and mine alone. It is a life changing experience getting one, it changes you as you now have a marker in time, i.e. before this tattoo and after. Its almost like taking a photograph to me, freezing a moment in time. I have 8, i will always remember who i was with and what i was doing at that time in my life when i got them . I look at them its like looking back fondly over a scrapbook of my life, mementos that are always with me. To me,they symbolize something important to the wearer, something they want to express to the world. I always loved tattoos, I come from a place where almost everyone has quite a few, full bodies even. I'm done getting new tattoos, i might add to my existing ones, but at this time i think im done, except for my father's tattoo's. I think my love affair with ink started as a young child looking at his arms, i was fascinated with their beauty and begged for one ever since i can remember. I was with him when i got my first one, it was a great day i will always remember and cherish , it's truly one of my best memories. I always told him when he passes i will get his tattoos, maybe even in the same places as a tribute to the greatest man i have ever known :) To me thats what tattoos are a tribute on your body to someone or something that's eternal. To love/cherish something that much is true beauty.

In the User Control Panel, under Edit Your Details, you can set your Profile Privacy to Public, Private or Friends Only. Private means any registered member can view your profile. If someone can't view your profile, they can't view any of your albums. But if they can view your profile, whether or not they can view an album is controlled by a specific album setting. When you create an album, you can set it as Public, Private or Profile. Here, Private means something different. It means anyone in your Contact list can view it. That includes friends, but also includes people you added to Contacts but which you did not befriend. There seems to no way to limit album viewing to just Friends, except by limiting your entire profile to Friends. So, create your albums as Private and make sure you clean up your Contacts list and remove any non-friend contacts you might be unsure of. Incidentally, when you click on an existing album you'll see an Edit Album button on the right. Click this and you'll be presented with the same screen you get when you create an album, this allowing you to change the title, description, or privacy settings. Use this to fix the privacy on your existing albums.

Soon I will grab my coat and grab my hat and run into the street. Down at the park I'll be watching the lords and the ladies, fixing their hairdos, cursing their lovers, cursing the bible. Everyone will Raise their fists and Yell!! We're gonna dance our heads off and we're gonna keep it tight! No one will be as stiff as my smoking barrel. We'll be going far as we want to go down in Dragontown. And after we've all seen this thing's lonely life unfold on stage, I'm gonna be home soon. I'll be kinda awkward and afraid. Time has changed my point of view. Bodies need rest, we all need our rest, to sleep an easy sleep. But I can't close my eyes, never close my eyes, if I begin to snooze, I hear the big old floppy shoes, I Can't sleep.... the clowns will eat me!! I know they're under the bed, that's where they hide. I know they need to be fed every night. I'll show you wounds that never heal. To them I'm just a happy meal......I've had this nightmare before and I know how it ends.... Short version....I'm going to see Alice Cooper tonight!! :D

I would probably die laughing if somebody had an issue that I was an SP. I know a lot of women and men who give themselves sexually for "relationships" where the main thing holding them together is cash and what the other person can do for them. I feel my chosen profession is honest unlike "gold-diggers" or other things like that. I'm not one to shit on other people's lives and their choices, each realtionship works for totally different reasons that I could never fathom but the hypocrasy of someone who sees SP's or has seen SP's not wanting to date someone who was an SP blows my mind. Posted via Mobile Device

Get involved with an SP...sure why not? Trying to understand why I wouldn't has me perplexed. I really can not see the issue in this topic. I know that certain aspects of society would be hung up on such a thing but these are not Puritan times and yes women are allowed to work, drive and vote. I mean SP's are SP's...not mass murderers. I consider this a no brainer but that is just me. That said I respect that everyone has the right to their own opinion even if it differs from mine. I say that "less receptive" need to take a step back and realize that the days of Father Knows Best are long gone.

The person I love most is an SP. <3 <3 Oh wait, that's me. ;)

I think when you truly fall in love with someone, you fall in love with THEM as they are. I don't see how certain behavior, especially something that is sexual in nature, should change my opinion of someone I am in love with. Society puts a lot of heaviness on sex, and in all honesty it is something fun and beautiful that is completely human nature. I'm not here to judge how anybody else thinks or believes, I just think people in general need to loosen up a little bit, and smell the roses. Men and women like variety, clearly or else why are we all here? If everyone would come together and be honest with each other, imagine all of the beautiful open sex we could all have, and how much happier and more connected we could all be... Joke. Maybe that's what happens in heaven and that's why we're all naked :icon_lol:

Yes, I have found myself in this situation many times in the past. It is awkward to say the least! I think for some people "unrushed" has become code for MSOG?? I now started to ask the gentlemen when they are booking their appt, if they are wanting MSOG or more intimacy. I have found this does help me to organize my time with him. I also ask him, if he is a sensitive type, so that I can gage how intensely I can perform. When booking 1 hour appt, I like to get the first one out of the way to leave plenty of time to start again. I also remind them that a second time can be difficult and I can not guarantee success. For that matter, I do not like to guarantee anything. As some people arrive feeling blue, stressed and have their mind on other issues. But will guarantee an honest go at it! When I book 2 hours , then I will certainly expect to perform at least 2 times. Again asking the Gentlemen ahead of time how he wants our 2 hour date to be. Is he wanting MSOG or one long sensual experience? As for clock watching, I do not watch it too closely. But half ay threw our session, I like to remind them on how much time we have left and then will ask how we should spend our remaining time together. I also leave plenty of time between appt, just in case my Gentlemen would like to extend his time with me. So much can wrong when communication is not flowing:( It is vital for us to communicate what we want and expect in a date. Sp's are generally good mind readers, but you still need to be able to communicate what it is you want from our session with you. It sounds like you made a nice 2 hour date with your client. Hopefully he can learn from this and communicate his needs better to the next date?

Making the trip from Toronto to Ottawa for Iron Maiden and Alice Cooper