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Gentlemen, In light of recent events, I would like to bring a few respectful points to your attention regarding declined requests. "No" means what it means -NO- Nothing less, nothing more. It simply means no! Respect it and move on to someone else who will be able to provide you with what you are looking for without making a huge fuss about it and accusing the lady of having a bad attitude, especially when the request(s) are turned down gently and diplomatically. Please understand that when a lady already has a lot of pictures available for you to look at, she may not want to send you more pictures of herself because you want to see a specific body part. There are a multitude of reasons for her to decline politely and I do not think her personal or professional reasons should matter or made subject of pure assumptions after turning you down; If that specific body part picture is not available for you to look at before an encounter and if that specific picture is going to make or break an appointment, please look for ladies who already show what you are looking for. Furthermore, when a lady says she is not available to meet with you, she is NOT available to meet with you. Again, the reasons for her not being able to see you are irrelevant. Please, move on to someone who is without feeling the need to investigate as to why she was not available. It's quite creepy when I'm told, at a later time by a gentleman I wasn't available for, that after doing 'local inquiries' he was able to find out "why" I was not available to meet with him. Why the need to take it that far? No matter what your request is (extra pictures, specific 'sercives', ect, even a get together), when a lady declines, it is what it is and her preferences, choices and decisions should be respected even though you would've preferred otherwise. There is also no need to put her under a scrutinising eye and make silly assumptions when you do not get what you want. Acting out, being mean spirited, gossiping and the likes after the fact is never going to get you what you wanted in the first place... It is simply better to forget about it and move on. Gabriella

I should also add that if you've burned an SP in the past, do not expect her to see you again no matter how many times you've apologized. If you've done something or acted highly inappropriate to an SP, guaranteed you've made it to her shit list for lack of a better word. Don't call her, don't text her, don't friend request her after she's removed you and don't bash the SP to other SPs friends of hers telling them the SP in question 'needs help' when she doesn't answer you back. Take a clue! If she did, it would be to "f------ off" and many ladies have more class than that. In my own experience, if you've burned me or acted inappropriately towards me, there are no second chances and you no longer exist in my world. If I had another type of personality, all the guys on my shit list would literally be told to go f------ themselves or worse because that's what I think in my head about people who have wronged me but I'm better than that. I don't bother with verbal rampages because some people just arent' worth it and it's their loss in the end. Treat others how you want to be treated and you will have no problems with the ladies here.

Even when some of us have tried to convey the message to a gentlemen why we can't or don't want to see them, some have trouble dealing with rejection and their way of handling it is to then to pressure the lady to reveal why, insult or degrade the lady in some which is not pleasant. But at least then, it's an assurance to me that I made the right decision. Sometimes it's not "about you" fella. We have lives and you have no idea what may be on our plate. And even if it is "about you", and the lady doesn't want to "go there" by explaining specifically why she won't see you, save face and don't press on with the issue. And if it comes down her actually telling you "the truth", then just take your lumps and move on. Just as you are under no obligation to see a particular lady, we are under no obligation to see everyone who asks. I just want to add, that turning down clients is something we do for our safety and peace of mind in order to ensure that we give the best level of service possible. If we're not "feeling it", then no sense in doing it.

Hi I've been a member of cerb for over two years now. and have read the posts of these women almost every day and have the opportunity to meet a small selected few of the women in Ottawa. It is with heartfelt thanks to my appreciation to the kind caring women of Cerb that post and contribute their opinions and advice to us men. I admire these women as they offer their services without discrimination to men of all sizes, races, disabilities. All the ask is that you are a gentleman and are clean. They offer companionship, sometimes friendship to lonely men, widowers and virgins. For a short time the man can feel human, or needed again. Some men are shy and lonely. This gives them the chance to be with a woman that he can only dream about, the girl from school that was out of reach. Or they can fulfill a fantasy. Sometimes they can keep a marriage going by providing the sex that is needed in a sexless marriage. I just wanted to show my appreciation for the services and companionship that they offer. And I am sure that other members of Cerb feel the same way. If so let's here from other Cerbies :) Yours Someguy

I like Luckyme because he doesn't care and cheats 'liking' not only the person from the post before his but the one that made the previous one too ... Kidding! I like him because he is a very sweet, caring gentleman and always respectful :)

Pretty sure the OP was looking for info on who offers this, not on who thinks it's "yuck" or "nasty". If this is something you don't offer or are not interested in, fair enough, but then why even click on a thread entitled "Extreme Gagging" in the first place? A fetish is a very personal thing to many. And usually, not something one has very much control over. I feel that someone should be able to come to cerb (and to the "BDSM, Fetish, etc" section of cerb of all places) and inquire about a fetish openly without having to be told his/her fetish is gross, immoral, etc.....regardless of what it is.....assuming of course that said fetish is occurring between two (or more :p) consenting adults. Ye ol' cerb motto applies here. If thou shant have anything good or helpful to say, thou shouldn't say anything at all. That being said I'm also interesting in knowing who provides an extreme-ish DT (although for me personally, not to the point of puking). Additional Comments: You may want to inquire with Berlin about this. I haven't had the pleasure of seeing her yet and I'm not sure if she offers exactly what you're looking for. But on her website she quotes "messy/gagging blowjobs" as part of the fetish/submission services she offers. Like I said, I haven't met her yet but she's very reputable and has very good reviews. Considering the nature of the request it's probably a good idea to PM her or e-mail her first to determine if she offers exactly what you're looking for.

Very hard trying to please everyone so I'm of the opinion that you should get a place you feel safe in... one that will suit your services and needs and we will find our way to you. Good luck.

i had met Lilly previously with Claire Heavens with a duo a couple of weeks ago, and both of them were awesome by far. i decided to give Lilly a try solo. Lilly is so easy to talk to, she is also very very good at massage, and of course, shes a real cutie. we enjoyed each others company in more ways than one, and i will repeat again for sure, in the very near future. thanks Lilly, i had a great time :)

Thank you :) I also taste great and am less filling. Peace MG

MisterMike, it's up to you to decide what you are and are not willing to reveal about yourself. However, do keep in mind that established paid companions often meet with well-known men whose public and private lives could be severely damaged if their information were to be disclosed to anyone. Our fees include assurance of confidentiality. I see that you live in the States. Law enforcement does have a habit of setting men up for grief, there, because prostitution is illegal almost everywhere. In Canada, things are very different! You can learn about this in the Legal section. You may be able to find a lady who will waive many screening aspects or who doesn't have any. The value of her reference, for those who require references, may be limited, however.

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I like Notch Johnson because he has a big..... Harley Davidson Motorcycle!

hi guys (and gals)....so i decided to take it upon myself to start a burlesque social group where members can post events going on in their city or just post about burlesque etc...there seems to be at least one going on every week! heres the link to the group! only members can see its contents..and theres another show going on tonight at the rainbow too! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.p...#gmessage19364

I haven't seen the thread about refusing a client based on race. Of course as an SP you can chose to see who you want based on any criteria. Same goes with the client of course, we chose who we want to see based on our own criteria. It goes both ways. I could see how the discussion could get heated, anytime race is involved people can and will get animated. I know sometimes the Ladies get tired of the same questions, I myself have sent Ladies questions before an encounter, I find as long as you are respectful with your questions you will get an equally respectful response. But once the question is asked and answered it should end there. If you don't get the answer you want and continue to correspond with the Lady nothing good will come of it. I'm always suspicious that the guys who do this do it for personal entertainment (sick I know) and I also wonder about the guys who are genuine and think an encounter could be enjoyable after annoying the fuck out of the Lady you are trying to see.

I like RG's avatar. John Malkovich rocks!

of course not Additional Comments: Definately worth your time to book an appointment. Very polite, and great massage. As said earlier, I think this lady has some actual training behind her. I went there with a major pain in my neck, and she sure helped it out. As for discussion about the massage itself, we didn't talk about anything in particular. She asked if I had anything that was hurting, I pointed out my neck, and she proceeded to look it over much the same as my own regular massage therapist does. She has true tecnique. She then simply told me to get undressed and lay down. The massage itself was so good I may have dosed off briefly. Combined with her soft music, it really serves to relax. The HJ progressed in such a way as to have simply been a part of the massage. The best part really was the last though when she worked over my neck. Seriously, I came away the most relaxed I've been in some time. I'd go back to her simply for a massage again. Parking for those who wondered is at a premium. It is a residential location, but you won't have to walk far. I would have to say, for the overall experience, this spot is easily as good as EB. Even though the 'scenery' at EB is much better and a little hands on is included there. This lady however is all business. But she is VERY good at her job. Keep her discreet and she'll be a treasure for a long time to come.

Well her reasons could be simple prejudice or something completely different, but what ever they are I respect her right to have them. In particular because this is posted under FS providers, I think it is every woman's choice to see or not see anyone they choose (clients also). Perhaps it isn't at all what it one might think, maybe she had an "African-American" boyfriend who treated her badly and she doesn't need to be reminded of this. Some more mature SPs won't see younger men? Hem, should we complain to the human rights commission based on age discrimination? In an intimate setting, racial prejudice is acceptable to me; (heavens, did I just say that, yes, I did and only because I am both stupid and fearless) but in fact it is the only circumstance under which I will tolerate or stand for it even if I don't agree with it. I think she has the right to discriminate on any bases she chooses (in this case only), most of which would be completely unacceptable under any other circumstance. I also think it is possible to not be prejudice but not believe in or be comfortable with inter-racial couples (when one of them is you).