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I searched for a thread on this topic and surprisingly couldn't find one, and it's definitely one that (sadly) needs to be addressed. Lately, I have been hearing some appalling things from ladies I speak to: and that is, some gentlemen have been sharing information about ladies location. I am just floored that someone would think this is information to share. Where a lady works from, whether it is an apartment/condo/house/hotel, is information that should always remain private. If you see a lady in an apartment/condo, and happen to have seen another lady in the same building: it's NOT your business to tell either of them that the other lady is in the same building as they are. If you see a lady in a hotel where you've seen others: it's not your business to tell her that 'so-and-so lady' also works from that hotel. If your buddy works close to a lady, and you want to recommend her: maybe say that she's works very close...but do NOT say 'Hey she works in the building right next to you!' Many women work out of their home. This is their private life. And even if they rent a separate work apartment, or work in a hotel, it is not up to you to disclose this information to anyone, ever. Telling other people puts her safety at stake. And could put her in compromising or embarrassing situations. The ONLY way you should know where a lady works from is when she tells you herself. Please, always remember what business we are in. Discretion is the ultimate key to happy, safe, encounters. There is never a need to share someone's personal information with others. Thank you.

As a regular client of Holly's I can say with absolute certainty that you will not regret it if you decide to see her. She is an extremely beautiful girl, has a nice toned body and a great friendly attitude. Her DFK is really amazing and her cowgirl is out of this world.

Thank you Phaedrus for crystallizing my thoughts better than I could myself. The original inocuos question has led to a bigger debate and perhaps one that should be had. Why would we hobbiests ever feel entitled to publically give out somebody else's contact info? It is not our info to give. The public record lasts forever. Typing in the phone number on an open site instantly makes it public record. We could get into a long discussion here about web crawlers... Thus, it should only be the subject him/herself that divulges this info. We have many ways of hinting without actually sealing the deal. It is the proverbial 'horse to water' idiom. It is also entirely possible that a member does not want to be contacted by or reply to another. We have to respect that choice. Again, I understand that there is a fair amount of advertising on this site and I have used it myself. The ads and profiles are easily accessible and a great tool for the hobbiest. I realize it may seem like splitting hairs as to whether we distribute info that already appears to be readily accessible, but it is a very important distinction. I do not want anybody giving out my personal info and I will not give out anybody else's. Now let's all hug it out and get back to talking about bodyslides! :)

I couldn't disagree more. The information a lady shares is up to her, not us. If she wants to make her phone number or whatever else available, that's her decision... as is the decision to remove that information from the public sphere if she chooses to do so later. But if we post anyone's phone number in threads like this one, we've removed that information about her from her control, and I don't think that's a good thing to do. I understand that realistically, whatever anyone puts out in public is likely out there for good... but it's not up to us to make that happen! The fact that in this case Claire's phone number is in an ad at the top of the page doesn't mean she'll want it there tomorrow, or next week, or next year... and that's her call, not ours.

People who still haven't got the message DRINKING AND DRIVING IS NO LONGER ACCEPTABLE! WTF!:vatefaire:

Another cerb birthday today! A very Happy Birthday to Birdboy, one of the outstanding writers on cerb, who's started lots of thoughtful, insightful threads. Wishing you a great day, Birdboy!

There was nothing about the ad for Sandy that piqued my interest until I got a text from Shanghai May informing me that Sandy was her younger cousin and suggesting I would like her. When May was considering going indy a few months ago she told me about Sandy, with hopes Sandy would come to Ottawa and work indy with May. I looked at the pics and debated and said, what the heck, why not? May knows what I like as well as anyone these days so I felt it was a safe bet. Sandy opened the door and my oh my is she pretty. And tall. Ad says 5'6", I think she is a couple inches taller or perhaps I am shrinking. But being able to look at her face almost eye level made my old heart flutter. I thought she had heels on then looked at her bare feet. She wore a dress that did not flatter her figure which kind of surprised me. No makeup that I could detect but her natural beauty is such that it is not needed. But I was thinking she didn't take the time to prepare which is one of May's strong suits. Once we kissed and headed for the shower and the dress came off I no longer cared. Typical smaller (32b?) breasts with wonderfully big nipples, the thing I was most struck with was her hips. Unlike the common asian stick figure this girl had hips! Wonderfully shaped and a joy to behold. Natural kitty for those who care, possibly a bit manicured. I'm not big on skin tone but I don't recall her having much of a tan so maybe you could consider her pale? Shower was nothing special, was a bit disappointed in no introductory bj in the shower. When she was drying me after I felt this unusual sensation on the back of my thighs, she was licking all over and then did a mini rimjob. Unusual but pleasant, slurp jr certainly seemed thrilled. Off to the bed and some more kissing (dfk, lots of tongue) and she dropped to her knees and began showing off her amazing oral skills. Lots of eye contact and she appeared to enjoy showing off her DT talents (ymmv, I'm average) and I enjoyed receiving them! I then asked her to lie down and let me return the favour, daty was tasty and hairy but she didn't seem to be into it. You know how it is when a girl moves away and does not let you really lick well, that's what she did. She seemed happier showing off her great bbbj talents so I let her. Surprisingly after a bit she moved into 69 without me asking and I don't think it was as much to let me lick her as to take me deeper into her throat. She did seem a bit more into the daty but still did not make it easy for me to get at the goods. But as I was feeling the back of her throat I began to realize her bbbj was too good and I couldn't last a lot longer so asked for the hat. To be honest she her bbbj skills far surpassed her FS skills but I really think it is a matter of getting to know each other. And I had a rough week and was pretty tired which didn't help matters, the lackluster FS may have been more my fault then hers. I feel FS would be better the more I see her. I was more than happy to get more of the bbbj/dt and went for cim. I will say that with her hips she was a sight to behold when bent over for doggy. She joked about her big ass but it is not big at all, just very shapely due to the fine hips. Overall Sandy is a treat, but I think she is one you need to get to know for things to really heat up. Very pretty and sweet with truly amazing oral skills, she earns the slurp seal of approval. I'd repeat knowing the bbbj/dt/cim alone os wirth the price of admission, anything else is icing on the hairy cake.

A hug just for anyone who would care to receive one today. :)

I agree my friend. Holly is awesome!

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I met Apple 2 month ago but...... no spinner body and no PSE attitude. Hum??? Is Ottawa sweetheart have two kind of Apple?

expect the kitty or except the kitty Sorry B, it was just too good to pass on

I was called a few choice names today by two ladies...and that was in person...but we were having sex :) roll with it BD

It happens. You really have three options: 1. Ignore it, use the delete button, and move on. 2. Use the "report abuse" button at the the top of the PM when you view it, and let Mod do whatever he feels is appropriate. 3. Escalate verbal warfare. I don't recommend the last of these, as options 1 and 2 are also available to her... :)

So This morning I was asked, "What excites you before a first encounter?" When meeting someone new I'm excited for the new conversations and life stories :) it was once said about Marie Antoinette that " he amuses her, and she adores to be entertained". I guess the same could be said for me as well :) I enjoy meeting new and interesting people its my favorite part of my job :)

Hi. To refer to face pics. I would reccomend to all service providers, especially new girls, please think twice. You may regret it. I did. It ruined my life for awhile, caused alot of problems. If you dont want to be a working girl forever, or if you want to have a professional career outside escorting, then dont. It is a taboo business, that is very frownef upon. It can get you in trouble with future employers, future boyfriends, family, your kids, the government. Face pics are incriminateing evidence that can be usef against you, ex boyfriends, courts, police, tax man, CAS.

Hello New Brunswick Gentlemen :) I want to thank you for 11 days of pure bliss and FUN! You really know how to make a lady feel welcome :) Will I be back? Count on it! Until January.... xoxo Dorinda

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Looking at this pic makes me say "WTF"

Sorry Emily...but I have a petty grievance The whole "Don't feed them after midnight" thing in the movie Gremlins.........correct me if I'm wrong but isn't it ALWAYS after midnight?! WTF?? When are we supposed to feed them?? :p

This may come across as a rant, I suppose it may be...but this needs to addressed. Do you think it is by mere chance that Sp's or Ma's ALL ask for a phone call from unblocked numbers? Do you think it is by chance that I who live in such a small town has maintained my discretion and safety? NO !!! It is from being diligent in screening clients, as to know who they are, to know that they have nothing they are not hiding from me! If you are asking to visit me, or my ladies at MY location, should I give that trust to you when you are not willing to trust me with a phone number? These are the reasons hobbyist give me: How do I know you wont call my phone and blackmail me? ANSWER: I built my business for 5 years, why would I jeopardies my reputation with something like that? PRIVACY is paramount to my industry! And if you are so worried, go get a pre paid phone for just this hobby, hide it from your spouse! How do I know your not a set up? ANSWER: I have 4 pages of recs here on this board...I also been in small town Freddy for 5 years, I think I would be run out of town by now had I been a sting! I am calling from work, I cant unblock the number. ANSWER: again go get a "play "phone! Why is it so important for you to have a number? ANSWER: 1, you are being invited into my location, if you turned out to be a bad date, how would I warn others? With no name and no phone number, then others are at risk too! 2, If I just go ahead and give location and buzzer number, what stops you from stopping in whenever you felt like it? 3, or if I have you booked, and you no show, how do I call you to ask why? 4, LAW ENFORCEMENT uses unblocked numbers!!!! 5, you could be working on the behalf of a disgruntle client, or competitor to find out where I am for future harassment! 6, you are asking me to put myself in a venerable position, in private location, nude and whatever else, and yet not willing to trust me? I feel very odd about that! I am sorry, but for now on, please dont even try to book with me unless you can show common courtesy of having trust! I take mine and that of my ladies, safety very very serious, and if you can not trust, I can not trust either. It really kills the chemistry if you are in a session and your brain is thinking" OK who is this really? Does he have something else in mind? What is he hiding?" I hope this all makes since to you gentlemen? If you ever wondered why, well here are MY reasons. Most SP's do have the same protocol on this matter. So if you plan to play the game, PLEASE get yourself a play phone if need be. besides, It should make you happy that we are sooo careful! I am sure you would like to enter a location feeling safe, and knowing that the lady has done all she can to assure you a safe and discrete location:)

People who use the grocery store as a social club and block the aisles with their shopping carts while chatting away. When asked politely if they could move over a little so you can get what you need, they give you the dirtiest look ever... WTF? Sometimes I wish I could temporarily put my manners into a bag, push their cart aside (while pretending they're not there) and just take what I need off the shelf they are blocking... At least I wouldn't be the one saying WTF! ;)

Of course, none of us had to answer the question, what I think everyone is trying to say is this: some questions just shouldn't be asked. This business cannot be compared to any other. Not ONE other kind of business, seriously. So the rules of what is right in a restaurant, or an office, or anywhere, simply do not apply here. In this job, we share ourselves with you. And it's a wonderfully rewarding job. BUT, at times it's hard. And one of the hardest things is keeping your personal life, and your work life separate. So don't ask these kind of questions. Always remember, and respect, that we are real women, with real lives, who choose to share certain parts of ourselves with you. And the parts that we don't choose ourselves to share, are to be left alone. Because they're ours, and prying into those parts will always come off as invasive, whether that was the intention or not.