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Didn't realize how much time I spend on Cerb each day, until the last couple of months when Chat went down for a day or two. Could not chat with friends for a couple of days while it was being repaired. Then in January the Cerb server crashed and was going up and down, and I couldn't contact a Girl I was interested in. Then one night Rogers Internet went down for 2 hours, The family went thru withdraw, the kids could not do their homework, watch youtube, chat with friends. I couldn't chat on Cerb :(. I've become addicted to cerb, reading the interesting post, chatting with friends on Cerb Chat. Imagine what life would be like if Cerb disappeared? :( How would that affect your life ? Also I would like to thank the Mod for a great job on keeping the Cerb server up for us Cerbie's and for maintaining a great site for all to enjoy. Keep up the good work. And I appreciate all your efforts :)

You ask a worthy question zorobaby. These are the factors and experience that influence my decision when deciding to see a younger than 40 guest... 1. Unrealistic expectations of what the session will entail. Porn has skewed manys perceptions as to what is genuine sex and what is done strictly to feed a visual desire. For the younger set it seems to be about how many sog's they are going to get or they have a list of activities that need to be completed in order for them to feel they got their moneys worth. For me this approach is exhausting in the playroom, both mentally and physically and when they leave I often reflect that the money wasn't worth the energy spent for me. This trait is not exclusive to younger clients, just more prevalent. 2. Contact. Many younger men contact us with little to no respect shown for us as people. One line text and emails are an instant red flag as are the phone calls that start with "How much for a blow job?" without even introducing yourself. The civil niceties are seldom present and they do not have the awareness or understanding of what it takes to be a sex worker and that we are living, breathing human beings with feelings that need to be treated as such the same as everyone else. Their inherent attitudes of youth often mislable us as disposable or less than and that is unacceptable to us. 3. Money. If I had a nickle for every time I've heard "Is your pussy made of gold?" from a not yet grown man cub, I'd be rich. My prices aren't and never have been in the upper price range of this industry. I provide outstanding service and take pride and care in ensuring my guests are cared for above and beyond the industry norm but younger men don't understand the cost of doing business for us. Indulging in women is like any other hobby, it takes money and the younger they are the less saved pennies they have to spend on the intangibles unlike their older counterparts. All that said, I have some younger guests on my dance card who I absolutely adore. They are mature beyond their years and we are a good fit so it works. They contacted me with well articulated emails and engaged in an exchange with me that showed they were indeed the kind of client I enjoy. At that point, the age became a non issue. The younger providers often have personal reasons for staying away from their peers and that should be respected but most providers will make an exception if you approach them with the right attitude... cat

Yummy bum! :cooter:

This! I want a session to be fun for both of us. So I'm constantly trying to read body language, get feedback on whether what I'm doing is working, etc. I want to know what a girl likes, what positions she prefers, how she likes my tongue to move. Eating pussy is an art...some girls like more gentle lapping, side to side, up and down. Some girls like me to suck on the clit, some like a firm tongue, some like gentle flicking, some want the clit to be the center of attention, some want the tongue to wander all over the world. A woman is like a musical instrument, each one similar but different. You can make beautiful sounds if you have the right technique but you have to learn how to play each one. I think that some girls maybe will act like everything you do is great which can make it more difficult...I definitely prefer a natural reaction. I want to feel the little signs...a slight tensing up, a little raising of the hips, a small intake of breath, nipples and clit hardening. This is how I learn what works for you. And maybe my tongue starts to wander a bit...towards the outside, the thigh...perhaps down... Does she open wider? Does she raise her legs a bit to give me access? I read and respond...teasing, touching. Gentle, firm. Never doing one thing for too long until you find the one thing...that one motion that is taking her past the point of control. Then you repeat, a little faster, a little firmer, using my hands to touch breast, thighs, butt. Pulling her to me, letting her feel my desire, letting her know I want her release, want to taste her cum in my mouth. Looking for the shudder, the shaking legs. Orgasms can be faked but I'm not sure that an observant and sensitive man can be fooled that easily. I love when a woman comes on my cock...that tightening that you feel. A good orgasm can feel like it's going to rip off my dick. Intense. Sure, you could do your kegels and try to fake that but why? I think men who don't care will never notice anything beyond the superficial display. So yes ladies, I'm probably going to try to work my way down but if I'm doing my job right, it should just feel like a natural part of the fun. I will treat your bottom like the beautiful delicate little flower that it is. Real life is not porn...you have to work up to these things.

I think I'd like to jump right into the introductions as well! Hi all! My name is Yvonne and I am an SP based in Toronto and the GTA! Pleased to make you acquaintance!

Well...what can I say that hasn't already been said... DFK & DATY FTW! ;)

An update on the legal battle around bawdy-house laws, which will be before the supreme court in June. http://m.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/in-ontario-sides-line-up-as-battle-over-bawdy-houses-set-to-resume/article7508125/?service=mobile

I'm cold. So cold. I'm sitting at my computer desk with a magic bag around my neck and another on my thighs. I've wrapped myself in the ugliest green blanket I own. I only own one green blanket, but that's a minor detail. My toes are poking out but I'm wearing wool socks, the same socks I wore to bed last night. I haven't showered yet. I sleep naked, but sometimes... in the dead of winter... I wear nothing but socks! The biggest, ugliest socks. It makes me want to have "Canadian" sex with a toque, socks, and under the blankets. I don't like breathing warm air though. It's quite the conundrum... Anyway, that's not here or now because I slept alone last night and I wasn't cold because I had my magic bags. mmm.... I'm getting warmer now... My random rant is over, I'm going to get back to that word document now... the one that holds the key to my presentation in seminar this afternoon...

Think positive and things will go the way they're meant to. A thought from experience: Folks who are very sick can say some off-putting things, just remember that your presence is beneficial, no matter what.

I was going to echo what Cleo said, a better question would be who DOESN'T enjoy this :) Making out gets me wet pretty much instantly.

While I agree with Cat, I do not generally discuss age. If I am contacted by a respectful gentleman his age doesn't matter. I have had some pretty bad emails etc from men in their 20's and men in their 60's. Age does not always bring good manners with it! I have some fantastic regulars who are almost half my age and aim happy that I gave them a chance :)

I love the sound of rain. I really enjoy taking a bath in the summer while it's raining and opening the window... No music, just the sound of rain. Those have been some of the most peaceful moments of my life. Phaedrus is right though, silence is beautiful too.

Ok.. My time post here....wait i will be right back Ok, do i masterbate? Ok course..... How often...... Be right back... Quite often in fact. Some times it just helps kill stress........ Hold on i will be right back Posted via Mobile Device

A question that was inspired by cristycurves question (what is your favorite scent). So, what is your favorite sound? For me I have a couple: a woman orgasiming, kitten/cat purring and the sound of a rain storm.

Hey guys, ive been reading around the forums for a while now and this is actually starting to eat at me a bit. In a growing amount of posts im seeing that people seem to think that "older gents treat women better than younger ones". Saying this makes it look like all clients under 35(?) seem to not treat the sp/ma well or we are only out for ourselves in alot of ways. I am mid 20's myself, and its starting to actually get to me that seems to be "the norm" way of thinking. Id like to see what others around my age seem to think, maybe the slightly older ones seem to think... ladies why is it that my generation is least preferred in the community? This isnt a rage thread... its a discussion thread. im not looking to start a fight with anyone, so please dont assume thats what im trying to do.

Here is to a wonderful birthday Meg and I am sending wishes that all your birthday dreams come true.

Well the day has arrived, early tomorrow off on another adventure, this time to New Zealand, Australia and Aubu Dhabi.

I Gotta Say What An Amazing Post......I Think Everyone Not Only The Cerbies Should Use/Read & Watch The Videos. Great One Jessie Brown!!!

the fact that people respond to my post is making me really happy and encourage me to do it more often as i said in my post on new years goals i want to be more active in here and express my point of view to all of you ... i never tough that you'll love it like that i really appreciate the fact that you guys are taking the time to read it and comments as well .... thanks to all of you xoxoxo jessie your horny ma

I do remember life and being in this business with no cerb and no sense of community in general. Yeah, it was sucky.lol. A special thanks to the Mod for creating such a great place to go to with no b.s. :)

Just kidding! But I did recently have the great pleasure of meeting the lovely Nikki Thomas and of being interviewed on her show 'Sex, Brains and Money'. Hope you like it!

For me, it depends on my partners approach. Rough, aggressive hands and behavior will immediate be stopped and my bottom will become off limits. Playful, sensual teasing attention will extend mileage and is thoroughly enjoyed! Even if I am asked up front about services by a new client, I am always hesitant to say yes because if they arrive with the wrong attitude it isn't going to happen. That goes for all services negotiated in advance when meeting an SP for the first time, not just ass play. Bite my clit and you'll never see my cookie up close and personal again, twist my nipples till they hurt without prior approval and you will get smacked, pull my hair, leave your hand imprint on my body anywhere without approval or fuck me so hard that I can't walk straight for a week and you'll be asked to leave and will never be invited back. But if you are someone I know and have developed a trust with, all these activities can be great fun. I have guests that I have no fear with because they have proven themselves to be trustworthy. The key is trust. Once you have it you may be pleasantly surprised at how much fun you can have with some of us... cat

I have a few, but some of my favorites are the sounds of waves crashing ashore hearing one of my little dogs snore my mothers voice-it's so soft, feminine-just comforting

I think wanting to communicate is a great first second or third step...the first two(reco's and pics) are also great. I would recommend any gentlemen touch base, wether it be a phone call or an email, we all have our preferred methods of contact-I prefer a phone call. As pictures and recommendations can only give you a sense of ones appearence and someone elses opinion on your prospective sp. But as someone said don't overdue it. An initial phone call or email to get a sense of the sp's personality and ask her some pertinent questions is imo the only way you will know if you'll feel comfortable and if there will be any chemistry. Don't ever feel shy, all of us want to make any and all gentlemen feel wanted and welcome. A mistake is after making your choice and booking an appointment, contacting the sp over and over, this makes us uncomfortable, in most cases is unnecessary, and can cause reason for an sp to cancel Now go and play, have some fun, get to know some of us we would all love to meet you.:biggrin:

I would say that most of the women I have met over the years enjoy DATO. I agree that most do not put it on the menu, but much like yourself, I really enjoy it so I always ask if it's something they like or not. As for light touching and digits, light touching is rarely a problem and what I normally find is this leads to at least a digit. Comfort level seems to be key in all this. I find most women who I see more than once are generally ok with it once they get to know me.

I adjusted the tanks option so that EVERYONE can use it and it gives 25 rep points now as well. (It's nice to be thanked for info posted!)

Niteman the only way your going to get past your nerves is to just take the plunge. Like fredsmith said "Don't over think it" because that is exactly what your doing. All the talking in the world isn't going to make for a better experience. Getting there, sitting down, relaxing with a super sexy SP and having a face to face conversation about what you would like to happen is the best way to go about it. Just my opinion.But believe me. If you choose a well recommended SP, she will see your nervousness and within minutes you'll be as relaxed as Austin Powers in a hot tub(well hopefully not that relaxed)LOL! It sound's to me like your holding out for the "perfect" experience. And honestly that perfect experience exists but it may not happen the first time or the second time etc. You have to take the good with the bad until you find an SP who really rocks your world, and then you'll have a "regular" you can go see and know your guaranteed a great time. My first time sucked I was nervous as shit, and quite frankly I still get nervous when I'm seeing a new SP for the first time (mainly because hot women scare the shit out of me). The simple fact is all this stuff your thinking about now, I guarantee when you get there your mind is going to go completely blank. It's like when most guys loose their virginity. Up to that point you're thinking of all the positions your going to do,and everything else,and when the time comes it's 2 or 3 pumps in missionary and 20 minutes of apologizing. So take the plunge. Life is to short.The door to sexual happiness is in front of you.You can either tap on it lightly or KICK THAT FUCKER OFF THE HINGES!!!!

Gold, Platinum, diamonds are commodities :) All those I can buy (and own) but you are so much more rare and special I can only rent the supreme honour of your presence and company for a short time and only if you are willing.

My favourite sounds are definitely in nature. I really like the way really long grass sounds as it is blowing in the wind. The crunch of really hard snow under my feet. Waves crashing on an ocean beach. Sigh, takes me to a calm place!

At Port Elmsley about 15-20 from Smith Falls, the triple movies are great. Lots of steamy windows in the summer time :) http://www.portelmsleydrivein.com/

They still exist! There is one around Ottawa--outside of Ottawa though. I don't remember where. And I know for sure there is still one back in my hometown. I have many fond memories of getting it on in the back of my boyfriend's truck.

Better question would be who doesn't enjoy this...because I'm sure almost every girl loves both activities, quite immensely! :D

There is nothing better than making out and kissing which I really enjoy. As Annessa said, whistle wetter is right!

We obviously haven't met! Couch time foreplay is one of my favorite parts of a visit. When that goes well, the rest of the playdate is fireworks.. cat

If she is on here, and posts in discussion topics, take the time to read her posts. You will get a very good impression of what she is like and what she thinks. If you are contacting by phone or email, keep to a no-more-than-3 rule. First email, then reply to her reply, then on the 3rd you are commiting to an appt booking or thanking her for her time and stop. With phone calls you are making them only if that is how she prefers to be contacted. Let her know the approx date and time you are interested in, and don't expect to stay on the phone for more than 5 minutes. Don't make a habit of calling several times prior to booking an actual appt, but it is possible to go thru the rates/services and availability while getting a sense of her personality and attitude while talking. In other words stay on topic, let her know you are new, and that you haven't fully decided yet, but will confirm closer to that date/time you suggested. Stay on her good side by not contacting her again until or unless it is to make an appt, and if you make the appointment and can't make it, that you contact her with lots of notice to cancel. You've already narrowed it down to one particular one. I have to say a lot of times new clients, or long time fence sitters, spend a lot of time on forums like this, and yet never seem to be able to avoid even the basic pitfalls of their first selection going really wrong. In spite of the information in front of them, time after time the new guy makes a seriously bad decision. So just take care that considering you have the option to see established, experienced, reputable and highly recommended sps by using this site, don't let anything dissuade you from choosing one of them lol

Whether you contact initially through email or phone call, a good SP will understand your need to connect first and have no problem with a brief conversation so you can get a feel for one another. How else will you know if you'll enjoy her company? It's something that's impossible to determine solely through her pictures...

I enjoy having a brief conversation with a prospective client. Voice-to-voice contact provides a lot of subtle information and usually helps make the connection personal. My preference is to have a couple of options for a safe time to call him because if I'm the one making the call, I don't take the risk of having him call me over and over again or late at night, which sometimes happens with people with whom I've never spoken. The conversations are rarely more than 5 minutes long.

I'm a huge fan of DAT--...I love using my mouth on pretty much every part of a lady's body. Delicious. I find the posts from some of the guys describing themselves as lazy quite interesting...I find myself to be the opposite. I'm not super comfortable laying back and taking it...even massages are not for me...I get too antsy. I find I want to treat these sessions like a sport...I love being sweaty and out of breath with shaking legs at the end. I had a beautiful session with Cleo-Catra that left my legs so wobbly I could barely work the clutch in my car afterwards. In retrospect, going to the gym right after that was a terrible idea. ;-) Granted not every session works out that way but I certainly don't mind going the extra mile if I think the lady appreciates it.

Booked a business trip to Toronto in early March . Brrrr it's winter....Hope I can find someone to warm me up too ;) Booked another business trip / little bit of fun trip to TO again end of June :) Going to Vegas in April if all goes as planned :) It's time to get out of Dodge and live er up a bit I do believe !!!

Silence. Complete and utter silence. If only because it's so rare and precious...

I have no idea what it is that strippers wear for scent(perfume or lotion) but I could smell that all day long.

check out the Massage section for peoples recos. I would probably vote to see an independent massage girl: Bethany (Sweetest Massage) Jessica Massage Megan's Touch ...i've only seen one of the above (fab time!), but all are highly regarded. and recently saw Vanessa Vale, even though she's an SP, she does provide a massage and prices to reflect it..great time as well.

She is one of the best! you won't be sorry.

Hi everyone, I am living in Halifax, origionally from Newfoundland. I have met two ladies now, one in Halifax, she was a beautiful lady, and another in Niagara Falls. Still nervous though with being a newbie, lol. Anyways cheers.

Hey everyone. I've been lurking around here for awhile but am finally posting. I guess you can say I'm dipping my toe into the water to see how it feels.

And that is where you will be absolutely and completely wrong. It is far harder for a young 20's guy to get an appt with a higher rate escort (who are actually usually mid 20's and up, i think) than it is for a guy 35 and up. i could probably provide links to a half dozen sps thinking off the top of my head with minimum age requirements that you don't meet. You are falling into that 'I'm young therefore I'm more desireable' trap that affects many of the younger guys. In fact it is such a syndrome that even lower rate sps have minimum age requirements, lol. I think maybe read in the general area the section "New to This" and you will get a pretty great idea about what is and is not attractive to sps. In the US, many escorts charge higher rates, sometimes because they are out of an agency, and often because it is just so highly illegal sometimes just having a super high rate helps reduce the chance they will see LE. And even then, they are more likely to need references and have minimum age requirements lol. You can definitely try Toronto, but you can't just wait until you are in Toronto, you have to do some searching now, contact the sps, provide the information they want from you to screen you, and then wait to be selected (or not). This is not a pickup joint or bar, and what works for someone in that situation is quite different. It is a fairly common misconception that the clients only have to show up with cash to get whatever they want. Read the recommendation section, and the advertisements, and the websites, and especially the Etiquette pages on websites. You are a university student so I expect you to know how to do proper research and studying before you 'take a test' of contacting an sp lol.

I am more into having the lady enjoy the session, I know I always will if she did, so that is my mindset. The hotter for her, the hotter for me. Assplay is something I enjoy, and more so, when I see it is well received. Pretty quiet the responses, not sure if this is because guys stay away from this, or just don't want to discuss it.

I'll climb on board as well. Hi everyone, New member from the US here. Occasional visitor to Montreal. While I may not have many chances to make recommendations, due to my limited visits to SP's in Canada, I hope to be able to contribute to the board in more general way relating to interactions between SP's and Clients. Thank you, CW

There are no provincial prostitution laws. Prostitution is legal in Canada. Many prostitution related activities (public communication, bawdy houses, underage etc) are illegal, but they are regulated under the Criminal Code of Canada, not provincial law. Some provincial courts have ruled that aspects of the Criminal Code violate the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. These decisions are being appealed to the Supreme Court of Canada. In the meantime, the Criminal Code provisions remain in place. To get more specific info on the law and current cases you can search the Legal Discussion or Things You Should Know sections of Cerb. You can also google Canadian prostitution laws.

Welcome!! Good point, not sure if we have an introduction thread. We just have some tips/advice/rules threads mostly aimed at newcomers in this part of the forum.