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Dude. You'd be creating a situation where you exert power over her, and she's required to have sex with you according to a schedule or else you can threaten to take away her home. It wouldn't matter that you'd found someone foolish enough to sign such an agreement on some particularly dark day. What happens when she changes her mind about the service? What if you no longer "like" her? She has to leave her home because she's not servicing you? And what if she was so desperate that she had nowhere else to go and is afraid to say "no" or she'll be kicked out; she's now your monthly sex slave? Do not do this. Do not even consider putting another person in such a horrible situation. Additional Comments: Oh for fuck's sake.

Good afternoon gentlemen, First I would like to greatly apologize to the CERB members for posting misleading photos on BP. My name is Nichole and I am a Quebecoise advertiser (Was on Escorts Canada but they removed my ad because I was using these photos on BP causing them to receive complaints). My description and pictures on Escorts Canada were always 100% real and truly me as I have verified with Escorts Canada. Some of the pictures on BP of costumes and fantasy pieces were not me and they have now all been ERASED. I WILL ONLY POST ACTUAL PHOTOS OF MYSELF ON ALL SITES GOING FORWARD. I will clearly state my services and restrictions so that there is no confusion. I will only be able to offer mild to moderate submissive services, no longer hardcore due to some traumatic injuries. I am apologizing and asking the members to give me another chance. I will work extremely hard to rebuild my reputation with this community. Thank you for this opportunity. Deepest apologies, Nichole :icon_cry:

Many of the SPs that I know put a great deal of value in the freedom of choice that this type of work provides. An arangment like the one your suggesting would take away some of that freedom. I also think that it's possible that your confusing what the work life and the home life of someone who works as a SP might be like. We arn't in SP mode all the time, we have hobbies, lovers, dogs, children, family's other jobs and often demanding university courses. SPs keep incalls so that day to day life and work don't overlap. Don't do it bad idea. Kay

I just got accepted to York University's Master's program in Women, Feminist and Gender Studies for September 2013!!!! Highlight of the day? More like highlight of the year! I AM SO EXCITED I COULD BURST. When I called my parents to tell them, I was crying with joy. I kid you not. My mom was like, why are you crying and I was like, BECAUSE I'M SO HAPPY!

Why don't you conventionally rent out the room to a conventional tenant Use your rental income to partake in this lifestyle This idea sounds bad. If the SP has to find a incall location since she can't use the condo , then she leaves the condo, (her "home" btw) to conduct business...remember, this for guys is an escape, but for the ladies, it is their livelihood, their work. Now everyone needs a place to go, a place they call home, to escape work and the outside world. Your proposed arrangement means for the lady who would accept it, when she is out she is likely practicing her profession. But when she comes to her so called "home" to her room in this condo, she needs to still be an SP, or risk being evicted (that's something nice hanging over her head always) so she has no escape from her working world Maybe I'm wrong but it sounds like you want a sexual partner you can control and she is completely dependent on you My vote, don't RG

Thank you, Angela, for hosting another fantastic social. Thanks to the ladies and gents who made it out. And thanks to mistert for the fantastic baking (and remembering some gluten-free goodies!) I had a lovely, albeit short, time. Sadly, I had to behave and leave moderately early ;)

Good post Destiny and apparently once again another reminder needed ! You don't state PM as a preferred contact method and never have so a same day reply should never be automatically expected. You ladies particularly and all of us actually are busy peeps as a rule and reply as we can. As RG said, if a contact method is specified....use it please. Otherwise patience is a virtue. As far as your CAPITAL LETTERS....just an attention grabber which is A Okay with me and is sometimes needed. IMO Keep on truckin Destiny :)

The Better Built Bondage Book is a fantastic find. I own both editions and have purchased at least a dozen as gifts for friends. The projects are fun and easy to follow and the more substantial pieces, like the St. Andrews Cross, are beautifully thought out. In fact, I've built the cross three different times, in three different woods. I'd recommend red cedar, if anyone is asking. :)

Didn't come across as yelling or rude to me. It comes across by capitalizing her letters as she needs to emphasize her point, since apparently clients/potential clients aren't following simple contacting instructions. RG

Always, always use the lady's preferred method of contact. Nuff said RG

Then a sugar baby would be a way much better option :) Sugar babies and SP are two completely different entities.

I'm sure with the right SP it could be an excellent arrangement but you need to find someone who is trustworthy, honors her word, responsible and appreciative of the opportunity. If you find a girl like this, chances are she can put a roof over her head on her own. The girls that this offer would attract would be more trouble than convenient. At $250 a session that would mean she's paying $1000 to $1250 a month depending, she could rent her own place for less and not have a man have a key which allows him to walk in anytime. Our living space is our sanctuary and needs to be a soft, safe place to land after a bad day. She would infact be sharing her space with you even if you don't live there. Again, a woman with the characteristics I've listed above would hesitate to place herself in this kind of arrangement with an unknown man. The two of you would need to have an excellent relationship before hand if you expect her to trust you enough to follow thru with this... cat

My sweet Alicia smiles his her email address and what a smile she has! She was formally know as Adorable Chloe for those who were wondering and advertises on EC. Today was my third visit with Alicia since I discovered her in december and as always she rocked my world. I'm more about sensual sex than circus acts and so she fits my tastes just perfectly. She's a tease, a flirt and a naughty girl but always in a classy adorable way. So if you're into true GFE you will be well served with this little gem. I'm not the kind of guy who goes into graphic details about my encounters but I have to say that her DFK is simply intoxicating and her BBBJ (ymmv) is out of this world. When she stares back at you with those big beautiful eyes of hers while pleasuring you, I don't think anything can top that. What is also amazing about her is the fact that she really cares about you while you're with her. Always looking out to see if your needs are met, if you need a drink, setting up the bathroom for you and so on. Like a true GF in the honeymoon phase! lol I keep coming back to her because, contrary to other SPs I've seen, I feel like I'm on a date rather than I guy getting "serviced". We talk, we laugh we kiss passionately and we have AMAZING sex ... and we never argue ... What more can a guy ask for? lol Treat her well gents, she's a special little lady! As for her looks and stats go see her add on EC, photos there are 100% accurate, no disappointment there, and I'm VERY picky about a tight body.

A friend of mine wrote the Better Built Bondage Book and gave me a copy as a gift for helping him edit it. It's a DIY book on making your own BDSM furniture. It's been sitting unused on my bookshelf for years and it occurred to me that someone here might like it. It's a first edition so it looks a little different than the picture but it should still be the same content. If anyone wants it (free), just send me a PM.

'Intimacy 2.0' Dress Turns Transparent When You Get Sexually Aroused http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/05/intimacy-20-dress-transparent-sexually-aroused_n_2622920.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular Ladies, would you wear one? Guys, would you like to see this onto the ladies' fine forms? I think it's awesome :D

how exactly do you find the booths "not very private?" theres a wall from floor to ceiling in-between each stall and a curtain in front of the hallway that connects the pool-room etc. everyone thinks you can see in from the pool-room but you'd pretty much have to be right against the curtain peeking inbetween if you wanted to see anything from the lit area. ?

Thanks Angela for a great party and meeting some old and new faces. I also want to thank Mister T for all the baking he did for this party. It was very much appreciated! I'm looking forward to the next one!

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I think I can be called a geek! I remember the first electronic game I had ever played was the ping pong or tennis game. It was so primitive - thinking back now, it was so laughable! The first electronic console or personal computer that I had laid my hands on was the famous Atari. It was such a wonderful piece of machine! The graphics were an eye-opener! Before the WWW, does anyone remember the National Capital Freenet (NCF)? I was one of the first registered members. ;-) NCF was a non-profit community free ISP started by Carleton University and was only the second Free-net in the world. I remember I almost jumped with joy when I was able to access a reknown university in a Western European country and read an article in their library! Amazing how technologies have advanced since then!

I didn't just read your post, but hers too. She said "I don't mean to come off rude" to which I mentioned in my post it didn't sound rude. And I also mentioned it didn't come across as yelling. Capitalizing is a way to emphasize a point. To me, she was just emphasizing her point, nothing more RG

In the cyber world or the Internet, if you prefer, it is generally accepted that caps represent yelling or shouting. That being said, I don't believe the OP is yelling or being rude, but just her way to catch the attention of the readers.

Please do not try and turn this around on me. Again, I did not say she was being rude, please read my post.

Let's be clear, I did not say she was being rude. All caps is generally accepted as yelling. She is entitled to communicate as she chooses, I was just making a comment on her post.

she wasnt being rude, she had used caps to catch the eye of the reader. You cannot really clairify if she was yelling when the words are typed lol, im sure shes not yelling at her computer while shes typing.

I'm sure you're very frustrated, but yelling the first paragraph might not be the best way to get through to those you are trying to speak to.

assuming nothing is specified (i.e. don't check PM's regularly) how long do you wait for a reply to an email or PM before you assume no reply is coming?

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Every single time I read the title of the thread, I read it as "Your inner Greek". My mind is pervy, and I like it that way. Doctor Who! I f'ing love that show

Berlin is the winner of an autographed first edition. When the author finally dies in a tragic autoerotic asphyxiation accident, it will be worth a fortune. :-D

I agree with the others and definitely think it's a bad idea. On the surface, it sounds awesome. But when you really think about the setup and agreement - not cool.

Not to hijack this thread but vanilla isn't necessarily boring...at least for me it isn't. I enjoy female companionship and receive it here. And remember, Baskin and Robbins serves lots of flavours...including vanilla Don't worry about stepping up your game, if you and the lady are content in your encounters, that's what matters, not what others may be doing Now back to the thread :-) RG

Would you agree that we all have a responsibility to take care of ourselves, our children, our pets, our planet. I mean without it where would we live? Well then why do some feel it's not their resposibility to support themselves-educating themselves or working so they can be independent. You know those who think the welfare and unemployment systems were set up to provide them with a supplemental income or a break because they find it to hard to bust their asses working everyday like everyone else. Those who think they deserve it or are owed it. These systems were set up for those who through no fault of their own fall on dire straights/hard times and need a temporary helping hand until they get back on their feet. I mean why as a taxpayer should I pay to heat someones home, pay their rent, feed their children when they are as capable and have as many opportunities as I? THINK- If you are going to have unprotected sex and you have no education/no income, there is a possibility that you may become pregnant. This means you need the means to raise YOUR child or children. It shouldn't mean because you've been irresponsible others should have to pay a price. I'm not talking about mistakes, horrible situations like rape,ect. I'm talking about those who are simply and intentionally irresponsible.THINK-and when you milk the systems-working/supplementing your income with unemployment/welfare while making a decent living, thats stealing and it affects all of us and isn't fair to those who are truly in need. No one is owed a living! Why do some search for a free pet then when they get it think it isn't their responsibilty to spay and neuter it, allow it to roam freely and populate irresponsibilty. Adding to the already exploding pet population. In the USA alone more than 8 million strays come into shelters yearly. More then half of them are euthanized simply because there is no place for them-WHY? Owning a pet is not a right it's a privilge so when you get one take care of it! For it's life! Why do some feel it's their neighbours, teachers, everyone elses responsibilty but their own to rear and raise their children. Yes parenting is hard but it's your job! Help is available but the responsibilty lies with you to make sure your child is happy, healthy,well behaved, educated and provided with food and shelter. Why are some not bothering to recycle and compost. This I will never understand. It angers me even more when those with kids neglect doing this as they should have a more vested interest in the health of the planet. They have someone to leave it to! Yes life is busy but it only takes a minute to separate food waste, plastics, glass, papers. Come on!! Why do some who suck on cigarettes, eat bad food, drink excessivley-just live an unhealhty lifestyle think it's not their fault they became sick. In Canada we are lucky your hospital visit or doctor visit will not directly come out of your pocket but our system is strained so why not do our part to make sure we don't needlessly burden it. We all make mistakes from time to time and possibly may need help too. But to have the attitude that you don't care because you are or have been irresponsible I just don't understand. I mean WHY?

Honestly I was wondering how the response would be to this thread, maybe not a hostile response but I thought some SP's might get insulted. But that is not the case, I think the response is very reasonable. What I'm reading is that the offer puts a lady in a vulnerable position. She moves into another guy's apartment, no contract, no guarantee that the guy might find another SP he likes better and kick the first SP out. As someone else mentioned it would probably attract a lady who is in a bit of a desperate situation, otherwise she wouldn't up end her life and move into such a vulnerable situation. Just a note: Why did your username change to canuck----- when I quoted you?

Darling, if you want to live with a woman, get a bit of sex from her and officialize this with a contract, might as well just get married...joke joke! ;b But honestly, what if she doesn't respect the terms of your contract? Good luck fighting that in court...Don't forget that she would be considered as a tenant and therefore would have rights.

Cat perhaps you are right I may see things through a jaded filter. To much volunteer work, seeing to many abused dogs, cats and the like. Perhaps this has made me some what synical as well. I understand and appreciate that you would care to take the time to explain this to me, it means alot. I'm not sure if I can change, become more understanding, excepting or if I even want to. I don't see people as being mostly good. I do think there is good in some but not all. I also believe most people look out for themselves and will walk over anyone to get it. I am always surprised when someone says or does something kind for me-always. I give you a great amount of credit for not being like myself as you seem to have far more reason to be, having gone through what you have gone through. When I was younger I was more like you, I was more excepting and thought everyone was my friend and were good. That everyone would help if someone needed help, I was so niave. It's funny how we change with age. I guess our personality, how we are raised, experiences, who we associate with all plays into how we become who and what we are, how we see and treat others.As much as I want to understand why people do what they do, perhaps I am unable too. Mr. Crufty- thank you I appreciate what you have said as well, thank you for taking the time.

Speaking from experience, I know when I first started in the hobby, I found it very difficult to pick up the phone and call a service provider. Being a bit shy, it often took me a while to build up the courage to take that first step. Once I discovered CERB, it was a lot easier - I could use a PM to make that first contact and have a bit of back-and-forth correspondence with a lady. Sometimes it leads to an encounter, sometimes it doesnt. But it should still be polite and friendly. I'm thinking some of these one-liners might be on the shy side, and unsure what to say or how to open up the lines of communication. "Hi" might be all they can manage with the first contact. That being said, those that send out the "Available? Rate? Location?" texts or PMs simply lack class and respect! It's so easy to read a lady's ad, profile and/or website, find their preferred means of communicating, and touch base accordingly.

Reread my words carefully Miss Christy, there was no shot taken at you. I was simply showing you how different perception filters can take a situation and change ones feelings about it without the facts themselves being altered. The word "choose" is the key. I wrote "if I choose to read them thru a jade hued filter", I didn't say I made that choice, you assumed I did. And those who know me, know that I always give the benefit of the doubt when it comes to intention. You have jumped to conclusions and presumed to understand the meaning of my words before reading EXACTLY what I wrote. I meant every word, including the "thank you", you made the choice to read my words thru a jaded filter. I will admit that I wrote that paragraph as I did because I knew you would interpret it the way you did and I would be able to point out again that presumption and assumption are dangerous when it comes to interpreting intention and thought without personally knowing the person behind the situation. As for real life situations, I have lived thru more genuinely life threatening situations than I care to count. I'm not a religious person but I am deeply spiritual and one of my core beliefs is non judgement. I have stood my ground for what I believe to be right but I have learned not to see the other person/people as "bad" or turn them into enemies but to see them as human. There is no us vs. them, we are all flesh and blood. They are simply unaware and until they are ready, I realize that I cannot force awareness nor can I force responsibility. It must always come from within. I spent a little more than 2 years sitting in orange surrounded by women who are considered the bottom feeders of society. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Once the bravado had faded, their humanity appeared and not once did I see someone without genuine regret on some level about the things in their lives that they had done. Not one of them wanted to have the life they did, they wanted better but it really was beyond their reach or their capabilities. They fought a battle everyday that I can't imagine fighting for a lifetime. Their humanity didn't appear miraculously out of nowhere because they were in jail, it was always there but they were so accustomed to hiding it that they had forgotten it was there. I did cross paths with a couple of sociopaths and a psychopath but they are simply hardwired wrong and not the norm in my opinion. I'm genuinely sorry you felt thrown under the bus during this lively discussion. Again, it boils down to perception and filters. Actions have no intrinsic value until we chose one to place on it. Your position is neither right or wrong, it simply is and that's good with me... cat

Peachy would be ideal for a first encounter though she may spoil you for life. If you want to see a MPA try lusciouslilly or Michaelacaress

Research, read, pick one you like.....pick up your phone and call. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=125

Hello there, I am Ms. Powers, kinky alt provider from Toronto. I will be visiting Ottawa this Thursday to Saturday and I would be most pleased to treat myself to correcting your behaviour in any of the following ways: --Compel you to kiss each eyelet of my high-heeled boots --Shave your tender parts and then treat them to some severe squeezing and slapping --Dress you up in panties and stockings and write SLUT across your chest in my lipstick --Treat you as my personal toilet and fill your mouth with my piss --Introduce my cock into your tight little -----hole and pound you gently or cruelly - dependent on my mood of course --Invite you to wear your jammies and suckle at my nipple - milk guaranteed --Spank you with the utmost love to remind you that peeking in the window at teacher while she is alone is NOT appropriate --Grind my asshole all over your mouth, nose and face so you can't breathe because of all the luscious ass in your face --Force you to service my pussy with orgasm after orgasm while I read my magazine or watch television... Or whatever else I feel motivated to do to you. I have an all new latex pencil skirt and low-backed halter top, complete with Cuban heeled latex stockings and garter belt for you to stroke, lube up, and uselessly hump away at. I may laugh at you while you fumble. I entertain a number of fetishes and kinky ideas and I am always impressed by creativity. If there is something you like, ask nicely. I am open-minded and free-spirited. I will be visiting Ottawa Feb 7-9. You can contact me via PM, at [email protected] or 416 605 3910 (call or text). Research me at http://www.missroxypowers.com and see if that puny little penis of yours gets hard enough to call. Sincerely, Roxy Powers

I think a lot of it boils down to respect as well. As with any other aspect of life, if you treat people with respect, you're more likely to be respected back. As clients we are just as responsible as the ladies we spend time with for how much we both an encounter. Again as with anything in life, you get out what you put in. If your only goal is to get in and get off then you're not only disrespecting your partner, you're severely limiting your own enjoyment in what could be a fabulous experience. Obviously the experience is more enjoyable when all parties involved are 'into' it and having a good time. Watching someone else get turned on is an incredible turn on itself. And as Samantha says, the more experience you have, the more in tune you are with your own body and the more you learn what others like. The human body is a wonderful thing. You should take your time and enjoy all it has to offer!

I don't think that these generalizations apply to most of us, Harrywatch. Speaking for myself, as one who has had more than "many" partners, I have no difficulty whatever enjoying the sex. I often enjoy it a great deal. Perhaps this is because I take time to get to know the men who visit me and to create an atmosphere where we can be comfortable together and our mutual pleasure increased. In fact, I think that time and experience has enhanced my ability to enjoy everything that goes on between us.

It never hurts to cross reference your info with other sites. But if you are new to the hobby, it may be wise to stick to this bored. As it is tried, tested and true. New hobbiest are often times tricked as they are not familar with the industry and who is who. NOT TO SAY that ONLY ladies here are worth it meeting...but if you can not cross reference the ladies info then please go in with eyes wide open just as this poster did. You did the correct thing in double checking her age and contact info, good work! I wonder if she is working on her own will? This is a concern with such a young lady!! Perhaps the LE should be notified? I would hate to think she could be a victum of child abuse in anyway:(

. True but for New Brunswick there isn't much other then CL and BP, and both seem a bit risky. That's why I stick to cerb because I can get recos on the guys that I'm seeing. Also that's why I put other reputable agencies too , nb has a few. Just trying to help ..

And I'm just the opposite. In fact, "drive by" sex might very well describe my favourite kind of offering. These days, I find myself entertaining from home, a quick hop off and back on the 417 for those travelling through. It works well for them because they don't have to block out a half a day for a session. If they jump off the highway and spend a half hour with me, it's unlikely to raise too many questions about where they were. And it works well for me too! My family may be all the 4-legged furry kinds, but they demand a lot of my attention. Plus I have a life to live. I've always got books on the go, some project in the kitchen, something I'm in the middle of studying. A half hour break is refreshing for both of us, and we can each get back to our previously scheduled programming with renewed vigour and big smiles on our faces. I find an hour to be more than enough time for most people. Some enjoy longer, but two hours is simply the most I can do here at home because it's not just my home. The natives get restless if they're ignored much longer than that.

The last few Saturday mornings when I am actually not working I get up, make coffee and watch the bugs bunny and road runner hour and LMFAO :) That poor F'n coyote .... after all these years he still can't get a break ! ;) and Bugs is always one up on Elmer Fudd....that wascilly wabbitt and no I wasn't stoned !!!