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I understand that you're feeling impatient and want answers to your questions, as well as some tips and strategies about how to do things. Every question you've asked about the law is answered, several times, in the Legal discussion and most are referred to extensively in other areas, as well. For the most part, the best information comes from established, long-time members of the board so pay particular attention to their posts. When it comes to things like strategies for working outcalls, transportation, etc., those are important considerations and most are also discussed on the boards, here. Frankly, the best way for you to learn how to deal with these things would be to start with a good agency. Since you've not said where you are, it will be difficult for anyone here to make a recommendation in your area. Please don't take offense at what I'm going to say, but this part of your post is likely to be considered deeply insulting, not only to many of the ladies here, but also to many of the gentlemen as well. One critical thing that you need to understand is that the best so-called "high end" paid companions defend and are protective of women who work outdoors and those who have health problems and addictions. You won't find much tolerance on this board for denigrating any SP, anywhere, because of her looks or personal habits. We do discuss safer sex all the time and while we generally advise prospective clients to seek companionship from a reputable independent or a good agency, we don't put down women who, for many serious and difficult reasons, face so many challenges that they must work in compromising conditions. Your assumption that many companions offer poor quality and/or unsafe encounters is troubling. I don't know which sex workers' blogs you have been reading, or where you get your information, but as someone who has worked as an independent for many years, both in Toronto and in Vancouver, what you describe is not my experience, anywhere. No one should have to engage in activities she deems to be unsafe. Ever. I have to say, though, that I think your problems will have to do with not knowing how to screen potential clients and not knowing how to manage the volume of requests you would receive as a "new girl." These are also reasons to begin to work with a good agency. Starting out as an independent is tempting, but it's frequently a very bad idea. Yes, you'll make less per call with an agency. But you'll also have lower expenses and you'll be working with people who do know what they're doing and how the industry works. You need that knowledge and expertise behind you and, frankly, you don't have it yet. Without it, you will inevitably get into trouble. Are you aware that this statement verges on hostility? If you truly believe these things, I have to say that you don't really understand what the misconceptions and myths about the sex trade are. Speaking for myself, I have been a paid companion for over a decade. I have never engaged in any activity that I felt was unsafe--assuming, that is, that you're referring to things that increase one's potential for exposure to STIs. I'm also old enough to be your mother. I have never considered myself to be in competition with anyone. I work hard and I make a good living. I attribute my success to accepting the realities of this profession, to identifying my particular market niche and serving it very well, and to gaining the respect of my colleagues. That last thing--the respect of colleagues--is essential. If you do decide to work as a paid companion, no one, no matter how well-meaning or close to you, will understand what your life is really like. You will need the support and care of other companions so that you can stay safe, make good decisions and get support when things go wrong. No one ever avoids having things go wrong, regardless of what they may say. But there are ways to avoid some problems that you may not even imagine exist and there are ways to manage the things that you can't avoid. In general, we don't discuss these things in public forums. You will need to gain others' support in order to have access to this information. If you're just investigating this as an option, I would recommend that you find something else or some other way to take care of your problems. The sex trade is not the right thing for most women. If you're seriously considering becoming a paid companion, my advice is to step back, take some calming breaths and clear your mind. Only a minute percentage of women enter the sex trade because it's their ideal, intended career path. Nearly everyone has had some significant problem in her life and suddenly needs to earn a lot of money fairly quickly. In other words, most don't start out in the best frame of heart and mind. You can still do it, but you need to be careful, you need to be thoughtful and you need to learn to listen. An arrogant attitude will be a liability. Over-confidence is a mask for fear that prevents addressing the things that cause fear to begin with.

Some may think my statement harsh but if you know you are dealing with a 16 yr old you deserve prosecution, thats a child. In my opinion 18 is to young, but thats just me. I know in Canada you are considered an adult at 18 but that is still a teenager, so is 19 . It is alot to expect teens to deal with adults in their 30's,40's, 50's and beyond. Although I realize everyone matures differently I can only think back when I was a teen and I know I wasn't an exception to how immature and unprepared they can be.

This post is intended to gently educate those who contact me and after getting rates and info say " that much just for HJ?" NO IT IS NOT THE RATE FOR HJ, my sessions are full treatments that are skilled and for the whole duration of the time spent. You are booking the whole experience, no just what happens in the last 20 min! If you come in, and only have the end on your mind, you are going to miss the point:( The point being, time and place to feel pampered, aroused and to inspire the touch sensation that one may crave whilst not having to "go all the way". Just as when you are booking a GFE encounter, you are going to experience the many different hosting activities, including companionship, attention, sensuality, her personality and entertainment. NOT what happens only in the sac! It is about the whole experience from beginning to end. I hope that this helps you to understand, as it is disheartening for me to hear" that much JUST for HJ?" As it discredits the hard work, education and skill involved with this type of service:( Perhaps if you try it, you will see it much much more than JUST a HJ;)

I've heard from many women who were considering entering the sex trade but none of them has ever started the conversation by focusing on the kind of blowjob she thinks she might be expected to offer. Many men, however, do start with sexual activities when they ask about our profession. Even women who have had many boyfriends or casual sex partners generally find the notion of entering the sex trade to be daunting. They usually have many questions about what it means to be a prostitute; how they will feel engaging with many clients in a day or week; how other people in their lives would react to knowing what they're doing and how they plan to deal with that. Physical health and safety are important and the relief that comes from being able to address a serious financial problem is enormous, but there are emotional and psychological considerations involved, as well. For example, most of us find this to be a very lonely, isolating profession. How good are your relationships with friends and family right now? When have clear and constructive boundaries been a challenge for you? What did you learn? Where are your points of greatest vulnerability when it comes to engaging with other people? What are your coping mechanisms when you're under stress? How might your stress-management techniques be compromised or enhanced by working as a paid companion? What have your relationships with men, including boyfriends, lovers, teachers, employers, siblings, your father and grandfather been like? How have you managed pressure you've felt from men about important things like school work, employment, or their expectations of you because of your gender? You say that you're a small, slender woman. How have you handled men who are much larger and stronger than you are and who are, or have the potential to be, physically threatening? When a man is angry because he wants something from you, how do you respond--that is, how do you feel, deep inside, what do you do and how do you work through things later? When in your life have you found it difficult to say no to someone? What happened and why? When have you found it difficult to say yes, when you really wanted to? What happened then? Generally speaking, in your life do you tend to be obedient when someone tells you to do something? How important is it to you to please other people? If someone tells you to do something that you don't want to do, how do you feel? How likely are you to give in rather than take control of the situation constructively? Whether a covered bj is conservative or enlightened is a matter of debate. In our industry, every woman needs to decide for herself what she is and is not willing to offer when she entertains. There are plenty of women at every price point who are making a living, providing safe GFE including condoms for oral. There are also a lot of women who offer uncovered oral, but use condoms for everything else. You need to decide what your own risk tolerance is, how you will attend to your health care needs and how you will respond to pressure from clients who want to engage in activities that you may not have tried before, or may not want to participate in. What kind of oral you offer--if any--is only one consideration. So is anal sex. Digits is another. What about fetishes? Which ones might you be comfortable with and which ones will you not consider? What about duos? Who would you approach to be a duo partner? What level of involvement are you comfortable with when another woman is involved? What about couples? Or two men? Or more than two men? Stag parties? Poker nights? Toy shows? What about male duo partners? Suppose a prospective client invites you to travel with him--would you consider it? How will you maintain your safety and limits when you're not in a situation that you control, potentially far away from home and dependent on a virtual stranger? How do you imagine working? Will you do half hour meetings? What about quarter-hour quickies? Do you prefer to accept only two-hour engagements or longer? What is your preferred age range? If you think that the majority of your clients are likely to be guys in their early 20s, think again! Are you comfortable with older men? How old? Consider, for example, men in their 50s, 60s and 70s. How comfortable are you with men who may remind you, in some ways, of your father or grandfather? This is actually a very important consideration, particularly if, as I suspect, you plan to be setting your rates near the upper end of the range in your part of the country. Who do you think can afford to pay your fees? Are there enough of them where you're living and working to provide enough of the sort of work you imagine doing? How do you know? This is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to things a new SP needs to think about. Very little of it is about blowjobs.

Considering the recent discussions here on CERB about fat/skinny body shaming, I wanted to share this amazing website that I came across today! "The Nu Project is a series of honest nudes of women from all over the world. The project began in 2005 and has stayed true to the original vision: no professional models, minimal makeup and no glamour. The focus of the project has been and continues to be the subjects and their personalities, spaces, insecurities and quirks." It is quite a remarkable collection of photographs of a wide variety of real women. It is a showcases and celebrates the beauty in ALL women's bodies, in their natural state. All unique and beautiful in their own way! :) www.thenuproject.com Enjoy!

Hang on a minute though. In the era of Fox News, we can't dismiss the fact that corporate media can absolutely seize upon an audience's worst instincts and fan that flame into a bonfire if it will turn a profit. I agree that men and women have been checking each other out and assigning themselves a rung on the ladder since the start of the species. It's not the media's fault that we're like that. But... it deserves some blame for reinforcing that message almost every minute of every day. Private media exists to make money, and it's hugely profitable to exploit people's insecurities about self-image and whether they actually deserve to be loved at all. It starts with just showing us what we already want to see -- check out the conspicuous youth and beauty of everyone on American television. People will tune in more if every cop and scientist is hot. But there's also advertising that earnestly tells everyone in the audience that YOU have a beauty problem getting in the way of true happiness, and it has just the solution to sell you. What's that Don Draper says? "Love was created by guys like me to sell nylons". I wish it was just the simpleminded who made easy prey, but even smart people can trip over their innate insecurities. And slickly produced media -- television, magazines, the ads on billboards and in bus shelters, everywhere you look -- spend a lot of money to exploit those insecurities and turn them into money. They've had a long time to get very, very good at it. There's a science. We kind of take it for granted that the media works this way, but it doesn't have to. We can stop it. After all, you don't see cigarette ads any more; the ads themselves were bad for everyone. They made promises they could never keep ("You'll be as handsome and rugged as a cowboy!") and took your money and your health in the process. Maybe we shouldn't stop with cigarettes. Is our mental health less worth protecting? But there's a fight to be waged against a deeply entrenched habit of thought. Check out the sometimes ugly backlash against Girls, an intriguing show that defies conventions of beauty and the male's expectations of women's behaviour. One of its main artistic pillars: "fuck the male gaze". In the same way, the campaign that's the focus of this thread is still the exception in today's world of messaging... and that's pretty sad. (Sorry, that went on longer than I planned. Constructed culture is a big subject for me.)

To Cyclo: I really hate to hijack on this thread, but I would caution the OP or any lady to heed to your advice. Although I am sure well meaning, some or actually a lot of what you are saying can be challenged. For example, I would beg to differ that the SP should NOT reveal the name of her hotel the day before, but general area of the city she is staying in, eg downtown hotel east west of the Canal. Even saying Lyon Street would be a dead give-away. I would also encourage the SP to have a working cell which if not published on her website or ad, she can give out to the client via email and if she isn't comfortable giving it out until she has a feel for him, insist on his number and a specific time she can call him or he can call her to speak to him in person, so she has a voice to go with the email. Then I would suggest she get him to call her back on that cell when he is at the hotel, then she can give him the room number. To communicate solely by email or even text (which sometime fail) without a call-back number between the two parties is a recipe for disaster and not part of a good safety screening procedure. There are many different screening methods, and I personally do not book/confirm any appointments until I have spoken to the gentleman at least 1 hour prior to the appointment and I never give out my exact location until the client confirms he is in the area. But that's me. Also, there is no need to call the money "a donation" because sex for money is not illegal in Canada and this is a business transaction and there should be no shame in discussing the business part at the beginning of the session. This is how discrepancies arise when the parties refuse to discuss the fee and sometimes the envelope ends up being short. There are ways to handle things with tact that don't have to come off as cold. And the telephone is not a public place, so unless you are standing outside beside a crowd of people discussing your business, you are afforded the right to privacy and can speak freely. By the way, in the "old days" we most did outcalls to residences and I rarely had problems with people hiding in the closet or others home. The only reason why most ladies don't do outcalls to residences now days is a lot of people don't have landlines and it's virtually impossible to verify/confirm someone to their address if all they have is a cell phone. At least that's why I don't do as many. Oh, and I don't head out after midnight or accept invitations from impaired people or go to sketchy neighbourhoods. To the OP: Anyways, I think I've said enough to make my point, that when asking advice, you need to be careful who you ask and what they tell you. Don't believe everything you hear or read. Even after more than 15 years in this industry, I am still learning.

Quite frankly, I'd keep reading--I don't think you know as much as you think you do about the sex industry. I don't mean that as an insult--we all had to start somewhere. best, Berlin

In my personal opinion, i think there is nothing like gaining the experience.., since you seem to be very new in the business scene.., and have so many questions and concerns...perhaps you should either look into joining a reputable agency in your area or perhaps try to have an experienced sp to mentor you..., so you can learn about all the legal, and any other aspects..., and make sure that this is the right chice for you :-) Good luck!

I beg to differ with the hapless (hopeless) caller she references. He is not paying anything for the HJ. Yes, you read that right. No charge for the HJ. He is, however, paying for her time and attention. If he pays for an hour and chooses to only go for the HJ, that's his choice. Had he chosen additional activities during that hour the price remains the same. Personally, I believe the erstwhile fine women of CERB should tack on an extra $10 for each stupid and insensitive question/statement.

Thank you so much for posting this documentary, Shawn! I'm quite certain I've seen it before, but at the time I wasn't an escort and it was really nice to watch it again not only with my experiences as an escort, but also my experience as an escort with clients who have (dis)abilities. At 13:42, when the client being interviewed mentions that "tonight is very important" and he has the most wonderful smile on his face I couldn't help but tear up... Sex and disability is something most people don't think about seriously. In fact, it's often brushed off as something 'impossible' and/or 'unknowable'. People with visibile/invisible (dis)abilities are often believed to be 'asexual' and not in need of love and intimacy. This is especially the case with people who have invisible disabilities (autism, down syndrome, etc)... If people with (dis)abilities are sexual, it is considered perverse, wrong, 'abnormal'... it's really sad. I love when one of the women in the documentary states that "everyone has a right to sexual expression, including those with (dis)abilities". Very true! When I screen new patrons I almost always ask whether they have any mobility issues I should know about, and/or other (dis)abilities I should be aware of. If there are, I often research the best way to ensure we both have a good time. A book that has been really helpful for me is called "The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability" by Miriam Kaufman, Cory Silverberg, and Fran Odette. It was referred to me by my friend, Tgirl-Kay. It's really good and I would encourage anyone interested in having pleasurable sex with someone with a visible and/or invisible (dis)ability to read it!

Thought this was pretty funny What do you enjoy in a hand job?

It always amazes me when people will not seek medical advice because of their fear of being judged. Quite frankly, your doctor doesn't really give a damn. He/she is there to help you with any and all health issues which are kept confidential.

Please don't mess around! If you, or your friend, are experiencing erectile dysfunction (ED), you really do need to see a doctor. ED is often a symptom of a significant medical problem such as diabetes or cardio-vascular disease. It can also be a side effect of some kinds of medication, such as drugs for high blood pressure or depression. If you have a health problem, you need to address it before you start taking a drug that is intended to have a significant, albeit temporary, effect on your vascular system. Most people imagine that ED is a natural part of aging, but this isn't exactly correct. While all men experience occasional problems with erections at some point in their lives, and while many men report that the frequency with which they have erections gradually diminishes as they age, if we were not so sedentary, got much more exercise and had far healthier diets, there would be a much lower incidence of ED generally. If you're worried about what your doctor may think if you ask for a prescription for Viagra or another drug, maybe you need to see a doctor with whom you can feel more at ease. If your concern is that the doctor may mention this to your partner, you definitely need to find a doctor who respects your confidentiality. Most do! Trust me, your doctor has seen many men who are younger, better looking and in better physical condition than you are who ask about this medication. In fact, seeking a prescription of this kind is one of the most common reasons for a man to see his doctor. One of my long-time clients is in his early 60s. About 18 months ago, after experiencing an irregular heart rate, he had quadruple bypass surgery. His doctor wouldn't prescribe Viagra for him for a year because of the potential strain the drug could pose for his cardio-vascular system. During that year, he changed his diet, got into a great exercise routine and lost 75 pounds. Viagra is now working magnificently for him. :icon_wink: Don't take chances. Get a check-up!

I have had the honor of an encounter with the lovely Miss Sophia and I will say if all you are looking for is a HJ, go buy yourself a magazine and give yourself one. If you want to be pampered and treated royally and made to feel wonderful, give Miss Sophia what she asks for and enjoy the experience. She has the looks, body and moves you will want more of, she is experienced, knowledgeable and very good at what she does, you will leave happy, satisfied and relaxed - in more ways than one. (in fact, it's damn near time I saw her again!) remember, it's the journey not just the destination. I know some people who will tie you up, blindfold you and give you pleasures beyond belief, all the while you are thinking you are getting the best BJ or ride of your life, and they use nothing more than their hands. there is nothing any more erotic than ones own imagination, step out of the tiny box you are living in and experience life's offerings! namaste

I think threads like this are more important than we even realize as self acceptance is first and formost in becoming a well rounded human being, hence living a healthy productive life. So if you are a parent teach your children messages like this, confidence, acceptance of themselves and others, to love because anything that is loved unconditionally will emit beauty. Share these lessons, messages and thoughts as they can never be told and seen to often. I too am a beliver in the power of the media to convolute the minds of the weak, not unlike a bully who demeans a vulnerable victim and causes them to think they are unfit as they are and need to conform to something "ideal". There is nothing more beautiful than a confident person, it truly is a persons best asset.

Phaedrus and Gabriella Laurence on reaching 3000 posts, it is quite and achievement. I know because I have been here for over 4 years and have recently reached that mark myself and can say this is a great place to be. So congrats to you both and keep up the good work.

If they only want to pay for a HJ they are missing the point completely. I would actually like to have a session with the lovely Sophia without the HJ to be honest. A wonderful massage by a lovely sexy lady is all a guy wants sometimes.

Thanks, all! And congratulations to my friends NJ and Gabriella!

Congratulations to three wonderful contributors to this board.

Congrats to all three of you great contributors!

Chocolate covered bacon: Or better yet, bacon dipped in maple-chocolate pudding

Congrats to you gorgeous Gabriella xo Congrats to you Phaedrus :) And congrats to you too Notch Johnson ;) ! Keep em coming ;) Vanessa xoxo

Ahhhhhh, thanks NJ and congratulations to you too and our friend Phaedrus! Naughty, naughty Angela... I love the way you think! A MMF with these two sexy guys? Who could ever say no to that? It would be quite the celebration party!

:bigclap:Congradulations to you notch, Phaedrus, Gabriella on reaching 3000.

congrats Phaedrus gabriella and also to Notch keep them coming

Congratuations to you too Notch! Oh, and of course Phaedrus and Gabriella. Mmmm MMF party?

Congrats on hitting the 3000 post mark Gabriella, Phaedrus & notch Johnson....

Just a lovely post and reminder about a woman's beautiful natural look. We are all victims, men and women to the Hollywood glamour look. Some men really believe that a woman ought to look like the pictures we see in mags, TV and of course the wonderful net. Thank you to those that do not, I have visitors tell me all the time not to fuss and fume with my "look", they are coming to visit me not my dress and all that adorns. Thanks guys!! :icon_smile: I am just as much a victim as I fall all the time and forget that I am beautiful just as I am. Seems these days there is always something that needs fixing or doing extra to shine. It is much nicer to shine through our love and actions than the dress or body we present. Such a delima isn't it for all of us?

The Current CBC Radio One In search of equal opportunities in sexual expression: Sex & Disability Anan Maria interviews Dave Symington, Kirsty Liddiard, Cory Silverberg in this amazing segment on sex work and disability.

^im applying :P I'm an elf that stands at 6 foot though. Will that do?

The phone system has been activated as of today. Also keep watch for our new website and many more exciting updates very very soon :)

Hey, Im working, today till 6, tomorrow 11-6 and thrus 2-9. New Location, CMJ east. Come in to see me if your a member call the spa, if not and want to try out msg me xoxoxoxo Jordyn

Hey there... I am fairly new to the business & If your looking for some sweet attention or affection ill be sure to satisfy you 100% with pleasure... I give a very good massage and I offer full nude body slides...I am super easy to talk to and have an extremely bubbly personality. Come enjoy my tight body and beautiful assets, while I make you feel relaxed, turned on and glad you came.... Feel free to check out my profile and my pictures! SCHEDULE: Monday, Feb 25 9am-9pm Tuesday, Feb 26 9am-9pm Thursday, Feb 28 9am-11pm Call 613-820-8887 to book an appointment

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Congrats you 3!

If you don't know the name of the person in the room, the front desk won't tell you. And if you're staying at one of the hotels like the Holiday Inn Express who program your name into the call display from the hotel, don't use the phone in the room to call out.

The following is by no means a dietician's opinion, nor a doctor's, but the carbohydrates (sugars) come from the starch in pasta. Whole wheat pastas, with a high fiber content, slow down the absorption of sugars, thus avoiding (at least) some of the sugar spike. Fortified pasta could be an alternative (high in protein, from eggs or legumes, and with added barley or oats for fibers). Quinoa, Barley and spaghetti squash are often used as alternative to pastas as well (cooked in a stock would give more flavour). I believe veggie ribbons made from non-starchy veggies are a good alternative as well as (zucchini, yellow summer squash, eggplant, peppers and cabbage) but i have never tried them. Cant think of common brand names, but hopefully this will give you some ... food for thought (haha) for what to look for....

Today I learned to listen to the bottle of glue when it says "do not get in contact with skin". I glued my fingers really GOOD. haha Nail polish remover fixed it though.

I think that a lot of women feel very insecure about their genitals because they imagine that whatever they have--large labia, long inner labia, heavy clitoral hoods, etc.--is somehow wrong. Most women never see another woman's genitals, ever, unless they're health care professionals. There are a couple of books with photographs, showing the incredible variety, but they're not standard coffee table fare. I always feel a bit sad when a client tells me he wants to perform oral because his regular partner won't let him do it, usually because she seems to feel ashamed, awkward or ugly. That's so sad!

To three fabulous board members congratulations to you 3! Your input to the board is greatly appreciated!

Great post Emily! Not to hijack, but another great vid is model Cameron Russell talking about how she doesn't want little girls to want to grow up to be her--she won a "genetic lottery" etc. It's more relevant as something I think parents should show younger daughters, but it's a good message.

You may have missed the bacon vodka, but you can still get bacon beer. From an Ottawa brewer, no less! Look for Aporkalypse Now. It's actually much nicer than you'd expect.

Congratulactions to Gabriella, Phaedrus and NJ 3 valued members and contributors to this community RG

I have been wanting to meet Peachy for a few years now and I finally set a date with this young beauty. I booked for a early morning and she had no problem accommodating me with that. Peachy has a sweet voice and she contacted me a half hour before our date and the sound of her voice got me more excited to meet her. I show up on time and she lets me in her building and finally a knock on the door and I'm in. She is gorgeous, I can't keep my eyes off of her beautiful face and sexy body. Peachy greeted me in a nice dress and I could see it hugging her cute round bum so when we embraced I went for the feel and it was great. We enter the bedroom and she invites me to get more comfortable so I do. I was staring at her beautiful brown eyes and the smile from her lips and had to go for the kiss, she gives the sweetest little kisses ever. I will try to keep the rest of my recommendation PG 13 but it is hard not to go into details and give this young lady all the credit she deserves. I will say this, I have taken 4 showers in my short stay at Peachy's place, She had the choice of calling me by 2 names my Cerb handle name or my real name but she called me the name of another guy and I have checked his name is not on the Cerb members list, she called me Jesus Christ. I might just change my handle to that name so there would be no more confusion next time I visit her(because there will be a next time for sure). I will add that Peachy as got great hands, she offered me a massage and I totally enjoyed it, it relaxed me and it also turned me on again. I got to experience the special "chair" that she has and we assumed many position on it and yes we went to the swing and that was fun as well. To finalize my recommendation I will say that her pictures don't do her justice, I wish she could have another album with more pics. Thank you Peachy for the wonderful morning we spent together. This experience gets a Top Notch Seal of approval. Thanks Peachy, until next time, XOXO NJ aka. Jesus Christ by Peachy

Christian Bale is not Batman. Morgan Freeman is not God. Angelina Jolie is not Lara Croft. Jane Smith from Nepean is not really the sultry Alotta Fagina, although like Batman, God and Lara Croft, she is a carefully crafted role executed to the highest standards. Men get to see the persona named Alotta Fagina because that is the entity with whom she is willing to share. Jane from Nepean remains cloistered. While Alotta lounges on a chaise wearing satin, silk, and chiffon sipping champagne with impeccable makeup, Jane is at home sleeping on her couch wearing track pants and a t-shirt with paint stains. While Alotta is a capricious bon vivant, Jane worries about her cable bill, her condo fees and her mortgage payment. She hopes her car will last at least two more years. When the lines gets blurred, the role changes. Like many of you, Alotta wishes anonymity when she reverts to Jane. She may be a sister, an aunt, a daughter, a mother or perhaps a wife. She has taken risks not unlike our own; her private life is her refuge - a place not to be breached unless invitation is offered. Enjoy the company of your provider. The intimacy you share is magical. Just remember that when you are finished, you BOTH get to return to your other lives.

I think if women saw one another as men see us we may be less critical of one another. There is no one that is harder on another woman than another woman. Men don't see our flaws the way we see them. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but the beholder should realize beauty comes in all shapes,sizes and colors and true beauty isn't always visible.

A burger and fries from "Five Guys". Very tasty

Beer.. 'nuff said!