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But wait!!!! There's more. Guys, the more you post, the bigger your junk gets. It's a scientific fact. Sure, when he joined CERB in the days when internet was on the radio, PistolPete was just "Pistol" Pete.... but in the past number of years, Pete is more accurately known as Bazooka Joe . Yes.... posting can make a big difference. RoamingGuy has to move to a larger apartment just to accommodate his massive wiener. Neighbours have asked him to walk down the middle of the street after winter storms; he can actually attach a commercial snow plow to his stuff. People in his town love him. They pay less taxes. CERB posting did that. Not enough for you??? Hmmmmmm???? Try this on for size. You know those providers that say they don't watch the clock? It's true, but only if you post meaningful stuff on the threads. I booked a two hour outcall in June 2012. SHE'S STILL HERE. But please read quietly, she has been sleeping since mid march... How's this? I have sold the rights to my posts to major publishers for 389 BILLION dollars. The information garnered from threads has made me a multi-trillionaire. I'm fucking LOADED. I own, that's right own three nations in Central America and am brokering a deal that will see me buy New Zealand. I am changing the name to Old Dogland. I had migrant workers seek the greatest treasures worldwide. Gold-plated toilet... pffffft. My crapper is actually made from one massive and expertly carved diamond. The seat is 3240 karats of flawless diamonds held together by unicorn phlegm. Rare?? Hellz ya. Posting did that. Posting changed my life. Posting can change your life. Still not enough??? Okay. For every post a lurker makes, Sara McLachlan and Alex Trebeck will save a homeless kid in a developing nation and a puppy. In fact, Sara and Alex will give that homeless kid the puppy. Have a heart!!!! It's for homeless kids without puppies. Think what joy that will bring. There will be gleeful kids dancing in the streets accompanied by their happy puppies... dancing for GOD'S sake. You can do that... with one post, a few keystrokes... not even pennies a day. Five posts means five kids with five puppies. Have a fucking HEART. Look at this puppy: Doesn't she deserve a home and a kid of her own??? Go on... post... touch that keyboard... it's a moment of your time, but to a kidless puppy it means an eternity of hope, joy and kibble.

Peachy, I you want to be a safe gfe go ahead. I've been in the industry for a few years, have NEVER done a bbbj, and do more than fine. Yes i've had some backlash against it, even been pressured during appointments. I've received verbal abuse and the like, for not providing it. So i'm not going to lie to you and tell you its all peaches an cream being a safe gfe, some people feel entitled to certain services from sp's, we should just do what they want because they are the customer and they want it, so you should give it to them. However,all hope is not lost. On restructuring my business, i found something interesting.As I prefer to meet with clients who want to spend time with ME, not so much as the services i provide, i found that clients who want to connect on a a deeper level aren't too concerned with menu so much as experience and what kind of connection you can provide. In my case i like to provide a whole enriching meal instead of just one main appetizer, and i enjoy the company of gents who appreciate this about me. There are many gents out there who subscribe to the same school of thought. Your health is the most important thing, and I'm tired of hearing the same song by sp's saying they want to provide all safe services but can't for loss of business. Yes you will lose business, but you will gain a different client base who appreciate a lady who cares enough about both parties health enough to protect herself. Your clients that genuinely care for you and your well being will stick by you. They others, well.......

The demands placed on service providers, as stated over and over again in this thread, in private and in general, over the past 10-15 years have become increasingly outrageous, health-wise, mentally and financially...to the determent of the ladies blatantly and the industry as a whole. There are a wide range of ladies in this business for an even wider range of reasons, always has been, always will be...some are forced, some have no other alternatives, some are experimenting, some have habits to support, some are trying to accomplish a goal, some have chosen this as their very respectable profession....whatever the reason, it is and should be regarded as a safe, no strings attached luxury service being offered for adequate compensation. In the past ten years, the demands and expectations that the industry/clients have put on not only escorts, but exotic dancers and erotic massage providers as well, is out of control...in my opinion. Dancers are expected to do more than just dance, massage attendants are expected to do more than just massage and escorts are expected to do more than just full service...no matter what a woman's limits or comfort levels are in this business, they are constantly being forced and pressured to cross the line...for much less. Women have to DO more, GIVE more, BE more intimate and make LESS or starve/be shunned because there is always someone else who will do more and charge less for it...they have no other choice or simply don't care/are unaware about their safety, the integrity of the industry or the bigger picture/consequences of their actions...actions which affect everyone eventually. Has anyone thought about how sad it is that a beautiful and talented woman cannot earn a living as a dancer just performing an erotic strip tease anymore? Dancers are expected to practically be an escort for $20 a song on a chair in a back room now... A massage attendant cannot earn a living only providing an amazing full body massage...MAs are constantly expected and pressured to do more and be more intimate on a massage table than an escort should even have to be! An escort cannot come close to earning a decent living only providing companionship and safe full service....she is expected to provide an unprecedented list of services, take extremely unhealthy risks over and over and over again on a daily basis for less than it costs most people to fill their car with gas and she is expected be completely happy about it day after day. More and more very young, completely naive, inexperienced women are entering the sex industry and these are the expectations they are being faced with, they are being told/learn that this is the way it is and so this is what it has become. If its not provided by one, its provided by another, for whatever reason...of course there is going to be a rise in BBFS....just as the demand for BBBJs, DFK, DATY and even GREEK, which were all completely taboo and unheard of practices years ago, are now fully expected, by the majority of clients, as services provided in a basic encounter with an escort...BBFS is not a far stretch when BBBJs and DFK/DATY are already commonplace, think about it. In general, a service provider, who does not openly meet these expectations, is not considered "worth it" by the majority of clients today (extremely sad to say)...if she does not provide these options and an unheard of level of intimacy, at the drop of a hat for a ridiculously low price to boot...someone will and no one will want her eventually. So, what are her options now? Everyone needs to take a hard look at what has happened in the past ten years...take a look at the alarming rise in STDs in Ottawa alone, the strength of Gonorrhea and Chlamydia, the comeback of Syphilis (transmitted/contracted orally as well, don't kid yourself)...the "unrestricted" services being demanded and provided by "non-crack addicted" service providers...why? Because its expected and financially they feel they have no choice..."supply and demand", right? With all due respect to the beautiful ladies and gentlemen on this board and beyond, ask yourself, are you part of the problem or part of the solution...and in reality, which one do you really want to be? BBFS is not the shocking beginning to the decline of safety in this industry its the grand finale.

Dear virtual husband #2, you know I like you but this thread has no place on Cerb. This matter should be discussed in private with Mod and the other individual involved--unless you are seeking advice on how to deal with abusive PMs--without mentioning names or hinting at them publically. This thread will serve no purpose other than to add fuel to the fire... A virtual spanking on the way ;) G xox

Persistent insistance coupled with ignorance and financial survival... cat

My best suggestion then is to report, so they can be booted as well. If they are giving you a hard time, then let MOD deal with it. Just my two cents...maybe five cents as there are no more pennies!

Great thread and poll When I offered GFE,yes I did feel preasure to offer BBBJ. I was always on the fence with it. However I DID NOT put it in my ads as I did not want every person to think that they were entitled to that. The client that has been with me for long time,usually I would offer it,but not the fly by night client that I know nothing about I did not offer. Even then my long term client could be decieving me and I still would not know it. It is not an issue for me now as I am MA....but if I were GFE still, I think at this point, you would need to be a very very very special client for me too offer this. HFX has a huge problem right now with cyphilas, and it remindes me that the extra 50 is not worth me getting sick or passing it to my lovely hubby:(

I think that any time the condom comes off, the uncovered act that follows is exactly as unsafe as it was 30 years ago. You're diving "head-first" into one big pool of shared particles populated by your SP and all of her clients, and all of their partners, and all of yours. There's no getting around that. That's compounded by the recent (and inevitable) rise of antibiotic-resistant strains of STDs in the news. It's not just AIDS that can change your life forever.

I somewhat agree with what you are saying...but at the sametime it is very easy to say, risks are involved-to each thier own. The risks you take , should you receive a bbbj are much less than the woman who provides (5-20) bbbj`s per month. The risk is signifigantly higher. And I guess why the bbbj thing is mentioned is because it seems like we all pretend like its ok, and nothing could ever come from doing this...when the risks are real and scary. :)

Saturday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 10-4 aka "Kelly2010" Taylor 10-4:30 aka "Taylor_xo" Charlie 3:30-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Tiffany 4-9 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Sunday Kelly 10-2:30 aka "Kelly2010" Hannah 10-4 aka "Hannahxo" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Lexi 3:30-9 aka "Sexy Lexi" Tiffany 4-9 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Maya 2:30-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Monday Lexi 10-5:30 aka "Sexy Lexi" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Taylor 10-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Jenna 5-11 aka "Jenna69" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Tuesday Tiffany 10-7 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Taylor 3:30-11 aka "Taylor_xo" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Wednesday Nicky 10-5:30 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Lexi 10-4 aka "Sexy Lexi" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Tiffany 3:30-11 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Taylor 3:30-11 aka "Taylor_xo" Jenna 5-11 aka "Jenna69" Thursday Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Nicky 10-7 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Taylor 3:30-11 aka "Taylor_xo" Friday Lexi 10-5 aka "Sexy Lexi" Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Nicky 10-5:30 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Tiffany 4:30-11 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Jennie 5-11 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Saturday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Jennie 10-4 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Kennidi 3:30-9 aka "Kennidikummings" Sunday Maya 10-9 aka "MidnightMaya" Hannah 10-4 aka "Hannahxo" Jennie 10-4 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Lexi 3:30-9 aka "Sexy Lexi" Taylor 3:30-9 aka "Taylor_xo"

Well, I have been a little timid myself about posting, but I am trying to get the hang of it!

It's not like your being asked to write a P.hD thesis here. I'm sure many of you read recommendations from guys who contribute to help in chosing a lady to see. So when you have a good encounter with a lady contribute by writing a recommendation to help another guy decide on who to see. Or post a joke, or a song, or your opinion on a topic on one of the forums Remember this isn't a website which you just read. This is a forum which needs the positive participation of all it's members RG

As much as I am 100% against BBFS, I would definitely take with a grain of salt the "information" posted on there as we have no idea who it is coming from and the reason why it is being posted in the first place. How easy would it be for anyone (man or woman) to post anonymously that "so and so" is offering BBFS in order to damage or destroy the lady's reputation? Too easy if you ask me.

Hi Everybody! I don't know if I'm too much of a newbie to start a thread, especially one on such a strong subject but it's one that I feel very strongly about: BBFS in the Hobby, I don't get how anyone can justify it. Browsing other boards that are, lets say, less politically correct than this one I see an increasing amount of talk around either more and more SPs offering BBFS ... one post even had a link to a BP ad near TO where the SP has it listed in her extras!! ... or johns asking for it, sometimes very aggressively according to some ladies. It seems prevalent enough that they even started a board dedicated to the pursuit of this dangerous activity!! (I won't promote it here) Unless I'm really behind the times and some new miracle cure as been invented for all STDs isn't this pretty much the most dangerous activity to experiment in? Also, being a DATY lover this "trend" is scaring the living crap out of me. Aside from the very obvious heath risks involved (HIV being at the top of the list), the thought of ... squeamish people turn away now! ... licking up someones sloppy seconds is totally disgusting!! ... call me a prude but I won't even snowball my own stuff! lol Levity aside I don't want to die, or be incapacitated, from this hobby because a few morons (male and female alike) want to play russian roulette with their sex lives. Now a few posters, again on other boards, have suggested starting screening new SPs when booking by asking if they provide the service as if you want it, the logic being they will then expose themselves more freely. Really not sure about this one, First I would need to play the creep (not my style), and second using this method might put me on the blacklist with the careful, reputable ones and ruin my rep. I mainly repeat with 2 lovely ladies I'm very comfortable with but I like to "explore new territory" once in a while so a screening method would help ease my mind. Any comment on the subject ... from both Service Providers and fellow hobbyists ... would be appreciated. Also, I'm very curious as to what the general consensus on the subject is? Am I overreacting here or is it as dangerous as I feel it is? Is it something that's more prevalent in other market/cities where competition is more fierce?

Sooooo.... For strictly educational purposes, I have been studying the nude female form on the internet. I know what you are saying, "God Bless you Old Dog for making such a sacrifice for the benefit of CERB." Really my friends, it has been an honour to serve my community in such a manner. I know this has been a topic discussed before BUT... it's so damn much fun to talk about . When I was a kid back in the dark ages, the female form and the actors in the Planet of the Apes had one thing in common. Robust foliage. A vast amount of shrubbery. A tree lined avenue to paradise. A big bush out front to keep the neighbours from seeing the valuables. Then came marriage. <shudder> When I re-emerged into the land of the enlightened, I had noticed a change to the landscape. Women had decided (without my input, I may add) to trim the hedges.... way back. A clean front yard to match the back as it were. No extraneous vegetation. Curtains no longer needed to match the carpet. The wall to wall broadloom was removed for hard wood floors. I tell you it came as quite a shock. My ex rarely let me near the garden. So to see a wealth of women sporting the clean as a whistle look I was at first dismayed, but I have become used to it. BUT NOW..... here's the thing. I finally got used to seeing women sporting that newborn look when all of a sudden.... it seems to be changing. I see little welcome mats. Table runners. Throw rugs in all shapes and sizes. Some are even going back to a sleeker version of the acquired growth. Every site has a good percentage of women that are sporting some degree of folicular activity in the nether regions. So I ask (for purely educational purposes only) is this a trend that is re-emerging? And how do we feel about it? I know for me, bare is great but I have always had a fondness for just a smidgen of what emerged at puberty. It doesn't have to be like the amazon rain forest, but a nice little landing strip just sets me more at ease. What are your thoughts?

I think this whole issue is a matter of one's health. A lot of folks believe that BBBJ's are fairly safe and that is not necessarily true, the same with DATY. If a SP sees several clients each month and provides BBBJ for each of them it will be only a matter of time before she will catch something and may not even know she has and will pass something on. This is indeed a controversial topic and probably always will be, but the bottom line is we don't live in a STD free world and really no one knows who has been with whom, or where they have travelled on this planet, etc. I strongly feel that SP's shouldn't feel pressured to provide the service as they are lovely ladies who should be treated with love, respect and kindness and most of all safety! My two cents.

Viruses and bacteria mutate and change--evolve--quickly compared to much more complex organisms like human bodies. Their adaptability is what makes it so difficult to wipe them out. It's also what makes it difficult to know that you're infected. It's common for someone to have gonorrhea or syphilis alive and active in their throat but producing no symptoms for them. No sore throat, no irritation, nothing that might incline them to see a doctor. They feel healthy and so they're able to spread the infection without knowing or meaning to do so. Most SPs get tested regularly. But if I get tested today, the results are only a snapshot of my health status at the time the test was taken. I could harbour an infection that isn't detectable yet, but might be tomorrow or next week. However, I only get tested every 3 months, so I won't know that I'm infected until sometime in June unless I start having unpleasant symptoms of some kind. If I had a dollar for every man who told me that he was "clean," I could probably retire comfortably. When I ask how they know that they're so clean, most will say that they feel fine, they have no symptoms and their wives or girfriends are symptom-free, too. Only a few will say that they've been tested recently or regularly. Too many seem to think that unless one of their partners has a full-blown infection which they must have contracted from their husband or boyfriend, they're okay. I find this cavalier treatment of intimate partners as guinea pigs for their own health status to be shocking, but it's even more troubling that it's so common. People who have sex with other people should be tested regularly for STIs, in my opinion. It's not about fidelity. It's about health and safety. I think we should also keep in mind that viruses and bacteria are smart. Human beings like to have sex. It follows that sexual contact is a good way to spread an infection--it's in the organism's best interests to use sexual contact as a way to proliferate. So, I expect that more things will become sexually transmissible, over time, and that we can expect crises in the future. Engaging in BBFS is like playing Russian roulette.

I'm a newbie joined about a month ago. I didn't really know what to expect when I joined up. Actually, I was seriously contemplating an encounter with an SP that I found advertized locally and I was searching for "reviews". For me she seemed too good to be true and I was trying to find "validation" to move ahead with the encounter. Well I happened upon CERB and the rest is history. I found a great community that completely lifted that sence of "darkness and hiding" that loomed over me at the beginning. That veil was lifted and I saw SP's as wonderful viberant people "just like me" (actually much more fun than me and way hotter). The more I read and contributed the more I wanted to and so continues the vicious circle. Besides the SP's I've found a mulitiude of hobbiests that were willing to guide me into this hobby in the "right way." An additional factor for my participation is that I have opinions that I don't mind sharing (you're all welcome). My approach with regards to posting has been, if I have something of "value" to add to a thread I'll post, if not I won't. Have fun, meet people, be respectful, post. It's as simple as that. Cheers from Chuck

I must admit, I am one of those who has lurked and not posted too much. I have definitely posted reviews of some ladies I have had the pleasure of spending time with, but not any more than that. I pledge to reform my ways and do my best to be a constructive participant to the site. Thanks to all who make this site what it is and hopefully I can help with that, to some degree. To all the lovely ladies, DAMN, you are all beautiful and I hope I have time and opportunity to meet at least a fraction of you! Have a great weekend all! WW

What about posting one-line recommendations to get your post count up? There seems to be a lot of those popping up over the last few days. I mean, if you think the lady was that great and had a good time with her, maybe she deserves a bit more effort and credit than "she is nice and pretty." IMO. :) Those ladies work hard to make you happy and give you a good experience. By no means do I want to discourage anyone from writing recommendations, but if you're going to, show your appreciation. It doesn't have to be a novel... simple is just fine, but I'm sure more than one lazy sentence would be appreciated.

I don't think it's going to become more prevalent at all. It does exist out there, and it always has. But I personally think it becomes less and less prevalent, as many women in this business are smart, savvy, entrepreneurs, not all women who are just looking for money. It may be being talked about more now, but I don't think that in any way means it's going to become more common. As you can see from this thread already, we girls blacklist guys who want BBFS, and men will blacklist a girl who offers it. My hope is that, instead of becoming more common, these blacklistings will help to weed the BBFS morons out completely, and make it LESS prevalent, instead of more.

I have been in this business on and off for almost 2 decades ( almost) ;) When I first stared out, a BBBJ was unheard of and very much looked down upon by other sp`s. I am not trying to be disrespectful, but in the early to mid 90`s, those who did provide bbbj-were ladies who usually were in this business strictly for a crack fix. I am sure not all ladies who did provide bbbj back then were, but the ones me and my other sp friends knew of were in fact hard core drug addicts. Forward now to my return in 2009. It appeared that it was now the norm to provide bbbj. And the ladies who now provided them were gorgeous, sexy sp`s without any drug issues. I could not understand this-at all, because like I said the norm that I knew was to protect and do things safely. A couple of years back, I came across a few hobbiests speaking about how they loved bbfs, both vaginal and ANAL...on a low class site where they are actually allowed and proud to brag about stupid shit like that. Do I agree with the BBFS-hello NO!!! But at the sametime it does not surprise me either. Just wanted to add that I too, take risks by allowing daty & DFK (YMMV) with clients. Before my return to this occupation in 2009, I NEVER would allow dfk and daty on me was very rare. I realized that I had to change this in order to be succesful as an sp. Especially since I had other restrictions (aside from no bbfs) We are in a time where we have access to an information goldmine on the risks and how to protect ourselves, but...... people still want to take the risks because the like the way it feels.

I... don't even know where to start with this one.

Speaking from when I was a teenager a BJ with Braces on was like any other awesome. Also as a rule a lady doesn't "generally" use her teeth during a BJ so it shouldn't ever really be a problem. However if there was a time when a lady was starting to go down on me and she started nashing her teeth it would likely scare "little chucky" into doing a turtle even without braces on. Oh BTW my first ever BJ was from a girl with braces. Chuck

I would. When I see a lady it's because there is something about her that interests and attracts me to her. Braces wouldn't even be an issue on whether to see her or not RG

Well ...it seems my initial post has initiated a lively and positive thread...hopefully it will lead to more lurkers like myself to become part of this amazing community of like minded people

Wouldn't bother me in the least. I'm all about the whole package. However with the new clearline braces you don't even know that they are on.

Good point. The question is whether a BBBJ is as dangerous as BBFS. The simple answer is "probably not." But like many simple answers, that is actually misleading. A better question is, For whom is a BBBJ dangerous? The answer is it's most dangerous for the receptive partner--for the person who is performing the act. Have a look at this Sexually Transmitted Infection Risk Chart. The person who receives oral sex is less likely to contract an STI than the one who performs it. The performer is at higher risk of being infected with HIV/AIDS, chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis than the one who receives it. The chart doesn't include other infections that are transmissible during oral sex like herpes, human pampilloma virus (HPV) and some forms of hepatitis. These are also serious diseases, but unlike HIV/AIDS, chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis, there are no laws requiring medical practitioners to report the infections. In simple language, if I perform a BBBJ on a man, the risk is greater for me than it is for him. If he has one of these STIs, I may be infected. If I have one of them, he has a lower risk of getting it from me. We might ask why there's a difference. Basically, many of us have tiny lesions in our mouths, caused by tooth brushing, flossing, reactions to foods or medications and minor injuries. Those lesions are an excellent entry-point for infection. Add to this the potential for minor injury caused by vigorous thrusting or an awkward angle. I've been part of a discussion with other ladies here about accommodating larger penises orally, about having sore throats or feeling that our lips and mouths have been uncomfortably stretched after performing oral sex. To sum it up, BBBJs are risky for paid companions and other people who provide them. The risk for clients and those who receive them is lower. This is misleading, MP. If the condom breaks or comes off, you're not coming into contact with all of my clients and everyone's various partners, but only with those people with whom I have engaged in unprotected sexual activities. Everyone else has been "contained." However, condoms don't protect anyone against everything! For example, syphilis, herpes and HPV are spread via skin-to-skin contact as well as by penetrative sexual activities. Herpes usually produces sores, but can also be shed when no sores are present. In its second stage, syphilis produces a rash on the hands, the soles of the feet or all over the body. Contact with this rash is an infection risk. HPV (genital warts and in its other forms) may or may not produce any sores but can still be contagious. Many STIs are treatable with antibiotics. The difficulty is that many of them produce no symptoms, so infected people don't know that they're infected. We've had a classified syphilis epidemic in Vancouver since the mid-1990s and the form of syphilis here has not produced symptoms in most people. HIV/AIDS is not treatable with antibiotics, but there are anti-retroviral drugs that seem to be effective in managing the illness for many people. Unfortunately, not everyone can tolerate these medications. Also, there's evidence that HIV/AIDS affects women differently than men in many cases. Last summer, the prevalence of an antibiotic-resistant form of gonorrhea was announced. Only one drug was effective against this strain. By December, no antibiotics were effective in treating patients who were diagnosed in Toronto, as reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association in January. Why do paid companions continue to provide BBBJs? Cat said, This is extremely important and should not be dismissed lightly or out of hand! Many companions are not aware of the risks of infection. Many who are accept the reality of statistical risk and choose to be zealous about being tested very frequently. They offer the activity because they need to make a living, pure and simple, and there are an enormous number of men who insist on receiving it. I don't offer BBBJs, but I do allow DATY. Many of my clients find oral sex to be less than satisfying because they have erectile or ejaculatory problems. But if I refused to permit DATY, or if I insisted on using barriers, such as dental dams, I would need to find another line of work. To be brutally honest, I'm a paid companion because nothing else I do can support my family above the poverty line. I would be thrilled if there was no pressure to provide BBBJs. I think that the gentlemen on this board could do a great deal about this, though much as I care for most here, I am under no illusions that it will happen. Stop asking for BBBJs and start telling other men of the risks associated with them. Help reduce the demand! Classify bareback contact as "husband and wife sex" and not part of the "girlfriend experience." The last thing I want to point out is that most men are never tested for STIs! Unless you are being tested every 3-6 months, it's my respectful opinion that you have little right to talk about sexual health risks or to give advice to anyone about the level of risk they should tolerate. Everyone who has any kind of sexual contact with another human being should be tested regularly. If you don't want to ask your doctor to do the tests, there are clinics near you where you can be tested. Go!

Fetish Alert! Mmmmmm Braces! Yes Please! Droooool ;)

I can' imagine that it would make a difference today's dental appliances have made a lot of progress from when I was a kid and the plastic ones don't pose a "shredding danger" lol

Sure I would too. There is alot more that would attract me to that person

For me bbbj feels better than cbj, but that in itself has no bearing on who I choose to spend time with or how much I enjoy an encounter. For me it's about the overall experience and that begins with communication in the days or weeks leading up to the date. I like at least 2 hours with plenty of talk to help build a connection and hopefully make both parties more comfortable with each other. And I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable if the lady felt the least bit pressured. The BJ, which I enjoy as much as anyone, is such a small part of the overall experience that it really doesn't matter to me if it's covered or not.

My option is not listed either. I strongly prefer a safe GFE (someone who does not offer riskier services like BBBJ, CIM, Greek, COB. COF,....) but I still have to see some of those offering BBBJ otherwise my options would be very limited. So I do care if the lady offers BBBJ (prefer one who doesn't) but cannot limit myself to those offering CBJ only either for above reason.

Most on cerb and terb know that I do not partake in BBBJ because I don't consider it as safe enough based on my acceptable level of risk (relative to other hobbyists very low). In fact I used to even not see those who were taking part in BBBJ and especially CIM but I had to drop this requirement as that eliminated most of providers especially ones on BP. Recently I also dropped DFK and I don't partake in that either as that too is risky (when there is bleeding gums) unless I know the provider well. So I am relatively safe hobbyist and strongly prefer safe GFE ladies. ps - Note this post expresses my like and dislikes and views and in no way intended to offend anyone.

Vitto is quite right. As a newbie it may seem intimidating to post. But as long as your posts are positive and respectful your opinion is welcome. And CERB is a judgement free zone. So to you lurkers, join the community and share your opinions...they are welcome here :-) RG

Another hilarious, creative post by the Dog. If I may give a females perspective of the subject-since we all wear clothes now we no longer need the protection of the hair. But what is esthetically pleasing seems to somewhat follow fashion and the ever disappering isty bisty teeny weeny bikini. The smaller the swimsuit or g string and other unmentionables the more we groom so the hair isn't visible and lets face it's just more hygienic. Who wants to go down on someone with a big mound of hair there, well some I'm sure some don't mind but I would suspect with the majority of women going bare or nearly there the popular consensus would be less is better. I feel bad for the bush lovers , however I'm sure there are some women that prefer au natural as well.

F is for finger fucking the fanny of a freaky and frisky female fuck friend ;)

I have a hard enough time playing normal roulette in a casino. I never seem to win at the casinos when I play roulette. I'm guessing my odds at Russian Roulette would get me killed.... If you're not going to sack it, go home and whack it

Hell yeah, ladies!! Go team LABIA!!! :bigclap: Add me to the growing list of proud owners of beautiful and bountiful, lush and lavish labia! Yum! Just like delicate pink succulent flower petals collecting dew for you in the warm spring morning while you tenderly and softly lick... or a prime and delicious meaty feast for you to devour like a depraved animal... :cooter: As for clit, I wouldn't say my own is overly large per se, but certainly easy to find and pokes it's head out to say hello when excited! :)

Well well...seems this pussycat is going to come out from hiding and actually attend this event. My rubber arm has been twisted :)

Much as I like bbbj, it is certainly not a determining factor for me whether I choose to see a particular lady or not. I attach more importance to look, personality, attitude, quality of service, chemistry etc. On that note, Peachy, I am certain you'll not lose too many clients if you do decide to go back to cbj. Like you, I am finding it unsettling with all these talks about bbfs ( see also the other board). Some folks seem to have a short memory in regards to the devastations and tragedies that HIV/ AIDS etc. can cause.

Although I enjoy a good bbbj ... and Peachy yours was out of this world btw ;) ... I have to side with you and Vanessa on this that maybe cbj is the way to go now. I mean if bbfs is to become more prevalent ... and God let's hope it doesn't!! ... it will make the whole GFE thing a little scary, including DFK which I soooo don't want to lose. BTW thanks for all the support and replies ... and especially to all you classy ladies who are helping me keep faith in the hobby!! ;)

Dear Mr. Newbie. You have received some terrific advice/guidance from Miss Meaghan. From a hobbyist (and relatively new one at that) I found hanging out in chat and seeing the great personalities of the woman of cerb to be a great starting point. Engage them at first, have some fun ask for web site info or simply look up their profile as well as any recommendations they have received. You can use all of this to help narrow your search. I have met sooo many really nice people here in the last 6 months or so. So dive in look around and have some fun. You wont be disappointed. Shutterclick

So we have a few people complaining about a new feature I added to encourage more user participation (and it's working!) New members (under 5 posts for less then 5 days) now get a notice (See below) that they should post and change the status (basically from a lurker who is using the site for research and not contributing to a contributing member). The notice will disappear once they post 5 posts and have been a member for 5+ days. The site is FREE to use and they are complaining!? Seriously!! I have actually had TWO members (Long time members) complain in PM's and the one had been a member for 200+ days and the other (get this) has been a member for over 2000 days and is pissed that he now gets this notice? WTF??? If you have been here 200+ or 2000+ days and used the site for info on SP's and not given back at least 5 comments for the rest of the community?? Why do these guys feel this is ok? should we really be concerned? Here is the notice: Yes, it's long (It's long for a reason!) it's made to be informative to NEW MEMBERS and it's long to be a NAG so that you give back to the community!! No excuse is valid for not contributing. Put your browser into PRIVACY MODE (as you should be doing already) and make sure your username is not something your co-workers or anyone else might pick up on and post some comments!! Don't be a troll/leach and expect everyone else to share for your benefit when you don't contribute.

I blacklist clients who ask for this, as to me, it signals not only a disrespect for my health, but their own and potential partners as well.

I think I would only leave a message if the SP I were calling I had seen before. Had a bad experience once where someone I was trying to arrange a meeting with text me back when she shouldn't have...so texting is definitely out...lol...

I think if there was anything good to be said you would find it here! Cheers.

good morning men!drew can come to you!i am doing incalls and outcalls today so if you feel like being pampered and having a good time in your own enviroment or mine text me if you feeling amazing is on the top of your list.incall in aylmer.text 613 266 0616.no calls text only please text to book today.not tomorrow.lol xoxo

A lot of you use the site and dont contribute (just take) if you would post and contribute you will make the site better. Well unless you post stupid comments and in that case you may loose your account alltogether. You post under an alias, if you use the privacy feature in your browser and use a alias that no one in your personal life will recognise you have no excuse not to contribute if your using the site! This site exists cause the members here contribute time and effort into quality posts and recommendations. If your not contributing then you will need to deal with the 5post 5day message all new users now see.... The site is free to use its the least we can ask for! My suggestion is to contribute and dont complain. Your obviously finding value n the site.

My flexible and contortion group is now open to more explicit pictures. P/M me for an invite.