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This might not be a popular opinion and has the potential to offend some ladies but, from where I stand, I feel like it has to be said. Ladies, YOU are the one putting pressure on yourselves! If you do not want to offer a service, DON'T! It's that simple! Fact is, there are many successful SPs in this industry who only provide CBJs. I will not mention names because it is not my place to do so but if you do some research, you will find what you are looking for. Supply and demand: it is up to you to advertise and find your niche market; by having a niche market, you might no longer be reaching out to and/or appeal to the masses, the ones who have to have BBBJs BUT you will definitely find gentlemen YOU are compatible with and therefore, enjoy yourself that much more. Most gentlemen are great and will still see you even if you are offering a different type of service (please note I didn't say a lesser service) when it comes to oral. Most even prefer the whole experience over one single specific act. Ladies, have some confidence in yourselves! You are all great SPs/Companions who deserve to feel at peace when spending time with someone. Find your niche market and rock their world!

As I get older, the debate becomes less worrisome. Both arguments have their merits; CBJ or BBBJ, as a provider you should do whatever you feel most comfortable with. Ostensibly it's a variation on the same theme.... and when done well, the difference is infinitesimally small. I have moved from being an MSOG kinda guy to a PGLMSHLETGALOSOG (Please God, let me stay hard long enough to get at least one shot on goal) kinda guy. With that in mind, it's far more about the experience and the companion than the details... and that's where the loyalty kicks in. A great provider will keep you coming back because she is that special, not because she does everything on your "to do" list.

Well, having read through all the posts thus far on the subject, I'm afraid that I think this debate is missing a simple and yet critical component: data. Let's just consider BBBJs in isolation for a moment. There's a number of questions that need to be asked: - what are the conditions that may be transmitted? - what's the likelihood of each of those conditions being transmitted from a) the giver to the receiver, and b) vice versa, assuming the appropriate partner were infected and the other wasn't? - what's the probability of the partner in question being infected in the first place? - how do we rate the severity of catching the condition in question? - what other precautions against transmission may be employed, and how effective are they? - what level of risk are we prepared to accept? - what rewards are required to make an increased risk worthwhile? If anyone does think they can have a go at answering all those questions, I'd be very interested to see it... but your answer should include links to your sources of data (where relevant, for things like transmission rates) and justifications for value-judgements of a more personal nature (would you rather catch herpes or gonorrhea, and why?). And once you've done that... well, that's just the start. Once we've gathered the raw data, we need to start organizing it, and making judgement calls and trade-offs. Guys: would you accept a 2% higher chance of catching syphillis in exchange for a BJ that's 50% better? Ladies, is getting an extra client each week (on average) worth a 10% higher chance of contracting a particular HPV strain? I'll freely concede that I'm pulling numbers out of my ass here, but these are the kind of questions we should be asking.... and before we can ask the questions, we need to get the underlying numbers. Yeah, science is hard.

I have only ever provided CBJs and have never considered this a "niche market"...its simply a safer way to service and appeal to the masses.... What really shocks me is the emotional and angry responses from clients who assume a CBJ is a lesser service somehow (and an SPs time is worth less because of it) as opposed to a safer service?? It really baffles me.

I am one stubborn bitch and will do what I please and never bow down to pressure. I am what I am and like me or not is your choice to see me or not and vice versa :). Peace!

I don't mind talking about this openly, Peachy. When I started to work, no one ever inquired about BBBJs before meeting me and I was never urged to forgo the condom when the meeting was underway. The gentlemen I saw and I might occasionally make a wry comment about it being a shame that the condom was necessary, but there was no manipulation involved. I don't think that my clients would have been happy if I'd suggested going ahead without the cover. By contrast, in my personal life, some of the men I dated were initially surprised when I reached for a condom before we were ready to have intercourse. They weren't offended; they simply didn't have any idea that oral sex might be a concern for either of us. They'd always had uncovered oral sex. That was over a decade ago. I've always worked independently and I've always done my own screening. I've generally been a low-volume companion, but even when I entertained more often, using condoms wasn't an issue for the first few years. Many things changed when I moved to Vancouver about five years ago. I needed to build a new client base, so I saw more people for quite awhile. I didn't have a website until I moved here. I advertised in print. In Toronto, I nearly always worked from hotels, but in Vancouver I've only done that a handful of times, though I do make outcall visits fairly often. I have more American clients, here, probably because we're much closer to the border and because many people travel up and down the coast all the time. I have clients from Ontario who come to Vancouver on business periodically, including two of my original clients. I have never offered BBBJs and have always made it clear in my advertising, phone conversations and e-mail that I will use condoms for everything. This began to be a deal-breaker for many prospective clients, which surprised me. Syphilis has been common in Vancouver for a very long time, was classified as an epidemic in the mid-1990s and has only recently begun to decline. The strains of syphilis, here, are notable for producing no symptoms in most people who contract it, which is one reason it spreads so easily. I no longer see anyone under 40 because I don't need to. I received considerable pressure not to use condoms for oral from younger, unmarried men. A lot of them declined to meet me, which was fine. But many of them tried to re-negotiate things after we were together in person, using the heat of the moment as an excuse, or stressing that they were "obviously clean". A rare few decided to leave instead of carrying on with the meeting. Some tried to bully me into giving refunds and one of them became very angry when I refused. The worst was a 36 year-old man who had made a couple of wry comments about the condom. Instead of having me on top of him, he wanted me on all fours. When I reached around to guide him, I found he'd taken the condom off. He laughed, "Oh, oh. You caught me!" I went ballistic. He left when I picked up the telephone. Most of my clients now are between the ages of 58 and 75. I love my regular visitors, but the prospective and first-time clients often challenge my restrictions. I don't take same-day or last-minute meetings. The combination of my screening process and my availability means that it can take anywhere from a few days to a couple of weeks to meet me in person. I'm willing to exchange a lot of e-mail and have short phone conversations in the meantime. By the time my guest and I actually lay eyes on each other, we've established what I feel is a good rapport. (If we haven't, I will decline to meet.) After all of that, it's unsettling when some new visitors claim to be surprised that I won't compromise about condoms for oral sex. They often say that they didn't think I'd really meant what I'd written or said on the phone, or that they were sure I'd change my mind once we met in person. Two have brought printouts of what they said were their STI test results to use as last-minute bargaining tools. I've heard long stories about loss of sensation, about condoms being too small or too tight (even after I've unrolled one over my hand and up my forearm). I've heard about erectile problems and ejaculatory difficulties they attribute to condoms. Twice I've had clients turn a playful spanking into something that was definitely punishing because I'd used a condom on them for oral, to completion. For one of them, the spanking was pay-back. The other really thought I'd give in for the second round. (That round didn't happen!) The only people who have ever tried to talk me into BBFS have been older men. They've said that they've had vasectomies or that I'm the only woman they will have been with other than their wives. One said he had no children because of a low sperm count. Another said I could trust him because he's a physician. A couple of years ago, I saw one man who made a fuss about condoms and even asked to remove it while we were having intercourse. He contacted me recently, certain that we could work things out now that time had passed. I told him I hadn't changed my restrictions. He said he didn't expect that I would. He paid my social rate to take me out for lunch. At the end of the meeting, he was shocked when I still refused to consider meeting with him without condoms. A few days ago, a fellow I've seen four times offered a significant monthly retainer if I would agree to BBFS. He wanted to be a boyfriend who gives me money and looks the other way if I entertain anyone else. But he also travels extensively in Asia and India, where he delights in the opportunities he has for female companionship, often at very low rates. A few visitors have told me on their way out of the door or later, in e-mail, that the engagement was wonderful but, regretfully, they won't re-book because of the condom. I want to be very clear, though, that, while I do feel pressured and subjected to various kinds of manipulation, I am not worried about going out of business. Most of my clientele are regulars. I'm doing well in my corner of the profession. I don't have qualms about the choices I've made. But it has taken me quite awhile to get to be in my position and I recognize that I am where I am because of simple, plain, good luck as well as because of the way I run my business.

Well I take pity on my fellow CERB-ites and only post this on one of the three threads. This argument is getting tiresome, and not just this particular time. It seems we keep going down the same path, having the same arguments over and over again. I just spent about 2 minutes with this wonderful feature we have on this site called "search" (something that some of you should seriously try using some time) and here are just four threads of many on the topic. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=71451&highlight=transmission http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34872&highlight=transmission http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=20951&highlight=transmission http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=16380&highlight=transmission This time though we have three active threads with the same people posting on all three of them, and rarely providing any new information and insight that is not already on this board. First someone hijacked a thread on BBFS to rant about the perils of BBBJ. Then an SP put up a poll with a set of questions that although well-meaning just made things more complicated. Believe it or not folks there is a science to writing polls to gather data properly. Then a hobbiest in attempt to clarify things posted an SP only poll with the same sort of problematic questions. The we have people cross-posting links irrelevant to the discussion on multiple threads. A serious breach of netiquette on any board. What angers me the most is that these arguments are not being made in the interest of health and safety, they are being made because some people feel they have an economic interest at stake. Case in point, an SP on here last night posting about how she felt that to keep her financial well being she had to offer BBBJ. The word being thrown around is coercion, which is pretty strong. It generally implies some sort of duress being applied. I don't think that a hobbiest choosing to see an SP who does BBBJ instead of CBJ is really duress. Particularly since the anecdotal evidence on these threads is that for the vast majority of the hobbiests it has no bearing. I am not going searching for facts, and transmission rates as someone on here has suggested. There is no need. A lot of what we do in this hobby has risks. Condoms are not 100% effective. I am not going to cite the failure rate here and have people shoot at my statistics, look it up. The point is that they break, slip off, and do not prevent all diseases, particularly herpes, warts and even HPV. (and I could add non-STI infections as well) And if you are going to look it up then Wikipedia and Ask.com may be a good place to start, but do us all a favour and try and find some primary sources. Dig deeper, and look at several sources, because there are a lot of different facts and statistics out there depending on who is presenting them. A lot of people on the internet have their own agenda. (surprise surprise) The fact of the matter is that this hobby is full of risks, and not just from STI's. The only safe way to avoid these risks is not to have sex or contact with another human at all. I don't think many of us would want to do that. How a person handles these risks, mitigates them, protects themselves and their partners is what is important. Is there a risk with BBBJ, yes there is. But there is also a demand for it, and not just from the hobbiests. I know many SP's who really don't like sucking on a latex condom. That is their choice. They know the risks. Is BBBJ the only risky thing we do in this hobby? Not by a long shot. My final word is this. Wanting to have a BBBJ or a CBJ is a personal choice. Wanting to provide either is also a personal choice. If you choose not to provide that service then live with your decision. If someone else makes a different choice it is none of your business. You can say it is coercion, but I would also say that trying to use peer-pressure on a board like this to try and convince your competition to do something different is also coercion. To the mod(s) as I have shown here we have debated this thread ad nauseum over the years, and nothing really new has been added to the mix. We now have 3 similar threads. Can we at least merge them, if you are not going to lock them?

This statement really saddens me Peachy. You should never be put in that situation, although it happens all the time and many won't speak up about it but you had the courage to do so. If your clients have said directly to you, that they will not see you anymore if you no longer offer BBBJ, I myself would have ended the business relationship right then. They should respect your choice if you choose not to offer it anymore and clearly by making that statement they don't respect your possible choice or you. I don't play games and will never be bullied or pressured to do something I don't want to and if anyone was to try, I will cut all ties to that person quick. Whatever you decide there are many ladies that are here for you and will support your choice and many who do not provide BBBJ and do just fine. All my love and support, Lexy

I wouldn't put it that way. All we're seeing is a difference of opinion between some folks who think this would be great, and some who prefer their meetings to remain strictly private, and some who may fall in one camp but care about what others may feel. And, of course, all those who are somewhere in between. Similarly, SPs differ in their preferences on recos; some may be happy with guys posting blow-by-blow accounts of appointments, others prefer to keep some stuff private, and a few prefer not to have anything written at all. My gut feeling is that there's plenty of scope here for ladies to write anonymized accounts of particularly good encounters, although any who do so will obviously have to be prepared to deal with questions along the lines of, "Why didn't you write about ME???". And yes, obviously the same questions arise whenever any of us guys see a SP or MA and don't choose to write a reco... but - if you'll all forgive the observation - I suspect the ladies are better at dealing with this than we guys are. SPs are by their very nature a pretty tough bunch, in general, whereas I think we guys are rather more delicate, especially where easily-bruised egos are concerned...

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Peachy here I feel has a great asset Additional Comments: Can't forget the CMJ ladies

Morning all! While I was "off" recovering, had lots of time to think (I know, I know it does not happen often!). Thought about all the lovely Ladies who are so talented, I just wanted to point it out and say "thank you". We have Ladies who are full time MP's or SP's. We have Ladies who balance "traditional" work lives, in the government, at hospitals, in offices, in banks, etc. and then spend time with us hobbyists. And we have Ladies who are still in university and college, some even in Masters level courses handling that workload, then spending time with us. Then we have the Ladies who balance their work lives with children, then work, then with us. To all of you, thank you. You are special folks who work hard to make us hobbyists happy. The Liquor

I am posting this as remider that we are not super hero's and we are not invinciable! I came across this artical in hopes to just remind us that in our lifestyle, we need to be informed no matter how hard we want to put this issue in a box, and out of mind, we simly cant! http://metronews.ca/news/canada/609197/new-brunswick-officials-issue-std-warning/ This post is not intended to scare you, or annoy you, but just for a reality check. Play safe:)

Thank you for organizing another social, Angela! I will be there if spots are still available.

As humans do we need this to become well rounded compasionate adults. Can we exist happily without it? Do we need the basic aspects of it, ie: to be needed, wanted, touched every so often, could we exist happily without it, or as humans is it a necessary to be "coupled" and loved by another-long term- to be "complete". Some say that humans are at the top of the pyramid because of our understanding of our emotions and needs for them. But do we really? Our emotions do not live in the rational part of our brain yet we are always trying to rationalize and understand them and then why were the first tests to demonstrate a need for love then done on monkeys?As a dog lover and owner I see the exhibition of love and their need for it on a daily basis. Other animals mourn the loss of their young, that is a form of love. I feel love IS a necessary for all beings we just display it differently and as humans perhaps put more importance on it than other species, we have actually made businesses of it. What's your opinion on the subject?

I like gentlemen who are kind, thoughtful, gentlemen of all shapes and sizes and income brackets . Those who appreciate a woman and all she encompasses, the whole package. Those gentlemen who take your feelings into account, who see beyond the exterior and want to experience you not just as an object but as a human being, those who don't seek perfection but want to help you be better. Those who are aware that we try hard to please them and are thankful for us and are aware that we sometimes make mistakes and forgive us for them. Thatsmy type.

Just use what you said in this question for your introduction to the lady that interest you. I edited it below ... I think its actually pretty polite and within reason. :D lets see what other has to say.

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What disturbs me most about the article is that someone intentionally went cruising for victims, much like the predators that stalk SPs; with intention of transmitting a disease. If the client base knew how many crazies providers deal with, this article wouldn't seem inflammatory, it would just make sense as to why she posted the link... cat

Why is it that I come up with some of the most witty and acerbic retorts hours after a conversation has ended?

Why is it that people insist on driving very slowly in the left-hand lane on the highway?

Originally, I went by Erin_xo. Erin was what my mother originally wanted to name me and I picked it on the fly. Then, I decided that didn't really represent me and I picked Berlin. I went through a bunch of baby-names databases and wrote down a bunch that I liked, but Berlin was the one that stuck. It's also the name of a character in the movie The Life of David Gale--a student who sleeps with her professor :) Those who know me know that I get a serious ladyboner for academic types.

I get asked to bring my yoga outfits (I wear nothing but Lulu lemon, hihi) just as much as I get asked to bring sexy French lingerie :) I recently had a client who wanted me to do very suggestive yoga moves with my outfit on. To spice it up a little bit, I poured a glass of cold water on my white and fit t-shirt (I was bare breast under), and then surrounded by mirrors I executed myself with very flexible moves. The water was cold as ice but the ambiance was hot as hell!

I am very new to this whole experience (just pre-booked my first pooning session for 2 weeks from now), but I think that the female body has such intricacies and subtleties that by discriminating against things like stretch marks is a touch over the top. But things that I look for is someone that responds quickly and can do so with a sense of humour. I prefer the 20-30 age group but that is because of my age, but depending on how my first experience goes a may be open to older demographics as well. I just figure for a first time experience I'd like to have someone close to my age... Who knows I could be wrong but from what I can tell from the SP I have booked with she seems to excited to pop my pooning cherry.

I don't think that SP's should feel the need to publicly praise their clients. It's a business relationship. Are our ego's so fragile that we need a lady we paid to express how much fun she had with us? I don't really think that that's what the relationship is all about. If ladies want to recommend clients to each other, I'm sure its more on the merits of cleanliness, safety and respect...and they have a private area to do so. I don't think when they are looking for recommendations from each other that it has much to do with how hard a client made them cum...but of course I could be wrong.

What I took issue with was the incredibly homophobic, sex-negative, and whorephobic approach you took in your post. To recap: I would love to see your stats on this "guess" of yours. Stoya is a well-spoken porn actor who speaks to this subject quite frequently: http://stoya.tumblr.com/post/32205235912/testing-vs-condoms-in-pornography Emphasis mine. Racism, homophobia, and assumptions of drug use. Awesome. Again, I would love to see your proof to these claims. What on earth is a "meat and potatoes" std? Again with the homophobia. You know that people who have sex with other people of the opposite sex engage in anal sex as well? It's not a "gay thing". Again with the assumptions. Did you know that STIs are on the rise in the senior population, and they have theorized that it is because these individuals who are now finding themselves widowed and are engaging in new sexual relationships were not raised in a culture that promoted condom use and safer sex? Another assumption. Sorry, what? Again: source please. Actually, the transmission rate is about the same for oral sex on a person with a vagina, whether they are on their menses or not (it is considered a low-risk activity regardless of menses). Source: cdnaids.ca Someone's sexual identity does not put them more or less at risk of contracting an STI, it is the sexual activities they engage in and if they use safer sex practices.

I understand the confusion as both have risk. I feel that because of the increased sexual partners that an SP has, her risk increases exponentially. Myself as an example, my target is to see 1 client a day/5 days a week. Thats 260 encounters a year. Now most of my clients are repeats but I'm not naive enough to believe that I am the only provider they see so if 20 of them see a high volume provider each month (let's assume 100 clients/mth) once a month it increases my exposure to over 2000 people per month or 24 000 people per year. Those numbers are very scary to me. I can't calculate the odds of a client because it would vary for each man but if they actually thought about the number of people a provider is exposed to, I think it would have a sobering effect especially if they only see ladies who offer bbbj as in Ottawa those providers are much busier.. I also understand that some men have issues with condoms being used during oral but in 25 years I have never had anyone have an actual issue with it unless they have an ED issue. I can get a condom on a man without him even knowing it's there and have new clients stop me during FS to check if I've put it one on after coitus is underway. This has led me to believe that it's a mental block not a physical issue at hand. I've never been comfortable with unprotected anything but Canadian men are brutal when it comes to insisting on it. I offered it in '08 out of financial necessity but no longer put it on the menu. It just isn't worth it to me. Uncovered oral is something I do when I'm so connected with a partner that I have complete trust in them and in the relationship we have. I'm not a risk taker, I don't play the stock market, russian roulette or go to the casino. Playing the odds I've listed above just doesn't seem like a prudent move on either a business or personal level. This is suppose to fun and in my world, fun isn't accompanied by sleepless nights full of worry, a trip to the doctor or having to tell you significant other you have infected them with something that may impact their health... cat

Well well...seems this pussycat is going to come out from hiding and actually attend this event. My rubber arm has been twisted :)

Cause back in the day, this was my hair do (hmm, I guess it's still kinda the same lol) and all my friends called me Meg. I added the "forfun" cause I am, well, fun!

Why is it despite all good intentions, some people want to knock you down:(

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Why is it that cats never listen?

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If your meat looks like potatoes, you've probably got one. :)

I had noticed a difference from when I did offer BBBJ to the time I decided not to:( Many of them said " ohh baby you did before...blah blah" I would explain that I have different thoughts now, and also have an SO to protect as well.....then....poof they were gone, or I felt pressure to maintain that with those particular people for a short time. Eventually they left my client list, but then again I did gain some. Lost more than saved tho:( Now none of this is a topic for me, as I now provide hands only massage;) But is a topic none the less, as an agent I try to educate and provide no- stress atmosphere for the ladies to depend on.

I have been to both Angels and Paradise along with other spas in the past and there has never been an issue with shower protocol. In a lot of cases I have appreciated the few minutes alone in the shower before being joined by someone. It allows for the opportunity to wash away a lot of the accumulated dirt and grime depending on where you are coming from. I would not expect any of these fine ladies to have to deal with the build up of the day. I would expect that an MA joining you in the shower would be more along the lines of "sensual sudsing" rather than something approaching a level of basic grooming. There is some "dirt" that I would rather deal with myself... That being said I would suggest as others have that you "communicate" your desires to the MA in question. I, for one have never had an MA turn down an invitation for "sensual sudsing", it just helps to set the mood and the anticipation for whats to come! There is one MA with an incredible set of dimples that comes to mind... Rodehard

Why is it when you change your password that you vow never to forget, you forget it the first time you go to use it.

Why is it that when you have a fridge full of food, you can never figure out what to eat BUT when you know you need groceries, you can always find something that will satisfy?

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As an Angel/Paradise Spa Attendant (MA) I would say I am more than happy to shower with my clients... But if you would like a shower together to start things you are best to let your attendant (MA) know. My standard is that the start of the appointment shower is for hygiene sakes.... ensure your day is washed away so to speak. But I do have clients that enjoy a few extra hands to ensure they are all clean and that showers are more than fun when done together. For these clients... or one that requests I would love to jump in the shower with you at the begining of the appointment! At the end of my appointments I enjoy spending that extra time to clean off with my clients..... As it is a "total experience" that we at AT/PS are offering, if you would like to spend more time in the shower ( or really have any reasonale request) please ask your attendant(MA), and I am sure they would be more than happy to oblige you! Happy Hobbying..... xoxoxo Tiffany

I find it best to be very transparent about what you want given the context of your personality and ask if it is a fit for the SP. I always ask about rates (whether 1 hour or multiple hours) during my ask AND I ALWAYS do it privately.Make sure you book a time you KNOW you can make but if not always call and cancel,giving a reason.I have on occasion forwarded the donation to the SP when I have cancelled unreasonably close to our date time. I have done this voluntarily. Not once have I had a SP ask me for the donation when I notified her of a cancellation. If you treat the SP professionally and with respect ,and understand clearly her rules of engagement you will in all likelihood have a wonderful time. You will find the ladies on this site friendly and helpful

One of my things that I love are when a man has cold hands. I love cold hands all over my body, makes my nipples more erect than they already are and makes my her down there very appreciative...I think it has to do with the fact that a doctors hands are always cold..who knows. The reason that I mention this - is that it seems to me to be a little outside the box because, many times when my cients come to see me ( winter time especially) they always warn me, my hands are cold, since I guess most dont like that. However my response always is : That's ok-I love cold hands , so you can use my body to warm them up :boobies:

Let me be more blunt than in my previous post.... What is the purpose of prompting ladies in breaking what is comsidered sacrosanct in this industry? I'm talking about DISCRETION !

I wanted to take a moment to say thank you to each and every lady and gent that has reached out to me after the recent house fire . Thank you for the messages calls and visits, all with sincere and very kind offers to help me. Often we do not realize until times of trouble occurr just how much support and love that surrounds us. A very special thank you to a lady that is sending me home to Halifax with a banging new wardrobe, I just can't thank you enough for all this. Your love and support made a very hard week so much better and I return this love back to you. Katherine

A is for anal beads. Slowly insert one by one while you swirl your tongue around her clit.

In a few words, it's at my discretion and I have a few prerequisites for it so if the client doesn't meet them, it's going to be a CBJ. And I don't let anyone pressure or guilt me into anything. If I don't want to do something or it's out of my comfort level, I won't do it no matter what anyone says.

So I decided to TOFTT and I was not disappointed, VIPOTG has a new girl Kaori in town and I decided to set up a date. Now to start this all off on my way over I did get notice that things were 10 min behind, not sure why but there was plenty of notice and it didn't inconvenience me so I didn't shit bricks over it. Once I arrived I was greeted by a short very pretty girl that as near as I can tell matched the photo. She was very kind and welcoming and was dressed in a tight strapless black dress, and I thought to myself, "I can't wait to get that off of her" Things started with the usual accompanied shower and I could tell right away that Kaori is an innocent personable girl, not jaded or mechanical in any way. She has a great body, perky breasts, great legs and a nice ass, a small tattoo on her lower back and another just below her waist line in front. After the shower we headed to the bedroom and she set to work kissing me all over and lightly touching her breasts all over me. There was no massage but I did not miss that one bit, in fact I prefer not having one at all so this worked out great. Before I knew it she was down between my legs looking up at me giving me a fantastic BBBJ and a surprisingly deep one at that. There was lots of eye contact and I could tell she was getting into it. Without missing a beat she reached over and had a condom in her mouth and was using it to put it on me, always impressive and enjoyable. She crawled up me and slid me inside her, and wow she was not only very ready but very tight, we started with her on top and she leaned back in my favorite position where she leans back and arches her back so I could get a great view of her perfect firm breasts bouncing as she rode me. She pulled me up so I was seated and she laid back, she really seemed to like this and she kept pulling me deeper and deeper, I am always worried with asian girls that I may be hurting them, I'm not saying I'm huge but I'm larger then average and asian girls are sometimes hard to read. So when I thought I may have been going too hard or too deep, I slowed and was about to ask if I was hurting her, but before I could ask she looked at me and with a smile and said "Don't stop, I'm about to cum!". Well that to me is like firing the starting pistol at a horse race, I was off! She started grinding her hips in sync with my thrusts and I could feel her get very wet and very tight as she grabbed me tightly and pulled me harder. Now after a short while I gave out, I guess I have to work on my cardio because I was exhausted. She said she needed some water and I did too, so we decided to take a short breather. As she stood up from the bed she nearly collapsed and she let out a little squeak as she braced herself, guess she was weak in the knees :icon_wink:. Once we had caught our breath she pulled the condom off and got me hard again with a continuation of her fantastic BBBJ and again put the condom on with her mouth. This time I wanted her from behind and she was happy to oblige, it didn't take very long to have her moaning again and she was reaching back to grab onto me again, gyrating her hips with my thrusts after a bit she got very wet and tight again guess I got the angle right again and that was enough for me I came and it felt the whole time like her insides were gripping me tighter and tighter. I flopped down on the bed next to her and she just stayed in the same position with her face on the pillow and her ass in the air, her eyes were closed and she had a big smile on her face. What makes a session for me the most enjoyable is when you know the girl enjoyed it too. There was some pillow talk after and her english isn't perfect but its good enough and she was a very personable and talkative girl. She was not a clock watcher with me and seemed to really enjoy what she does, she is very pretty and her body is fantastic. I would recommend this girl 100%, so far the best SP I have seen, the only thing I didn't like and this is something some people wouldn't even notice is the slight smell of smoke on her breath. I am not a smoker so I notice it right away but it wasn't obvious so it didn't hamper the experience. Treat this girl right and if we are lucky she will be back, and please don't treat her like a piece of meat, she knows what she likes and I felt she tried to make it enjoyable for both of us.