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There have been a couple threads on this lately and while the need may vary I have a related question. When it comes to time spent with someone do you prefer, as a gentlemen in the hobby, to initiate the kissing/hugging (within your comfort level and connection), have the SP initiate it or wait to see how it naturally progresses? If you have a better option, please comment.

Say nothing. If you make eye contact, that's enough, but in the name of all that's sacred DON'T DO ANY MORE! Don't even smile, or wink, or anything. You don't know who she's with, or whether they know of her occupation. She doesn't know whether or not you're here with your wife. There are far too many risks involved for any overt contact to be worthwhile. By all means drop her a PM later to say, "Hi, nice to see you earlier". But NEVER. EVER. do anything in public. Ignore her. She'll understand. So should you. If you don't, you'll understand the day you meet an unprofessional SP while you're out with your wife :)

Any guys who are still wondering why some SPs ask for references or conduct screening should read this. AND THEN QUIT WHINING ABOUT IT. FOREVER.

I am a squirter as well and can do it on command in upwards of 10 times during a session. Add toys and it's even better. There are many variable factors with this special technique but nonetheless it is quite an amazing talent to have!

Just thought I'd post a thread here for anyone to post useful tips/pointers related to projects around the house. So feel free to ask for a tip or help or give a tip or help. One of my other "Hobbies" is that I build new and renovate old houses so I actually do have a fair bit of knowledge in this area. First tip for this thread: given that there are a lot of showers used every day in Cerbland I'd like to remind everyone that if you notice that you grout in your tiled shower gets wet during a shower it's probably time to seal it again. This will prevent water entry and mold and mildew from forming hense easier cleaning. Feel free to add or ask.

Gifting is a difficult one. All ladies like gifts, thats a given. Some ladies realize that we as gentlemen clients sometime like to provide gifts as a token of our appriciation so choose to provide guidance on their websites. (thank you). Some ladies make us work for it (I like that). When it comes to gifts, it's the thought that counts and my wife once informed me that in that vein , "it better look like you put some thought into it" (she cuts me no slack). I try to be a little original in my thinking. I want the SP to remember me down the road when I want to visit her again or ask her for a reference. Therefore I give her a gift of "value" that she will enjoy based on her personality but I'll also give her something a little off the wall that I know nobody has ever given her before. Usually, it'll be something worthless that she can just laugh at and toss in the garbage when I leave but that will stick with her in her memory. I like gifts to show that I actually put in thought and effort. (This approach is not for everyone, but for me I like to feel like I'm on a date with an SP and that's what I would do on a date) Here's how I view the process. An SP is running a business and the "donation" amount is for her business. The "tip" is like in any service industry is for good service and is for the lady not the business. A gift is a token of appriciation for the lady that says, "I view you as more than a business transaction, thank you". My two cents. Chuck

I, personally, definitely enjoy some saucy dirty talk when the mood is right... both giving and receiving. :) It can be a real turn on with the right person, at the right time. After all, this stimulates the most important erogenous zone, the brain! :) mmmm, Yes, make me your dirty little whore.. please... I have been a very bad girl... Feed me your throbbing hard cock, I neeeed to taste your hot big creamy load of cum! :bj2: In all honesty though, it is only good if it just flows naturally when we are in the right moment, as when it is forced it just sounds silly and awkward, LOL. But I suspect that not all SPs care for it, so ideally, I would suggest just straight out asking if she is okay with it when you are booking the appointment, or just throwing out a feeler during the appointment and see how it is received.

Thank you everyone for your love, support, hugs and best wishes. Yes, I had a bad call that would be classified as assault. Doesn't happen often, but every once in a while it does. I do love myself, and do not consider myself a whore. He viewed me as a whore, but I know I am not that.....I know how much everyone loves me, even those that have never met me. At that moment, my feelings were raw and that's why I posted this here. To show the other side of the coin on this subject of BBFS. I really want to thank everyone who came rallying forward at a time I needed to talk to someone. The phone calls, text messages, PMs and messages meant the world to me. Took yesterday off and am now back, stronger then ever. I love everyone who helped me. It means the world to me. This is why I love CERB. There really is no where else we can turn to for information, support and love. hugs to everyone and have a great day! xoxo Meaghan

I've met clients who later turned out to have mutual personal friends or who ran in the same circles I did, and I haven't been uncomfortable about it. I'm totally out in my personal life, so it happens sometimes. As for bumping into clients in real life, I just smile and keep walking. A couple of times I've run into clients who were on their own and we've had a quick, "hey, how are things" type convo, but that's about it.

Hey, maybe you should post a poll. "Ladies...cum swallowing preferences: a) Sip. b) Chug." :-D

Start by checking this site out here... www.cowboysdiary.info to make sure the ladies you are interested in are NOT mentioned on this man's site ;) It will save you both time and money :boobies:

Please answer the following questions and make a selection in the poll. I have changed the wording of the questions below for safety purposes and to make this poll for general information and research purposes: 1. Which location/area above would you prefer to visit and why? 2. Do you prefer Hotels over Motels/Inns and why? 3. Which day(s) of the week do you prefer?

Thank you Some Guy for the Invitation to join such a much need group! How nice it is to know that I am not the only one completely Addicted to CERB! Hello Everybody, My name is Tiffany XXX000, and I am a CERB-aholic!! My journey into the world of CERB started about 5 months ago when I decided to go on "The Adventure of a Lifetime".... After thinking my decision through I decided to test out the waters of being an MA! It was something that has intrigued me for some time and allows me a safe outlet for my sexuality! As part of my new job/adventure I was introduced to CERB as a marketing tool. At first I was shy, I only posted my Ad when I was working, and checked back to read comments from my photos or respond to PM's..... I did not have a problem..... But one day, I was sitting at work and feeling bored, so I logged into Chat... boy did that change my life! For those of you that go into chat you will know I am like a staple there... if I am at work or at home you can find me in chat! I have met some people that I will be life long friends with, and some that are so fun I get a huge smile when I see them enter into the Chat room!! Now I find if I am close to a computer my phone or ipad I am here, checking out new posts, commenting on threads or in Chat. My average day I spend at least 2 and up to 8 hours on CERB. I would like to thank all of the wonderful people on here for the funny and interesting posts, and the Great people that I have met in chat! You all are special to me! A big thank you for making me feel so welcomed to your community!! Kisses to all TXXX

Men are the only ones who are concerned with the specifications of cum shots. The quantity, the distance, the velocity, the viscosity. Women don't care about these things. And this is coming from a cock loving, self proclaimed blow job and cum expert who offers and loves COF/COB/CIM. While there may we some of us who really enjoy cum shots, we don't generally care about the specifics about them. That is a guy thing. I wrote about a blog post about cum last month. You might be interested in it. :)

Agreed. I feel a very strong attachment for the women I've met here, not just as providers but as wonderful human beings. The thought that someone would treat somebody that I care about so poorly fills me with a mighty rage. If I ever met someone who bragged of that sort of behavior.....HULK SMASH!!!

As was mentioned above I'd definitely recommend the female condom; most men I have met prefer the feel of them as they have a 'relaxed fit' for the male partner and they also provide slightly better STD protection which can also provide better peace of mind.

Cruel and jealous people with WAY too much time on their hands. Take up a hobby or get addicted to Sims! (My town is huge now lol)

Got a call tonight from a friend/provider that is going through a bit of a personal health dilemma herself - and all we could talk about was seeing about helping a mutual friend that is in a bit of a jam. It's a great feeling to know that sometimes you can let the curve balls that life throws at you just sit on the sidelines when someone else is in need....

Michaella's Caress can put a pornstars squirting to shame. Shes my liquefied hero. lol. Slurrrrrrp ;)

Welcome to CERB, and congratulations on your first post!!!...hope to read more from you Well I'll offer some advice like you requested, and I'm sure other CERBite's will offer their opinion too. First is to find a lady that interests you. To this end go to the recommendation section on CERB for the city you are having your encounter in, and see which lady you would like to meet. Then contact her, using her preferred method of contact (whether email, pm, text, phone call) and enquire about setting up an encounter. Be a gentleman when corresponding with her, in fact be a gentleman always. Let the lady know when you correspond that you are a newbie, that way any faux pas can be forgiven. She may ask to screen/verify you. That includes your name (real name) phone number, email, board handle confirmed through pm and a reference. Now seeing as this is your first time, you won't have a reference. Be open with the other information, the lady will have other ways to screen you. And verification is a perfectly accepted practice by professional companions, it isn't something to be worried about Once you schedule an encounter, short of unforeseen circumstances keep your date. Yes life happens, but should it happen, paying the lady a cancellation feel is appropriate. When you meet for the encounter, be it incall or outcall don't rush anything. First and foremost, her donation should be in plain sight, in an envelope/gift bag and given to her. She may wish to go to the washroom to count it out, perfectly acceptable. She may also wish to contact her driver to let the driver know she is ok. Again this is perfectly acceptable for the lady to do The lady is meeting you alone for an intimate time together, that doesn't mean immediately when you show up at her place or she shows up at your place you can grab her and tear her clothes off...that's an unforgiveable faux pas. Let the lady take the lead and control the pace. But let the encounter unfold naturally. In short, as you phrased it, play it by ear. And don't worry, you will have a good encounter In terms of relaxing, first, don't use drugs or alcohol, a lady will cancel if the client appears under the influence. But frankly, at least for me, I don't want to be relaxed, the building anticipation and excitement of the upcoming encounter is half the fun. And even with ladies I have seen before, I still have that anticipation and excitement...but relaxed??? To me relaxed would mean I'm taking the ladies and this lifestyle for granted, and what's the point in that? Something else to consider with your date. Give the lady a gift and a tip. It is a nice way to show your appreciation for the intimate escape she provided you. Now one thing, if dealing with a lady from an agency forgo a gift. A agency lady gives a cut of her donation to the agency. But give her a tip equal in value to the cost of a tip and gift for an independent lady. If you are hosting (an outcall to your hotel) make sure your room has all the lights on, bathroom and closet doors open. Yes dimmed lights are all romantic. But a lady may feel unsafe going into a stranger's darkened room. And if you are serving any refreshments, first ask her what she would like when you confirm a encounter. But keep all containers sealed and only opened in her presence. All your actions should make her feel safe. Just some quick ramblings off the top of my head Good luck And have fun RG

Unlikely. I believe wolves are quite good parents.

Car dealerships, I thought we -sp's-were the only ones that are supposed to get paid for screwing people!!

Too funny!! Now Nicolette and I know for sure we are long lost sisters, we even use the same makeup products. It's a little thing between my long lost sister and I. Sorry for leaving you out of our kind of secret. Sweet precious Lee, please do forgive us.:icon_smile: If you're in the mall that has a MAC Studio (makeup store) check out the hottie's in there. YUM YUM YUMMY!!:icon_biggrin: Big Hugs and Kisses to you Lee, Lexy

Such a delicious topic! Normally there are two ways I approach CIM. One is to maintain a deeper hold and to let the cum pool and I swallow it all as I move up the shaft. The second is to maintain a shallower hold and let it slide down the throat. One let's you savor the flavor while the other does not. With bigger loads (and depending on the sensitivity of the man) you can do the "pool" a couple times or just let it slide down. I've never had a problem with a big load or gagging so I can't comment on that aspect. my assumption would be they are too deep for a big load and it has no where to go...imagine filling a narrow necked bottle too fast! Okay....NOW I'm thirsty!!! --rawr--

Well before I ran across Cerb I was on the hunt for my mojo. I looked under the bed, under the mattress, in the dresser, under the couch, in my recliner, in the rum bottle and even in the truck but it wasn't there..... but I knew it was somewhere behind that white picket fence of a life I had !!!! 3 years ago I signed up on Cerb and Yay I saw boobs....that's always good me thinks :) hehe I shared my very first date in the early fall of that year I do believe ... with a pretty awesome chick....I believe her name was Emily Rushton ? Yup that was it. Maybe she found my mojo ;) Anwhooooooo I had a wonderful first experience and what has ensued over the past three years is I have been happier than ever and truthfully have met some of the most amazing people I could ever hope to meet and shared some amazing times and created lifelong memories. We ...those of you in the profession and us horny hobby fellas are destined ....for now...to live life on the dark side and judgemental side of society....but for me it has been a brighter than bright time in my life :) I give thanks ! That's my story........

Squirting is an amazing and intense experience. As has already been mentioned every lady is different so achieving this also varies from lady to lady. I have had the experience through being pleasured with fingers and a couple times through actual penetration. Once you have the patience to discover what works it can be used like a secret weapon lol. Nothing like your body taking over and making you feel wonderful!

Of course it is for real and it feels great! ;) To answer your other questions, yes, the amount varies depending on a few factors like hydration and yes, the velocity also varies... It's never the same for me. As far as taste is concerned, it doesn't taste like anything but sometimes it can have a sweet light taste to it (I am guessing it depends on the "diet" of the lady).

When someone helps out another when in need ! That always always makes my day :) Kindness like a boomerang...always returns...

Happy Birthday Serena! Hope you have a good one! xoxo

that is super hot to hear !!..although for me who loves it messy and is a shooter..it's really hard to control, especially in that "moment". trying to keep it out of the eyes and hair..is almost impossilbe when doing cof..especially if i'm on top which I prefer to get the over the top visual of it all. the eye contact however is super hot and definitely increases the sensuality of it all. Sitting and just looking at the results after is also very hot for me. I do understand what it's like to get in your eyes tho..like battery acid..lol. I've hit myself a few times while playing by myself...unintentionally of course. The walk around the rest of the day with pink eye...do people know?? lol? Either you are really stoned on one side of your body only..or you have cum in your eye...lol!! Additional Comments: very hot Emily..just read it..and for a guy with a bit of a fetish..it's very sexy to hear you talk about it in such detail. I also find it odd that most men haven't tasted their own. Although I don't sit around drink it, i certainly would not refrain from kissing a girl that has it on her face after..and of course you get a little taste of it.

It's also that slight bit of uncomfort that is a turn on for me when a girl swallows and isn't expecting so much. once done they always say ..omg..now that was a f--kin load...wow. the second time is never quite as exciting..as it's now expected. I do notice that with me, swallowing after each squirt is easier to manage. I have had some even the second time that prefer to let it build up and then swallow the whole amount..but it's not easy and takes someone experienced to not gag. Although swallowing after each shot also takes perfect timing..otherwise you are swallowing while the next one is shooting..ect..ect. you girls are talented!! and i love it!

I always like to bring fine wine so I like to ask, red or white?

Touched, Taken, Held, Seen Just because you're someone who is used to doing, or expected to do, all the giving doesn't mean you don't want to be worked over on occasion, or all the time! Maybe you're missing touch, yearning to receive for a change, looking for a lady to witness your vulnerabilities, wanting a partner to explore a fantasy or interested in a new experience. Take a look at my specialties to see what is possible. For photos and information about me, take a look at my new website! I am also available for phone sessions. Contact me for details. [email protected]

Bonne Fête Katrine! Enjoy the very special day of yours!

Happy Birthday!! I hope u get lots of presents

Well Emily, you must be pretty good to invest in a Martin. Nice guitar, and you'll look sexy indeed with that one on your lap. I've got a Martin, Tacoma, Washburn, Crafter and some other oldies but goodies but my fave is an old 12 string I bought at a garage sale and refurbished myself I have no idea what the brand is but she plays like a dream now. Chuck

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Haapy Bday sexy laady!

Happy Birthday Serena! Hope you have a fabulous day!

2500 posts is a lot of funny shit! Love it Lee. :)

Well done, Lee. Thanks for the laughs.

i agree with Hoffa, very friendly, clean, had a great time with her, only did half hour would repeat

I met her and her Pics are real. She's nice and and easy to talk to. Room was decent and clean and so was she. ONly did a 30 min so can't give a full report but she always asked me what I wanted to do. She definetly made sure I had a good time

Easy parking is the key. However, for you , my fantasy, a shack with a roof is all I'd need. The word "incall" is what I have been perusing your ads for.

all the best roman. hope you enjoy your special day :)

Happy Birthday!! I hope you party till dawn. hehe

Batman Huckleberry Hound or Deputy Dawg Note: My post #300, yay

how about Winnipeg ?? would be great to get this going :)