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I highly doubt everyone on here has one, or why would we all be on here, lol! I don't have one. I *have* had fuck buddies in the past, and the thing to keep it mind is a fuck buddy rides a very thin line into 'relationship'. They tend to start as easy sex, but then you start to sleep over... go for breakfast... text off and on... all of those things that make seeing escorts clean and simple, rather than dating. Many 'fuck buddy' relationships I've had have ended just as messy as relationships, because one, or both, of the people develop feelings toward one another.

From a ladies point of view I think P411 is great. It is becoming more and more popular and its one of the screening methods I encourage to new guests without a reference. I used it for the last few years and have found it easy to use as well as the gentlemen I know that have used the site to be verified mentioned is was easy and worth it.

I would like very much to believe that it is simply because the general population is becoming more enlightened, more aware. Monogamy is not natural. Those who believe it is need to recognize that strict sexual fidelity is a lofty but perhaps fundamentally doomed aspiration. Just look at the rise in divorces, and the number of "celeb" stories about infidelity. Tiger Woods was ridiculed for his multiple sex partners. Justin Bieber gets thrown to the media wolves for hiring a sex worker. Looking at mammals alone (as yes, even we humans are animals), 3-5% practice some form of monogamy, and even then there are limits. Even Emperor Penguins mate with one penguin for a year, and then move on. :) From a chemical and biological standpoint, sexual monogamy depends not just on particular hormones that are released in the brain, but on receptors for these hormones. Among humans, we have the chemicals and the receptors, but it varies from person to person how much we have. Based on brain wiring alone, inclination toward fidelity can vary dramatically from one individual to another. Quite simply, SEX is as necessary to humans as eating and breathing. And with the apparent surge in the swingers lifestyle, I am thrilled to think that couples, who chose to be together on the long term, have realized that while their hearts are committed to each other, they can still explore their sexual fantasies without "cheating". What's more, it VERY often ends up teaching them trust in each other, increasing communication between them, and improving their own PERSONAL sex life tenfold!!! Women and men BOTH have a desire to "stray" or "explore". Swinging allows couples to do just that, and what's more, they can do it TOGETHER.

Just wanted to add my 2 cents, as i have been an MA for approx. 3 years now and a former independent SP I of course respect both professions equally. I feel that MA & SP are different in their own sensual and amazing ways. Both can be seductive and thrilling experiences ! I however for my own reasons; prefer the MA world only because I love the whole build up and sensuality of the massage, the connection between my client and I and the seductiveness of the whole experience. This is what i seek, and enjoy it thoroughly ! Both are wonderful worlds to explore ! Variety is the spice of life!

Hey boys ... come and spice up your day with me at the Paradise Spa in Ottawa .. I'm here till 9pm tonight .. pm me or just call 613-820-8887 to book ! I'll be waiting for you xxx

Took a nice long drive through Val Des Monts today and then went to Poutinefest.

I disagree that seeing an SP is a good option for a younger guy. I don't really prefer the younger guys. If I did, I could make a fortune, because it seems, in recent years, they're starting younger and younger. I think this is because we're becoming more of a consumer society. Young people think first to buy what they want, rather than to live the life. In a way, that's really sad. For many years, I wouldn't see younger men because I didn't want to "become the crutch that cripples." In other words, I always felt that, by relying on the service of SPs, young men were able to take an edge off that otherwise might have compelled them to develop the skills and qualities they'd need to form more profound relationships with women. But I think all that's out the window these days. We've become a zombie culture, stiffly trudging from one immediate urge to another with our credit cards in hand. It will probably get worse before it gets better. My preference is for a man who's walked a fair track of life, who brings a heart that has loved well, and who knows himself well enough to admit how much he has yet to learn.

Wanted to discuss something personal away from my Routine SP.. tra la la :-) Yeah I do have personal relationships and Yeah I do date.Anyways.... Okay, so recently I met a guy that I thought I liked, and I assumed that he liked me, earlier today we hooked up a little (fingering and a lot of french kissing, sex kinda happened but he lost his erection quickly). Anyway, I asked him to go down on me and he refused, saying that I'm a squirter and that I get too wet, I'm mildly insulted, to say that least. Now I'm trying to figure out what I should do with this guy, and if any other females here have ever encountered this.

This morning while I drink my coffee and read the boards here, I?m struck by how many complaints we have about the guys who take advantage of some aspect of our services and then treat us badly. There are active discussions about men who: Try to negotiate or bargain clearly-stated non-negotiable fees Try to pay less than the agreed fee after they arrive Try to get services that were not agreed on before the date Complain about our screening questions Don?t bother to take a shower, brush their teeth or trim their nails before seeing us Assume that we're likely to rob them Threaten to write bad reviews and/or aren?t believed when they write good ones Insult us, our need for safety and even our looks when we don?t give in to what they demand No one is forced to read our ads and websites, look at our photos, contact us, discuss our services with us, or meet with us. It?s all voluntary and initiated by the client. The client has needs, feelings, preferences and curiosity, but why do so many refuse to take responsibility for themselves? What they express as anger, self-righteous indignation and personal entitlement is really projected self-hatred. I want to sit these men down and say: If you don?t want to see a paid companion, don?t do it. If you decide to seek out a companion, that's your decision. What you want is not what everyone else may want. That?s usually a wonderful thing. Recognize that we?re not like cheap candy that you can buy daily. We?re more like fine dining to be enjoyed occasionally. Plan accordingly. If someone?s prices are too high for you, either wait until you can afford her, or find someone else. Meanwhile, don't blame her for your lack of funds. Recognize that she charges what the market will bear. That means that there are plenty of others who can afford to see her. Always be polite and considerate. No matter what. Even if you feel confused, disappointed or insulted, be polite. Remember that companions are human beings, just like you. We have needs, desires, dreams and things we?re worried about or afraid of, just as you do. We will protect both your health and our own. Fair is fair. If you're worried about your safety, know that she's concerned about her safety, too. No matter who or how important you are or think you are, the one who is taking the most risks is always the companion. Always. Relax.

Considering the recent discussions here on CERB about fat/skinny body shaming, I wanted to share this amazing website that I came across today! "The Nu Project is a series of honest nudes of women from all over the world. The project began in 2005 and has stayed true to the original vision: no professional models, minimal makeup and no glamour. The focus of the project has been and continues to be the subjects and their personalities, spaces, insecurities and quirks." It is quite a remarkable collection of photographs of a wide variety of real women. It is a showcases and celebrates the beauty in ALL women's bodies, in their natural state. All unique and beautiful in their own way! :) www.thenuproject.com Enjoy!

Looking for something delicious? Sensuous? Tantric and tantalizing? I'm all of those things and more wrapped in a yummy little package. Drop by and take a bite of this tasty treat tomorrow, you won't regret it ;) I am a tall red head with a model type body that will leave you speechless without a doubt. Sexy longs legs and stunning blue eyes that will leave you breathless. A mind blowing experience that will have you coming back for more time and time again. My services include: full body massage, body slides, reverse massages, showers for 2, and I am very open to couples sessions and catering to the ladies :wink: Come see me today and get your mind blown at Paradise Spa located in the West End. Tomorrow from 9am until 4:30pm Wednesday from 12:30pm until 11pm Thursday from 9am until 5:30pm Friday from 3:30pm until 11pm Saturday from 9am until 4pm Sunday from 10am until 9pm Call to book some sexy time with me at 613-820-8887

Congratulations. I love a great mind.

Congrats Oldguy on your 500+ post achievement !

For those who havent met me,My name is Maya,The GreekGoddess MA ,and Im here to Accommodate your wants,and needs.For those whom met me,well you know me.I also provide Gspot Stimulation for the Gents interested in this service! -I am an easy going person,down to earth,open minded girl,easy to approach.. -My Recos Range from Ottawa,Montreal,and Toronto. -My Rates i believe is quite reasonable and fair,you wont be disappointed,only happy about it.[/color] -My session are ALL INCLUSIVE 130 for 30mins, 45mins 160,and 1 hr 180!! All these services include bodyslide reverse and fun fun FUN!Wink!!! My description is;Long raven black hair,beautiful alluring eyes,olive skin,5'3,nice A&T This week Schedule:Monday to friday from 330-11pm!! Sat from 1-9pm! -Looking foward meeting you pervs! -For Booking call 274-7073 Or you may Pm me personally! **Je parle francais Aussi!!!!**

Jessica Rabbit is a name from about 4 or 5 years ago...there were a couple other Jessica's , so one decided to use the name Jessica rabbit...which actually only seemed to add even more confusion to the mix..there was "original Jessica"..a 40 something blonde bomeshell that could stop traffic dead by walking down the street....and besides that incredible sevice... there was another 30 something Jessica...and then a 25something Jessica rabbit, who was cute, thin, and gave good service......but unfotunately know one could sort out who was who....I believe the Jessica who is currently at Moonlight...was also known as Jessica rabbit back in 2008/2009..... shes still cute, tiny., and fun...30ish :)

Y is for "Your as young as you feel, and being with CERB ladies makes this 52 year old feel young" RG

I feel that these are just people too "lazy" to find the info themselves. I could be wrong, this is simply how I perceive them. I'm glad most members avoid chirping in with reco's on those particular threads because they can only recommend someone who was good FOR THEM! My best friend can go on all day about her damn Pho soup, doesn't mean I'm going to love it.

Let me bring a smile to the beginning of your week with a relaxing yet sensual and steamy massage! I am 5'4, big blue eyes, short dark hair and curvy with tattoos that compliment my body in all the right places!! I will provide you with a sensual massage to get you started. I will follow up with a sexy body slide that will have you wanting more! Satisfying for the eyes and the body!! Then I will let the bubbles lead the trail for my fingers in the shower!! Duos couples body slides showers reverse massage foot fetishes I am here today to heighten you senses today from 10:00AM to 11:00PM at Angel's Touch 613-274-7073, Private Message me or email [email protected] to book Look forward to seeing you http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6518

In order for me to be completely turned on I need to know hat my partner is enjoying himself, and that he is being pleased.. I love pleasing my partner, and giving them my all so that they feel the best they've ever felt... I'm not satisfied unless my partner is.... Watching my partner cum, gets me in the verge of cumming I love to tease, but my goal is to please

Good Morning Gentlemen, I'm Sasha, a young fit and playful MA who loves to massage and can do it for hours. My sensual erotic massage will relieve your tension & leave you more than satisfied. I'm very fun, open minded and comfortable to be around so let's make this experience as enjoyable and naughty as your fantasies.. ;) I'm petite 5'4, athletic 120 lbs, perky b34 bust, nice round booty, brunette with blond highlights, golden tan, seductive lips, hazel bedroom eyes, 100% natural beauty.. Services: Full erotic body massage Reverse massage Slippery body slides reverse body slides Shower for 2 Hot tub fun Relaxing music Fresh towels & linens Duos Some fetishes ATM available on site Schedule: Monday: 9am-9pm Wednesday: 9am-5:30pm Thursday: 9am-7:30pm Saturday: 9am-4pm Sunday: 10am-9pm http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=S&t=146238 Join me for some hot steamy fun call: 613-820-8887 or 613-614-2117 -Sasha xxx

Congratulations on reaching 1000! You have been an outstanding contributor so far and I am looking forward to reading more! You always seem to put lots of thought behind what you write which makes your posts interesting to read. Have a great week!!!

If you want pictures of regular women, try http://www.reddit.com/r/gonewild where women and men post naughty pictures of themselves. For the uninitiated, an F or M in the title usually gives away whether it's a guy, girl or a couple. Something along the lines of "{F}eeling frisky in the shower" for example. To be honest, I think gonewild is about 99% women now since there are other gonewild subreddits that are more specific. For example: http://www.reddit.com/r/gonewildcurvy (for more curves) http://www.reddit.com/r/ladybonersgw (for the ladies) http://www.reddit.com/r/GWCouples (for the amateur pornographers) In any event, it's all real people posting naughty pictures of themselves without the aid of professional lighting, makeup, hair and post processing.

Rawr- woot, congrats:) Keep them cumming Tracie, you are a very deserving, appreciated and involved member-thank you for your participation and friendship. I look forward to many more of your posts.

congrats and keep them coming

E is for eating that daring darling mmmm

Awesome achievement. Great posts :-)

Congratulations on reaching your 1000th post!!! :D

There IS an existing market for both MA's and SP's ! :) I gleefully respect both and those who optimistically seek them. Cheers to diversity! And cheers to keeping it rosey!

As someone who is still on the fence about who to see, or even if I want to see anyone, I can give you a little insight into my own issues (for lack of a better word) and why I might post a thread like that. I haven't, and probably won't as I've decided the only real way to make a decision is to contact the lady I choose directly and work things out. (or not, depending) A lot of you have touched on many of the reasons I would post one of those threads already, but I'll list them here. Maybe it will help let you know why some people need to ask questions. Nervousness - Being both new, as well as having low self esteem, I might ask who to see because I would want to make sure that whoever I see will make me feel comfortable and not feel judged. I might be hoping to find someone who was in the same boat who could give advice as to which SP they found would make me feel most comfortable. Having a good experience - As was pointed out by someone, I would want my first experience to be an enjoyable one, so I might be asking just to reassure myself that the lady(ies) I have picked out will be a good fit. Sometimes you can't get that from reviews. (especially if the review is written like a play-by-play of sexual positions with little else added in) Too many choices (this one wouldn't be for me yet, due to geographical location) - I can see how someone might be overwhelmed with choices. Every woman here on CERB is beautiful, but maybe someone might be looking to narrow things down a bit, maybe looking for a bit more insight into the lady's character in order to make a short list based on what they are looking for. (If I could do it, I would spend time with every lady on here :) ) Bait and switch / horror stories - Until I started finding sites like CERB I never really thought about this possibility, but now that I am aware of it I am a little more leery of things. Some guys might be looking for reassurance that the lady they have picked is going to be who they think they are. Not enough time to do the research - Not really an excuse, but if someone is traveling they might try to do some research on their own, but in the end might decide it is easier just to ask others. I can't see this being an issue for me personally, as all my traveling is planned well in advance, but you never know, it might happen some time that I will have to take an unexpected trip and decide I would like to see a lady while there. These are some of my main concerns, and why I might ask advice on who to see. However having said that I am of the opinion that the best way to narrow things down is to look at the lady's posts if possible, website as well, and if things look good from that aspect, contact the lady herself. I think those are really the only way to make an informed decision. (and even that isn't infallible)

I love to slip and slide too :) Check out another review: "Salina is THE Polish Princess in Ottawa. Her exotic look, porcelain skin, kissable lips are very enticing. Her massage is very good, able to go from hard to soft when she feels the need. Her body is soooooo pretty, erotic and sensitive. Great ability to put folks at ease, and makes you feel like you are the only one in the world when together with her. Not to be missed. Paradise Spa is where she works, very easy to get to, clean, bright, safe and managed very well. Can't wait to play again!!!!" Working until ( tonight

I just wanted to ad my 2 cent here...I don't really like the way this thread has turned...as you can find sensuality in both MA and SP experience...nuff said!For the OP...like a lot have said...do your research and take the plunge!BJ xxx

My father was suppose to have one of his kidney remove on Friday...operation didn't happen because they think he may have bladder cancer...my grandmother died of this. FML

Congratulations OldGuy! Thanks for all your contributions.

As curious7 mentioned, put it in your ads that you offer longer term and travel dates. You might also mention in your website (if you don't already) that you offer longer dates and are a travel companion. I still believe CERB is the site to be And for longer dates and travel dates, and this just my opinion, but this won't be a first date. Two people spending time alone together, well it would work best if they both have had encounters together already and know one another. Two people, who are strangers, traveling together, well what if there is no chemistry...it could make for a very long trip Good Luck RG

Zoe D. That is all!!!

Just want to start by saying that I have had many public run ins with clients-and I have to say 98% of them are just as private about our encounters as I am, and they all handle themselves accordingly ;) as do I :) Here is a story on what NOT to do when you run into an sp in a public setting. I was at the casino last year with a gf of mine. We had a very nice time. About a week or so after-I meet with a regular client of mine-who indicates to me that: 1) Was with his friends and he saw me 2) Told his friends how he knew me and what I do 3) Tried to find me-looked all over the casino-so he could introduce me to his friends as an sp Thank GOD-he did not find me that night. When he told me this-I could not believe it...His intentions were not meant to be bad-however I feel humiliated that he just spit out that info about me-that these guys know who I am as VANESSA VALE-yet I have no clue as to who they are or what they look like. IT was super invasive. And no offence, but also scary when someone can act so stupidly carless when it comes to discretion. He thought this would benefit me financially. I would rather starve and have my lights turned off than expose myself as an sp to whomever, because just like our clients, many of us ladies have to keep this hush hush too ;) It would be just as bad as me pointing out to my friends who I spend time with as an sp....privacy is important for both parties.

I have only experienced it twice but i enjoyed both times very much. The first time the girl didn't know what had happened but i enjoyed it. Having it happen means i am doing a good job. Thats what i want. Having a girl enjoy herself with me is as big if not bigger than me cumming. Women are so beautiful lets show we appreciate them.

I've discovered for me that sex without chemistry is pretty "blaw" and I have little interest in it. So for me it's that there is a strong "real" chemistry and genuine mutual attraction between a lady and I. Physical attributes play very little role for me. Mentally, if we're a good match then the laughter and sense that we feel like old friends seems to come easily. I guess that ladies I have visited with the most on a return basis have all openly expressed that they actually enjoyed our time together as much as I did. That inherently makes me feel good and want to return.

Carmella is very frequently at Barbs. Very pretty, lovely company.

Do hobbiests know how nice it is to hear that it's not all about them? Believe me...THAT'S a turn on for sure.

I've seen her picturs are real wasn't the best I've had wasn't the worst either I'd go back and see her she was friendly her place was clean

Kind of reminds me of people that we've all had to stand behind in line-usually at a coffee shop or fast food outlet. You know who I am talking about. They get up to the cash, completely ignore the menu and ask for something that isn't offered. As annoying at a Tim's as it is out here for SP's.

Democracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat