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I highly doubt everyone on here has one, or why would we all be on here, lol! I don't have one. I *have* had fuck buddies in the past, and the thing to keep it mind is a fuck buddy rides a very thin line into 'relationship'. They tend to start as easy sex, but then you start to sleep over... go for breakfast... text off and on... all of those things that make seeing escorts clean and simple, rather than dating. Many 'fuck buddy' relationships I've had have ended just as messy as relationships, because one, or both, of the people develop feelings toward one another.

From a ladies point of view I think P411 is great. It is becoming more and more popular and its one of the screening methods I encourage to new guests without a reference. I used it for the last few years and have found it easy to use as well as the gentlemen I know that have used the site to be verified mentioned is was easy and worth it.

I would like very much to believe that it is simply because the general population is becoming more enlightened, more aware. Monogamy is not natural. Those who believe it is need to recognize that strict sexual fidelity is a lofty but perhaps fundamentally doomed aspiration. Just look at the rise in divorces, and the number of "celeb" stories about infidelity. Tiger Woods was ridiculed for his multiple sex partners. Justin Bieber gets thrown to the media wolves for hiring a sex worker. Looking at mammals alone (as yes, even we humans are animals), 3-5% practice some form of monogamy, and even then there are limits. Even Emperor Penguins mate with one penguin for a year, and then move on. :) From a chemical and biological standpoint, sexual monogamy depends not just on particular hormones that are released in the brain, but on receptors for these hormones. Among humans, we have the chemicals and the receptors, but it varies from person to person how much we have. Based on brain wiring alone, inclination toward fidelity can vary dramatically from one individual to another. Quite simply, SEX is as necessary to humans as eating and breathing. And with the apparent surge in the swingers lifestyle, I am thrilled to think that couples, who chose to be together on the long term, have realized that while their hearts are committed to each other, they can still explore their sexual fantasies without "cheating". What's more, it VERY often ends up teaching them trust in each other, increasing communication between them, and improving their own PERSONAL sex life tenfold!!! Women and men BOTH have a desire to "stray" or "explore". Swinging allows couples to do just that, and what's more, they can do it TOGETHER.

Just wanted to add my 2 cents, as i have been an MA for approx. 3 years now and a former independent SP I of course respect both professions equally. I feel that MA & SP are different in their own sensual and amazing ways. Both can be seductive and thrilling experiences ! I however for my own reasons; prefer the MA world only because I love the whole build up and sensuality of the massage, the connection between my client and I and the seductiveness of the whole experience. This is what i seek, and enjoy it thoroughly ! Both are wonderful worlds to explore ! Variety is the spice of life!

Hey boys ... come and spice up your day with me at the Paradise Spa in Ottawa .. I'm here till 9pm tonight .. pm me or just call 613-820-8887 to book ! I'll be waiting for you xxx

Took a nice long drive through Val Des Monts today and then went to Poutinefest.

I disagree that seeing an SP is a good option for a younger guy. I don't really prefer the younger guys. If I did, I could make a fortune, because it seems, in recent years, they're starting younger and younger. I think this is because we're becoming more of a consumer society. Young people think first to buy what they want, rather than to live the life. In a way, that's really sad. For many years, I wouldn't see younger men because I didn't want to "become the crutch that cripples." In other words, I always felt that, by relying on the service of SPs, young men were able to take an edge off that otherwise might have compelled them to develop the skills and qualities they'd need to form more profound relationships with women. But I think all that's out the window these days. We've become a zombie culture, stiffly trudging from one immediate urge to another with our credit cards in hand. It will probably get worse before it gets better. My preference is for a man who's walked a fair track of life, who brings a heart that has loved well, and who knows himself well enough to admit how much he has yet to learn.

Wanted to discuss something personal away from my Routine SP.. tra la la :-) Yeah I do have personal relationships and Yeah I do date.Anyways.... Okay, so recently I met a guy that I thought I liked, and I assumed that he liked me, earlier today we hooked up a little (fingering and a lot of french kissing, sex kinda happened but he lost his erection quickly). Anyway, I asked him to go down on me and he refused, saying that I'm a squirter and that I get too wet, I'm mildly insulted, to say that least. Now I'm trying to figure out what I should do with this guy, and if any other females here have ever encountered this.

This morning while I drink my coffee and read the boards here, I?m struck by how many complaints we have about the guys who take advantage of some aspect of our services and then treat us badly. There are active discussions about men who: Try to negotiate or bargain clearly-stated non-negotiable fees Try to pay less than the agreed fee after they arrive Try to get services that were not agreed on before the date Complain about our screening questions Don?t bother to take a shower, brush their teeth or trim their nails before seeing us Assume that we're likely to rob them Threaten to write bad reviews and/or aren?t believed when they write good ones Insult us, our need for safety and even our looks when we don?t give in to what they demand No one is forced to read our ads and websites, look at our photos, contact us, discuss our services with us, or meet with us. It?s all voluntary and initiated by the client. The client has needs, feelings, preferences and curiosity, but why do so many refuse to take responsibility for themselves? What they express as anger, self-righteous indignation and personal entitlement is really projected self-hatred. I want to sit these men down and say: If you don?t want to see a paid companion, don?t do it. If you decide to seek out a companion, that's your decision. What you want is not what everyone else may want. That?s usually a wonderful thing. Recognize that we?re not like cheap candy that you can buy daily. We?re more like fine dining to be enjoyed occasionally. Plan accordingly. If someone?s prices are too high for you, either wait until you can afford her, or find someone else. Meanwhile, don't blame her for your lack of funds. Recognize that she charges what the market will bear. That means that there are plenty of others who can afford to see her. Always be polite and considerate. No matter what. Even if you feel confused, disappointed or insulted, be polite. Remember that companions are human beings, just like you. We have needs, desires, dreams and things we?re worried about or afraid of, just as you do. We will protect both your health and our own. Fair is fair. If you're worried about your safety, know that she's concerned about her safety, too. No matter who or how important you are or think you are, the one who is taking the most risks is always the companion. Always. Relax.

There seems to be a common misunderstanding that massage parlours offering hand jobs/happy endings are not providing prostitution services and therefore are not classified as "common bawdy houses" under the prostitution laws of the Criminal Code of Canada. The following comments illustrate this point of view. "Note however, that in some places (like Ottawa) some massage parlors are licensed by the City and thus have a permit to operate, as long as they only go so far (ie no oral or FS)." "You cannot get "full service" at a massage parlor, that would be illegal." "... to Offer BJ or FS to the gentlemen... this would make the spa a brothel which are clearly illegal..." Since many cities license erotic massage parlours/body rubs, and everyone knows what goes on inside them, it's understandable that this would lead to the mistaken belief that everything is legal. A hand job is a sexual service. Providing sexual services for money is prostitution. Any location where prostitution commonly occurs is a common bawdy house. Therefore massage parlours commonly providing hand jobs... are providing sexual services... and therefore are engaged in prostitution... and therefore the massage parlour is a common bawdy house. There's a legal distinction made between "erotic" services and "sexual" services. (I know, I know... it's a fine line ;-) ) Municipalities can regulate "erotic" services through zoning and licensing. These include strip clubs, adult video stores and massage parlours for example. They can't authorize "bawdy houses" since the Federal Criminal Code of Canada prohibits them. Another way to understand this is that a lower level of government can't adopt laws which are inconsistent with those of a higher level of government. This is a basic principle of constututional law. Therefore a municipal massage parlour license can't authorize a massage parlour to provide sexual services, including hand jobs, because that would make it a "bawdy house" and bawdy houses are illegal under Federal law. As stated in a Library of Parliament Research Publication on prostitution, "... municipalities walk a fine line between federal and municipal/provincial jurisdiction and must be careful not to take any measures that might deal with actual prostitution. Part of this balancing act consists in maintaining the illusion that escort services and massage and adult entertainment parlours are not fronts for prostitution-related activities." As for why massage parlours don't get busted, it's for basically the same reasons that the police look the other way with most indoor prostitution. If you operate discretely and the neighbours aren't disturbed, the police aren't going to go looking for trouble. They've got plenty of other crimes to investigate where there are real victims. This includes prostitution where there is real and obvious harm being done such as underage prostitution, violent pimps, and foreign sex workers who are trapped without their passports. Since it is so rare for police to bust a massage parlour, this gives the impression that they are all legal. But, they do get busted occasionally, so what causes the police to take action in a very few cases and look the other way in the majority of cases? I've attached a few links to news stories about massage parlours that were busted. These were all in inappropriate locations that drew complaints (next to daycares, ground floor of a condo). There are of course other examples of massage parlours being busted. These usually involve foreign women working in massage parlours who are being victimized or under aged girls. It's not my intent to scare either massage attendants or clients with this information. Clearly the vast majority of massage parlours generally operate without any problem. I do however think that we should all be knowledgable about prostitution law (and sexual health information) so that we can assess the risk of our activities. Avoiding massage parlours which are likely to draw complaints from neighbours is a simple step to take. The upcoming Supreme Court of Canada decision on prostitution laws will likely affect the current legal status of massage parlours as bawdy houses. So if you work in or frequent a massage parlour, you should be interested in the outcome of that case. http://metronews.ca/news/calgary/839283/inside-a-calgary-bawdy-house-evidence-of-happenings-at-massage-parlour-found-online/ http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/massage-parlour-busted-in-residential-building-1.1240820 http://ottawa.ctvnews.ca/police-lay-prostitution-charges-at-gatineau-bawdy-house-1.574116 One final point. When massage attendants and clients discuss sexual services/price in the private massage room of a massage parlour this is not considered public solicitation. The private massage room has the same status as a hotel room. It's a private space, not a public space.

Looking for something delicious? Sensuous? Tantric and tantalizing? I'm all of those things and more wrapped in a yummy little package. Drop by and take a bite of this tasty treat tomorrow, you won't regret it ;) I am a tall red head with a model type body that will leave you speechless without a doubt. Sexy longs legs and stunning blue eyes that will leave you breathless. A mind blowing experience that will have you coming back for more time and time again. My services include: full body massage, body slides, reverse massages, showers for 2, and I am very open to couples sessions and catering to the ladies :wink: Come see me today and get your mind blown at Paradise Spa located in the West End. Tomorrow from 9am until 4:30pm Wednesday from 12:30pm until 11pm Thursday from 9am until 5:30pm Friday from 3:30pm until 11pm Saturday from 9am until 4pm Sunday from 10am until 9pm Call to book some sexy time with me at 613-820-8887

Congratulations. I love a great mind.

Congrats on hitting the 1000 posts milestone......I know I personally have read most all of them and anxiously await the next 1000 great posts from this amazingly sexy lady. Keep them cumming please! *RAWR* indeed.

Jessica Rabbit is a name from about 4 or 5 years ago...there were a couple other Jessica's , so one decided to use the name Jessica rabbit...which actually only seemed to add even more confusion to the mix..there was "original Jessica"..a 40 something blonde bomeshell that could stop traffic dead by walking down the street....and besides that incredible sevice... there was another 30 something Jessica...and then a 25something Jessica rabbit, who was cute, thin, and gave good service......but unfotunately know one could sort out who was who....I believe the Jessica who is currently at Moonlight...was also known as Jessica rabbit back in 2008/2009..... shes still cute, tiny., and fun...30ish :)

Y is for "Your as young as you feel, and being with CERB ladies makes this 52 year old feel young" RG

Before I entered into this business, I would hook up with others. However, I found that they wanted more, would show up at my place without an invitation, and even jealousy if they found out I was seeing other FWB's. I didn't like it, and ended up going into the business instead. This way, I get my needs and wants met, but if I don't want to see someone, or want to do something else, I have that option. I don't know of anyone who has managed to have a FWB or fuck buddy that remained that. Emotions evolve, and things change. I prefer this instead.

I feel that these are just people too "lazy" to find the info themselves. I could be wrong, this is simply how I perceive them. I'm glad most members avoid chirping in with reco's on those particular threads because they can only recommend someone who was good FOR THEM! My best friend can go on all day about her damn Pho soup, doesn't mean I'm going to love it.

Let me bring a smile to the beginning of your week with a relaxing yet sensual and steamy massage! I am 5'4, big blue eyes, short dark hair and curvy with tattoos that compliment my body in all the right places!! I will provide you with a sensual massage to get you started. I will follow up with a sexy body slide that will have you wanting more! Satisfying for the eyes and the body!! Then I will let the bubbles lead the trail for my fingers in the shower!! Duos couples body slides showers reverse massage foot fetishes I am here today to heighten you senses today from 10:00AM to 11:00PM at Angel's Touch 613-274-7073, Private Message me or email [email protected] to book Look forward to seeing you http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6518

Awesome job Midnight Massage We all look forward to many more sexy posts Kisses and Stat Sexy xxo

v is for Very pretty Vagina

In order for me to be completely turned on I need to know hat my partner is enjoying himself, and that he is being pleased.. I love pleasing my partner, and giving them my all so that they feel the best they've ever felt... I'm not satisfied unless my partner is.... Watching my partner cum, gets me in the verge of cumming I love to tease, but my goal is to please

Good Morning Gentlemen, I'm Sasha, a young fit and playful MA who loves to massage and can do it for hours. My sensual erotic massage will relieve your tension & leave you more than satisfied. I'm very fun, open minded and comfortable to be around so let's make this experience as enjoyable and naughty as your fantasies.. ;) I'm petite 5'4, athletic 120 lbs, perky b34 bust, nice round booty, brunette with blond highlights, golden tan, seductive lips, hazel bedroom eyes, 100% natural beauty.. Services: Full erotic body massage Reverse massage Slippery body slides reverse body slides Shower for 2 Hot tub fun Relaxing music Fresh towels & linens Duos Some fetishes ATM available on site Schedule: Monday: 9am-9pm Wednesday: 9am-5:30pm Thursday: 9am-7:30pm Saturday: 9am-4pm Sunday: 10am-9pm http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=S&t=146238 Join me for some hot steamy fun call: 613-820-8887 or 613-614-2117 -Sasha xxx

Congratulations and thanks to you, Tracie, for your continuous support of this community and its members. Your acknowledgement of members' achievements, and your own clever and thoughtful posts, are a real contribution to the positive spirit this site is dedicated to promoting. Thank you!!

Tracie! I knew you could do it, way to go! I love reading your wet & wild posts and look forward to reading moar!

Congrats Tracie! 1000 sexy posts! *RAWR*

I still think Boardwalk empire is the best show on tv-hbo. Then I'd say Real time with Bill Maher, love him. I am also loving re-runs of corner gas. One show I wish would stop playing is Big bang theory, not a fan!!

Great 1000 posts. Congratulations. The next 1000 will come faster :)

Congrat's Midnite Massage on reaching your first 1000 posts....

Thank you so much for your insightful posts and congrats on your incredible milestone! Xoxo

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Discussing sex in a club or spa is illegal. Anyone mentioning this is breaking the rules here. So don't.

Congratulations on this major milestone Looking forward to reading your continued contributions RG

E is for eating that daring darling mmmm

Congratulations on reaching your 1000th post!!! :D

I just wanted to ad my 2 cent here...I don't really like the way this thread has turned...as you can find sensuality in both MA and SP experience...nuff said!For the OP...like a lot have said...do your research and take the plunge!BJ xxx

My father was suppose to have one of his kidney remove on Friday...operation didn't happen because they think he may have bladder cancer...my grandmother died of this. FML

Maybe something else to consider. A newbie may have heard stories of bait and switch and other negative aspects of this lifestyle. He may want to ensure that his first encounter will be a positive experience...it's not so much a case of who is the right lady to see, but a way to avoid the wrong ladies, those who give this lifestyle a bad name One more thing. A newbie to this lifestyle can be overwhelmed. It is more than sex for money. There is a lot of etiquette to learn. There are many beautiful ladies on CERB, how to select one, not to mention it may be a big hurdle just to decide to embark on this lifestyle, so maybe the guy just wants help narrowing his choice of a lady to see. A morning rambling RG

As curious7 mentioned, put it in your ads that you offer longer term and travel dates. You might also mention in your website (if you don't already) that you offer longer dates and are a travel companion. I still believe CERB is the site to be And for longer dates and travel dates, and this just my opinion, but this won't be a first date. Two people spending time alone together, well it would work best if they both have had encounters together already and know one another. Two people, who are strangers, traveling together, well what if there is no chemistry...it could make for a very long trip Good Luck RG

Interesting question. I can only speak as someone who would enjoy the experience, I can't say I've had the pleasure yet. That said, I think I'd prefer it to take little effort to achieve the effect. Mostly, this would simply be because you'd be more likely to get to enjoy it again and again! :) On top of that, from what I've read, it seems like it would also be preferable because it would take the pressure off. I'm thinking of the ladies who have said the one thing that is most certain to prevent them from squirting is feeling pressured to do so. So if it's taking a lot of time and effort--despite the fact that the process can still be enjoyable--I'd worry the lady would start feeling stressed or worried knowing that is your goal, and the longer it takes the more distracted and difficult it would become. Not words that should be used to describe sex! So, just like leading a lady to any orgasm, while the process of getting there is indeed much of the fun, the less effort and therefore less pressure, the better to my mind. Besides, one complaint I'm pretty sure no guy has ever uttered is "dammit, she just orgasms too easily!" ;)

Zoe D. That is all!!!

I've discovered for me that sex without chemistry is pretty "blaw" and I have little interest in it. So for me it's that there is a strong "real" chemistry and genuine mutual attraction between a lady and I. Physical attributes play very little role for me. Mentally, if we're a good match then the laughter and sense that we feel like old friends seems to come easily. I guess that ladies I have visited with the most on a return basis have all openly expressed that they actually enjoyed our time together as much as I did. That inherently makes me feel good and want to return.

Was curious if you know you're pleasing and really getting him hot and wild for you. Does this play a mental or physical factor in you getting off?

Do hobbiests know how nice it is to hear that it's not all about them? Believe me...THAT'S a turn on for sure.

Kind of reminds me of people that we've all had to stand behind in line-usually at a coffee shop or fast food outlet. You know who I am talking about. They get up to the cash, completely ignore the menu and ask for something that isn't offered. As annoying at a Tim's as it is out here for SP's.

Democracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat