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As so many others are saying, be careful how you position your relationships with SPs in your life. SPs offer awesome times, but it's paid companionship for a specific duration. I don't think SPs should really be expected to maintain that relationship outside your sessions. Not only would that be impractical to keep up with every client; it also erodes the boundaries that keep sex work healthy and sensible for both parties. One of the big hazards as a client is getting confused about the nature of your relationship with an SP. It's cool and awesome but it's at heart a professional relationship -- not personal. Also, maybe think about the way you're interacting with the SPs when you contact them casually: If you just want to let her know that you're thinking about her or wish her well, send her a quick message and leave it at that. It's one-way, and you aren't expecting anything back or measuring the outcome by her response. This kind of message is thoughtful and generous. But... if you're sending an SP a message in order to get a reply, and to start a conversation... well, that's different. Now you're asking her to give YOU something -- her time and attention -- and that's not really being generous any more. In fact, it's kind of the opposite. Last thing: you mention that you've been seeing SPs for five years, since you turned 18. I don't know you, but that kind of worries me a little. I hope you're also making time in your life to develop personal relationships with "civilian" women in your everyday life. Time spent with SPs is awesome, but that experience is just a very tiny subset of a full relationship. It takes work and meeting responsibilities to earn an ongoing place in someone's thoughts and life. More time and energy on that stuff for a while, maybe? Just a thought.

I have not seen this thread recently and I am sure there are lots of people who could use a hug today. So if that's you, take this and savor it. :) Have a great day!

I would love to donate blood. Never been able to though due to frequent tattoos and my promiscuous lifestyle. Most people on this site wouldn't be accepted due to the second reason (unless you're dishonest at blood services).

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First, let me say that I agree with almost everything that has been said so far. Second, many SP/client professional relationships are successful, in part, due to understanding and respect for the unwritten NSA rule... NO Strings Attached once the rendez-vous has come to an end; a concept that some will gladly embrace while others will always choose to push the boundaries of. The latter will most likely affect your chances at a second (third, fourth...) rendez-vous or will unfortunately ruin what you've already established with the lady/ladies in question. Coming across as too needy, high maintenance and entitled to xyz, with expectations on top of that after a rendez-vous is, let's be honest, a real turn off for the ladies.

One point to make. In other threads (the negotiating thread comes to mind) ladies were pretty much across the board and most gentlemen too that this lifestyle is unlike any other business and shouldn't be compared to other businesses. In fairness it shouldn't now be compared to other businesses. This business is a very unique, very intimate and very special lifestyle lifestyle with really no other comparisons. To compare it to other businesses now seems a tad unfair. And I do believe the OP asks a valid question. One function of this board and community is to learn. There is a unique intimacy in this lifestyle. But the intimate nature of this lifestyle notwithstanding, friendship is something that is special and may happen, but more than likely won't happen in this lifestyle. But sending emails in the hopes of making a friend isn't going to happen. When you see someone regularly, it might happen. But friendship is something that unfolds naturally. Hopefully he received the answer he is looking for. Good Luck RG

So do you expect the same thing with your dentist? The clerk at your local beer store? The tow truck driver that roadside assistance sent out that time you needed a boost? It's not uncommon for SPs and customers to become friends. But we aren't automatically your friend because we saw you and were nice to you, or even enjoyed ourselves with you, while being paid for our time. There's more to friendship than that. I hope you aren't holding it against them as professionals that they aren't jumping through these hoops you're setting out for them. Isn't the only thing they're really responsible for is providing a great service during the time you pay for, and protecting your privacy?

It's great to be committed to what you want to do and to be serious about it, having strong ethics is important especially in a career such as that. Still sometimes it's important to also consider the spirit of the rule and not just what they are saying. I mean some people are incredibly safe in this industry, see people only a couple times a year and would be low risk. Then some people that are in a committed relationship will have unprotected sex with their partner who maybe isn't as committed to the relationship, so their risk factor is much higher. There are no absolutes but you try to be careful and understand if you are genuinely at risk or not. Oh and trust me if everyone in the health profession avoided seeing companions we'd be in trouble. I suspect there are a few Surgeons, Radiologists, Oncologists, Anesthesiologists, Dentists, Dermatologists, Pathologists, Cardiologists, etc. that are keeping some of your favourite ladies in business... just a hunch though. :tongue:

Not only should you not apologize but it's important for everyone to remember there are actually plenty of board members that might qualify, we see lots of threads each year from people that post "Still haven't taken the plunge, long time lurker but thinking about it..." The fact is it's a good reminder for people and yes though Canadian Blood Services does rule out a large number of us for multiple reasons there are still others on here that can donate and more importantly friends, family and loved ones that also can and it's good to keep it top of mind as you never know who in our lives might also need a blood donation. I too fall in the category of cannot donate, not just for the obvious reason but like a few others on here the extensive questionnaire rules me out in more than one place however I've had loved ones that have needed blood before and I am truly grateful to those that donate. I also have a pet that is a blood donor, not everyone realizes this but sometimes our little furry friends need blood too and mine have donated in the past to help save the lives of a few shelter animals and other pets that came into my Vets office, little ones that needed a helping hand (and a cooperative universal donor). It's good to give back when and where you can. Oh and my furry one was rewarded with a ton of treats and snuggles... well when I was forgiven. ;)

Jafo don't feel bad and I am sure most here agree you don't have to apologize, you didn't know about the ridiculous rules to be able to donate blood and you also mentioned volunteering and organ donation. Besides, any post to encourage people to help others is a good post :)

I completely agree. Jafo, you don't need to apologize at all - you have all the good intentions. I have been a blood-donor for over 10 years. I have to stop donating after starting to partake in this hobby. I really wish one day the rules could change and we all could continue to contribute to the society. To be honest, it does cross my mind sometimes to lie on the form. I feel like I am taking all the precautions, safe measures and get myself tested regularly, and yet my blood could not be used to save someone's life.

Cleo is right...any of us on CERB fill out that form honestly are precluded from donating just because we partake in this lifestyle Not to mention some have certain health issues that also preclude them from donating Here's the questionnaire...see who is eligible http://www.blood.ca/centreapps/internet/uw_v502_mainengine.nsf/page/ROD%20Questionnaire But it's a nice sentiment...too bad Canadian Blood Services isn't enlightened RG

As Cleo pointed out we are not allowed to donate blood, not sure what the policies to donate organs are. Even for volunteering you have to go through paper work like police check that may not be ready on time. Is sad how they make helping others so difficult. I understand safety is important but a real criminal will find his way to do harm and not apply knowing he will get screened same as like it was mentioned already one can lie to donate blood.

I am so sorry to hear that, Cleo. I hope I have not offended anyone or touched on a delicate subject. If I have, please accept my sincerest apologies.

WOW! Some strong words on you "gottarocker" Please remember everyone has their own personal opinions wants and needs and can find true beauty in even the most disgusting of women. I am sure you could have been a little gentler with your the way you expressed your feelings. May I suggest private messaging or an idea- You could say something like - Yes I have met her she was not to my liking however you may enjoy her company. Then you could invite anyone interested to p.m you for more information. That is when you can express any and all concerns. That way you are giving the sp a fighting chance and the gentleman the opportunity to make his own decision. Cerb is a "friendly" recommendation bored. Not for nasty reviews. I am not one to stick my nose where it does not belong but I do believe outing someone on a public form is un called for. Note To All- All persons have feelings Xox Selena

I understand this must be rather frustrating for you. When we have an intimate connection with someone, and spend a couple or a few hours intertwined with someone both physically and emotionally, it's hard to not have expectations or desire something more. (More is vague, but I think everyone knows what I mean). It's true that everyone is busy, but people (in general) are usually selective about who they are friends with. This happens both in the industry, and outside of it. I'm certain you don't talk to every friend on your Facebook, just the ones you really care about, right? I'm not suggesting these SPs don't care about you, but I can only imagine how frustrating it gets to receive these sorts of PMs, texts, and e-mails continuously from every client, when most of those clients never book an appointment with them again. We all learn from experience, and there are a lot of people in this industry who will see a girl once and then never see her again, but expect texts, e-mails, and friendly PMs. I don't think that's a fair expectation to have. Once you've established a regular connection with an SP or MA, that's a different story, but when you've only seen someone once? That's a bit more complicated to navigate, and will definitely be dependent on how busy the worker is (both personally and professionally). I know it sucks, but that's the way it is =( You're definitely not the only one that feels that way, but we all learn with experience. I really hope you find what you're looking for, Nat xox

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I do chat quite a bit in the time preceding a meeting, I enjoy the virtual foreplay and that sort of communication makes for a successful session ... for me. I do have a problem when people take advantage of that, or assume that because that's my style before a meeting that I have time to text them continuously over the next several weeks or months.. even years...after the meeting. I met a gentleman for an hour once, over a year ago. He texts me frequently and says he wants to book, maybe for "next week" which of course never comes. It's extremely frustrating. He dangles an appointment like a carrot ..almost like he wants me to ask him for a meeting, which is so not my style. I told him recently that I was tired of it, that his $250 bucks ran out a long time ago and that my service didn't include constant texting over months & years. Understand that first, not every lady appreciates frequent or lengthy communication, and second, some gents take complete advantage and that spoils it for everyone.

Several years ago a close family member was on life support and was pronounced brain dead. With no chance of recovery, and after a few days coming to our sense we made the decision of taking her off life support but not before signing the release to donate any viable organs.a couple years ago a memorial was held for the families of people who donated their organs. We received a memento with listed the organs that were successfully donated, which ultimately changed 6 peoples lives. 1 life saving 6, I only hope that I can do the same if I were to pass away.

Thanks Jafo105 for the thoughtful thread:) I've been volunteering for quite sometime now, different animal charities. If I can't give my time I give my money, one or the other or both. But since my dogs surgery and for my personal well being, I had to cut back. I've been spending some time visiting an aged home lately. But both these things take a toll. Today the senior I was sitting with started crying because she was tired of just sitting in her room. When it gets warmer I'll take her out, but she's quite frail, it was so sad. Situations like that and seeing dogs penned up wanting out, coming in from bad situations has drained me. Life is so good for some and so sad for others. I guess volunteering is good but for me right now, I can only do it here and there. We all should try though, a little is better than none. Sadly as it's been said giving blood is off the list and to my understanding so is organ donation.

Please don't be sorry , this is all information we all need to be reminded of . No mater how much we know it , its never redundant. Love to all.

There should be no backlash, you are asking a legitimate question and stating an experience. My answer-When we are with you we are your friend and lover, you are paying us to be, sorry to be blunt, but that's the way it is and when we leave it's done-you are paying for that as well:) But I do think it's only polite to respond to a pm, especially a quick hi, hello or nice to hear from you, etc. I respond to all my pm's, even phone conversations from past clients and send out greetings on holidays, although my friend list has grown so much sometimes I'll make a post to wish all happy holidays,etc:) Sometimes expecting someone to chat may be to much for some though. Imagine if every client we saw wanted to have a conversation? I feel bad that you're feeling blown off, none of us should want a one time or repeat client to have those feelings. Perhaps there were or are unknown reasons for the no replies, or short ones, since I don't know anything about your exchanges I can't make an opinion. You shouldn't take it personally though, hugs:) Something I've learned-never expect anything from anyone and you'll never be disappointed:) but always stay true to yourself. If it makes you feel better to reach out to someone then do so, just don't be disappointed with their response, that's on them:)

There will be a current and former sex-worker only social from 7:30 p.m. - 9:30 p.m. on Wednesday April 2nd. It is open to sex-workers from any sector of the industry including erotic massage, escorts, cam workers, erotic dancers, people who offer BDSM services, phone workers, agency workers, and independents, etc. It is also open to any person of any gender and sexual orientation. There will be vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free snacks available. Please feel free to drop by for 15 minutes and then leave, or stay for the entirety of the two hours. Please PM me for the location (same location as usual). Again, this is for workers only (current and former). Thanks, Nat xox

After chatting with Betty on the PK Webcam, I decided to pay her a visit.... I would normally say that I like the ladies with a bit of thickness, but I am also a huge variety guy too. So, she is in your spinner class, not sure if she is 5'5", she may be less than that, but she is definitely a spinner, slender frame, small titties. I knew that before arriving, so this was not a surprise at all. Of yes, she isn't quite clean shaven, but pretty close. Betty greeted me at the door (for those that don't know, PK has a downtown condo, which the ladies share) and took me to the bedroom. We started with some deep deep french kissing, she was into this, and so was I... She asked if it was okay to remove my clothes, which I agreed to and she removed hers as well. Back to some kissing, and I slipped my hand to her love spot, she was big time wet, really enjoying it. She told me kissing got her going, and it did. She then proceeded to give me a BBBJ, nice deep throat, she was trying to take it all the way down her throat, and pretty darn close... It was my turn, and went down on her, and she was very responsive, and also enjoys some ass play, so I was able to give some DATO. She was really into this and built up to a nice orgasm. After that back to some more BBBJ, before we decided to put on the hat, and started with some cowgirl... She enjoyed this, but I really wanted to do her doggie, which she wanted to, so we switched around, and went doggie. Did last long before, I came.... She was very nice, offerred to clean up and is just a very nice lady. We chatted for a bit, she is a runner, and I have been running a bit lately, so we chatted a bit.. I was interested in trying a second shot, and she was more than willing to oblige.....She offer COF, but I elected CIM, which she was happy to finish me that way. Anyway, small premium for CIM, which I knew ahead of time. For you anal guys, she is willing to do this, the premium is more for that, but if you like this, she seems to be willing to oblige, but I suspect that would be YMMV, for obvious reasons. Would I repeat, sure, am I now a big fan of spinners....No not big time, but the sex was great, she has a great personality, and she seems to be in it because she loves the sex, and this was her first day... You never know how long the ladies will last at PK, so you'd better not procrastinate to see this one.

Two weeks on the road, 5000 km logged, stayed ahead of all snow storms, had awesome visits with family and friends, and now I am back on the Island. Isn't it funny, a nice funny, how much we enjoy going away, but at the end of the day, there's no place like home. :) MN2 is glad to be in his comfort zone but I expect will soon be planning the next road trip.

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Can someone tell me how. To delete posts on here

Although not a PEI boy, I second Magician's post which includes Emily Rushton (btw not a put down of other ladies mentioned, I haven't met them) I have seen her once, twice, OK well seven times I think ;-) and there is a reason I keep seeing her. And I am in the process of planning for our next escape, a weekend sleepover Emily tours across Canada, so if she comes to PEI, book an encounter with her, she redefines GFE She truly has brightened my life. I feel very fortunate to have met her Just a suggestion RG

A couple of ladies besides the names already mentioned are Emily Rushton, Alanna Johnson and Dorinda Bloom, I have had the pleasure to meet Emily and Alanna in the past, two amazing ladies, Dorinda is visiting Charlottetown in early May. I also had the pleasure to meet Katherine last week when she was here very nice and talented lady. If you check here on Cerb you will see lots of great reco's on all these ladies, we are very lucky here on the Island that Charlottetown is on their schedule all I can say treat them well when they do visit and they will return. Another lady who is the age you asked about who visits the island is Miss Sophia V. From Fredericton, she gives one of the best sensual and erotic massages with a happy ending a man could ever ask for,one of the best experiences you will ever have. Good Luck, Cerb is a fantastic place to what ever your desires are:)

Not sure what is in the water or air around here, but I got all the "crazies" out today, with strange and not nice txt today! hahahah, ohhh well sort of entertaining, lol...is it spring air?? lol Sun is shining in my window, almost feels like summer:) LOVE IT!!! My dog too loves it, he is in the window on top of couch with a goofy smile! hahahha

Mornin' NB folks. ;) Hope everyone had a good weekend. Me? I had a busy one (and a busy week). I wasn't planning on it, but today ends up being a day to recharge my batteries. Much needed. May this Monday treat you well. :D

Thank you all for the warm welcome!....errr.... Warm and wet welcome ;) Either way, the boards in the States could learn From your instant hospitality. New to the board, not the hobby, but a nice welcome Indeed! May the GFEs be with you! Safe and Satisfying Hobbying to all! Real G.

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I'll disagree with you. This isn't a problem it's a discussion thread. One that was added to by multiple gentlemen sharing a similar sentiment about the industry as a whole. The OP also indicated many potential reasons for his boredom, his new relationship etc.... Our replies are to the thread as a whole and to the many people who have voiced opinions and asked questions. I don't see that the thread has gone off topic as the discussion was about the OP losing interest in his hobbying, not the state of affairs in Winnipeg for adult companionship. Kelly

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice) and there is a reference to Myra Breckinridge so for a treat and that was made in 1970, imagine if made today Your Welcome :-) RG

Nathalie Lefebvre also offers this :)

I would have to say Kelly @ CMJ , Mandy @ CMJ Chantal Summers @ Paradise Tiffany @ Angles " retired "

CMJ is totally right, massage industry is not what It used to be, everyday full service spas come into the business and all the magic of the sensual massage goes to other level. I think solution is for those spas to become agencies, and stop calling themselves massage parlors.

My responses: 1. Do you think that purchasing sexual services from an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: No as long as there is no duress involved. Duress is already covered by other laws though so prostitution should not require a special case. 2. Do you think that selling sexual services by an adult should be a criminal offence? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: No. For many women it can be an excellent and profitable career path. 3. If you support allowing the sale or purchase of sexual services, what limitations should there be, if any, on where or how this can be conducted? Please explain. Comment: I don't think there need to be codified rules although cities may wish to use zoning rules (like with strip clubs) to limit where bawdy houses can be located. I feel that existing loitering rules would be sufficient to keep street prostitution from being problematic. 4. Do you think that it should be a criminal offence for a person to benefit economically from the prostitution of an adult? Should there be any exceptions? Please explain. Comment: No. Existing rules cover extortion and human trafficking. Prostitutes should be able to hire assistants without fear of prosecution. 5. Are there any other comments you wish to offer to inform the Government's response to the Bedford decision? Comment: Stop being patronizing and paternalistic. Prostitutes are adults making adult choices and you can't assume that everyone doing it is somehow forced into it. Many women enjoy sex and have found that selling sexual services is a profitable and liberating way to make a living. They choose their hours, their clients, the acts they wish to provide, their fees and often can make far more money than they would at other professions. Yes, there are risks associated with this job but many other jobs have risks as well and we don't criminalize those career paths. 6. Are you are writing on behalf of an organization? If so, please identify the organization and your title or role: Comment: No.

I think, in this case, only 2 opinions matter: Yours and the guy you are trying to be with. Sure, it would be nice to hear other people's views, but keep in mind their opinions ultimately mean nothing.

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