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Restorative Justice works when ALL stakeholders in the process are involved. It is less focussed on the State imposing it's sanctions and more on the victim(s) and offender(s) mediating and coming up with some form of restitution that acknowledges the wrongdoing done. All the stakeholders must want to participate in this process And the goal is restitution that acknowledges the wrongdoing done. The goal is not how the offenders can remain in dental school. In fact the very real outcome of restorative justice in this case hypothetically speaking would be the victims agreeing with the police and Crown that they don't pursue any charges and in exchange the thirteen students agree to leave dental school and not attempt any career in a dental/medical profession Restorative justice doesn't mean restoring these thirteen men back to dental school as students and graduate them. It means restoring back to normal, as best as possible, considering the damage these thirteen men caused to their victims, without police/Crown laying charges and removing the possibility of these men serving time Just off the top of my head, and I'm not a lawyer, but it appears they could be charged with utter threats to cause death/bodily harm Or Criminal Conspiracy, or both. Mind you I'm no lawyer, I've only heard third hand about the FB postings. But the fear these thirteen students should have isn't graduating, it should be wondering if this is going to proceed criminally RG

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Moi, je suis Charlie aussi. I don't think there's any doubt we can all climb on board that statement, since people should be able to write or say or draw absolutely anything they want without fear of being murdered by someone they've offended. We can all say "je suis Charlie" with pride and determination to stand up for that principle. On the other hand, freedom of speech doesn't mean you must be able to say anything you want and be utterly free of consequence. If you're a fast food company in the U.S. and you make statements against marriage equality and put money behind efforts to suppress it, you can't sputter with indignation when some of your customers choose to walk away. Similarly, a lot of what Charlie Hebdo has published in the past looks pretty awful and tasteless to me. As many commenters are noting today as they examine Charlie Hebdo's back-catalog, the magazine had an inclination to take swipes at powerless minorities, when the usual targets for the weapons of satire are those too comfortable in their positions of power and privilege. But they seemed within the limits of French law, and if anyone disagreed then they could choose to bring a case. Some laws mandate that some kinds of speech should be outright curtailed in the public interest. You can't be a Holocaust Denier in Canada for example, or try to hold certain kinds of rallies in Germany, without facing legal consequences. Same thing for the Dalhousie students; you don't get to say anything you want, no matter how hateful, without accepting the consequences for the environment you have created, how you may have violated the standards required by your university, or for showing that you can't meet expectations of your future professional organizations. But any repercussions must be legal, and follow a process, and they most certainly can't involve being gunned down in your office. So even if some of what they published was dumb, ugly garbage, it's for the preservation of the rule of law that we should all stand beside Charlie Hebdo and against terror. Few things have made me smile wider than the huge crowd in France on the night of the shootings, with a big illuminated sign "NOT AFRAID".

I think this article on the subject is worthy of a repost. Very well written in my opinion. http://metronews.ca/voices/the-kohler-report/1256229/dalhousie-dentistry-scandal-tasteless-joke-or-harmful-threats/ I also came across these other headlines while searching for the first. http://www.thecoast.ca/halifax/what-are-they-going-to-dokick-every-guy-out-of-fourth-year/Content?oid=4488208 And an open letter from the one who leaked the page, which was done after the voting took place on which classmate they wanted to HateF* http://www.thecoast.ca/halifax/to-my-classmates-im-sorry/Content?oid=4488630

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I don't think any blame was even hinted at toward the ladies. If their experience in Halifax has been unprofitable then I don't blame them for not coming, I wouldn't come if I were them either. My main point is that it just sucks. Especially if it is because of no shows. I think its incredibly shitty of someone to just not show, no call, no warning. It's unfortunate that people can be so disrespectful... I hope things turn around!!

Emily great points. Thank you. One thing I'd like to mention is talking to ladies about other ladies. Where their location is, etc. I fired a long time client because he was way too chatty about other ladies he has seen. It's not like I asked him information, but when he told another lady where my location was (specificlly), I decided he didn't understand discretion. I have no idea what else he had told others. It put me in a vulnerable position, as I don't know this lady, and she caused some shit for me. So please, keep your chatter to yourself.

I think Loopie and Miss Jane and Henry Porter in their latter posts have a point, I feel I can speak to this topic because of my experience and I wasn't going to post this but here goes. I can speak to this topic of rape because I was raped, It was many years ago when it happened. I was at a party and trusted the wrong guy. I thought he was just showing me where the bathroom was, instead he took me, rather forced me, into a private area where he then placed a pillow over my face and did his deed. I didn't know what was worse, the act or the thought of dying because I couldn't breathe. After that I had to deal with a mother who blamed me for it happening... anyway even for that bastard, I wouldn't wish a life long sentence. So I do think these guys should face punishment but not be ruined for life. Rape, thoughts of it and comments to it are such an emotional subject. It causes lifelong effects so I can understand the responses and desires of punishment. But we should agree that idiots, even ill intentioned idiots shouldn't be penalized for life for just uttering disgusting comments. Had they acted out any of these then I'd have a different opinion, perhaps. Quite honestly they have already been tried by the court of public opinion, and depending on their abilities to overcome and strength of self they may already be doomed for life.

Why is the onus not on them -- their actions are what caused this. If I were to plagiarize in my studies, there would be consequences. As a student, I know that this is unacceptable behaviour, and what the consequences are, which can include expulsion from my program. So, if I plagiarize, what then? Is it my professor or my faculty's fault that I am now unable to complete my degree? Are they responsible that I am going to have difficulties applying to another school/field? No, it's my own fault for behaviour that I knew what inappropriate and which went against the rules for my school. Where will they go? Honestly, my question is: what are they going to do? I haven't been following the story closely, but my guess is if they want to continue elsewhere, they are going to need to accept responsibility for their behaviour and work to prove that they have learned from this and can behave as mature, respectful adults.

I'm guessing that none of the people in your examples are medical professionals who, one day, will be responsible for the care of a patient who is under anesthesia.

Why do people keep referring to the comments as jokes? Did you read it? Do you know the context? Did it clearly state, "So this is a joke... don't take it the wrong way... but you would need to absorb about 20 mL of chloroform in a rag, and cover Suzies mouth and nose for approximately 2-5 minutes (she might try to hold her breath). Make sure there's nothing around where she will hit her head, that b*ch will fall hard. She should be out for approximately 15-20 minutes..... What a laugh!" How is this funny? You do know they described how to do it right? You do know that chloroform is a very accessible chemical? This scenario is easily accomplished. You only assume that it was said in a joking manner because the 'shock value' of the comments is so great, that surely the person could not have been serious?! What if they were serious?

A few months ago a dentist in Winnipeg was convicted of numerous sexual assaults of unconscious boys. It happens. How can you deny it?

Absolutely! There is clear legal obligation and liability regarding harrassment. If these students had been employees at my workplace they would have been fired already. As an employer the potential for a sexual harrassment suit is too serious. These students have no idea how harshly they would be dealt with in the real world. Someone joking about drugging and raping a coworker...and putting it in writing on the Internet? That is someone I don't want to be responsible for!

This is all so sad to read. If someone around me at work, at school, in my circle of friends etc etc, ever explicitly talked about how they would use chloroform to knock me out and then rape me, I certainly hope that someone would speak up and tell me about it. I think a females right to work and learn in a safe environment outweighs a males right to privacy. However, this should not be a women vs men issue. It should be an issue of respect. Clearly their is no respect here. A lot of you also refer to their comments as jokes. That's ridiculous. Condoning the 'hilarity' of such 'jokes' is just as bad as making them yourself. It saddens me. A lot of people also talk about how these "boys" careers shouldn't be ruined. Firstly, do you realize most of them are in their 30's? They are not children. They are supposedly men. Secondly, if these comments had been made by anyone towards anyone in any place of work in any of the 1st world countries, there would be absolutely no question as to the disciplinary action that would take place. It goes by the term 'Respectful Workplace', where harassment of any form is not tolerated. Why does this not exist in the educational setting? Perhaps it does, but I must say that being in graduate school at the same University, I have not been exposed to it. It must be one of those things that they don't actually teach you about. One of the group is a friend of mine. I've known him for years. I remember how hard he struggled to get accepted (the class is very small), but how with his determination and drive he finally got in. I remember talking to him a couple of months ago about how excited he was to finally be done. BUT, although he is a 'friend' (I use that term loosely now), I don't think he should be given the power of being able to anesthetize ladies. And yes 'Assistants' are always present... supposedly... but who's to say both of them do not have these fantasies.... A scary thought as I write this, is now I wonder if even if they are expelled, are they qualified to be these 'assistants'?? I'm sorry OldBlueEyes, but your comments have deeply disturbed me. Although I am sure that 95% of guys think about sex with a coworker / friend / whatever... There is, however, a much smaller percentage that fantasize about drugging her and raping her limp body in a violent fashion. And yes... if a classmate or a coworker made those comments about me, I would consider myself a victim. I do not need to live in any more fear than that that is already present for every woman... Having respect for women, children, and everyone around you does not emasculate a man.

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There's no need to coddle poor behavior on the part of clients, or men who we may not have seen but that recognize us from our ads. The lack consideration or insight as to feelings of unsafety implied by such actions as Emily detailed are unacceptable and a reflection of the harmfulness of male privilege; to insert oneself in the life of a given woman on terms that do not consider her right to feelings of safety and comfort (psychological, emotional and physical safety)....ignorance is no excuse. In fact, the luxury of it is part of the problem. An action does not have to be consciously willful to be threatening or violent, or in need of challenge. It is not my aim to demonize men (far from it! I would be in the wrong industry if those were my feelings ;)), or to infer that experiencing privilege is one and the same as exercising it (to the detriment of others)... With all due respect Christy, this thread was started, I believe, to serve as a reminder of what it is like for ladies that do the work and experience toxic, unsafe behavior, and potentially to refresh gentlemen about OUR needs for privacy and discretion. If someone started a thread on having experienced being robbed or assaulted, and someone followed up with comments like, "so, yeah, that's too bad, but, you know, I'm surprised it does not happen more often", people would be all over that, naming it as invalidation. I'm sure that was not your intent here, but I feel things are going in that direction. Best

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This thread is kinda complicated now and I'm a bit of a simpleton. Is it valid to wonder how many other "groups" around the world are communicating privately about potentially harmful things that would affect innocent people if one or more of the group decided to act? I am under the impression that this was exposed before anyone acted out any part of the discussion. Punishments are what they are whether too weak or too strong but the fact remains that participation in something like this can be "joking" (very loosely used) or something that goes completely wrong and ends in the worst possible way. If 4th year university students are that dumb we should worry for ourselves. Not them.

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It kind of funny that someone could argue a breach of privacy based on such a flimsy argument of an agreement to join a private facebook group but want to ignore a written policy of the university (code of employee conduct) that they consented to when then applied to attend the university. Kinda self serving to only want to apply agreements that are in your favor. If they did not want to be held accountable under the code they should have not studied at the university. This dummies went a step further and implicated the university in their stupidity by naming the group as they did. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Again to reiterate, no one I believe is talking about criminal sanctions. The sanctions are administrative in nature (ie The Code Of Student Conduct) And this is not a lynching, no one is dragging these thirteen students out to a tree, and hanging them. If you want to call this a lynching be very clear then, students are to read the Code Of Student Conduct. They would know this sort of behaviour is not acceptable. If one wants to argue that terminating a person's career is akin to a lynching (I don't agree with this btw) then these students would be the cause (their careers haven't been terminated yet) of their careers being terminated. They knew of the Code Of Student Conduct yet chose to form a FB group to discus hate sex (rape) of some female students, a clear violation of the Code Of Student Conduct. So if one wants to argue they were lynched, didn't they really lynch themselves, or career suicide. They chose to put a hateful FB group membership ahead of becoming professionals. And as such they were the makers of their own demise RG

Posting about chloroforming women, specific women by name, and having hate sex (rape to me) with them...that isn't far enough for you to have the university to expel these 13 men. We aren't even talking criminal prosecutions here, just expelling them from university. Or is it more important to you that they continue with their education, become dentists, and in a few years down the road be in a position where they have the means and opportunity to practice what they uttered about doing on FB The real protection of women is far more important than the abstract protection of FB hate postings. If that makes me Orwellian so be it RG

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