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I passed all my courses, which means I finally get to graduate after putting it off for so long! Woohooo :)

Discretion on both sides needs to be respected. I think every lady I've seen on a regular basis knows my real name and where I work. They could reach me easily and with little effort. That is an element of trust, and was earned. Having said that, I've never been particularly interested in knowing the real identities of the women I see, although I do know some details about their real lives, which they have chosen to share. I would be very hesitant to give my name to someone I had never met before (although I have done it a few times, in part because of their presence and profile on this board made me feel I could trust them). As I said, that trust is earned through the development of an ongoing intimate business relationship. This is precisely why there are verification processes and references for initial meetings.

I guess it's that professionalism I am seeking. It's not easy to find...show up at an incall...messy bed, unclean/unfit bathroom. Smell of smoke...or too much scent... Overall I think that you do get what you pay for, so for me, someone advertising low rates means the service/environment/attitude will match.

Just from personal thoughts, I expect not everyone wants to be part of a community or to interact in certain ways. I'm sure there are those who enjoy doing their own thing in their own way without any rules or restrictions. There are certain expectations from being on a forum like this such as posting and interacting. Many question when someone has been here for awhile with no posts or still in moderation. All that can be done is to get LYLA out there and/or try to attract more people via word of mouth (IE: if you see a new provider or a new client). Forums like this are definitely a safer way to go and offer more support for everyone.

Yes, thank you Berlin! Historically, the medical profession has made an industry of producing expert knowledge based on ideas of sickliness and deviance and suffering, and sex workers, who have struggled for voice in having their experiences accounted for and counter narratives respected, have been a key group to be made subject to this paternalism. A reality that is very hard to change without destabilizing the basis of expert power accorded to medicine.

How did this thread go from divulging a real name to psychopaths and so on.... Perhaps sticking to the initial topic would be best

I prefer the woman i'm being intimate with calling me by my real name. So much better than them screaming out "You are the best I've ever had Johnybird!!!!" lol! ok maybe i'm exaggerating the actual quote and the enthusiasm behind it, but you get the just of what I'm saying ;) It's such a beautiful sunny day today -

Because doctors hold the same prejudices about s ex work as anyone else.

The diagnostic criteria for psychopathy and borderline personality disorder are NOWHERE near the same. Not at all. I don't know what articles you are reading, but for one, Wikipedia is not always the best source of information. Best, Someone who has studied psychology.

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LOL if you want a real name, get a girlfriend. Ladies choose to protect their name because we want to avoid stalkers, harassment and good-clients-gone-bad. I am sorry (not) that it ruins your fantasy. FANTASY being the keyword here. Some of us require the client's real name to avoid this exact same individuals mentioned above.

It's too bad more SP's in Halifax area don't use this site. It would be safer, as well as a better way for them to have an interaction with clients.

Oh Geez! I hadn't even noticed I was in the Nova Scotia thread LOL! I'm a long way from home :) .

I agree with you here that this site could be utilized more by sp's in the area. Albeit, not all sp's would want to be on here, due to the fact that we are a community that garners the well being of the client as well as that of the sp. Many of us advertise on other boards and/or sites also. I, for one, advertise on bp and on other sites, but find that many of the sp's on bp are not who they say they are. Just today I found two ads, connected to each other, that were using fake pics of playboy models and Bulgarian sp's. WTF! Be yourself! When you come to the location of a lady on Lyla, you will be greeted by a lovely lady. Her surroundings will have fresh amenities and will be a comfortable and relaxing place to spend your time. The pictures you view on her ads/profile will also be of her, not some random pic pulled from someone else's page or that of a well known celebrity (some people have no idea when it comes to this). The ladies of Lyla are professional, it reflects in our ads, our profiles, our websites and our demeanor. You will find this out when you contact us, we treat you with the utmost respect when you contact us the way we wish to be contacted. There is too much bs on other sites sometimes, but we advertise because it gets us out there. I have found Lyla to be a great community to belong to, lots of great advice, information and fine gentlemen and ladies. We take care of each other and look out for each other, a wonderful place to be. The saying is true 'you only get what you pay for'. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is. My favorite saying, if it looks cheap, it is cheap! Attitude goes a long way in this business. If I have a great attitude, gentlemen will appreciate that. If I offer substandard service, then I am doing myself, and the gentleman, a disservice.

She's using playboy models Devin Justine's pics. http://www.pbgals.com/cyber/devin-justine/ Her 'duo' pal, 'Summer' is using Bulgarian escort Amalia's pics http://topescortbabes.com/escort/Malia_30582?18plus=true Since I sincerely doubt Playboy models are working in Halifax, and Bulgarian escorts are holding current ads in Sofia,Bulgaria, I have seriously doubts these two are anything real. Completely fake pics again.

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Seen her twice already. I can't remember the acronym( starts with a Y?), she/we rocked our world today for the hour again. Today we even skipped the first shower and got into the heavy, was the full hour till we did finally go into the bathroom. No it was not mechanical....service wise. She's a beauty, if you like tall and high end "suicide girl" like tattooed woman with confidence, and a body to play for. She is probably mid 20's and looks very similar to the photos in the ad. Head to toe she is scrumptious....sensual, soft and well manicured. Had to pass this along, I know it's her present profession she deserves the credit. http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-beautiful-asian-girl-k-100-real-visiting-winnipeg/2290032

agreed with the other post. go see 1 MA 1st, then go get a duo once you've done that. best of luck :) fyi Annapurna, that would be me that posted the duo reco for Khloe & Skylar :)

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OMG WOW!!!! I just want to thank every single one on this thread that took the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday yesterday!!! It really meant a lot to me seeing this today!!!!

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Finding out that someone you THOUGHT was a friend, is not a friend at all!! Finding out from others that they played the same game with others to just get ahead:( Even sucks more that I knew nothing about it, it was brought to my attention! wow, talk about rose colored glasses! hahaha Sucks to trust sometimes:( Additional Comments: Thanks everyone! So nice to have community isn't? I feel so much more loved and like a tight community knowing that we all support one another when things go wrong! So many of us here have supported one another for years, it is comforting to say the least! Things that DON'T suck...lol...xo

I'm going to be blunt and I'm sure quite a few of you will get your jockeys in a bunch, but it needs to be said. 1. No one cares who you are. The majority of you are not high-profile enough to matter. 2. The paranoia around us getting hacked or your info leaked because we lost our phone or some other ridiculous scenario you come up with to avoid taking responsibility for your own actions (eg. contacting s ex workers) is so entitled to me. Has an escort ever been hacked in the history of the internet? NOPE. 3. You can't have it both ways; you can't expect us to provide high level customer service like remembering little details about your life, interests, etc and not expect us to keep info. 4. If you think we're going to extort you or some other malicious action, you need to seriously re-evaluate how you think about s ex workers and your participation in this industry. 5. Your privacy, your personal life, your marriage--none of that trumps my safety. My life is on the line when I invite men into my space. It is not my responsibility to make sure that your wife doesn't find out, or your children or your boss or whoever. 6. It is in my best interests to keep your info private and secure, my reputation and business is on the line. All of which is to say, give us the info we ask for, or move along, but quit whining about it. *drops mic*

It has been clearly shown that a healthy sexual appetite and sex life lead to over all better health. In studies with men it's been shown that having sex at least once a week leads to less heart related incidents, better over all immunology, better physiological health and better coping skills, as it alleviates stress . So with all this being true why aren't doctors supporting sex workers? Many of their patients are single, some are attached with spouses unable to give their partners sex, others for various reasons aren't getting it at home. So where do they expect these people to go to get their healthy weekly interactions? The bar, a dating site, the grocery store? Many don't want a relationship, many just need the occasional boost with a trusted, clean individual, which in my mind is a respected sex worker, right? What hypocrisy for our government as well to take a stand against them. If they want their citizens to be healthy, well rounded individuals. Sex is a needed function of our bodies, we are meant to have it. Isn't it time many started thinking more openly and realistically about how and where one gets it. Realistically sex workers are healers in many cases, not only for the physical benefits offered but by some but also the mental benefits. Many sex workers are unbiased easy to talk to understanding people that can be confided in, much like other professionals. So if we are all to be healthy then sex workers need to be added to the list of health professionals, that's how I see it:)

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Skyla, Madison, Ginger, Cynthia, Paris, Amana, Chia, Eva, Chardonnay, Maya, Maude & Angie. Thursday afternoon.

Somewhat. But delving into the causes of, reasons for, the differences between psychopaths and other personality traits, illnesses or disorders is veering off the subject at hand. If one wants to discuss psychology perhaps starting another thread would be better suited. It would be akin to me starting a thread about dogs and you injecting a discussion about ptsd. But if you feel the need to discuss it here, feel free:)

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This IS still the initial topic, isn't it? Some version of "doubt about the other person" was one of the reasons offered by both companions and clients for preferring anonymity, if I recall.

Club 61 was in Aylmer. They also had another location in Gatineau, which became Taboo. Fanny's was on Bank near Barrymore's.

One great thing about this site, is that it is not made for everyone. Not saying all isn't welcomed, but, it takes a certain amount of discipline, professionalism and courtesy that is not always found in just everyone. If this were made in a way that just anyone could fit in, well I suppose we would be CL in that case. We have a tight community that is a great tool to be able to rely on each other for information and support. But if everyone from CL came here, do you think we might have a lots of mis matched information, fudes, jealousy and so on? Once I introduced someone to the site. Thought she would really do well here, I helped her learn and well sadly I was wrong. She no longer is on this site due to her poor aptitude and unwillingness to get along. It was embarrassing for me, and now I will take extra caution on who I introduce. My suggestion is, when you find a gem, then introduce her to the site. Of course more gems we have here the brighter we shine:)

am I THAT OLD? Does anyone remember Pandora's Box (1971 to 78 in the Old Barrymore's) ? I got in in the last year as an underage~LOL~ http://www.torontosun.com/news/canada/2010/07/24/14816371.html

Posting on Lyla when I should still be asleep, lol.

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I agree with you, sex workers should be added to the list of health professionals, they sure have helped me in more ways than one. I'm happier & definitely feel better, made going through the rough patches a lot easier :) I don't know why the government doesn't just make it legal and regulate it like any other business, This world would be a much happier place. I still don't understand why sex is so evil. Why is it ok for me to watch someone graphically get shot in the head or see a graphic dismembered or burnt body on primetime tv, but god forbid if there's a "wardrobe malfunction" (I hate that word) and you catch a glimpse of an exposed breast with a covered nipple, or even worse, see someone walking around in their birthday suit. Doesn't make sense.

I'm new in this world and I hesitate many times before contacting Isabella, after I sent her an email she made me feel comfortable at once! Setting up was easy and straight forward and in less what you think everything was done. The night I arrive at her place she made me feel comfortable immediately taking all my nervous away... What a gorgeous girl!!! I have to say her pictures do not make honor her beauty. We had a great conversation and after lots of passion (I have to admit what a great kisser she is), and great time.... I will definitely visit her again soon!!

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Still on boil water advisory. Said it would be lifted by Wednesday...now it looks like it won't be the weekend before the boil water advisory lifted The joys of living in smalltown Ontario RG

Debauchery... I like Debauchery... I would definitely give my full name for some Debauchery...:grin:

Absolutely. I'm not concerned about anyone deliberately disclosing contact information or anything like that; I'm more concerned about what happens when a lady loses her phone, or puts the Facebook app on her work phone (you *do* all know what happens when you do that, don't you?), or a third party gets in and goes on a fishing expedition. Call me paranoid if you like... but that's why Phaedrus has his own email and phone number. Also: I'd love to assume that anyone we give any contact details to will be professional, responsible and discreet and delete them when they're done with, but... unfortunately this world contains quite a lot of people who are unprofessional, irresponsible and indiscreet. Some of them are involved in this industry, on both sides. Reminders don't hurt :)

I have a real name for those who needs a reality check. Bradley Barton. Bradley Barton was recently found NOT guilty of killing an prostitute by letting her vaginally bleeding to death after, and I quote "rough sex". Bradley Barton is a free man. Hell, as far as I know he could be here posting on this very thread! This world is full of Bradley Barton. He is not an exception. Now before I hear someone wining that not all men are the same, let me tell you something: If "losing" the business of a hundreds clients gives us the chance to avoid only ONE Bradley Barton, we win big time. There is no lost here. Two-way street my ass. Boner vs Murder.... Read the full article here: http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2015/03/30/cindy-gladue-protests-bradley-barton-not-guilty_n_6966806.html

Perhaps a different perspective will help with this "two way street" debate. Couple questions: How many escorts or providers have been killed, stalked, threatened, beaten, blackmailed etc. from a client? That is to present time with no real names being utilized. How many clients have been in the same position from an escort? Some providing real names. If a providers real name is out there, . what do you think the increase rate for harassment or other negative behavior might be? A real name links to FB or an address, real phone number, info on kids, job, parents etc? How many other may be on the receiving end of negative behavior from being connected to someone now known to be doing this? How many may have an impact via schooling, another job, losing a job etc? Many ladies work from hotels or an Incall location. They keep business separate from personal usually for a number of reasons. MY point is that saying it is a two way street and that a client having a real name is the same as a provider having a real name and being NO big deal is absurd. If it was really no big deal, this would be a legitimate business, acceptable as any other form of work, fully accepted by society with no stigma attached, would receive rights and benefits afforded regular workers and not be the focus of so many people wanting to out, save, slam etc. This is the point, it IS a big deal to many of us. If it's not a big deal to you, great, find those who agree with you but at least acknowledge that it can and is a big deal to many.

Personally speaking only, I haven't experienced any changes since C-36. The gentlemen contacting me still provide me will all the information I request for a first-time rendez-vous and none have tried to negotiate my screening process. It's pretty much "business as usual"...

I really don't get what all the fuss is about. You give your name out to dozens of companies (for example, I just signed up for a gym membership and they wanted to see my driver's license) but you balk when one of us asks for it? Let's be straight here, this isn't about your privacy, it's about a stereotype that s ex workers are dishonest and untrustworthy. And if I'm being honest (and I always am, to a fault), if you think that lowly of me, you can go yank yourself off.

For me (in addition to the donation of course ;-) ) I leave a gift and tip What I tip, well that's private between the lady and me What I give for a gift, well I read a lady's website, and see what she'd like. But it has included gift cards for Victoria's Secret, La Senza, La Vie En Rose, Sephora, Chapters, Air Canada etc. I also bought clothes once for a lady, but sized wrong so lesson learned, stick to gift cards LOL But the answer to your question is tipping and gifting, it will differ from client to client. But if you do receive a gift and tip, it shows he appreciated the companionship you provided. But don't expect or count on it, that way it's a treat, a surprise when given, and you aren't disappointed when not given...if that makes sense A rambling RG Additional Comments: @waterat The ladies I see would much prefer the gift cards I listed But if one day I became a professional male companion (ladies faces turning green with illness at the idea LOL) BPS, Gander Mountain and Cabalas Gift Cards would be appreciated ;-) Of course I'd only get them in denominations of $1.00 and that's because they don't make 25 cent gift cards LOL All in fun of course RG