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This could be a case of "your mileage may vary" depending on her texting conversations with you. Then again, I'm not a mind reader and only a proposed scenario. Some SPs may feel pressured for whatever reason but contradicts what she previously stated which can confuse a potential client. In my personal experience, when I state a restriction, it's something I won't do -period...even with regulars because I'm not into it. If asked at a later date, I tell them it's not my thing. They can either accept it or go see someone else. Boundaries are in place for a reason and money or losing a client is not a factor in changing my mind. No one should feel coerced into doing something they don't like. Im not saying this was happening in the OP's situation but saying no to a certain activity (provided it's not something detrimental to their health and safety), this can be harder for newer SPs to deal with. They may want to avoid the feeling of being uncomfortable after saying no. This could also be another factor. They may feel they are losing out on something which is simply not true or may fear some sort of negative feedback/fallout with men who write comments on review boards especially when they are trying to establish clientele. They also may be struggling and feel they can't afford to say no. That truly is a personal decision when placed in that position so I can't comment nor am I in a position to judge. Some new SPs can be impressionable not realizing that enforcing a restriction by stating "no" doesn't necessarily mean there will be a negative impact on her. And if someone does give an SP a hard time on those boards ( I've seen it happen) after she has said no and he feels it's his duty to make this known in a disparaging tone then that shows who they are. I once had a new client for massage and he said he wanted to take a shower with me. I have a rule where I will only shower with long term regulars. This is something I'm willing to offer at a later date when someone becomes a regular with me but I also have restrictions where it's the same for everyone where it's something I'm not willing to negotiate ever. I have my reasons for not showering with new clients and told this person upfront on the phone. I said if it was a deal breaker then it's best to find someone else because I wouldn't want to damper the mood. He still chose to visit me and it was one of the worst dates from hell. I had never walked away from an appointment feeling so mentally drained like I did that day. He complained about everything from the coconut oil I used, to the body wash I had for my clients in the shower and then tried to guilt trip me about not going in the shower. Being the experienced SP that I was, I remained professional but no matter what, he would still find something to complain about. What he should of done was found someone else when I told him it's probably best but on the phone, it didn't seem like it was the be all end all for him. Boy was I wrong! Had I choose to lift that restriction because he was whiny about it, I wouldn't be staying true to myself. My advice is if someone first says something isn't available then it's best to move on.

Cerb/lyla was always supported by escortscanada.com financially and the biggest issue is ec is no longer producing enough revenue to support the site here. This is also what is making the site hard to sell with the deal we are working on here. I am afraid (and you all probably see this too) that one of two things will probably happen with new owners. 1) they switch the format to full review board to drive up traffic and membership. Yes lyla is unique with the positive only rule but that makes limited membership and lower traffic. We all know that and unfortunately that does not pay the bills. 2) the other option (the one i am pitching) is to charge for advertising, a reasonable rate for everyone who wishes to post announcements or classified ads on the site (like the agencies do in ottawa and toronto) keeping the discussion area and the sponly area and all the other areas free for everyone. If the site could generate enough income to be profitable this way then it could remain positive... But would require the support of the ladies in the way of advertising dollars. I cant see it working for anyone any other way... I guess if they covered the site with porn click banners and allowed the asian agencies to advertise here that could help too but lets face it, a recommendation board makes a nice friendly place but it does not pay the bills. I guess they could change the site to something completely different too if they wanted to. I cant get any info and its making me a little stir crazy.

Was looking to take the leap and set aside some extended time for the right provider. Has anyone had the pleasure of a wonderful 90min or more massage that they would reccomend? ( Ladies if you prefer this longer type of service please reccomend yourself:) )

Hey guys is terb down ? Some reason I can't get in

Remember the bolded part? It means that all of those clients are good clients. end of story. you miss the point if you think that sps cannot care for or appreciate anyone other than a happy young goodlooking guy. or that they have no interest in providing services that they know will make a much bigger impact on the lives of all those client#2s than they will for all those client #1s. YOu cannot imagine the sincere satisfaction or good feelings that come when you have someone who is painfully shy react to the care and attention provided in our encounters. Or the gratitude of a much older man who has been neglected for decades. versus a young guy who is 'dateable", there is no contest. and it is yet another reminder that we don't advertise for dateables, but for clients, and nothing makes a work day end well than knowing you've made a difference in someone else's life. i had a client come to me for the first time, kind of seemed like client #2 in case number 2. but at the door, on the way out, gives me a big smile and asks can he come back to see me again. turns out the guy is hard of hearing, so he actually enjoying himself but not communicating since he can't really hear well enough to carry on a conversations. repeated (ideal client style) many times over several years.

good to remember, if you did put in login and password info to that pop up window, when site is back up make sure the first thing you do is change your password.

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Some of the options are all-or-nothing; for example, I don't want a free-for-all with ad titles (a la BP) but I would like to see the rules relaxed a bit.

And i have less interest in a site that allows full nudes, (some) uncensored words and CL style titles and spamming, as well as negative reviews. because all that gets pushed out into the discussion area, and turns it into another freak show like other review sites. I have no confidence in anyone other than mod here to control or deal with bullying, slander and fake reviews, all of which are right now controlled due to the 'don't say anything at all' policy.

This is the only Canadian escort recommendation site I feel comfortable and safe on. That is both clean and respectful of everyone. If the future owners change the current friendly atmosphere of the site, I will probably drop out completely from following and participating in the hobby. This is the only social media type site I have ever stuck with --- that is saying a lot. I am still hopeful that the liberal government will correct the last government's blunder regarding this profession.

Welcome new members and visitors. This section is for Lyla newbies (New Users and people new to this industry). Here are some steps to get you started... 1) Please be sure to read the RULES and FAQ. We try to keep this as up to date as possible so answers to most of your initial questions should be found there. 2) When you sign up as a new user, your first 5 to 10 posts will be manually moderated by us. This stops spammers, abuse and any negative slander that we do not allow here. It can take up to 24 hours excluding weekends and holidays to approve your posts so please be patient with us! 3) Take some time to thoroughly read this section. We have included some great posts here from our members and made them sticky so they show at the top of this section. Feel free to jump into the conversations - that's what Lyla is all about! 4) This is a community and we are all working to make the community better. Your contributions and participation in the discussions should be positive and enjoyable. We do remove negative comments as this is NOT a review board or a place to air your dirty laundry. Please do not use Lyla to slander, call out, fight or flame anyone. SPREAD THE LOVE, THE WORLD NEEDS MORE OF IT! 5) Please no promotion of sexual services here. You can advertise escort services, but no explicit sexual acts. That includes abbreviations. 6) In the words of Thumper... "If you do not have anything nice to say... don't say anything at all". This is the Lyla policy and anyone who breaks this rule is given a suspension or banned from the site. No warnings. Thanks everyone and enjoy the forum! Lyla xx

Everyone knows that as a Scotsman I love redheads! So when I found out that Daisy had recently gone independent, I jumped at the change to see her. After a bit of chatting back and forth, we managed to sort things out and get together. Since it was later in the evening, we headed out for bite to eat first and then back to my place to enjoy dessert. ;) Daisy is just a fantastic person! The ease of conversation and mutual attraction to one another, led to an absolutely spectacular evening! She's sexy, outgoing, playful, with stunning looks and a wild side that will leave you smiling. :) I'll have her over again without question. I don't participate as much as I used to in the hobby, but Daisy is worth repeating with!

Darned..... I missed this! Guess I have to go back again! ;)

I love 90mins sessions as I feel it leaves much more time to get to know each other and explore each others bodies ;)

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I have visited the one in Lethbridge Ab. last year and I was impressed, my wife not so much.

There is not enough of a return here for me to justify paying for advertising. I barely advertise here as it is. IMO, you would lose a number of independents if you changed this.

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This implies that boundaries are targets that are open to discussion after a few sessions. In my view boundaries are there to be respected not revisited by the client with a view to renegotiation down the road. Once a provider's limits have been made known to the client that should be the last time the subject is raised. Even gentle coercion is still coercion. I've never known an SP to say 'hey! X is now available because Ive seen you a few times'.

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I had seen Daisy a couple times at CMJ and at Angels - when I learned she was going indie - I thought YES! Daisy is great to talk with and even better to have fun with. She's a sweet, young and very gorgeous girl! Was the red hair mentioned? Taking her out for dinner is always a pleasurable time as well - though what comes after like Spud was saying is even better. I plan on repeating and hope that her indie career works out for her so that I can continue to do so!

Actually that is not Ally Faye, I've seen both girls and would repeat with Ally Faye all day!!! They're both pretty, both brunettes but Ally is proportionately smaller and a great little performer. I also saw Miaa once. It was a duo with her and her friend Ashley...but not the same Ashley that this discussion has started for. Both Miaa and her friend Ashley were smoking as well. So Again Ally Faye is Ally Faye and is a different person then Both Ashley's and Miaa's friend Ashley (the one she advertised duos with) is also not the same person as the Ashley this thread started for. :)

Change is inevitable and necessary to survive. All the boards seem to be stifled and losing relevance these days. Twitter is becoming a worthy option. Clearly can't go back to the old days when participation and interaction was far greater. Lots left when Bill C-36 (corrected) came into effect and have moved on and won't be back. Peace MG

Absolutely. And as you've mentioned, the key to the sense of community is that this board isn't permitted to turn into a cesspit of bitching at people. If the ladies don't feel safe and welcome then they'll go away, and once clients realize that what's left is a sausage party they'll follow.

I for sure make this "list". I just returned home yesterday to Halifax from Ottawa, I was only there for a day and fully booked but I will be back:icon_wink:. Next time I'll visit for much longer and advertise!!

I returned to Lyla (CERB) after several years break (due to some circumstances). And I had a mixed feeling about it that time. It is like you return in several years to the neighborhood you grown up in. It is somehow familiar but very different: the other generation occupies it, landscape is changed, familiar faces are very rare. But this friendly and positive atmosphere was the same and that was the most important. Lyla is unique virtual community where providers and hobbyists live together as Ladies and Gentlemen respecting and supporting each other. This community built around escorting but the best part is amazing people you can meet here. I enjoy reading threads, participating in the discussions, asking questions. As escorting itself, this is virtual world, temporary escape from the reality, and this is a good place to come. If this atmosphere is changed there is no sense for me to stay here.

Hi. I wrote a lot on this subject yesturday in the discussion either one or two below this. She is not even in our city and is part of what appears to be a country wide new scam. If you contact you will find out it is outcall only and you must sent email transfer of 50% LOLOLOLOLOOL. This is easy for our members to spot I hope but as I mentioned there are now at least three ads all asking for deposits.When I only took half of Kayla's description I found her in three provinces on the same day last week. Good luck

Having spent some time on Terb the last month, I hope Lyla stays about the same. If not thanks to all the Mods for all their hard work. I have been a Mid as well as running my own message board and I know it's often a thankless job

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