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I used Escort Babylon when hobbying in the States. Be aware though hobbying is not a legal grey area like in Canada.

I got to see her again yesterday. If anything has changed, she looked more beautiful, friendly and sweet. Had a really great time once again. It's very rare to meet a provider with a great attitude and eager to provide a good service.

I go to the Alpha Club when in Ottawa. It’s strictly HJ, maybe a BJ, but the ladies are sexy, it’s reputable, and right down town.

young in her 20"s, approx 100 lbs...

I feel the need to start this thread, due to the lack of respect and attention to following simple instructions lately. Ive worded this in reference to no one, just a generalization to a few things. You contact me, we go through screening and agree on the date and time. You are told you will be contacted a few days prior with details to confirm. 3 days prior you are emailed with detailed instructions with a number and a date and time frame to call and confirm on. Scenarios as follows: Scenario A) You don't call within time frame - Encounter is cancelled and time is available Scenario B) You email letting me know you cant call within that time and we agree on another time in which you don't call - Same result as above - encounter cancelled. Scenario C) You call and confirm and encounter goes ahead as planned Scenario D) You email the morning of to ask if we are still on, yet I never heard from you - What do you think the answer to this question is? Scenario E) You leave a voice mail with we emailed and Im calling no name, number or anything else in the message - Chances are the encounter will be cancelled as its very rude to call a number back and say Who's this? And Ive asked you to call me, for discretion I would rather not return the call unless I have been given the ok to do so. We have a system in place that works for our own personal business, if you dont wish to follow instructions, dont waste our time. I value your time and respect your wishes on privacy, discretion and everything else. If you value mine, why does one feel its okay to not follow the simple instructions that I have given. I can be flexible with my confirmation policy when you let me know in advance. I ask you to call as that is how I confirm my dates, I wont email or text you any details so you have to call (my confirmation email is very clear on this), at this point if you don't like this policy it is your time to say that you are declining our date, I wont get mad as I would prefer your honesty over wasting my time and that of someone else who would have enjoyed the visit, but due to the games someone else has played they were unable to visit. When I ask you to call when your parking - I MEAN it, dont call from the lobby if I have asked you not too(considering discretion is SO important, why does the fact that your calling from in front of the hotel staff and repeating the suite number aloud not strike you as indiscreet?) Just because im not a revolving door, does not mean I want attention drawn to myself at any time. I enjoy the places I stay and wish to keep it that way. I also enjoy the company that I keep and NEVER want to jeopardize anyones privacy ever. You provide me your number and ask me not to call, I follow your instructions so how hard is it to show the same respect to mine. For an industry where discretion is key, I am just astounded as to why it is expected from me, but not returned by you.

Are You Looking for a Legitimate Provider?Seeking a safe environment with an independent escort? Interested in a clean, secure, high-end experience? Tired of all the fake ads? Here are some essential tips to help you do your research and find exactly what you’re looking for: 1. Website Does she own a website? Ensure the provider has a professional website and is investing in it. If the link contains “Wix” or “GoDaddy,” it may indicate a free or potentially fake website. A professionally maintained site is a good sign of legitimacy. 2. Pictures Are her pictures professional? While selfies can add a personal touch, a reputable provider should also have high-quality professional photos. A photoshoot typically costs $3,000 or more and demonstrates her investment in her brand. If only selfies are available, it could be a red flag suggesting the ad might not be genuine. 3. Social Media Does she have social media? Check the age of her account—is it new or established? Does she interact with colleagues and engage with their posts? Her social media presence, particularly on platforms like Twitter, can provide insights into her personality and professionalism. Additionally, her followers may lead you to other providers who match your preferences. 4. Reviews Does she have reviews? Look for mostly positive reviews. While reading, also pay attention to the type of feedback left by reviewers. Do their preferences align with yours? Remember, everyone seeks a unique experience, so consider reviews as a guide rather than a guarantee. 5. Screening Does she have a screening process? Legitimate providers often require some form of screening, such as: A booking form A deposit References Photo ID A phone call Follow her stated booking process and be prepared to provide the necessary information. A lack of screening can be a red flag. However, never share personal information without first verifying her legitimacy through the steps outlined above.

After several discussions with clients inquiring with me personally and after a thread here I have quickly written out a handful of things you can do to see if someone is legit. 1. Do they have ads on other ad sites? 2. reverse image search 3. Google their name 4. google their number 5. do they have social media ? 6. Do they work with other reputable providers? 7. Do they have reviews? 8. How long has their ad been up? 9. How old are their social media(consider we are deplatformed often) 10. How many ads do they have up? (consider many providers have ads running in multiple cities at once so that prospective clients from a city they tour in sees them- having ads posted in multiple cities is not always an indicator of a scam) feel free to add to this!

I plan to add a FAQ area on Lyla for posting etiquette and I wanted to ask our seasoned members if they have anything to add before I post it. Posting etiquette (Some for clients, some for providers, some for both) 1 ) Do not discuss providers' rates (unless you are the provider or agency doing the posting) 2 ) Do not comment on a service providers rates being too expensive or cheap! 3 ) Do not discuss street walkers 4 ) Please use discretion! Do not discuss drug use, illegal activities, violent acts and anything that would bring unwanted attention to someone, some business or our community here on Lyla. If you are aware of a illegal activity taking place you should contact the police (not post it here) as posting it here brings unwanted attention to Lyla! 5 ) Do not fight or flame anyone (this includes flaming the lurkers or low post count guys and includes fighting with each other in the PM system) 6 ) Do not spread rumors! 7 ) If you have a problem with another member bring it to the attention of the mod and DO NOT post about it in public. 8 ) Do not post a provider's personal info such as addresses or share this info in a PM unless you are the provider. You risk her safety if you do this! 9 ) Do not ask for prices of providers from other members (you should ask them directly) 10 ) Before you post a recommendation for a provider you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well. 11 ) Do not post ads to sell products on the site (free ads are for sex workers, massage spas, etc... not toys, web design, etc...) If you wish to promote a different product or service PM the mod first as we may have banners available. 12 ) Do not post links to porn sites 13 ) Do not use the site to complain about a service provider or post negative reviews! 14 ) Keep the site positive and fun! If you have an issue before posting it take a breath and think "Is it a positive contribution to the site?" if the answer is no... it's most likely not welcome! Additional Comments: If you disagree with a decision a moderator has made, you can PM one of us about it (not post publicly about it).

When writing a pm, email or texting, please do not send one liners! Many times, it come across as being rude. Ive been on the recieving end of this threw txting, hence the reason why I do not text anymore to make a 1st appointment! WE can not hear your tone of voice, so when you send something like this: "WHEN CAN I SEE YOU?" It just sounds rude. First off, INTRODUCE yourself! Say hello, how are you, I am Mr.XXX. The reason why you are emailing or pm'ing: I am interested in meeting with you on this date and time for this long. A little about yourself, if your comfortable saying anything, some ladies actually request that you do, some don't. Then sign off... Looking forward to hearing from you, Until we meet, or what ever. When you write an actual pm or email, we WILL respond! When I see something that is not like the above described, I dont even want to put in the effort to respond, since you did not take the effort to say more than 3 or 4 words to me! And I am sure I am not the only lady that feels like that! And most importantly!! Read her Ads, website and profile!! They are very imformative. Hence the reason why we put so much effort into them! The effort your going to put in by pm'ing "Whats your rates?", "What time do you start?", or the big question, "What do you look like?" will be alot less than clicking your mouse on the link to her website/profile! You just look very lazy and disrespectful! We are not asking you to write an autobiography about yourself or a novel! 5-6 lines is not asking for much! I know some men are men of very few words, but if you cant take a few minutes to learn about us and say more then a few words, then imagin how we think the encounter will go with you?! Starting an email/pm politely can and will get you a better or if any encounter with your choosen SP/MA! ****************** I've searched and could not find a thread about etiquette on pm'ing, but found this thread, which only shows you how to START a pm: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15861 If I missed it someone let me know and Ill ask the Mod to add this post to it! Thanks, Tiffany Amber xoxo

What a lot of people don't understand is that a forum like this is a benevolent dictatorship and that all users are guests. Rules are there for a reason. There are no "rights" to anything. We are here at the pleasure of the admins and the mods who provide the resource. It takes a great deal of time and work to run a forum/message board. Someone has to keep everyone happy and that is like herding cats. Sometimes a heavy hand is needed. Been there and done that. Thank you for making this board available to me.

The problem is some are photoshopping the verification sign onto fake pics and submitting them as real.