Annessa

having a customer tell me that the gift he helped me order online for a special someone came in today and that he will be in town wednesday to see me and drop it off!! sooo excited on both accounts! :-D

having a good friend of mine...and his nearly twin brother come and visit me today at the stripclub..as well as a lovely cerb member. wheee friends! hehe I love visitors!

a bit of a thread hijack hunny....best to stay on topic about the Playmate in this thread. however if you had a great experience at another club perhaps you could start a separate thread about your experience in the Stripclub discussion forum so that others may have a great experience like yours :)

oh dear..you will be missed darling! *big hugs*

checking out the Ter* board and seeing some new very flattering comments about me and my dancing at Playmate...wish I knew who those gents were so I could thank them next time they come in :)

wheee its tonight!! see you all there...I'll be there around 9pm as duty calls prior...but I'll be there! :)

apparently I'm a singer....lol....i do some guest spots at local ottawa hot spots and LOVE th karaoke too much but I wont toot my own horn as to how good it sounds, lol. I am also a painter...I have numerous works up as commission pieces in Ottawa restaurants and in homes and upscale condos all over Ottawas and Montreal....if anyone needs some comission work done (portraits, personal idea pieces etc) done for x-mas I am still taking x-mas projects...Dont take my word for it tho...I can email some examples if needed.......or is that promoting myself too much? lol

To add to what meg has already said, I have had a strange experience with clients who have already booked and aside from asking 'the important questions" after the fact of booking also ask "oh and by the way, I'm considering a duo, do you have any girlfriends you could bring along with you"....this would be fine if it wasn't asked THE DAY OF THE SCHEDULED BOOKING! It takes time to move around my own schedule...much less try and factor in another lady's. Either way most that have asked end up falling into the WOT category.....figure out what you want before you commit to the encounter and confirm, guys. its not much to ask....and anything less will make you look as though you're not exactly sure what you want....bit of a red flag for us.

wow...some really neat perspectives...not what i expected at all! I particularly like the letter from the man who said he appreciated the male bonding he felt at the strip clubs and noticed how men were generally more polite there to the women than at any regular bar.

I've heard amazing things about the sybian...my curiosity is peaked ;)

MiaBella and I have actually offered duos together with a little couch-sitting tease as part of the experience hehe

Hope your day is filled with yummy treats and smiles, Cutie-pie!

One that comes to mind is Carrie Moon...I believe she posts links on her blog.

This is actually a good point....and yes I will agree that the suggestion of what multiple clients per day entailed was probably what stirred the pot. As for what has changed....this summer I noticed a great flux of new ladies which seems to have continued to the fall....every week it seems there are more ladies joining cerb. which is great for the gents...but sometimes it means that we have to take on 4 clients on one day when and if the opportunity arises because the phone may not ring for the rest of the week. we can definitely say how many client we would limit ourselves to ideally (like the previous poll) if business was regular and steady....but I find that the nature of this business is hardly predictable at times. I think there are many factors that determine how available we make ourselves. And that it rarely boils down to what kind of operation we're running.

I'm seeing that you are new to this site as you said in your OP. revising and changing your original post only confuses future users as to what the following discussion is about and generally just makes the whole thread useless to future "learners"....also adjusting your post to be more sugarcoated doesnt tend to work either as from what I've seen your angry posting to the lady in question might always be quoted as done here.....Call this unsolocited advice if you want but you might want to consider apologizing in your replies to the post and leaving the original ones....dont worry, we will see that you have learned your lesson, but when you edit and change your posts like you did above you make it so future gents might not be able to learn those lessons along with you. Good luck.

Thanks for the suggestion ladies...yup I have a couple regular female clients. ladies are so fun to be with...such a nice smooth-skinned treat and a nice change from our rugged counterparts hehe

so he was charged with soliciting himself then?...I agree with Megan, I think the focus should have been on the sexual assault as i doubt before this encounter he was working as a prostitute. ugh

welcome to the site! I know however that it does take a few recos or another lady to vouch for you (who knows you etc etc) to get you into the SP only section.....in the meantime the newbies section can be just as good for the ladies as it is for the gents (I.E. it can let you see how gents are expected to act on this site and in communications with SPs etc).... also the General section and the discussions groups for your city will help a bit depending on the topic.......and as always, make sure you read the rules with a fine tooth comb, I've been on here for a bit and after a mishap of being a member for two years and being banned for three months due to not keeping up with the rules all i can say it its a great place to start to make sure you have all your i's dotted and your t's crossed! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=37144 Good luck and welcome to this great community!

OY.... I think you have yet to meet an Asian lady who disagrees with this post....today's your lucky day Chavez! :-) race doesn't imply experience....and attitude might not have anything to do with good business practice, but rather the client they are addressing (*hint*).....also a gentleman never has to concern himself with much with a lady of ANY race...if he is a gentleman. given many bait and switches on the Cowboys Diary I don't think it safe to advise that all Asian ladies are a 'safe bet' amongst the rest just because they are Asian.....every lady is the result of their own personality and intentions. *end reply to Chavez's quote....moving on to my own 0.02 :)..* speaking as someone who is half-asian.....I dont fit the part of the sub asian with bad english (by the bad stereotypes portrayed by some bad porn)....as one recommendation said...dont go booking her if you want a fresh off the boat experience (or something like that) "she doesn't suffer fools gladly".... Mind you i have had the time to time inquiry of "how asian are you?"...which makes me wonder, lol I find that many men that I have seen have been recommended by SP friends of mine who are from every different ethnicity and base their recommendation upon personal relationships... the only time i was hired most in a strange coincidence was when I worked in Toronto and about 60% of my clients were Asian....did they feel more comfortable booking a girl who was slightly asian? who knows....but I doubt that their fantasies played into booking a lady who was asian as something exotic to their culture. to each their own...blonde, asian, hispanic, african american, etc etc etc....I think we can all agree that every man has his own preference. Speaking as someone who thought that the portrayed "Asian-upper hand" would bring about more work, I can honestly say this never is a factor when potentials find me based on my recos or recommendations by other ladies etc.... its who you are, how you stick to your business practices and how real and honest you are that will keep them coming back for more ;)

i too am confused. also what makes him think that the ladies that are shaving are shaving "possibly against their own preference to be unshaven"? As Kim pointed out, its our bodies....i think we'll only bear with a "haircut" that we can live with everyday

:icon_rolleyes: ugh... you're welcome, SA.

a poll still turns into a discussion thread. i respect your opinion but the poll results also do show that only 19% like a natural "kitty". I have ONE client that wishes I would grow everything back.....but i can count on all my fingers some clients that probably stop seeing me if I did. just offering my own opinion in this wonderful discussion.....so please respect that ;) thanks SA.

didnt you start a thread about this some time ago? we understand you are all for unshaven as per your previous stories about finding 70s magazines as a child and having that be your fuel (not making fun, I'm just wondering why this subject keeps getting rehashed?) but speaking from an SP standpoint I have never had a client get excited over any hair down there whatsoever. maybe a strip but thats it. At the strip clubs I've worked at when I sit with a customer and he sees a girl undress on stage and she has any hair they generally say yuck...which could be a reaction they're feigning...but its to each their own. a combination of natural 19%/trimmed 26% results should not lead to 'surprisingly high" leads IMO (especially if they're below the majority that have voted for shaved 57%.)

I get it....and I've had the convo with many ppl this week alone about how both my costumes were apparently offensive and was shown the same ad above. we got into the conversation of "what made it ok then?". example: if I was not Thai and was Japonese and had an authentic costume as opposed to the less expensive one would it then be ok to be dressed as a Geisha? If i was native would it be ok to dress like a native american if i was dressed as a certain type of Native (ie. Cree, Chipawan etc)? It was a very good and educational conversation on both ends as stated by the lady who posted it. The native costume I had on me didnt look like the picture because I did the seams tight as not to show skin and had some great authentic jewlery that a friend lent me to top the costume off...i didn't braid my hair or run around with an axe. and it certainly didnt come down as low on me as it did on her! (I think the gal is like 5'5" or something! oy!) Yup the geisha costume i wore at the strip-club...and probably would be deemed as being in poor taste in that sense. So I wont argue or defend that. but i wore it out tonight with a full long skirt in a tastefull way...but does it matter my intent? In the same sense though, if a child dresses up as Mulan or Pocahontas are we to tell them that they are contributing to racist portrayals? (by the way i said my costume the night of the native ordeal was pocahontas....cuz i couldnt find an adult sized one...and thought the one in the pic would do...my bf was john Smith that night) I understand teaching the kids about systematically oppressed races but I also think that we as a society are far past getting our knickers in a twist over dressing up for halloween. Imitation also has proved to sometimes (when in proper taste) been the best form of flattery. If i saw someone in a Thai sarong and headpiece on halloween I'd think that was pretty neat. But if they were systematically oppressed like african americans or Natives or any other race it shouldnt mean that the person wearing the costume is making fun of that race or is knowlingly contributing to a racist act. sometimes its just as simple as someone was extremely unoriginal (which I'll gladly admit) and was on a shopping spree at a store and the costume looked good on them ;-) and I totally see your point Berlin ...and completely see what you're saying, I'm just stating mine sidenote: I was pocohontas another year and a drunk blonde gal loved my costume and asked me if I was native (which i get a lot). when I said no she tore me a new one and said my costume offended her because she was 1/8 native......she was dressed as a "slit-throat dead hooker" (her words not mine).....dont get me started on which was less appropriate. sorry for the rant but Its halloween, lets all try to have fun.