Ice4fun

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This is not something I have given a lot of thought to with the exception that if I am seeing a lady in my home town i like a location with discrete public parking that could be explained if a friend saw my vehicle and asked that might be harder if it's a driveway. As for being questioned... walked into a fair number of inservice locations over the years and I can't think of a time when anyone questioned me. Just my opinion

I get the concern it's hard to think of discretion as a "sometimes" thing. To be honest I don't really know what the answer is but I do see a difference between the issues around a bad review or a no show and the bigger issue of a person's long term ongoing safety. I am not really concerned that the outing of a few politicians will cause a disintegration of all discretion and me being outed... but i do have a concern that this type of outing will have people questioning how safe they are and that might negatively impact everyone. Just my opinion

What a hornets nest this issue is.... the fight by sex industry workers for their rights is very much like most major cultural change battles it relies on the courage of a few strong courageous people who stand up to authority and demand their rights. Often the activities undertaken by these trailblazers is considered to be controversial when it is undertaken. The change process is long and people get hurt along the way but we realize later that the willingness of these individuals to stand tall and challenge authority was necessary. Currently one of these trailblazers, who has fought the battle publicly for years is proposing to name names and highlight the hypocrisy of the proposed new law. Is she serious or is she trying to continue to influence the debate i really don't know..... what I do know is i appreciate her frustration. While I am not a sex worker i appreciate how hard it is to carry out their work when they not only are looked down on by society but when the government goes out of its way to make their working environment unsafe ...unprofitable but amazingly legal... wtf???? So if I was a sex worker who was aware of individuals who have taken on roles in their public life where they have an active role in influencing the public debate on sex workers rights yet their private actions are not in alignment I think i would conclude it was ok to call that person out publicly on this incongruous in their approach to the topic... ahhh but here's the rub... just because it might be justifiable... is it the right thing to do... what are the impacts both short and long terms... personally and for the industry and other sex workers .... will it have any impact on the outcome of the debate? Tough tough calls in my opinion. Now as a client where do I stand... hmmm well let's see i partake in this hobby in secrecy... lie to my wife and rely on the discretion of the wonderful ladies i meet to keep my secret.... so it would be a little disingenuous for me to suggest that I would not be concerned if the premise of confidentiality was being challenged. But you know the more I think about it the more I realize that if it was my son or daughter in this industry i would expect the government to support their right and ensure that their legal business enjoyed the same right to safety as every other business. I'm thinking i would probably be way more willing to support their challenging authority and calling out hypocrite politicians who speak one way but act another.... but i would also worry about them and the effects such an approach might have. Well i don't have any children in the industry (that i know of) but yet I do have a number of very wonderful friends in the industry who i worry about as we move forward so i guess my stand would be that i trust them to make appropriate decisions that are right for them and i appreciate that if they do choose to make public figures accountable it will not be indiscriminately and that the overall discretion on which the industry is built will remain. Like i said a hornets nest. Just my opinion.

Salmon... salad...rice... an amazing dinner

Tonight meal was marinated salmon fillets cooked on the grill and severed with a mixed grains rice and green salad ..... while the food was extremely good it paled in comparison to the amazing company who i shared it with.

My favorite fragrance is "La vie est belle" by Lancome.... just the smallest scent of it evokes amazing memories. Just my opinion.

Well if the only batteries you have that are dead are in your tv remote your still ok lolol :)

Surfing CERB... waiting for supper to be delivered... yep eating junk again tonight.

Beautiful CERB ladies are my guilty pleasure lol

Being with an amazing lady you have seen before and enjoying some social time or maybe a meal in addition to the play time. Just my opinion

Bought a gift for my wife.

I prefer to see SP's in downtown hotels but would not have a problem with traveling anywhere in the city to see someone who i see more regularly. In one case i traveled about 200kms to see a lady I like. Just my opinion

God bless windy days :)

Happily Married for 30 years.

Red briefs

45 minutes is not really an option i would choose as I tend to like longer engagements. On first appointments i tend to book for an hour and usually 2 hours for any followup meetings. Just my opinion

Roasted Chicken on the BBQ

Surfing CERB at the cottage and chatting on text with an amazing friend.

BlackBerry Passport... very nice

New BlackBerry Passport :)

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Yea but I am not worried about the CSEC or the NSA.

One of the great things about my participation in this Hobby is the fact that I have gotten to meet some truly amazing people like YOU.... While I can't say I am happy that you have decided to leave the industry (I am much to greedy a pervert for that :) ) I can tell you that I am extremely happy to have met you... Your amazing spirit for life coupled with a beautiful sexuality that captured the interest of so many of us has made your short time with us all the more memorable... you will be missed immensely. I personally will miss your amazingly written ads/posts and beautiful pictures...and of course the morning twitter selfies. I wish you much happiness... joy... love and peace as you move forward to the next chapter of your life and I THANK YOU for allowing me to share our life journey for the past few months. Goodbyes are not forever goodbyes are not the end they simply mean I will miss you until we meet again.

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