Rambler1980

Good point. Same about never been texted a room number until she's ready. Still anyone seeing a lady at her apartment and is at regular will know the apartment number. In all scenarios when I've been a client or had some sort of role to play with a provider I've been well out of sight until my precense was requested. I disagree with the 30min between though, 15 min is plenty for a shower, quick room tidy and even a fast couple puffs depending on the hotel layout. Something I think goes unmentioned is regular STI tests. Two of the providers I was friends with did routine checks, others I'd count as having some friendship with do not. Makes me concerned for them and for me. That said the two that get checked regular said they haven't ever had anything come back.

You mean that salty kiss was....

Yep correct etiquette to me is always to stay well clear of the door/location until given the signal to approach. As to cleanliness, I would say the few providers I've been fortunate enough to be friends with allowed 15min or more between appointments to cleanup and reset. BUT thinking of a particular friend, I know some regulars were marked in her contact list as speedy with an "(S)" beside their name and would be in and out in 10-15 minutes and in those scenarios appointments could be booked more tightly as she would be confident they wouldn't use the full half hour. The providers I know ALWAYS had a shower before clients not just a quick wipe, the shower might be brief but it was complete. I recall one time my friend and I were hanging out in her room just watching a movie and she had an outcall at a specific time to a regular who lived like 2km away, I stayed behind and kept watching the movie, she was gone I kid you not 15min end-to-end and was back barely missing any of the movie.

Likes and stuff effect it but I've seen people with more reputation than me with far fewer posts and far fewer likes. I have also seen the reverse. I too would love to know hows its calculated.

Never saw her, but her ad doesn't set off immediate alarm bells for me. I suggest if she appeals you give her a try

Not it. I got robbed by Carrie last week so that was my turn at TOFTT for a month or so. Lol. * * I an NOT suggesting this person is a scammer in any way

I know there are some but they will have to work hard to not get weeded out as fakes. I'm sorry but if you collect all the fakes on LeoList there's a pattern of no phone # being associated with the fake ads. It's just statistics. My recommendation is if you are a provider and advertising without a phone # then you should do some things like: 1) Refer to a Lyla profile you setup 2) Get verified by LeoList 3) In your description drop some local references. Mention "Halifax" or "Dartmouth" or your area "Clayton Park", etc. Heck even mention "Go Mooseheads!", I'll know then you aren't a fake. 4) Use the leolist map option to show your approximate area Do something to establish you are not a fake, but a legit local provider.

Agreed. Only contact is via email. 99% chance she's fake right off the bat.

I'd say there's no area of town I haven't had hit-or-miss encounters but that's not like what I really am worried about, Carrie was a outright robbery and possible beating situation. Other than Pinecrest/Jackson/Albro Lake kinda area I've never had anything where I felt in danger or outright lost my money. In Spryfield I've encountered an underage provider (left and posted here). I've had a provider I know well fall into hard drug use and I first witnessed that in a Bedford hotel.

I'm guessing because he hasn't seen her so a recommendation might not be a sure thing. A PM can also contain more detail. But a recommendation would be great should it be appropriate.

Agreed anyone who's been in this game for a while has struck that balance of # of clients vs price.

Natasha fits the bill, but I suggest set aside your age restrictions. What you are probably looking for is curvy and youthful in appearance regarding skin, makeup, tastes, personality, etc. Consider Catherine (nerdy sci-fi fan) she's 25.

I think developing some trust is why all the ladies I've asked have said yes. All the photos and videos I've taken have been shared with the ladies and in some cases they've used them for their ads. I've never violated their trust, all the pictures are kept private and password protected and as a rule I don't keep anything on my phone, one person didn't want them saved anywhere in the cloud which I've also respected. I do enjoy the picture taking process and the pictures keep me coming back to see them. They are great for reminding me of especially fun times.

I don't think it's specific to Sydney as it happens in Halifax too (see my post above). BUT I will say that my provider friends say they get a few no-shows day-to-day but only once in a while get a wave of no-shows like I describe in my example. When that wave hits it makes it very suspect that there's some underlying "thing" going on that they are a target of. I also would like to caution people NOT to discuss other providers when you are with someone. My suspicion is if you say "I usually see Trixie but she's not available so I decided to try you" then if they are that sort of person, you've just given them a reason to make Trixie's life miserable to maybe get them out of the game and/or steal clients. (P.S. Picked Trixie because I don't believe anyone local uses that cliche name)

I know a few providers well enough to count them as friends. They've all universally said the biggest pain of being a provider is the time wasters. For example not that long ago I had a provider friend who was very much depending on a series of calls to finish out her day and get the money she needed for her rent and some bills. All of them flaked on her (or cancelled last minute), she was in tears at the loss of what should have been several hundred dollars in the appointments, she'd turned down other appointments and basically wasted from about 4pm to 11pm on no-shows. (In this case it ended "ok" for her, I helped her pay her bills that were due and she repaid me after working again later in the week. Still lost revenue and wasted time for her. ) I'd love to know what percentage of time wasters are random men who get some pleasure from it vs ex-clients with a grudge vs other providers hurting the competition.

Hi Melanie, Just responding to your comment, I hope it doesn't come across as confrontational, it's not meant as such, it's meant to advance the discussion and explain my thinking. It's not geography, race, color, gender, age or otherwise that characterizes these scammers, BUT they will almost always share the trait that they need more money than they have, either to pay rent, feed their family or get their fix. They've opted to go with scamming people likely from desperation and the need for quick cash, they opted not to work a 9-5 job or an escort job for reasons I can't predict. While scams could happen in the South End or Clayton park, etc. I've personally only experienced them in that area of town. I think it's well understood that the cheapest rents, with little or no credit checks are in that area, that's what draws people to those buildings both the good and the bad. The scammers will always favor areas with cheap rents and you will be less likely to experience them in up-market areas simply because those who are so desperate can't afford to live in those areas. To your point about defending the area, I can understand if you live in that area you are not wanting to be painted with the brush I just used, but I think until the area becomes more gentrified you're going to run into it over and over. From my perspective, if I continue to visit providers in that area, and I'm scammed again and again and again, when is it ok to stereotype the area? I've had 3 problems in that area over the years vs about 3 successful 1st encounters. Why risk 50/50 odds vs 100% success in other areas? (Success defined as NOT robbed, have had so-so encounters, but not of the robbery variety). As a client we are often working with a few pictures, what the SP texts us and an address, I'm not prepared to toss out the address as a piece of the puzzle. Now someone is about to tell me to ONLY see providers with recommendations, BUT if everyone followed that rule to the letter, no new providers could ever enter the business because no one would take a chance on them. I tend to stick to providers I have built a relationship with, but when they are all busy or not working I eventually have to try someone new, TOFTT as it were. 🙂 Unfortunately just in the news this morning at the exact block where "Carrie" is working her scam. I hope she was involved and has been arrested. https://haligonia.ca/police-respond-to-a-robbery-incident-involving-weapons-dartmouth-249041/ P.S. You are an established provider, with a reputation and active here on Lyla. I've never visited you but you'd clearly be an exception to my rule regarding that area. I'd have no worries seeing you.

Not sure I follow big g? Where does bbbj come into it and safe clean time only kinda means no bbbj usually (not always).

I'd honestly pay extra if a session started with a 1/2hr of watching a beautiful woman fold my laundry wearing some lingerie.

You are always a class act Katherine. 🙂

I too was taken in. I told her no-go for Pinecrest. (She's in building 87 when I was duped). Over the course of 3 days (3 days!!) we texted back and forth and she even got verified on Leolist as Carrie, she was warm and friendly, chatty. Her text responses were not terse, she carried on extensive conversations with me. Her rates and services were reasonable and eventually I broke my rule of seeing someone on Pinecrest. Live and learn. She's super skinny, quick talking in person, long black hair tied back. She did send me a face pic that I could share, I can verify the pic and the person are a match. Not sure what the rules on posting a pic of her face would be. The old rule is now fully in effect. Nothing in the Pincrest, Albro Lake area, the one exception I can give is that nerdy sci-fi fan Catherine and her duo partner Rebecca (bbw) moved into an apartment on Pinecrest. I've been there and seen them and they are reliable and legit, I would not have gone there but I've seen Catherine before a few times in a hotel so was confident about her being legit. I should mention too when I parked there was a dude outside the next building over, no biggie. When she grabbed my money and fled I left the building and he was coming in. Could be she has backup if you are thinking to get confrontational with her. I let her run with the money, wasn't likely to win a chase and wrestling a woman to the ground and taking money from her doesn't look good.

You are right about that Katherine! She's a good looking lady and I never complain about a little tan line. lol.

Wrong forum I'm afraid

Oooo an air mattress, that sounds interesting. Wish I could experience that with the gel and all. Mine were on traditional waist high massage tables. I'm a bigger guy and the massage providers all had to be careful to not fall off me as the tables are kinda narrow. Off topic from the nuru, but I've enjoyed the table showers at Asian massage places. Very fun and some of the massage providers are enthusiastic about getting every nook and cranny clean. Every cranny! Fun but also slightly surprising.

It's not something I ask just anyone, but of the 6 service providers I asked all 6 said yes, so I think it might just be a case of trust and building a relationship in most cases.

She's an ex-service provider, we've remained good friends, hang out from time to time and have sex every couple months just for fun. She likes everything from rough sex to traditional basic stuff to bondage to breath play to stuff even worse. We've done a lot of kinky stuff. She just sprung on me that she wants me to think of something new we can try tonight and in her words "don't hold back" so I'm thinking she's not looking for slow and romantic tonight. Short of scat or golden showers I am a bit stumped, body fluids are no problem with us but that stuff is something neither of us seem inclined to enjoy. I know I haven't provided an exhaustive list of what we HAVE tried but anybody got anything off the wall we can try? She's tiny and fit, I'm a bit heavy and tall, I can pick her up. I do have a way of suspending her but that area of the house is full of junk right now so I'll rule that out too. This kinda thread could head off the rails pretty easy, I am looking for legit ideas and feel free to PM if that's more appropriate. I am not looking for this to be a contender for most explicit thread on Lyla, just give me the basic idea if you have anything. Sorry for the late request but hoping Lyla can come through for me. I do have a piercing kit and have done that sort of thing before but not directly as part of a sexual adventure, my only idea is to pierce her labia (nips, tongue, lips and various other places are already done) but assuming she's up for it that's also committing her to weeks of either healing the piercing or tending new jewelry until it's all healed properly. I should add everything is safe word with us (or more usually ring a bell on her wrist) but she probably won't want to know what's planned until I do it so that also doesn't fit well in my mind with body modification unless we had hinted around that in the days leading up to it. (I ruled that out, I am just not up for what would end up being close to a surprise piercing. If she seems unsatisfied with whatever we do, I'll suggest it .... maybe) *** Update *** She's on her way a bit early. Got about 1 hr to arrival, wish I could have posted the question a day earlier *** Update *** We had a great time, won't touch of specifics but she was sore this morning and enjoyed herself. Thanks to those who PM'd me.