Rambler1980

It is not her in the picture. Shes a well established massage provider though.

99.9% of Asian providers use fake pictures. There's virtually no exceptions to that rule. If you want an Asian provider is just a fact you need to accept. Our own local Lily is a perfect example and she's legit and well regarded.

Well there's rarely any harm listening to your gut. And although Asians are less common, there's plenty of great providers in Halifax. If you feel the situation is off, you are right to leave regardless.

Highly likely you were just a victim of your own over active imagination. It might have been a sting, but I haven't heard of any in years. My buddy was so paranoid; I'd rented a hotel room to see a provider and he didn't want to walk past the front desk to my room (it was going to be a threesome) in case they recognized he wasn't a guest and called security. This was a large hotel, think how silly that was that he thought the person on shift at that moment might have every guest memorized and call him out as non-guest. Your mind does strange things when you are nervous. Thats my guess. (after checking the ad, what are the chances the local Halifax police are going to go through the time and effort to setup a WeChat profile. WeChat is a popular Chinese chat/payment application that sees lite use outside China beyond the Chinese community or those dealing with Chinese businesses)

Those appear like twitter hash tags. I know I'm revealing myself to be a dummy but can you elaborate on what you were driving at?

She has an ad up on leolist now with the days she's working and she has a verified LeoList profile so she has directory listing with her contact info and website that remains up even when there's no ad.

You quoted my post, but I think we are on different pages here. My impression of what the original poster wanted was to avoid all those fake ads that don't lead to ANY local person at all, they are just ads that when you go through the motions redirect you to fake sites that solicit your credit card and try to scam you. To avoid those ads my trick works pretty well (with the caveats I noted). Your post seems to be about finding someone who's a good potential person to have an encounter with. Totally different kettle of fish in my mind. My trick above is merely step 1 to take the list down from say 100 choices to 50 choices. Those 50 represent a mix of legit quality providers and some local scammers, some local picture thieves, some local quick buck artists, etc. Then your techniques of checking pictures, etc come into play and are totally in line with what I would recommend.

Honestly quickest easiest way to weed out the fakes (and unfortunately weeds out a few legit providers I admit) is filter the Leolist results by ads having a 902 area code phone #. Poof all the fakes are gone. I know providers like Catherine-sweeter-than-Pi who uses a 506 number get weeded out, and those few providers who ONLY use email get weeded out, but ALL the fakes are gone and it's just worth it to me to get rid of all that noise to focus on providers who exist (minus the local scammers like Snow Bunny). If Leolist would just off a filter that said "ads with phone #" as a criteria I'd be happy.

I've visited many cities and I've seen providers in Toronto (although not in a couple years so maybe things have changed). My experience is 90% of them allow DATY so if you are finding the opposite I suspect it reflects on you slightly (sorry). Make sure you're super clean, dress decently and brush your teeth, freshen your breath, don't book a quickie session. Try to make sure you have good chemistry like Greenteal said. As to them liking it. That's a lot to ask, I enjoy DATY myself and have have heard everything from compliments to being told I am doing it too hard, not hard enough, too fast, too slow, I do move around too much, I don't move around enough. I basically now I start with what I like, move to some different ones if not getting a response. If I get positive feedback I use that as a guide, if I get no feedback I use the style I like best until I've had my fill.

I re-read my post and it feels a little like a backhanded compliment since it's kinda lackluster and that doesn't represent my experience with JJ. To expand on it a bit. A while ago I booked an appointment with JJ, her price was very affordable and that day I was looking for a very simple set of services and a fairly brief appointment. On meeting her she was friendly and attractive, she warned me when I booked that she had a delivery coming and might need to run to the front door. That was fine with me, she told me that all before I booked. During the appointment she provided a nice relaxing massage, she seemed to welcome being touched by me and we had a great chat. VERY near the end she had to leave me hanging briefly to deal with her delivery but she came back and we worked our way back to the exciting conclusion. I would for sure recommend her. If you want someone who is quiet or does the GFE experience you should discuss that with her up front, it's not what I requested and I enjoyed the chat. She's perhaps not your typical provider, she's unique but I think in an entirely good way, she's got a confidence about her that I liked. She carried on a good conversation via text messaging that made me feel comfortable seeing her for the first time and I felt the appointment exceeded what I expected.

I've seen her and enjoyed my time with JJ. She was chatty and wasnt particularly restrictive. I live near her so I expect I'll see her again when I can't see those I regularly see. Was it GFE no. But I didn't expect it to be.

Her ad is up today after a long multi-month break! I just have to figure out how to get time to go out to see her today.

Yes that's her Big G

I agree, I believe well written ads will always appeal to me more than a brief, chopped up ad. I think if we look at the providers discussed and/or participating here we'll see that the stars, those with high reviews and/or who've been in the business a while have better written ads, better pictures and they keep their pictures fresh. These ladies know their business doesn't start when the client arrives, it starts long before.

Easy there, just something I noticed. As to you "not caring" you've posted on this thread more than I have. There's nothing to get you "involved" with, it's just a interesting thread in General Discussion.

That's Lily, she's been mentioned here before I think. I think she's a known happy ending provider but difficult to getting a booking with (other's may correct me on that). Still props for posting your find! 🙂

I think I'll just let it sit and assume it's magic. Suffix to say as people like my posts I see it increase, I'll be happy enough with that. My new quirky observation is: Greenteal at the time of writing this, his little avatar has "General Member" above and "Senior Member (100+ Posts)" below but mine has the "Senior Member (100+ Posts)" above and below. Strange

For sure, I am totally fascinated with how they compute the numbers. Doesn't bother me that my number is higher/lower than others but there's some way it's calculated and it's the kind of thing that I find interesting. Just looking at your profile, I would think yours should be WAY higher than it is, you've had boatloads of Likes from other users.

Ok here's another person with a higher reputation score than myself. This one is quite perplexing. He's quite a new member with minimal posts. Again, not bothered by it so much as just baffled by it.

Where did you first see her ad?

The reputation isn't really important but is a point of curiosity for me. Could be, it's certainly one of the differences in our accounts. Just an interesting question to me.

Just looking at myself vs another member who has similar stats as me but like 8x the reputation. I'd love to understand why the difference. My stats on top vs his below

My experience with body slides we were body to body both prone. Nuru included that but had her sitting on me at some point with our junk touching but no penetration, she worked me into quite a state before dismounting.

I'd avoid. Too many excellent choices out there to waste time with someone throwing up red flags.

Have tried both and I prefer the Nuru, but the city I was in it was I think £100 vs £40 cost difference which of course was a lot more, but as I was deciding my buddy with me mentioned no tip was needed with nuru so I jumped for it. The tip was a big question mark for me as my buddy had paid quite varied tip prices and taking the ambiguity out of it was welcome. I ended up having a couple nuru massages while visiting that city. In other cities I have had body slides before, the nuru was waaaay more thick and gel like, made the body sliding part great. I'm a bigger guy and body slides don't always work well for me, but the nuru was fun and during the massage she worked her fingers into every nook and cranny (which I liked but some might not). For one of the visits I worked my fingers into her nooks and cranny's and she was very obliging even putting some gel on herself to make it easier for me, that would not hold true at every place of course (not even every person at that place). The finish at the place I was at was her grinding on me for quite a while then switching to hand action for the conclusion, probably could have tipped for something more but wasn't inclined and she didn't suggest plus I was covered in goop. We started the massage with a table shower and sauna (with other dudes in the sauna so that was weird) and finished with each having a shower in a little stall in the rooms. I think the sauna was mainly a holding pen as sometimes I was in and out quick and other times it was like 15 minutes and getting over heated. The place I visited used a regular massage table with a plastic cover and then a couple bath towels to make it more comfy to lay on. I've not experienced the air mattress variety.