Rambler1980

It doesn't to my knowledge. At least not without the advertiser arranging for it to happen.

She looks very familiar. I wonder if shes used another name before?

I think it would be fair to try one attempt from a new number like a texting app but be clear and honest who you are in your msg to her. Include a pic even (of your face). If she responds go from there if not move on.

https://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beauty/city-of-halifax/professional-massage-for-xmas-in-central-halifax/1399182339 She can be hard to reach, but she's legit. Not her real pic

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All I asked was if he called you or you called him. If you'd called him it would have explained how his wife got involved, if he called you it really shows what an idiot he was.

Catherine Sweeter Than 3.14 Not sure what all she has for costumes but she's a SciFi/Gamer/Fantasy nerd and will happily wear any cosplay you provide I am quite certain.

Stolen photos. Buyer beware.

No posts (except 1 misplaced ad) since Monday. It's mid-afternoon Thursday now, not a good sign. ** edit ** Ok now I see two posts that weren't there before that are between Monday and Thursday. I just read and replied to one. They were not there (for me) when I made this post, I checked carefully. Very odd.

If you look at her full sentence I think it would most likely be read "He called me a liar just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days. ". Where if you take the first part of her sentence as "He called me." then first off she didn't answer a question that was being asked in the post she replied to and it makes the 2nd part of the sentence read "[A] liar, just because I hadn't replied for a cpl days." which is kind of a nonsense sentence. Regardless I would prefer her answer the question herself.

So to me the reason for people coming to the site is: 1) Finding recommendations of providers 2) Finding providers advertising 3) Finding warnings / reviews of providers #1 works very poorly #2 works very poorly #3 isn't allowed. (Well warnings are allowed if it's like bait and switch) It doesn't bode well for the future of the site if you can't address #1 & #2 at least. Do #2 well and the site should grow tremendously.

Did you call him? Or did he call you?

I can see your frustration but I for one would NEVER give a provider I'm meeting for the first time my real name and the number. First contact is always a texting app. I've had way, way too many bad experiences to ever do anything else. Once we're established I'll volunteer my real name (but still use the texting app just because it's my preferred method of separating worlds). I've had numerous providers dick me around calling me or texting me at all hours to see if I want to book with them. I've had a provider (whom I never did meet) go berserk and threaten my life, my home, my family, threatened to call the cops and accuse me of rape (bear in mind I never did meet her). The trigger for her behaviour, she offered greek as an extra, I enquired the price and then declined the extra as it was outside my budget but wanted the regular FS she advertised....well that triggered her. Then 24hrs later she messages me and says she has a special on if I want to book??? (WTF you just threatened to kill me and my whole family). Just way, way, way too many crazy people out there. Likewise with deposits. 90% of deposit requests are scams. I'd never give a deposit on someone I haven't seen before. Exceptions might be for well established out of town visitors but that's not my cup of tea. I think it's frankly just no win from both the provider and client perspective. We both deal with time wasters and crazy people.

I've found many providers who offer deals around the end of the month. You'll also see a few providers who really only pop up when they are short money which is also around the end of the month usually. Deals are fine and a terrific way to establish yourself as a regular, I have had some great rates from providers when I established myself with them when they had deals on and offered me the same "deal" rate ongoing for being a regular. I agree with Greenteal about 2 things, if the deal is too good, for example if your paying 2 digit prices for full service; run. Something is wrong it's either a scam or someone with issues you don't want to get tangled in. Second I agree don't haggle. I think there's room to negotiate for extras and in special circumstances but their rate is their rate and if you haggle, expect lesser service.

I gave up on Kodi "No Streams" was the constant result. What's the trick? As for Netflix .... I am VERY frustrated there's no way to find good new shows among their content. Why can't I watch a preview of movies and shows.

If I'm in the mood for specific things I do always ask first unless the provider and I have history already. Like I might ask via text msg, "Do you offer DFK?", not sure if a question phrased like that would be a deal breaker for you? I'm curious only because pissing off providers is never my goal, and I pride myself on trying to treat people in a fair way.

I have things I like and would probably decline to see a provider if she didn't offer some of the things I enjoy, but your post has blunt phrasing that is comes across very objectifying towards providers.

Kylie you're a sly devil. Now I want to book with you just for the make out session, that's honestly more than 1/2 the pleasure of seeing you. I look forward to it every time I see you. 🙂

I would suspect bitcoin would be accepted my many providers. They often pay their advertising fees with Bitcoins as those services usually have trouble maintaining credit card processors for long. Purchasing bitcoins in small amounts is a pain in the ass that usually requires, using cash to buy a pre-paid card of some kind, sending that card's info to someone selling bitcoins. Both transactions take a share of the money meaning providers often pay 2x what they should for bitcoins. Leolist (unlike Backpage) was accepting credit cards, not sure if it still is or not. I am sure one of the providers can chime in on that. If they are only accepting bitcoins now then you might find a provider who'd welcome them.

I'm going for it. I got a 1 in 3 chance it's her! That's math right?

One of the biggest compliments I get is when they ask me to stay, I've had it happen a number of times. Start to get dressed and they pull me back or tell me not to rush away. Feels very nice to have the person being paid ask you to stay and talk or cozy up in bed for a bit longer.

Agreed. Although I am a hypocrite for wanting less nudity in the general discussion areas so I can sneak on the site from work. 🙂

For Lyla to grow it needs to provide utility to it's users. That's the same for any web site. When Backpage closed there was a reason LeoList took over instead of Lyla. Lyla is not a good platform for advertising for providers. It could be and should be. That generates traffic and revenue. It's also restrictive, lots of rules. Say what you will (and I support rules) but it discourages discussion. Whatever solutions (if any) are brought forward to increase member usage if it involves more rules it's probably the wrong solution, if it involves less it's probably the right solution.

I cut-n-pasted directly from the rules available at the top of the site (see my screen shot) , so they need to clean up the rules perhaps and make it uniform? Regardless, the nudity makes it difficult to check the site easily from work, that is my real complaint that keeps me from using it as much as I might otherwise.

Ok here's some complaints about the site (these might also be complaints about the old site too). Don't get me wrong it's a free resource and I intend to continue using it. But someone asked for specific complaints so these are mine The reputation points are messed up and meaningless. There's no way to correlate how the points are generated especially for migrated users. The reviews section needs to be organized like the old one was, I can't find reviews easily anymore Why doesn't it remember the forum I was last in when I login The activity streams are confusing and I can't seem to set one up for just the forums I'm interested in Members signature banners have naughty pictures in them so often I don't dare take a peek from work which reduces my participation The advertisements area needs to be organized like a classifieds site not a user forum. It's the wrong tool for the job. The search defaults to the whole site not the forum I'm in I find mobile use frustrating and avoid it Why can't I edit old posts after someone else posts. This isn't a legal document it's a user forum, just let me edit old posts The rules state No posting nude photos or photos depicting sexual acts. Yes this site is adult but we do not allow porn How come nudes are all over the place in banners? Jessica Rain above is an example (sorry Jessica you are just one among many). This gets back to having to watch over my shoulder anytime I'm on the site. Can't use from work at all no matter how I resize the window The rules also state no advertising in general discussion forums but some of the providers banners are huge and all ad. Just posting a simple 1 line reply puts a massive ad smack in the middle of a discussion forum When I get a message under mobile it's near impossible to click and view it. I am totally unsure how to view it. Gave up on mobile in fact. See the image below. Why isn't each forum on a separate line with a bullet point. The bold lets me know there's unread content but why is "massage" tucked over to the right of "escort discussion" instead of on it's own line Why is the giant link to "Escorts-Canada" below every section of forums. If it's a paid promotion thing its being done wrong because Ontario only has the link clicked 400 times vs 1400 for Nova Scotia because the Ontario section pushes it so out of sight with all the areas it has.