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Being on the opposite end as I had signed up for the accounts at the beginning of my career, the most common complaint from gentlemen I heard was that a lot of the girls would bail and don't fully understand what they're getting into.  This was a year ago though. 

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My membership for a month (almost $150) to SA ran out last week.   My experience was less than anticipated to say the least.   After the first hour I noticed that the chat was lagging and members that appeared to be online in the app were showing offline on the computer.   The number of available people in Nova Scotia is very limited.  There’s also a lot of spam messages and individuals that never actually want to spend time with someone.   They are more interested in having you pay to Skype or for Snapchat pics/vids.   If that’s your thing then SA could be what you are looking for.    

End result is    Buyer beware.  IMO 

 

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I have used SA a few times and had some good and bad experience. it is like anything else. You need to weed through the profiles. But there are some good legitimate women on there. Stay away from young ones though. Search for age at least 26

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I am intrigued by this.  And it is an avenue I would be interested in.  But at 150$ (USD I expect) a month, well that seems a little steep as it is close an hour of service some of the fine ladies we already have available.  

Did anyone who has used these sites, and ones like Adult Friend Finder; find that they we chalk full of fake accounts ?  

Having said the above, if there was a descent success rate of good quality, then the 150$ p/month may be well worth the payment. 

 

On 10/5/2018 at 10:27 PM, SavannahSol said:

Being on the opposite end as I had signed up for the accounts at the beginning of my career, the most common complaint from gentlemen I heard was that a lot of the girls would bail and don't fully understand what they're getting into.  This was a year ago though. 

Thank you for your input.  

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To properly give and receive in this type of relationship both need to be honest regarding expectations , very honest.

 

I had brief month long affair with someone from the SA site. He wanted far more time from  me that his compensation offer. It was not even close to being in line.

As well he felt he could call upon me at any time with very little notice and no was not a word  he understood. I was very prepared to see what the month would bring us but based on my one experience I would not do it again. Again my experience but I have talked to other ladies with similar stories.

I believe I have heard ladies say their experience was positive. So like all things in this game, caution and due diligence. :classic_smile:

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 Arrangements websites have seriously increased their membership rates after personals ads and free dating websites got bad names, became increasingly regulated or simply got banned from many classified websites. I won't support the price gouging. This type of relationship can be found, but requires a bit more of out of the box thinking.

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15 hours ago, Lookingfor said:

I have had great success with SA I am just getting home from a rendezvous with one that I see. I have two that I see on a regular basis. I would have to say that the price you pay for what I have been seeing is well worth it. 

 

Someone as nice as you will always find exactly what you seek .:)  

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I've used SA and whatsyourprice. 

I have developed decent relationships on both of those sites, but both sides have to be ok with the agreement. Being upfront really helps things out - but realize it's not a one way relationship like an SP. You also can't expect to pay someone a low rate and expect results. A lot of these sites are made for the wealthy, not someone who would complain about $150 USD. Overnights with escorts can be $1200+, why would someone advertising on a sugar site expect less?

Then you have the opposite end of the spectrum which Savannah mentioned - which is someone just thinking they will go out to date someone for $200+, have a good time and go home alone. That's why you have to be upfront with what you want, or you're just wasting time. There are a number of escorts to advertise on the sites, and that's ok.

Honestly, I think the best way to "get what you want" is to find a person via lyla or LL, do an incall, see if you get a long and then discuss the prospect of going on a paid date (if the provider is open to this with you, or even does this in general) to get to know one another, and then discuss multi-hour arrangements. 

 

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Funny. I was just contacted by someone looking for a sugar baby. I don't seek this type of relationship.  So, he's in "miami" and wants to spoil me for $550 a day just to chat. Of course, I'm a skeptic so play along.

All I need to do is give him my banking user ID and password and he will deposit the money directly into my account. I can then change my password afterwards.

Yup, I'll get right on that.

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4 minutes ago, Meaghan McLeod said:

Funny. I was just contacted by someone looking for a sugar baby. I don't seek this type of relationship.  So, he's in "miami" and wants to spoil me for $550 a day just to chat. Of course, I'm a skeptic so play along.

All I need to do is give him my banking user ID and password and he will deposit the money directly into my account. I can then change my password afterwards.

Yup, I'll get right on that.

 He ask because many will fall for it. Like fake cashier's cheques and plenty other fraud methods. When in doubt, just google it.

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7 hours ago, Meaghan McLeod said:

Funny. I was just contacted by someone looking for a sugar baby.

 

 

You can be my Sugar Baby, but all I have to offer is free cloth folding services. 

 

....but I still want all your banking info; you can just change the password later.

P.S. - I live in Monte Carlo!!! 

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People are missing the point about these sites. They are not supposed to be pay for play. There are all kinds of different arrangements. I have had a few over the years. often they are nice women with careers looking to date older established men. You give them a monthly allowance and see them whenever is suits. I had had 2 where sometimes you go dinner or a movie and being intimate happens when it happens. There are a ton of  scammers at both ends, but you weed through that. Also there are at least 5 to 1 women to men ratio, so the $150/mo should be only that, one month. it has never taken me more than 2 weeks to find somebody. Just look for decent women. They are on there. SA is the place to go

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3 hours ago, hornypt said:

People are missing the point about these sites. They are not supposed to be pay for play. There are all kinds of different arrangements. I have had a few over the years. often they are nice women with careers looking to date older established men. You give them a monthly allowance and see them whenever is suits. I had had 2 where sometimes you go dinner or a movie and being intimate happens when it happens. There are a ton of  scammers at both ends, but you weed through that. Also there are at least 5 to 1 women to men ratio, so the $150/mo should be only that, one month. it has never taken me more than 2 weeks to find somebody. Just look for decent women. They are on there. SA is the place to go

 The point of those website is not the problem, the insanely high membership/brokerage fees is! With those high rates, members should expect a serious vetting process and fast customer support to manage complaints. The idea that "There are a ton of  scammers at both ends, but you weed through that." is completely unacceptable when you pay such a ridiculously high amount! 

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8 hours ago, Greenteal said:

 The point of those website is not the problem, the insanely high membership/brokerage fees is! With those high rates, members should expect a serious vetting process and fast customer support to manage complaints. The idea that "There are a ton of  scammers at both ends, but you weed through that." is completely unacceptable when you pay such a ridiculously high amount! 

Yes the website should be managed better, but if you think 150$ is a ridiculously high amount it probably isn’t the website for you as it’s meant for fairly wealthy people who would consider 150$ to hardly be anything. 

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I was on SA for a while and I saw a few familiar faces, but I never pulled the trigger because posting a profile on SA is basically broadcasting to the world that you have money-money and in the era of #MeToo, perhaps it's best to stay away from relationships with women who are specifically seeking wealthy men; actually it's best to stay away from them all period!

 

Can't beat P4P!

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1 minute ago, SavannahSol said:

Yes the website should be managed better, but if you think 150$ is a ridiculously high amount it probably isn’t the website for you as it’s meant for fairly wealthy people who would consider 150$ to hardly be anything. 

   Let's be honest,  "fairly wealthy" people don't need those type of websites. There no reasons why any of those should be over $50 a month. If those were carefully screened and constantly monitored to avoid abuse and fraud I would understand why paying a premium would be appealing. But in reality most of those are managed like normal dating websites and users are not receiving benefits that would justify the higher rates. The only reason for the gouging is the lack of alternatives and not the actual service.

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1 hour ago, Greenteal said:

   Let's be honest,  "fairly wealthy" people don't need those type of websites. There no reasons why any of those should be over $50 a month. If those were carefully screened and constantly monitored to avoid abuse and fraud I would understand why paying a premium would be appealing. But in reality most of those are managed like normal dating websites and users are not receiving benefits that would justify the higher rates. The only reason for the gouging is the lack of alternatives and not the actual service.

If they lower the price of the website then the ladies get to deal with more spam, so I find it to be a healthy median. With the 150$ price for men I still dealt with people wanting 6 hour dates for 200$/ 1 time a month/ no other arrangements aloud/ full service sexy time included with no protection. It’s already a joke. At least the 150$ keeps some away, if it was lower I can’t even imagine what it would be like for the ladies. 

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13 minutes ago, SavannahSol said:

If they lower the price of the website then the ladies get to deal with more spam, so I find it to be a healthy median. With the 150$ price for men I still dealt with people wanting 6 hour dates for 200$/ 1 time a month/ no other arrangements aloud/ full service sexy time included with no protection. It’s already a joke. At least the 150$ keeps some away, if it was lower I can’t even imagine what it would be like for the ladies. 

   Don't get me wrong, I understand your point. But on our side the quality doesn't match the rate. If strip clubs and massage parlours operated the same way, those would go broke in less than a week.

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27 minutes ago, Greenteal said:

   Don't get me wrong, I understand your point. But on our side the quality doesn't match the rate. If strip clubs and massage parlours operated the same way, those would go broke in less than a week.

Oh I agree, In conclusion seeking arrangement is horrible lol. 

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1 minute ago, SavannahSol said:

Oh I agree, In conclusion seeking arrangement is horrible lol. 

    I'm only saying they're taking advantage of the current shortage of alternatives. When other websites or apps will offer more affordable options, SA will have to adapt or disappear. If it's "horrible" or not is up for debate. But if I'm gonna spent $150, it will be for the lady instead of the lazy middle man.

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23 minutes ago, Lookingfor said:

I don't understand how this became such a big deal if it's too much money for your pocket don't go on it. The money that I have spent on this site so far is well worth the women I have met. The debate for price will go forever because some people are willing to pay other people are not. Take it with a grain of salt it's a business and if you own this business you would do the same thing.

  Your argument about the 5 to 1 woman to men ratio pretty much says it all.

  There two ways businesses can operate: Low volume and high profit margin or high volume low profit. The first model works great with well refined niche products/services. The second works better for product/services in larger demand. The higher volume makes it profitable with a lower profit margin. 

  They choose the first model that completely fails the ladies as about 80% of them can't find the extra income they're looking for. Like you said, I don't need to use this service. But for women who need help to put food on the table, pay the rent or pay student loans, this is money they can't access because of pure greed.

  But if you find it fair, good for you.

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It’s pretty simple if you think it’s to high don’t do it or try it once see if Membership Really have its benifits ! 

   It’s different strokes for different folks .

everyone thinks the price of gas cigarettes and alcohol is too high yet pepople still partake ! 

     Looking for enjoys the benifits he uses the site those who haven’t don’t know . 

I haven’t but I can only imagine it’s a whole other experience . 

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On ‎10‎/‎13‎/‎2018 at 8:16 AM, SavannahSol said:

Yes the website should be managed better, but if you think 150$ is a ridiculously high amount it probably isn’t the website for you as it’s meant for fairly wealthy people who would consider 150$ to hardly be anything. 

You are absolutely correct Savannah. Weather it be SA, Lyla or anywhere else.   We are certainly a luxury and if gentlemen are on  a budget  its hard to find what they may seek. 

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