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My first day in Ottawa. Why everyone who calls ask me to do 15 minutes appointments?

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So i just got here today and i got at least 20 people calling me and asking me what is the cost for 15 minutes booking. Does this happens often in this city? Is this normal for girls to do 15 minutes bookings? Or when they ask for 15 minutes appointment they actually mean half an hour? I'm confused...lol

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I understand that but that's why there are half an hr. appointments. I prefer not to do them but yeah sometimes i do them as well. But 15 minutes? Really? So what next? Pay per minute sex? LOL

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I understand that but that's why there are half an hr. appointments. I prefer not to do them but yeah sometimes i do them as well. But 15 minutes? Really? So what next? Pay per minute sex? LOL

 

OMG! you sure hope not! ;D welcome to ottawa! hope your visit is great!

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But 15 minutes? Really? So what next? Pay per minute sex? LOL

 

I would save so much money :) Would you offer half minute calls?

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Hmm...that is strange. I don't recall the idea of 15 minute appointments being tossed around here in the past.

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It's because of a lot of new girls advertising mostly on other sites do offer 15 minutes and perhaps these guys assume because you are new, you also do.

 

If you're young and new, you will be asked.

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Most of those calls are likely a result of your ad on BP where there are many SP's doing 15 min appointments.

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Most of those calls are likely a result of your ad on BP where there are many SP's doing 15 min appointments.

 

Yeah that's what i thought. But if i think about it i did advertise in bp in other cities and never ever had so many guys in one day asking me to see them for 15 minutes. It will happen once in a wile but not so many requests for 15 minutes and all in one day. Oh well i'm not going to stress this subject anymore i was just wondering why this happened. Thank you all

 

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I would save so much money :) Would you offer half minute calls?

 

LOL ....Mr. GONE IN 30 SECONDS!

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As someone fairly new to this hobby I can say I don't like the idea of seeing a SP for 15 minutes. If it takes me longer to shower, get dressed and make myself presentable then the actual act, whats the point? I may as well stay home and rub one out watching porn.

 

On the flip side to that, whats it like for the SP's having a revolving door of men coming into their incall location, it can't be safe, not the mention the neighbors would definately notice this over a few clients a day.

 

 

Anyway, thats just me, I like to know a little bit about the girl that I'm with, maybe talk and see them laugh first...its not just about the "release", its about companionship.

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Angella of Ottawa, yes that's possible as well. Even though i'm not that young and i been in this industry for a wile. :) I would think they get that from reading my website but i guess not.

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I think some guys just want a "test Drive" so to speak, to spend a big chunk on unknown is not common..

I Dont know but for myself i prefer an hour

like to please if i can my conterpart just not myself

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Carmen, don't let them turn your head around and make you crazy! If this is not something you want to offer, be firm and send them on their way! There is surely someone they can go to that does provide this service.

 

Personally, I don't see the attraction of such short encounters, or understand the mentality - to me that would seem extremely self-centered, not caring at all what the lady feels in these short few minutes. Hardly any connection, very cold, mechanical, etc. But that's just me! To each their own. :)

FR

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Fifteen minutes doesn't do it for me, and to be honest I like more than 30 minutes unless I'm unusually randy and want to get off without the usual expense. I would suggest you say sure and then quote them the half hour rate. If there wasn't a differential they wouldn't be making the request.

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Out west the 15 isn't very common. The blow&go is, and if that isn't in your ad, then that's why guys who call on your BC or AB ads aren't asking about it probably. I think out east the 15 is the equivalent of the 'just a bj" rate enquiry.

 

You could try putting "One Hour Minimum" in your bp ad to help filter. They aren't going to look at your website if you have info and a ph # in the ad. Many viewers can barely make it past the phone # portion of ads, as far as I can tell from some of the phone calls I get.

 

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Could it simply be because they saw your pictures and immediately knew they wouldn't be able to last more than 15 minutes with you? ;-)

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I have never considered and wouldn't as I like some "get to know you time".

Suggest you just make it explicit in your ad (especialy on BP), that you don't do quickie appointments - and set a minimum of $45 min or 1 hr, and that should both make guys aware and weed out those just looking for a quick bang.

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Much good advice here.

 

Of course, even when you've made it absolutely crystal clear in your ads and on your website that you don't do very short encounters, you'll doubtless still get requests for them... but you can probably do the same with those as you do with anyone else who fails the basic reading comprehension test :)

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Here's one another lady told me from a guy who contacted her from another site." Umm, I just need 5 minutes of your time, how's $40? What next? Pay by the minute? LOL. The problem with that other site is there are certain things you are not allowed to state in your ad mainly rates except for hourly rates.. So there are a lot of tire kickers ( you will find 1 or 2 out of 10 guys who become gem clients) or those who attempt to make up different types of sessions according to what THEY want ( i.e. the 5 minute $40-50 session) and one girl will do it and these guys assume that because one did it, that she now has set the bar for the entire SP industry and we will all succumb to it. And then there was a text going around from a U.S. area code that a lot of ladies received from a guy who wanted a bj before payday and that he would give them the money in a few days. Seriously, this industry is getting stranger by the minute aside from the 15 minute appts.

 

If more ladies stuck to their guns and charged their rates by time instead of an "act" none of these shennanigans would be happening. We are escorts and throughout the years we have been known to charge for our time. Both parties know what is going to happen without having to explicitly state it. Now if you don't do this or that, you're tossed to the side because you don't offer all the PSE activities and if you can't stand on your head, well damnit, you're SOL and you won't last according to these guys who think they can have it all including a second round in 15 minutes. It's actually quite amusing. I'll stick to my minimum of a half hour thank-you very much. I'm not a drive thru express lane. ;)

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Booooo! That sucks for you!

 

Ya probably these dudes ask every new one to the city?? lol...like ohhh here is one I have not asked yet! lol...eventually it should die down for these kinds of inquiries. I think they are just wishful that finally someone will take them for the 15 min...lol..perhaps there are? I dunno??

 

Keep steadfast, I do not even bother answering these kinds of inquiries. It usually leads to a big negotaion of services and rates, with no booking in the end:( Best of luck:)

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SPs should not take it as an insult if they get asked for 15 min. I wish more would do this -- it can be a win-win scenario. I have a regular SP I see for 15 mins. She gets a lot of money for a very short time of work, and I get to blow my load more frequently, which makes it easier to concentrate on work and keep horniness under control.

 

As for 1hr minimums -- for some people, $200 or $240 is still a lot of money! You see an ad for an SP, get there and it turns out the ad was deceptive or there was no chemistry, bad service or attitude, etc. etc. That's a painful waste of time and money, and only discourages you from trying new SPs and booking appointments.

 

On the other hand, if the SP is good, you will come back.

 

My 2 cents. Have fun

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Frankly in this case to call and ask for a fifteen, hell even thirty minute appointment I can see it being insulting, and not something a gentleman would do. Just a quick two or three minute read of of Carmen's website before thinking of asking the question and you would see she doesn't offer that type of encounter. Anyone who has experience being involved in this lifestyle as a client knows you read the lady's website before asking questions. Those asking didn't even show enough courtesy to take the time to read Carmen's webpage, but they expect her to reduce her time for them. Carmen, here's a quick thought though, say you will offer a fifteen minute encounter, but it's the same price as seeing you for one hour

And fifteen minutes, hell that's not enough time to get into the door, take your coat off and sit down on the couch and have an enjoyable conversation and get to know one another

But on the plus side, well for me at least :-) this thread just made me aware of another lady, a lady I'd like to meet. Although I have encounters scheduled right through to January (yup, I really am planned/committed that far ahead) Carmen, you are on my list of ladies I'd like to get to meet (don't know if that's good or bad news for you LOL)

Anyhow, hang in there Carmen, some of us can't envision doing a fifteen minute encounter, hell for me one hour is too short

RG

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