Incalls Hotels vs Home Residencies ?

[Phlipspecial69 1449]

Hello, hope everyone is enjoying their long weekend.

 

I have visited both, and i prefer hotels, but more and more i see ads pop online for in calls at home residences. I just spoke to one recently and i asked her for rates etc and she replied, the in call is at this residential address but cost of the time is also included for the room, i never heard of that before unless she was meeting at a friends house?

 

What do you prefer? for both the SP and the client, do you prefer to meet at your residence? or meet at an hotel location?

 

Cheers

[roamingguy 300292]

I personally prefer an outcall to my hotel. I like hosting. A hotel is more advantageous than my home because it would be too hard for a lady to come to smalltown Ontario than me to go to Toronto, Ottawa, Hamilton or London (places I have travelled too) not to mention a hotel room is already made up, ready to be used for hosting an encounter. And part of the escape an encounter offers is for me at least, getting out of smalltown Ontario. Finally I like, after I get everything ready, that final countdown of time, the building anticipation, heart beating more and more, till there is the knock on the door

A rambling

RG

[Guest Ou**or**n]

My preference is to meet a lady for an incall. Part of it is selfish convenience - I don't have to tidy up my place. Part of it is that I find most ladies are more comfortable on their own turf be it a hotel or their own apartment. With incalls I do prefer hotels but the preference is minor.

 

However if a lady does outcalls only and I truly wish to see her, I'll tidy up ;)

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

One of my first encounters was in my home and well what can I say it was so very hot as we were both comfortable with the environment. There is something to be said about good conversation in your living room in your own home and of course being in your own bed. From the initial conversation;to our love making and to the shower fun afterwords it was a good experience.

[Ice4fun 78407]

Generally for me I would prefer incall at a good hotel especially for first meetings. I think this provides the best degree of security for everyone involved.

 

That said I would be ok with meeting a well reviewed established SP (ie CERB member) in their residential location.

 

But to be realistic it would come down to how badly I wanted to meet the lady.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I know this message was directed more towards the gents but I wanted to add my cent and a half.

 

I do incall only and I LOVE my space. I have created a little oasis of positive sensual energy, tantalizing scents, lighting, music and comfort that it has become an extension of sex for me. I love hosting and I love when people come to visit and feel comfortable here. It may not be grand but it's unique and it's those touches that I find wonderful.

[cinelli 22184]

Winnipeg has too many gangbangers to run the risk of giving anyone access to your home.

 

One time I wrote a bad review on the other board and the girl knew who I was...she told me she was going to have my house burned down. Arson is routine in gangs here. Not something to joke about.

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

It is all about doing your home work and the city you are living in.

[roamingguy 300292]

Winnipeg has too many gangbangers to run the risk of giving anyone access to your home.

 

One time I wrote a bad review on the other board and the girl knew who I was...she told me she was going to have my house burned down. Arson is routine in gangs here. Not something to joke about.

 

Ladies could make the same argument about potential clients too.

And ladies much more than guys I would think, have incalls at their place

Really, like Excaliber said, do your homework

RG

[Guest P**aq]

I'm a fence sitter on this topic, it all depends on my mood... it can be in call or outcall. If I feel like tidying and having company (which includes food and wine) it will be outcall. If I am lazy, then I am happy just showing up at her location with a bottle of wine in hand. And the donation, of course ;)

[Ice4fun 78407]

I know this message was directed more towards the gents but I wanted to add my cent and a half.

 

I do incall only and I LOVE my space. I have created a little oasis of positive sensual energy, tantalizing scents, lighting, music and comfort that it has become an extension of sex for me. I love hosting and I love when people come to visit and feel comfortable here. It may not be grand but it's unique and it's those touches that I find wonderful.

 

I said I prefer incall in a hotel but you would be one of those exceptions I would like to make. The more of your post I read the more I want to schedule a trip to Halifax.

[Horndog66 14104]

NEVER host an escort in your residence, no matter how good her reputation. Anonymity is paramount. And, when you visit a lady at her incall, take only the amount of money agreed upon, your phone and your car keys. Don't take stupid chances.

[fortunateone 156618]

I know this message was directed more towards the gents but I wanted to add my cent and a half.

 

I do incall only and I LOVE my space. I have created a little oasis of positive sensual energy, tantalizing scents, lighting, music and comfort that it has become an extension of sex for me. I love hosting and I love when people come to visit and feel comfortable here. It may not be grand but it's unique and it's those touches that I find wonderful.

 

 

Me too. I can't imagine the cost and inconvenience of doing incalls in a hotel, and how impersonal it is. If a client is that worried about seeing any sp in her own location, he is considering seeing the wrong sps imo.

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

NEVER host an escort in your residence, no matter how good her reputation. Anonymity is paramount. And, when you visit a lady at her incall, take only the amount of money agreed upon, your phone and your car keys. Don't take stupid chances.

 

Might be suitible for Winnipeg but always do your homework especially in Winnipeg according to my Winnipeg friend.

[jondalar 210]

NEVER host an escort in your residence, no matter how good her reputation. Anonymity is paramount. And, when you visit a lady at her incall, take only the amount of money agreed upon, your phone and your car keys. Don't take stupid chances.

 

I totally agree with you. I also want to be as discreet as possible. I mean If only I could wear a mask during the deed....

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

My preference is my own dedicated incall location - away from my residence. This way, I feel comfortable and hopefully the gents do too.

 

Nothing worse going to a residential outcall only to find out there are no clean towels for me.

[roamingguy 300292]

I should add one thing, as a travelling gentleman, normally I already am booking a hotel to stay overnight in. So I have my outcall. And no, not a dingy one star no tell motels. I stay in hotels, at least three star that the ladies I have seen approve of...I even pick hotels that some ladies have recommended to me

My reason for staying at a hotel is I need one because I'm travelling to see a companion, and need to stay overnight. So a hotel isn't for me a waste of money, just part of the expense of partaking in this wonderful lifestyle

 

RG

[Guest N***he**Ont**y]

I totally agree with you. I also want to be as discreet as possible. I mean If only I could wear a mask during the deed....[/quote

Being single I thought it wasn't a very big deal. But after some thought and because in civilian life I am in the public a lot I have become more low key when I am in my home city.

[Angus Podgorny 1361]

Outcall for me. There's nothing better than slowly falling asleep after getting laid. No driving home on icy streets.

[Horndog66 14104]

Me too. I can't imagine the cost and inconvenience of doing incalls in a hotel, and how impersonal it is.

Whether or not an encounter is impersonal has nothing to do with location and everything to do with the chemistry between the participants.

 

If a client is that worried about seeing any sp in her own location, he is considering seeing the wrong sps imo.

As an experienced pooner, I have protocols, just like experienced SPs. Even with trusted regulars, do you leave your purse unattended when using the washroom?

 

I never reveal personal info to anyone local, regardless of their reputation. There have been cases in Winnipeg of formerly reputable SPs outing long time clients to families and employers due to jealousy or misguided anger. There is a very recent case where a lady with a good reputation has been accused of setting a client up for a mugging.

 

If I'm out of town and seeing an outcall lady in my hotel room, I sometimes have to give my real name for verification purposes, but that's much less risky than doing it locally.

 

SPs and clients should always err on the side of caution where safety and dixcretion are concerned.

[6dave9 4008]

The opportunity for an outcall to my residence for an evening play date are far and few in between.

In the day time mind you, almost every day is wide open.

- HOWever they are WAY too many eye on the street... - not possible.

[Cloud 1210]

So it's a bad idea to schedule an appointment to my apartment even though it is in a discrete location even witha reputable lady - I have one in mind.

 

I refuse to do incalls because they are technically illegal and I really don't want to get busted - it would ruin everything.

 

How about this: I schedule an appointmenr at a hotel, and for the next apointment she can come to my place if I trust her. I don't want the additional expense of a hotel because it would drive up the cost of this.

[6dave9 4008]

Cloud, my 2c worth here...

 

So it's a bad idea to schedule an appointment to my apartment even though it is in a discrete location even with a reputable lady - I have one in mind.

 

-I can understand you are nervous about an outcall. Actually an apartment is a lot more discreet that a single family home.

- If you stick with a reputable lady here on CERB, establish a open line of communication, then take it from there.

 

 

I refuse to do incalls because they are technically illegal and I really don't want to get busted - it would ruin everything.

 

- Solicitation is illegal... what happens between 2 consenting adults is not illegal.

-Once again.. you wont have that issue here with CERB members....

How about this: I schedule an appointment at a hotel, and for the next appointment she can come to my place if I trust her. I don't want the additional expense of a hotel because it would drive up the cost of this.

 

Yes a hotel rooms adds to the cost.....

-Your choice...

Relax and have fun...

D.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Living in a small town, my clients prefer to visit in my home. For about a month, not long ago, I had to go to hotels as I renovated my location. I lost about 3 appts in one week. One fella walked into lobby, saw people he knew. He ended up leaving with them for supper hahahaha, others just would not come. Too scared to see people they knew or the car being spotted. It was a hard month, people just did not want a hotel room.

 

For the OP, yes sometimes ladies share space. I for one never worked where I lived, I paid for a separate apartment, so regardless apt rent has to be paid and so did my real apt rent. So yes I kept same rate as if I was in hotel.

 

I did not like apartment buildings, as neighbors were a major concern. Also whenever someone has a "problem" with me they just send my ads to my landlord, then I find a note on my door! lol...

 

Now I bought a house with an apartment on lower level. Some ladies will rent my space when they are in town, so yes they keep the rate as if paying for hotel too. Although renting my space is half the rate of a mediocre hotel, their rate doesn't change as we have to stagger our individual appointments. Therefor the volume is a bit lower too. One lady that rents space from me prefers it here cause I also feed her breaky and supper, lmao, Bed-n-breakfast style hahaha. But her clients prefer it too, and we are honest about the fact I live upstairs so that they are not sketched out if they hear my foot steps.

[packet 133]

I prefer incall at hotel or dwellings of some type, no bangbus under the bridge, by the river please!

I have known to break down an invite someone over, but that rule will probably never be broke again.

 

I finally was able to meet a local SP at her friend's dwelling, who has been very hard to get a hold of. She suggest she could come to my place next time. I have seen her 3-4 times and was quite comfortable with her. The two of us had some disagreement and I get this flood of threating text...

Needless to say, I am glad I did not invite her over.