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The different sites serve different purposes. This is not an endorsement of that site. However it is free to advertise. For a provider starting off in the business it is a forum to place an ad. Not everyone starting off knows about the laws in Canada, about health matters, about reviews and recommendation boards. Heck for years hobbyists relied on newspaper ads. Some providers still advertise there, just look at the sun newspaper. Hobbyists that look there do so for different reasons: looking for something/someone new -because everyone is attracted to different physical and other qualities limited other avenues to find someone an awareness of the scene .. .. . Providers that advertise there do so for many reasons: they are new to the industry and do not know of other safer forums they want to keep costs down they want to keep a low profile (limited ads, build up regulars and keep their regulars) or providers looking to expand their business How many times have you seen a well known provider touring and having a CERB ad,an EC ad and an evil site ad in one of the bigger cities? How about local ladies with a CERB ad, and EC ad and an evil site ad all on the same night? Yes, it happens. That said, if it were not for participating/contributing members on boards like CERB, taking a chance on an evil site ad and booking a date with someone from the evil site, and writing a recommendation and in doing so encourage said provider to join a moderated forum like CERB, how many top CERB ladies would not necessarily be part of the CERB community? I know of quite a few! Again, not an endorsement of that site, just stating the facts for awareness. There is nonsense there and as CERB grows there will be nonsense on CERB, but it is also EVERYONE's responsibility to keep the nonsense off CERB.

A new book came out about a month ago called the Book of Awesome. It is the natural extension of a blogger's project to list 1000 awesome things... not stuff like the Sistine Chapel ceiling (which I must admit is awesome) or the Grand Canyon (also awesome.) He started the blog and book when things were going downhill in his life and needed to see simple things that made him smile. This list has stuff like "popping bubble wrap," "the cold side of the pillow," "the smell of air in a bakery." Simple stuff that makes you smile... sooooo... let's try this out.... Here goes: 1. The feel of twirling soft hair between my fingers 2. A seductive whisper 3. A kiss with a sweet aftertaste. 4. A unexpected smile from a stranger. 5. Something so funny it makes you pee (just a little bit) 6. A steak cooked to perfection. 7. A great hair day 8. The first time she says, "I love you." (that was sappy but how can you argue with it?) 9. An ice cold beer on a hot day 10. An obscure song that just takes you back to that perfect day. your turn!!!!

I was always taught growing up that you don't go into debt to enjoy luxuries. If I was a grocery store, I might consider letting someone go into debt to feed his or her family, but going into debt to enjoy a sexual service or any other luxury is just ridiculous IMO!

You cant try just one, bet you can't..

This is one of the many "No Go" zones, on both sides actually. There is no good excuse for discussing anything personal or even going so far as to ask exactly where someone works, if they have kids, or whatever. You only talk about what the other brings up, and never ever ask about anything whatsoever that they do not, regardless of whether you can see a ring on their finger, or if they showed up in coveralls with the name of the place they work and their real name on a badge. It may seem crass, but you are paid to keep your mouth shut, fulfill the fantasy, and there are very very few guys who actually want their wives brought into their session, imo. There are also very few who want to talk about what they do for a living, or have someone ask them for a favour, or anything that might create a non-fantasy experience.

Steve, I'm truly speaking from admiration and not experience so take my opinion with a grain of salt. The overnighter has become a recent dream of mine. As others have said you know your own capabilities which should be your starting point. But, I would be cautious after the overnight. You want this to be a memorable experience in many ways and for me I would want to take it easy at least the following morning. So many beautiful ladies out there I can understand the desire to want to pack them in. But in the end, I expect you'll remember the quality of each encounter and not the quantity. Have Fun - I'm envious. WC.

Go Steve go! Just don't hurt youself!

I really gotta say, I'm not down with all this menses bashing. It's the same blood that bleeds if you were to cut your finger, and no one thinks twice about sticking that in their mouth. Oh and if people who get into watersports are freaks, well, then my freak flag is flying high.

Why make it so complicated? As an adult you have a right to your own space and place, you need to set a few boundaries in your own life and it's fair that they respect that. You don't need to provide an elaborate lie, simply say that you "have plans" but would still like to see them and can they provide a time so that you can be sure that you'll be done your errands and be able to set aside time for them without needing to rush off. If they cannot provide an approximate time then let them know that today isn't good for you (just say you have some "stuff" you need to get done and it'll have you out of the house most of the day) but that you will stop by their place when you are not so busy.

I would say that the SPs who see 1-3 clients a day emotionally and physically invest themselves with each client. It has to be draining after investing all that energy. So it makes sense why their rates are what they are. The SPs who see numerous clients a day, tend to stay adrift and are really not invest in the session at all and offer one shot and a mediocre to bad experience. Maybe the price is cheaper, but are you really getting more bang for your buck?

Clash of the Titans sucked if you pay for it you were scammed!!!!

The real problem with CL is the complaints about it. It is what it is and you get what you pay for. It's not good or evil, it's simply a product of what's out there and the current economic climate. So if you're an agency that spams there 30-40 times a day and then whines about people flagging posts or writing negative material, maybe you should consider changing it up somehow...

I have to admit, I'm a little disappointed with some of the guys' reactions to the topic at hand. A woman's period is totally natural. So what if there's a little blood involved? It's not a big deal :rolleyes:.

I enjoyed your disclaimer mypleasure. I speak only for myself, but I enjoy a receiving from a guest if he approaches it properly. Properly for me means that he doesn't focus on my clitoris, but pays attention to the other parts of my cookie. The clitoris is a nerve center and it needs blood flow to achieve stimulation. Over stimulate and it just gets painful. I am not a 0-100 in 60 kinda girl. I like to warm up the engine, slide into the ride and then relish every curve in the road. I know you men don't like to but ASK FOR DIRECTIONS!!!!!!! Every woman is different and unless you know her body, you need to ask and then LISTEN!!!!!!!! And NO TEETH!!!!!! Biting or chewing is only appropriate if she asks you to do it. As for the psychobabble questions, every girl is different. You will have to ask each of us as you meet us! cat