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I know we have heard it befor about keeping phone numbers. I would just ask to please not text out of the blue asking if I want to see you I'm sure it goes for most Cerbites. I saw a lady three weeks ago I was getting ready Friday to go away and my phone went off it was the lady asking if I wanted to stop by for some fun. I know some guys have more than one phone but no matter I don't think it is appropriate to out of the blue text looking for a date. If you cant respect our privacy how can we respect yours with a text like this it makes me feel that there is desperation in the text. When there is desperation makes me wonder for what reason. So as I said in title just a reminder to please not text unsolicated dates for me it will have me add you to the DO NOT SEE AGAIN LIST

This week-end in Ottawa (Might be in other major cities) it is the CHEO Foundation Telethon. As a father, and have used the Hospital but not for major issues. Those children that need that extra help, we should try to contribute in any amount, it is after all about the kids. Thanks for listening,:wink: http://www.cheo.on.ca/

I may be one of the rare escorts who never asks for references. I was escorting long before the internet came into being never mind having such communities online where you could even consider this. I go completely by my gut and it has never steered me wrong.. even learned when I have a weird feeling but I was curious anyway.. that my gut was right about being dumb about accepting an appt. Know what I mean? Anyway.. newbies by all means book with me and I'll be your reference. I'm happy to give them but never require them. I see a lot of first timers.. if no-one sees them without a reference how are they supposed to get started??? Girls who are adamant about getting references have to remember that someone had to see them first :) FYI.. not to scare anyone but I had a long term regular client that indeed had an sp get jealous on him when he saw her sp roomate.. and called his wife so it does happen! I do however only accept new appts with a number I can verify.. why? because if you no-show I will keep your # in my phone so you can't pull it on me a 2nd time.

Just curious what you gentleman think ? Does size really matter? Tell us what it is about our breast ,that tickles your fancy.

Texting is simply another way to make a phone call. If you as an sp would not call up a client out of the blue, looking for biz or just to chat, with a phone conversation, then doing it by text is not any more OK. An email can be opened in private, and not be viewed by anyone but the recipient, but a text just shows up. You have no idea where he is, who is he with, what he is doing, and there is simply no good excuse, whether you wish to know how he is or not. It always comes down to one thing, when it comes to clients making appts: when they are ready (time, funds, interested), then they will contact you. Calling them up out of the blue will not make them any more available. I only have two people I talk to with email, I would never call anyone up except to return a message. I feel mostly the same way about the emails. I will wait for contact, then reply as quickly as possible. I just feel nothing good comes out of calling people up.

I'm probably giving vent to my hormones, but is it just me or do the ladies on the Canadian weather channel seem hotter than ever. Who's your favourite? God, I wish I was a Meteorologist!

Negotiating while in a state of arousal ruins in the experience, in my view. I've never understood such a business model. I guess they must think that when a man is in a state of arousal, he is more likely to easily part with his money. That is not the way to build a solid client base!

The best way to deal with clients like this is the trash bin. While yes there are pages and pages of women offering the same service, I doubt there are many that are willing to negotiate or be coerced into offering a discount to this ungrateful patron. And if he does find someone who will, he's bound to understand why the service was discounted. If he'd rather spend his time shopping around and getting rejected by other offended providers instead of spending some quality time with you then that's his choice, in the end he'll need to resolve his stress and relief at his own accord and likely with his own hands :) Don't waste your time worrying about Discount deadbeats.

Jim, you said in your post that you were afraid to establish a relationship with a service provider for fear of affecting your career, or home life. What you need to remember, is that these women are professionals. It would not be to their advantage to interfere in your life. You would very quickly find that their client base would disappear. Further more the type of relationship is different. A relationship with an sp, while it may be affectionate (and it's nice when it is) is not and has never been intended to be permanent. I think if you enjoy the variety, then you should continue playing the field, but don't let fear stop you from repeating if you find some one you're particularly attracted to. For myself, mostly because I have special needs due to disability, if I find some one I like I tend to be a repeat client.

Yes, we are most fortunate to be living in Canada. Imagine what your situation could be if you were residing in another country where the social net was not as well maintained!! Sure our country and its municipalities have challenges, sure there are things that could be improved: everywhere and everyone has the same thing. But then again, ponder for just a moment the types of basic services that we almost always take for granted as if it is our natural right to have them at our disposition in a free and unencumbered manner: clean fresh air with almost no pollution; potable drinking water in copious amounts with no fear of poisoning ourselves or becoming ill; an almost ininterrupted supply of electrical power; the freedom to walk where we choose, with whomever we choose, whenever we choose. One has only to travel outside of our great Canada to realize what we truly possess back home. And you wonder why people around the globe would die to immigrate here, to provide for their families through their hard work, and raise their children in a free and caring society. I did not mean to take off on a tangent, but folks have got to realize what we have and truly appreciate the life we lead. Let us support our institutions for the work that they do and for the services they provide. Just think about what you and your family/friends would do if they were not there!!! Now stand up at attention and proudly sing or recite the national anthem. Pay very careful attention to the words and think back to the last time you used one of our organizations. Enjoy the day, I have to get a Kleenex!

Simple clothing request and those jeans can be right back on! hehe Thanks for the comments!

From a lady's point of view, this statement makes the warning bells go off. A statement like this shows that you have something to hide, in allot of ways. How is it incriminating to provide your board handle (condsidering that it is not your real name)? A hobby phone is fine, but something here makes me think that it would be a "Private Number". I am not trying to knock you for your thoughts, I am just stating mine, so please dont take offence to what I am writing. Yes, there are some ladies who have raised cause for concern in this industry due to there lack of indescretion, but that does not apply to all of us. how does providing a reference cause a problem, when you saw another lady on an alias as well? I ask for lots of details about who I may be visiting with, firstly so that we can establish a connection prior to visting, as well to ensure that you are who you say you are. There are too many problems that can arrise when visiting with someone new, and asking for a reference will usually prevent problems from happening. Be grateful you are in Canada and hobbing, allot of ladies in the USA require a peice of photo id before the encounter will happen. A reference, is alot easier that this. Just my thoughts, Emily

Like any enterprise, people have the right to refuse to do business with anyone they don't want to. Due diligence and condoms are the new norm gents. :pimp: Welcome to the New Millennium! :D