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I'm still confused why people visit CL and then comeback to CERB to complain about it. IMHO all the best sp are here on CERB and easy to find, you can also read recommendation on them which is not found on CL. If you venture yourself on CL you are taking a chance so stick with this site for no problem experience. Case closed.

Peterbondra, I can not speak for ALL ladies, but MOST do prefer advance notice. Since we always want to look, smell and feel our best, last minute apps, dont always work. But it can't hurt to ask! A minimum 30 minutes might be a better approach instead of saying "Can I come now!" Explain your situation and she just might accomadate you!

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

I got my first laugh of the day. I'm booking a hotel to do massage, and they want to know if I'm booking a hotel for business or for pleasure :boobies::butt: I put down "I am in the business of pleasure." Just kidding!

I am so happy beautiful Berlin is discussing this issue! I wish some of you knew this: The female body it is made for multiple orgasmic experiences thus if you care to make us come and have an eletric session with you. All you have to do is ask us: How do you prefer? Where and how can i pleasure your body, breasts, thights? How can i perform date on you, to arouse you? We are in the age of the Godess, thus most sexually confident female knows what she likes and dislikes in bed. Some of you even get mad at me when i try to give you tips on my sexual likes and dislikes. And some of you are all about been generous and sensual according to my personal sexual preferences in order to make the best of our encounter and the result it is hot sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Some guy even told me it is "natural to penetrate a lady hard". I would say the word natural it is a dangerous word to use in sexuality and aesthetics. It is natural to allow gas to flow freely, should i fart on your face during sex because it is natural? No right? I prefer gentle and slow sex, but once i am more warm up i will ask for more action. I think desire and lust should lead in bed, not the strength of your male hips. I would prefer that you touch my arms, my legs and my back and my waist and my back before you touch any sexual part of my body, and please be gentle and please warm up your hands before touching us. The beauty is: Some of you already aim to please, but you are rare and you know who you are;). When you penetrate us hard without any care to increase our pleasure we just want to make you come asap, because it hurts.

Sounds very time consuming for the sp/mp, and reeks more of voyeurism than anything else. Read the sp/mp's profile/website and her reviews. If interested email/pm/text/phone her, set up an appointment I don't see what a webcam will provide to either the hobbiest or sp/mp that existing availble methods of contact already provide My 2 cents RG

How about "Bye Hun, I'm off to have a sexy romp with a horny TGirl that I met on line she's got a realy tight ass" Realy who's going to believe you they will probably think your sneaking out to drink beer.

What can I say about Jessica that has not already been said? She is amazing! I met with Jessica a couple of days ago at her downtown location. It was a nice easy stroll from my office to her downtown location. The crisp air and bright sunshine helped to calm my nerves somewhat. I?ll admit that I was a little nervous to meet her. Jessica greeted me at the door in a short, tight blue dress and high heels. My immediate impression was ?Wow?. She is gorgeous! In her heels she was closing in on six feet. Six feet of pure, smoking hot woman. She immediately hugged me warmly, and tightly, for what must have been several minutes. Such a turn on! I guess my mind had started to become mush as I forgot to give her the donation envelope. We ended up on the bed where she proceeded to undress me between cuddles and caresses and kisses. It was all very romantic and sensual. She was very active in the undressing process and she even helped me take off my socks. None of this ?Ok, lets get undressed so we can get started? attitude here. It was heaven. Before I knew it we were both undressed. If you have seen her pictures you know that she is tanned and beautiful with a shapely body. So I thought that I was prepared. Prepared until I saw her in all her glory. I?ve always considered myself to be an ass kind of guy. And Jessica?s bum is stunning. But her breasts blew me away. From viewing her pictures I was expecting a smaller chest. She has beautiful, full, perky breasts with very large nipples. If you are a breast guy you will love her. I had a huge thing for Playboy playmate Shannon Tweed in the early nineties, and Jessica reminded me of her as she moved around the candle lit room. My brain has now completely become mush. We proceed to the shower. While we soap each other and caress and kiss, I realize I still have not given her the envelope. So I ask her to remind me about it when we get out of the shower. At this point I know I can?t depend on myself to remember it?.she has me mesmerized. We dry off and head to the bed to begin the massage session. She is strong and solid. Not a lightweight spinner. The feel of her body weight pressing down on my back was incredible with her oiled breasts and strong hands pressing into my skin. While it was immensely enjoyable laying on my stomach receiving my massage, what I really wanted was to turn over so I could see and touch Jessica. So when I flipped onto my back I finally I got to view her from all angles. What an incredible body to view up close and to touch. She was really into it and she seemed to be enjoying herself as much as I was. Jessica aims to please. She tried to prolong my excitement as long as possible. But eventually all good things come to an end. And come to an end it did, in a very wonderful way. We hugged and cuddled and chatted for sometime on the bed. While we lightly touched each other, she looked deep into my eyes and traced her finger around my face. She is a truly sensual lady who exudes sex appeal. Finally we are off to the shower once again to clean up. Yes, I am completely brain dead at this point. I?m in another world. Somewhere, in the far reaches of what?s left of my mind, I realize I have still not handed her the donation envelope. And she has not mentioned it to me. In addition to her stunning beauty and incredible body, she is very laid back. No stress or drama what so ever. After I managed to get dressed, I gave her the envelope and headed to the door. We hugged again and shared a little kiss. Then it was good-bye. Spending time with Jessica is a no-brainer. In my case my brain vacated the room shortly after I met her. As you may have gathered from my experience, I was very happy with my decision to meet Jessica. I will repeat with her for sure. Up until now in my brief hobbying period, I have discovered women that I have really enjoyed meeting and spending time with, but I have not repeated because I want to experience a variety of women and different services. However, I don?t know if I can wait that long before calling Jessica again. Thanks Jessica!:grin:

This thread has been on my mind all day. To be quite honest, it really bothered me. My grandfathers (both R.I.P.) and my grandmother (God bless her...she's still around :) ) fought in the war and Remembrance Day is for remembering people like them; those that fought for us. By all means remember your favourite/first SP but please don't use Remembrance Day to express those sentiments. Thank you.

Yeah, I know, but even that's quite a long list, and Bank Street is extremely long, goes on forever. I'd could name maybe 4 places on Bank off the top of my head, and they are widely separated in distance. It's still an ambiguous reference.

I like to have as much time as possible to get ready for any guest that chooses to visit with me. I need to be in the perfect frame of mind to ensure maximum pleasure for any visitor. Personally its a bit of a turn off form me to get a PM asking if I am available "now". If I were to be available now I am sure the experience would be so much less, and I bet if last minute callers think of it from perspective they might re think even asking. Its just me but I need at least a couple of hours .:)

Very good advice!!! One reason I chose my incall location is that I can get to it from almost anywhere within 30minutes. To the OP, it is very hard to say which ladies can accept this, as it all depends on timing. Sometimes a lady may be able to say yes to something last minute, other times she can't. My advice would be, if you call someone and they say they can't see you, ask if it's okay for you to try last-minute again in the future. If they say yes, try again, if they say no, you'll know that lady would prefer if you booked in advance :)

I never heard of that before that's all. They don't advertise the massage on the site. Most business owners would advertise. I thought maybe this was privately run. Posted via Mobile Device

Reading this thread brings many thoughts to mind and heart. Because of the negative perceptions of this business, many SPs leave with no option but to simply cut ties. It is a struggle for an SP to leave for many reasons. Never assume the decision was flippant in any way. There is an emotional commitment to her clients and walking away isn't done on a whim. Most feel that terminating all contact is the only way to go. The shame and social rejection that comes from publicly admitting our profession is overwhelming to all those that do not have the inner fortitude to withstand and come thru it. Other professions allow a forwarding address and relationships developed are allowed to continue and are considered valuable, but in this there are so many challenges it is almost impossible to maintain relationships if a woman has been an SP in secret. The one reason that is consistent with all of those that leave for romantic motivations (which in my experience is the #1 reason for retirement) is the insecurity that comes from their SO. The fallout is usually nuclear in proportion if it is found out that there is a continued relationship with a guest after she has "squared up". Even the most stable of men will have issues with her work, and it will undermine everything in the union, and SPs realize this. It takes an extraordinary man to accept that her work isn't a threat, and underneath the facade SPs want most to be loved and accepted. So they are faced with a choice...the man who wants to love them forever or the man that wants to love them for an hour a couple of times a month. It's a huge gamble in my opinion. If a man cannot accept me in my entirety including my work, then he is not the man for me. From my perspective, a complete cessation of contact with my guests would be akin to cutting off a limb. First and foremost they are my friends. I tried to refer many of them this summer to other SPs and it was an complete and utter failure. The reason I continue to travel back to Ottawa is because I have guests here that count on me and leaving them hanging simply isn't an option. Does that mean we are to close? What is too close? Is loving someone wrong if it isn't in the "traditional" sense? I think the posts above show that guests truly are more than a venue to generate money and I want hobbyists to know that most professional SPs invest themselves emotionally in very deep ways. Always remember this profession doesn't usually attract the woman that is strong and whole. We become SPs because we are trying to fix the financial crunch and do not understand the emotional side of things until we are in it. Some find wholeness, it gives us so much. Others are destroyed by it. I find my work rewards me back in direct proportion to what I invest in it. Each and every one of us are bent in our own unique way. The common perception is that we are money hungry and greedy, but for the good ones it isn't true. We have an unusual ability to love and let go when the time is right. In the grand scheme of the Universe, all relationships are simultaneously precious and insignificant. We must live in the moment, cherish what is now and accept that nothing in this world is stable. Not the concrete buildings we reside in, the earth below our feet or the experiences shared. Every relationship I have is treasured for what it is right now. Tomorrow, if circumstances have changed, I will remember fondly as every experience builds who we are as people and that is what we are here for... Catherine