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I speak in full honesty when I say that I don't care if my clients are attractive or not. It's not something I even think about. I care first and foremost about respect/hygiene, and second I care about your personality. I know this probably sounds like total bullshit "I don't care what you look like, just your personality" but it's the truth. Harsh reality is that I don't do this for my own sexual satisfaction, so why would I care what you look like? I've met many men who are not physically attractive, but after a couple sessions, they warm up to me and I find them quite charming and attractive.

First question would be why would you post this on cerb if you knew it would be deleted? Sounds foolish does it not? Second... animosity is a little strong. I am just diplomatically nipping this comment in the butt before it makes anyone (especially the ladies here) upset. New members do not usually take the time to READ the posts here and educate themselves before making a post. In fact most just assume things about the industry and come in and post a comment. The comment "just bj?" (especially from a new member) is ALWAYS because they expect a lesser rate for "just a bj" (If this persons post was not intended that way it would be the first one EVER and we all know what he is asking for here right) ... the word JUST says it all. We do not allow posts like that on cerb as these post REALLY bother the wonderful ladies we have here on cerb. So I (and other members) when we see these posts we NIP THEM IN THE BUTT. As you can see from Cathy (above) it is appreciated when we do this and we are educating the new members who may not realize how rude it is to expect to pay LESS for "Just a BJ" and the new member who may not know better is now aware that this is not acceptable. You can only imagine how many times a lady hears "How much are you going to charge me for JUST A BLOWJOB" Some people feel that since they are asking for NON FS the hourly rate should be less (as they assume it is less work) and the fact is that not only is it more work in most cases it's not the service you pay for with most of the ladies it's the ladies time and when you try to pick apart services and haggle for better rates it makes unhappy ladies. Problem is.. some ladies do offer lesser rates for 15 minute calls 20 minute calls and even just a BJ (Mostly because they don't know better or feel pressured to offer this cause SO many guys haggle for such things). Etiquette is something many new members lack and by being BLUNT and to the point I am not wasting anyone's time (Including my own) and the new member will now be aware this is not acceptable (Without getting a warning or infraction) and all is good. Animosity would have lead me to delete his post and issued a warning to him but he did not come right out and ask for a CHEAPER rate so I have no animosity towards him or his post. I am just intervening to make sure he is aware that if his goal is to find someone at a lower rate JUST offering a BJ he could find himself in hot water. You are assuming I am scolding this person but re-read my thread in a happy tone and just a guy giving another guy a heads up... You assume because I am the MODERATOR that my comment should be read in anger or distaste. You should NOT assume things. I hope this answers your question.

I have to agree and appreciate the fact MOD is looking out for the Ladies. Thank you. : ) I have personally had problems from new members that haven't taken the time to look at the schedules, announcements, or services the ladies offer. They do not take the time to look at our profiles, recommendations, or get to know the community a little first, or ask or seek advice from the more established and valued members about the conduct of this board. Yes, there are ladies that offer this service and if he were to take a look around and "rephrase" his question, I don't think it would be a problem. I've been asked a few times in chat by new members for just a bj or just a ???? It's offensive and disrespectful to not look us up, get to know us a little, get to know the differences in our services.... A little bit of respect, good rapport and contribution goes a long way...... My two cents.....

There are risks to everything. It is each individual who is THE best authority on conducting their own risk assessment and can decide which activities they participate in. One man's pain is another man pleasure. Play safe and play on.

I don't think anyone would want otherwise! Who in their right mind wants to see a provider that is grumpy or cold? I try to be positive in general everywhere I go. I chat with and get to know my teller(s) at the bank or my grocery clerk each time I go in with friendly banter. I wouldn't go back to a hairdresser who was in her own world and paying no attention to me other than the hair itself. I banter with my physician, mechanic, etc. If you are like this all the time you will have better connections everywhere and deep down that is what all people desire. It's important every where you go in my opinion to make connections with other humans.. and all the more so with this job. It's the most important connection I realize for men who are vulnerable when they come to see us... so I strive even more to make this an easy transition from whatever job or situation in their lives they've just come from to being with an old friend, an old girlfriend or a mistress who can soothe them for an hour and make them leave with a smile on their face.

I posted this on the other site and wanted to paste it here as well: You know Gents, I've been sitting back and watching this all unfold while other people comment and say their piece about something they know NOTHING about. After taking time to calm down, think, and be rational I have this to say. First, when honesty is betrayed, there is nothing that says I have to risk my safety, comfort or well being to Protect My Reputation or Please a Client. Not only has Explorer69/Pike or whoever else this gentleman is lie to me about his identity, he also lied to me about being a member of any boards, and that he had NEVER seen me before. I have met him before, and after that meeting, never wanted to see him again. He is quite aware. Don't be fooled. Once I realized he had been lying, which was in fact when he called upon arrival, that is when I decided that since he was not concerned with me and my rights/feelings that I should treat him with the same rude and inconsiderate fashion. As I've said many times, Respect and trust is a two way street. Yes, maybe I should have picked up the phone, said I refuse to see you etc. And for that I was wrong. However, once that trust is lost, do I really Owe Him Anything? Secondly, The whole reason I ask for so much "personal Info" is because I've been put in situations like this Too Many Times. I'm very happy to be low volume, and see the people who love seeing me. If you want to be a new client, I encourage it! I love meeting new interesting people! But I shouldn't feel like I'm asking for too much. Lots of girls give references, and we have No Problem Doing It! It shows that we respect each other and care for one an-others safety, and that we aren't insecure that we'll "lose our client". It's not trashy. It's safety. What personal info do I ask for that others don't, other than the reference? Does the fact that I want your phone number so I know it's you when you arrive bother you? Frankly, good luck finding a girl who doesn't want Any Phone Number. It can be Any Phone Number You Are Comfortable Giving Me. Your choice. Does someone really think I'm going to go out of my way to try and ruin a man's life just because he wrote something negative about me? Really? I'm sorry, but just because this man decided to act childishly does not mean that I am the same. And just because some gentlemen have been unlucky in having a crazy girl out them, does not mean all escorts, including me, are like that. Maybe those gentlemen should have been More Careful themselves in choosing a SP? So maybe being picky isn't so bad after all? Also, my reviews have stemmed back for a few years as well. It's not like they all happened over night. I have been a trusted SP for a while. Oh and by the way, even though it hasn't changed on on the other site, this site noticed and joined your two accounts Pike/explorer69. Funny, I didn't think two different gentlemen would be able to have the exact same experience and write the same post, and 5 minutes apart, on two different sites. Hmmm.... Weird huh? Warmest Regards, Mia

I can't believe this is happening in this land. The animal guy raped a woman on the side of a road and admitted telling the woman "it would only hurt for a little while." and then the idiot judge says that it was the mistaken belief by the guy that "sex was in the air" and a "heightened expectation" that sex would occur. Why, as the judge said " the victim was dressed in tube tops and high heels when they met the guy outside a bar "and made it publicly known that they wanted to party!!!!." What the hell is this? Women around the world are looking up to Canada as a model when they demand for their well-deserved rights and now this ..... http://www.torontosun.com/news/canada/2011/02/26/17418376.html Women can dress the way that they choose and no one or no damn judge or no damn govenment has the right to tell them how to dress and it is no damn indication of invitation to rape. Women can choose how to dress whom to socialize (and whom not to), where to go, what to eat and drink and whom to sleep with (or whom not to). This is ridiculous and appalling and I go further and say the remarks from someone in a judgement position is disgusting in this free land. NO MEANS NO. Anyone who do not hear that IS A RAPIST and belong to jail.

think of the SP you have had in the past (no need to mention names) What would have made your experience better (if anything) would it be performance? length of time...etc i know id love to know, and perhaps some ladies could improve themselves as well, tell us what you really want!

I thought this crown , would suit you !! Congrats on 500

This is where a non-touching mutual masturbation session can be super hot!

man...look at my avatar....I am not far off that......really..... I have met many of the ladies here...and i can tell you each and every one has made me feel special....happy...and alive...... you do not have to be a God to be with these beautiful women......you just have to treat them like a Goddess.....

I ran into Cleo in the chat room a little bit back and we got a chance to get to know each other. We got to get a sense of what each of us liked and it became quite clear that she was a lady that met pretty much everything that I like. So, a visit was in order. To start, Cleo is very easy going, can engage in a variety of subject matters and sets a great tone for an encounter. This is just the tip of the iceberg, one of which this lady can melt, she is hot. It was an outstanding time, I thoroughly enjoyed exploring her body, and she was very receptive to those advances. You can tell that she really enjoys herself and this is a real turn-on. I had spoken to her about a few things that I find particularly of personal interest and she was more than willing to accommodate those interests. All I remember is that the satisfaction was extreme and this lady really knows how to make her partner feel that intensity of passion. You know it was great, when in the end your body just feels drained and you are completely tranquille. Amazing, I cannot see how anyone would not be 100% satisfied. Cleo, you are a gem.

Not arguing, different strokes for different folks...but for me, the WHOLE encounter is more than just sex (and I was surprised when I first started hobbying, I thought it was only about services off a menu) If it was just sex, I'd need a half hour total. The conversation, getting to know the lady and vice versa is all part of the encounter, it's not just about the sex, at least for me RG

I don't see a lot of women and those I choose to see have engaged with me in a little back and forth emailing or pm'ing etc. By the time I decide to see some one I'm pretty sure I know if we're on the same page and that we'll get along and have the same goals and we'll have some fun because if not then for me why bother. When I show up I will be fully engaged, there's an obvious breaking of the ice as it were, but I'm going to be a willing and eager participant in the festivities which will ensure a good time for all ;) Peace MG

Suffice it to say that SPs didn't really voice in until Mia's entry. This was her decision and the SPs respected her decision to sit quiet and see if it died down. Her explanation is clear and accepted by the SPs for reasons that are our own. There seems to be no reason to continue with the discussion. If someone tried to sneak back in to see me after I had told him that he was not welcome, he would have received the same treatment from me as did Mia. Enough said. cat

No one on this site would post anything negative as i am sure they are all aware of the ramifications. I am pretty sure that the majority of the people on this site are also members of other sites and able to read the trash found there. I see no harm in the way she has defended herself.

This has nothing to do with the "other" site. Her response was direct and given only after days of speculation (both in public and private) to the identity and professionalism of the sp. So to avoid being slandered in pm's she posted her response. I think she has the right to defend herself publicly. Kim

I know exactly what you mean, BootyLoving.

Jenna is the type of girl that makes you at ease and comfortable. Like you have known each other for a while, just haven't seen each other for some time. Suddenly you notice ... Jenna, you're toned, and you look prettier. You look her up and down, and suddenly, both of you are on the floor, sweating, and its getting hot and heavy. She's tight, firm, and it's getting tense - a little sureal. Jenna takes you places you haven't thought of, she's holding your hands and wants you to be there with her. For a short moment, you think ... lets run away together Jenna. It was hard to leave the appartment, but the real world out there demands your attention.