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Just wanted to say thanks Nikky and Angela for organizing another great social! I had a great time meeting the friendly guys and gals from cerb, see you at the next one!

I agree with Megan, especially if you are planning on visiting a well reviewed lady. What would we gain from any kind of malicious use of your number? If you have so little trust in us, why in the world should we trust you? It boggles the mind to think that there is this view that SP's are all nefarious by nature. To paint us all with the same brush would then make me believe that all hobbyiest are all ugly sex starved freaks!

Just got back in town after the party and was really please to see all the kudos goling to the organizers. They deserve a huge nominated post by all and a special thanks in so many ways goes to Nicki and her team Angela and Shortcake. Coming from away and meeting all for the first time was so easy - thanks to the graciousness of all involved. What a great crowd CERB is and I definitely look forward to coming to the next one! The biggest thing I took away is putting faces, smiles and conversation to the many names I've corresponded with in different ways through CERB. GREAT JOB LADIES AND GENTS!

I got a call from a family member today saying the family cat had died last night after 19 years. While I was sad, I knew she was going to die from old age eventually. I have 2 cats from one of her litters and they are 14 years old and are still going strong and very active like their mother. Sorry, I don't mean to be doom and gloom, just reflecting on what a great cat she was and how she lived a good long life. R.I.P mon petit chat.

but his problem is with his friends..;)

This is a hot (sensitive) topic. I opened an almost similar thread last June that dragged on for many pages, and .... well at the end I wished I hadn't. I therefore refrain from commenting.

Just wanted to give my thanks as well for a great event. the location was really astounding this time around and very cozy. thanks too nicki and Angela and all the lovely people that showed up to make it all awesome.

Excuse You! I and everyone else are only trying to help. As far as I'm concerned there's no need to make oneself look "Bigger than they are" It seems to me the only person looking to up his rep is You. Too bad it wasn't in your favor. Try to be polite. Not everything is a contest. And this is a Nice Board. Go somewhere else if you prefer to be negative towards others. This was my fault Mia Bella. You made a fun / funny comment in my opinion and I felt the follow up comment made fun of you un-necessarily. I should have kept my opinion to myself. Everyone knows you are not looking to increase your thread count FYI, nor could I care less about it either. You are very respected on this board for your input and your fun personality. Keep being you !!

This is a thread which can raise many issues. Two that come to mind are the guys attitudes about the sex industry, first that in some ways they are participating in some shady and illegal enterprise, and the second relates to the failure to take ownership for their personal decision to participate with the ladies. Sure there are unscrupulous women who practice the bait and switch and those that have habits and are on the streets. But if you take care there are many wonderful women who are very professional and value this industry as their livelihood. They are careful to maintain there health and are careful to operate in a fairly lawful manner. Most value their privacy, and are not interested in keeping in touch outside the dates they have with you. I try to show them the utmost respect and let them know if they are free to call and leave a message. On the second point, if you are going to cheat then by all means have an anonymous email account and a throw away phone to protect your identity. But, if you are caught man up and accept the consequences. You should have already considered what the negative consequences are for you. I am rather fortunate that I don't have a significant other that I have to hide my activities from, but if I did I would definitely have to reconsider stepping out. At the outset I will say that I do have two phones, one of which is a pay as you go which I have had for many years. I have met many nice ladies in this industry who I'm quite comfortable with giving them my identity. The reason for the second is simply for maintaining my privacy in quite a number of areas. I don't want the telemarketer calling, a clingy client who I have helped as a volunteer, so I use the disposable for many things as well as this activity. It's a number that I can switch off when I want, or abandon if it becomes a problem. The other I expect to have forever and is only given to family, close friends and trusted people and organizations.

I'm single, so I use my own phone. That leaves more money available for the ladies.

Well I finally recovered enough to turn my computer on and wish to send a big THANK YOU to Nicki and Angela and all the other helpers and participants at the social. It was a blast, great locale, great people, great service. Great to put some faces to names, meet old friends, and hopefully made a few new ones! Again, thanks very much! Alg

Nikky and Angela -- Thank you so much for the invite and for all your hard work putting the social together. Gents, it was nice meeting those of you who I got a chance to talk to. =) Ladies, as this was my first social it was also nice meeting you as well! I look forward to the next event.

What a great event. I am so glad that my travel schedule coincided and allowed me to be there and to meet some of the people who I have come to know through Cerb. A perfect venue, great organization and simply a great evening. Special thanks to Nicolette and Angela for their hard work and hopefully you two can get to relax a bit now after doing all of that for us. I can see an extended trip to Ottawa in the near future for me. :)

With all due respect, the OP does say later on down the thread that he would consider travelling to Ottawa. I am sure when MiaBella posted it, she did not mean any ill will towards your city.

The only thing my kittehs are trained to do are knock over glasses of water, sniff feet, and drag other peoples clothing around my house. Actually that could be interesting, hahahahahahahah

My opinion is that people put way too much emphasis on "acts preformed" than the actual tone of the date. GFE to ME means, we talk, get to know eachother, then move on to something more intimate, kissing, cuddling and MUTUAL satisfaction. I dont believe because you offer GFE means that you have to perform BBBJ or other un-safe acts, just because one may do that with their SO/BF or GF. (For thoose that do offer thoose services, that is their choice) By saying "True GFE", the lady in question might be saying the "True" part, so that you know she will not be giving a mechanical/detached service or maybe it does mean, that she may do BBBJ. No one knows but HER! I think maybe you should email/pm or call her again to clarify what her definition of "True GFE" means. If she wont reply, there maybe a reason and if you absolutly need clarification, move on to someone who has no problem doing so! With every lady there is a different take on the term GFE.

Shortcake! She is a real redhead! with freckles! and she is awesome! and good kisser:D And I want to make out with her SO badly...

I find this whole thread kind of funny. It seems to me that the guy was probably just trying to be kind. The points are valid, I guess, but you do see the "that's my client" behavior occasionally in strip clubs, and it can get pretty nasty when the guys show up with hundreds and hundred of dollars. So that's maybe where the guys are coming from if they are reluctant to ask for referrals. However, there are some posts in in this thread that are, in my opinion, kinda depressing to read ... if the whole damn thing is just a fantasy for money, and there is no sincerity or sense of interest in the person you are with, I have zero desire to make an appointment with that lady.

I agree there can be a natural inclination for some clients to start confusing the "relationship' with a regular MA or SP with a conventional one, and then to impose onto that a set of artificial but familiar rules, boundaries, and postures. That's exactly the time it becomes a good idea to see a different escort and pointedly get a reference from the regular MA/SP, even if one wasn't really needed. Puncture that confused and distorted little bubble. Demonstrate to yourself that despite what you were tricking yourself into thinking, it doesn't actually diminish the relationship with the regular companion. Carry that knowledge away and refine your model of the world. If you're a client, then the less comfortably that idea sits with you, then the more it's a good idea to force yourself to do it. ;)

"Everyone" is a much less reliable source of information than they appear to be. "Everyone" knows that women over 30 can't be successful paid companions, which is nonsense. And "everyone" also knows that the only companions with any hope of making a living look like perfectly airbrushed Barbie dolls--also not true. "Everyone" assumes that all men want the same thing, when the truth is that most men want different things in different combinations at different times. Telling the truth is the best way to be sure that the men who come to see us will be happy clients: truth in advertising has that effect.