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I was single for ten years before I could bring myself to seeing an Escort. Which was last November. I was feeling starved for some affection and some companionship. Sex did not even enter my mind. (Honest) I was fortunate enough to meet a wonderful lady through an agency. We connected right from the start. I continue to see her now as an independent. She has taught me so much in how to express myself. She also takes the time to teach me in the fine art of pleasuring a woman. This will take lots and lots of practice which I am only to eager to do. :aol_cunnilingus: I have branched out a little too, I have even seen a MA. She is also a fantastic lady. I wish I had done these things years ago. I am curious to know what other hobbyists have to say about their reasons, expectations, experiences, Is it the great sex! etc, etc. Cheers, Jafo

You are in luck, as there are always great things to do in Montreal. The following are suggestions from someone who has never lived there, so i have no "insider" information. Perhaps some other members living or having lived there will add on (or correct) to the ideas i am writing here now. If you go during the summer, Montreal is buzzing with festivals - The Jazz fest with it's free concerts on the streets, the F1 race , the comedy festival, as well as the montreal film festivals, including the Fantasia film fest which i believe is on now. For a complete run down of what is on when (especially outisde the summer months), you can look at the following: http://montreal.com/tourism/festivals/index.html As for eating, you can look at celebrity chef's restaurant like Le garde Manger (Chuck Hughes) or Le Pied de Cochon (Martin Picard - who uses foie gras in is menu among other things). The old port of Montreal is another and the surrounding old town has numerous little restaurants and antiquities shops, if i remember well my last trip there. Cant remember any particular restaurants, as it's been a long while. For shopping, the "underground city" is interesting as you have a whole lot of shopping malls built along the subway system around St-Catherine street. Hope this helps in getting you started. Addendum: There are numerous brew pubs on St-Denis between St-Catherine and Sherbrooke street, lie "L'amere a boire", "les trois brasseurs" (there is a full menu) as well as "le cheval blanc", not counting great coffee shops. Frites Alors! is another restaurant i had tried, with a menu surrounding belgium fries : http://www.fritealors.com/en/indexb_a.html

I enjoy the photo's of ladies, and I'm a visual type of guy, in fact I'm sure 95% of men on this board are visual creatures just like me. Lets take a look at the 'x' factor in Crystal....fucking stunning now isn't she? We had our pleasant introductions, she unwrapped some morning healthy snacks, while I had a quick shower. With towel wrapped around me, and Crystal in gorgeous lingerie we embraced and hands chased up and down our bodies while passionatley kissing, yes she can kiss very nicely. Wasn't long before the towel hit the floor, and I was hard as wood, Crystal laid down on the bed, and started to slowly tease her, by kissing her mouth going down and kissing her breasts,stomach and worked my way down betwee, her legs, I took off her panties,stockings. I kissed and rubbed her tiny feet, while stroking the inside of her thighs, she moaned, and closed her eyes while enjoying the erotic play. My tongue and mouth worked up her inner leg, and then teasing her already moist delicious pussy, deep warm breaths, and little flick of my tongue around the outside simply teasing her, she was getting red in the face, enjoying the erotic foreplay. It wasn't long before my head and hair was pulled in other words Pete get in there ;) After some delicious long oral foreplay for her, and where she had to ask me to stop, because..well you know why :) I asked her to get into doggie position, I wanted kiss her perfect sweet little ass, and I did! I inserted my thumb into her wet pussy,while kissing her bum cheeks, on top of her bum, Crystal was moving her hips in and out, and was moving, I took out my thumb and inserted my middle finger, she pushed back and I started slowly and then quicker insertions and she was enjoying the digits, and was getting nicely wet, I moved in several times to tongue her at the same time, and teased her with my tongue as she rode my large thick middle finger. She said it was my turn, I asked her to suck on and bite my nipples and start her way down and she did! She stroked my cock while we were kissing to start then she moved onto my nipples, and stroking me real well, she reached up for a condom, and gave a delicious sexy CBJ. As I was getting real close to the edge, I asked her to stop, and get on board, shegot on me and her eyes opened real wide, man she is so nicely tight and what a fit,she rode me cowgirl, we moved the edge of the bed with her legs wrapped around my waist, sucking on her breasts, kissing her while she bounced up and down:aol_rideit: I picked her up, such a great body to have wrapped around you, legs tight around my waist, we did the deed standing up, while she laid on some heavy DFKing and wild moans, I finally laid her gently on the bed into missionary position.:aol_missionary: I pushed her arms above her head while we held hands, fingers inter-twined and I just kept pushing deeper while we kissed passionately, it was not long before I exploded. We laid beside each other and talked and stroked each other, she has some fantastic body art, I loved it. My god she has such sensual deep brown sexy bedroom eyes, a man can get lost in them. Crystal is such a great kisser too, bubbly personality, very friendly, and interesting to talk too as well, I did have the Crystal 'X' factor and it was quite the morning, thanks Crystal!

When you walk in the door for your encounter, the outside life of you and the companion do not exist. For the time you spend together it is just the two of you and nothing from real life matters. For anyone to think that because we are Paid Companions and we are not allowed to date or be married, is just plain out there in my opinion. Your married or involved so should I be bothered. Plain and simple we are both meeting for pleasurable stress relief and nothing outside the door should matter. As well, don't ask a question that you may not want to hear the answer too.

I visited CoCo in her downtown location last week. When she opened the door, I was thrilled to find a sweet young pretty girl - slim and cute ! She offered me a shower with her which I gladly took because of the hot weather outside. She gently cleaned my body and I had a great opportunity to explore her silky-smooth body. Her body is nice and firm with natural boobs and the skin is so smooth. After drying, she started by kissing my nipples and then went downstairs. I requested a bbbj and she kindly obliged although she preferred a cbj. I then went down on her and tried DATY. She gently stopped me and I asked why. She said it would be $20 extra. I was surprised but I gladly paid - and I was glad I did - it was one of the most erotic experiences and sensous feelings I ever had seeing her enjoying the pleasure! I would stop here, and needless to say I had a great time! I will be very gentle with her again when I see her next time which I hope will be soon. The reason I gave the rating for Atmosphere a 9.0 (instead of a 10) was because of the cigarette smoke I smelled when I entered the room.

Sexyjenny. So aptly named. This relatively new addition to the Ottawa scene met me at the door wearing a beautiful smile and a long sweater. As I was turning to close the door my thought was that she would be lovely in nothing better. When I turned back my wish had been granted. And yes, Jenny is sexy. She is compact with a well toned body curvy and pointy in all the right places. After some preliminary snuggling and chitchat things turned serious. Jenny's demonstrated skills and abilities were very pleasurable and effective. Greek does not happen here but everything else is possible. YMMV of course. Afterwards we explored each other's ability in French and English. Jenny's oral English occasionally encounter's a small glitch but otherwise she has magical oral skills. Sexyjenny is a welcome addition to Ottawa and I recommend her to those who appreciate young, enthusiastic talent.

I'm just curious as to why some of you might not be comfortable seeing married SP's or SP's in committed relationships, if the partner was aware and okay with the SP's chosen profession. I ask as someone who is in a committed (common-law) relationship with a man who is completely aware of my work and is also totally okay with it. Thoughts?

In your view, a bisexual couple offering duo service would be considered cheating. I for one call that dream come true. SNS724

Now that my vay-cay is over it's time to get back to putting smiles on ur faces!!! I have a problem though.......................... what specialty persona should I advertise? Of course the "typical" *snicker* Madison experience is avail, but I want to spice things up as well. So if you all would be so kind as to help me choose my newest persona, not only would it be fun, but I would also like some input on what the cerb community in the Bay would find interesting. Here are my top 3 chooses 1.) the seductive french maid - "no worry Mr.Dicks, put down that tissue. I have better way to clean this mess." 2.) the naughty nurse - "Mr.Dicks it's time for your sponge bath. Oh no I seem to have forgotten my sponge, oh well I guess we can improvise" 3.) Princess Leia in Slave Costume - "I think it's time you got on your knees and thanked me for saving you Han. Forget the wookiee and eat my cookie" (yes I'm that much of a geek at heart :P ) So there they are, my top three, and still I cannot decide on one. A lil help guys? Oh and any new suggestions are awesome too. Now if I can only figure out how to do that nifty poll thingy lolz. Kizzez :D

After four weeks off, it's back to work Monday :-( A scheduled fishing tournament, done once a year, gets cancelled due to thunderstorms. The next time that tournament is on is next summer RG

Bar-B-Barn is still there at their original location at 1201 Guy. They opened a second location at 3300 Sources Blvd. in Dollard-des-Ormeaux. If you eat any kind of meat, you must visit these people before you die. Otherwise, on your deathbed, you will pull a Homer Simpson (D'OH!).

Consider staying at a B&B Rent a bicycle and ride the Lachine Canal very early Sat or Sun morning. The Bar B Barn for ribs [if it still exists]

The Montreal local board of http://chowhound.com is a treasure trove for all things having to do with food in Montreal and you can ask for advice there too.

I don't think I have a favorite body part. But I have been told that I have a very gentle touch.

You'd think that I could have come up with something better than an ad for my 500th post, after all I've had almost 3 years to plan it. ;) Thanks for the kind words everyone, I don't post all that often but I do try to participate where I can - it's always nice to know it's appreciated. Now since it's my thread please hijack it with something fun! :D

I'm guessing that didn't work for you then. Strange, as I encountered a similar problem recently. For some reason, I have one lone fruit fly buzzing about my condo. It's always immaculate, so I have no clue where it came from, or why it keeps hanging around. Perhaps the flies are evolving into a highly intelligent strain that laugh at my feeble attempts to eliminate them. I think I'll just keep him as a pet...

I guess my baby-fine hair is most commented upon, but women who have really gotten turned on by my 'hook' have been cases of finding out I had something I never had considered an asset: well, it has been a turn-on for me too -- fortunately I survived their enthusiasm without breaking it during some wild, wild, over-the-top cow-girl rides. :)

What exactly are you "giving the benefit of doubt".. Please elaborate. .

Dear lovely Cleo, As stated in my message, I am giving the benefit of doubt to the ladies and their partner. But still, in the back of my mind, one has to give some thought to the possibility. We are human and we can make mistake from time to time. Just putting it out there for discussion. You know you will always be special to me if you remembered our very first meeting and the ones following. Your catnip forever!! SNS724

Great thread! When we take the time to appreciate each response, we can appreciate how different we all are. Not so long ago, an SP that I was close to had broken up with her SO. In what I am sure was a moment of weakness, she hinted at her and I becoming more seriously involved. I explained straight up that she would have to leave her profession before we could pursue a permanent (?) relationship. Not because there were any issues about me not respecting her or what she did...I'm just the jealous, selfish type, and would not have been able to deal with the idea of her being with other partners. Some of us are excited and happy when our SO is experiencing mind blowing sex with someone else, others cant even handle the though of it. All of this to say, we are all different...and that's kool!

The Montreal Mirror's annual Best of Montreal - Best Restaurants Section is an excellent reference for what you are looking for: (http://www.montrealmirror.com/wp/2011/05/12/chowtime) The survey also contains others sections, such as Nightlife, Film/Arts, and City Life, which includes such interesting items as the best places in Montreal to have public sex. Enjoy your visit to Montreal, where you will come across some of the world's most beautiful women.

I'm glad you bring this up. I find it really hard to negotiate "safer" services in the context of a GFE which is my specialty. The way I see it, a girlfriend would be very concerned about the sexual health of her lover, and so should I. People get confused at the suggestion of protection for DATY and BJs. I've discovered that making safer sex sexy is really a skill, and I'm proud to be on my way to mastering it. There are all kinds of considerations in a safer encounter that are often left unconsidered. I try always for example to make sure that one hand is devoted to my own body and one to my client's so that my hands don't transmit any fluids. I wish more people spent more time considering their own safety especially considering the emergence of such niceties as drug-resistant gonorrhea. I would sleep a lot better at night if I knew that people all took their sexual health as seriously as I do. It calms my mind to know that I'm not the only one. Thanks, Hornet, for caring so much about your health. It contributes to all of us who participate in this industry. I wish you a great deal of happy, healthy, consensual sex. xooo, Eva

After seeing a gentleman several times he asked me if I was married and I told him I was. He acted very horrified and when I pointed out to him that he was married as well he claimed that was different. I didn't bother to discuss it but he never came back after that. I have always wondered if he thought that most SP's are single.

Can I get that à la mode?

Long and short dresses with thin material and lots of cleavage is what I'm wearing these days! It's too bloody hot!

Errr... YUM!!!!!

Oh no no, I wasn't at all critical of the OP for asking the question. I was pointing out that I don't expect that he will be getting any (public) responses to his thread because it would be illegal for someone who has gotten the service (HJ or whatever) to acknowledge that publically in the forum or name the strip bar. My apology to frenchbrute and anyone like Phaedrus if my post was misleading to indicate that the OP was wrong to ask the normality or legality of the service. Not at all. I am glad that you commented Phaedrus so that I could have the chance to clarify and apologize my friend.

The thing I hate to see is a condom on the floor!!!! Unless i put it there!!!!

This hobby (like all other activities you choose) has inherit risks. You weigh the risks vs. benefits and choose accordingly. Hornet, based on our PMs and what you have posted in the last few days I know STI is a very real fear you have. Although I don't think its impossible to find an SP that only offers truly safe sex, get tested regularly, makes no exceptions *and* can turn you on at the same time in a small market like Ottawa, I think your criteria to give you peace of mind is a long shot. Even if the SP offer bbbj, daty and dfk but can respect your need to be fully covered for all sessions and offers that, I think that is enough. She might have something, she might not, but as long as the activity is covered for your own sessions you should be OK. If that's not good enough for you, best to just walk away from the hobby before you get too enthused :)