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I think you hit the nail right on the head and I also submit that if you asked all the top rep. point earners here on Cerb they would say the same thing. It's nice but not required or necessary. They, rep. points, are just another way to show that you agree, disagree or in some cases are just playful with a member of the opposite sex. Are they meaningless...no. Are they the be all and end all...again, no! Bottom line if you go looking for them (rep. points) and are receiving them from others, you are getting them for the wrong reasons. They are a reflection of your posts, thoughts and beliefs...not who or what you are as a person/hobbyist/SP. There you have it...my opinion! Now I hope someone likes this post so I can get some more rep. points. Ha ha

I do understand the frustration - sometimes pearls of wisdom flow freely from a particular individual and it almost hurts when the system blocks you from recognizing that post. Sure, you MAY go back after you spread the love, but it's that feeling of instant gratification "you have nailed that response, I am so inspired" or something of that nature that you want to reward instantly. Posting something in a quote afterwards is like kissing your sister. It's like getting a gold star on a test... you knew that you aced the thing, but when the teacher gave you a gold star or a smiley face stamp, you just felt so much better. When a person recognizes your post, it just strengthens your sense of belonging in the community, gives you a warm and fuzzy feeling and generally makes you smile... and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!

No offence, but if you don't wish to advertise your services then don't - I have none listed on my website and it has never caused an issue. A gentlemen looking for a companion and not a pick your own menu can read between the lines as to what is available. A website is an invaluable tool and says a-lot about who you are as a companion. If you are that paranoid about getting busted and having things used against you, maybe you are in the wrong profession or need to re-evaluate how you are running your business. I am confused though, you would rather list services than a donation?

The Rep System has been a bit of a thorn in my side for a very long time. There has been many times that I have wanted to give rep points or just give a positive comment through the reputation for this post button. recent example on a particular post but I keep getting this insistent message that I must spread it around. Arggh !!! I am a long time member, please allow a little more flexibility to us. I am not necessarily on all the time, so it makes it hard for me to spread it around. I would hope that I'm not suspended tomorrow for bringing this up again but It really needs a change for the better.

Lol I have been thinking about starting a thread like this for a while. Posts definitely influence my decisions regarding which clients I see. If someone says something super offensive or ridiculous I have a hard time seeing myself getting along with that particular person and therefore I wont see them. Luckily, there are very few people that I feel this way about. Xo Sky

To me this entire industry is a fantasy. Whatching a man cum is THE BEST!:jackoff: I like to take it in my hand and watch or watch him finish the job. Cum can fly, splat, erupt, sail, spit, ooze, smooze, rush, Bam bam wow! Yumm! I love to dirty talk and turn a man on just by my voice and words! I crave my fantasy spanks, hard, then light and tickles. Having sex in front of 100 people AH-MAZIN!

And the faster her ex will get custody of her children and ensure supervised visitation forever thereafter no matter how much time has passed since the pictures were online. Everything we put out there has the potential to come back and bite us in the ass. The types of pictures made public by an SP are not a guarantee of the type of experience one will have when visiting a provider. IMHO. cat

I agree completely with whatsup. I keep on running out of rep points myself. As in real life, There are some members who deserve a lot more rep points than others and for those individuals once I give a rep point then I can't give another for a long while. So if I see a very valuable or true post I cannot give the poster a rep point. Sometimes I don't wish to quote and/or comment because I may not wish to bump up the post (specially in the recommendation or advertisement section where it is against the rules) or I don't wish to post but just make a brief comment of positivity. Leaving a message in his/her profile is only for member to see and sometimes I prefer a public brief positive comment. Btw, I think that rep points are great to have. It shows our appreciation to the posters when they make valuable comments. I must admit I do not agree or like the negative rep point system as I believe the reader is making a (negative) judgement or reviews the post. This is not a review board. No body should make a judgement on another member. Some use it to disagree with poster and give negative rep point simply because the view expressed is contrary to theirs!!!!!. This is a recommendation board and hence only positivity should be warranted and like every other community there is a diversity of views on every topic (to be expressed within the framework of cerb rules) and I believe that there should be respect and enough tolerence for other views expressed on an all-adult board lol, again in my view.

I would add that it's important to start with a butt plug, something small and delicate. A great deal of people I've met (including myself) enjoy anal stimulation, but not penetration. The nerve endings around the anus are extremely sensitive, and I think everyone can enjoy that area being slightly touched and massaged if they are open minded to the experience. Also, make sure to use a water-based lubricant, rather than a silicone based lubricant. Most toys (apart from the lovely glass suggestion) will be made of silicone and cannot be used with silicone based lube. Also, there's never too much lube.

My only comment to this thread is: For me, it's EXIT ONLY But I do have some friends who swear by it, saying they have the best orgasms that way.

The right person wouldn't be a Cerb member from Prince Edward Island who just happens to be a Red Sox fan would it????:wink: Pay close attention to my avatar and location before responding. Ha ha

I talk an alarmingly large amount of surfer considering how far away from any oceans I am. Favorite words: Dude Stoked Gnarly Totally Rad Epic As well, the word "Clearly" seems to pop up a bunch when i'm talking, not sure why.

In light of needing to lift my spirits these days, I thought this would be a good thread to start. Basically, the way this will work is that everyone will post something they like about the person who posts before them. Even if you don't know the person, maybe a good suggestion is to look through their photos/posts or even commment on the very post before yours. Hopefully this thread will be ever-lasting and people will feel the ongoing love from their CERBies! Love and care for yourselves. Xo Sky

I really enjoy when someone comes up with a game. So I have been thinking of one myself. Game: I will start by writing a question. The person who follows, simply answers would or wouldn't. Then leaves a question for the next person! The questions can be something sexual or non-sexual. Me and my twisted thoughts will start it off with a sexual question ;) hehehe Question: Would you ever have a three some?

Posts (and not just posting advertisements) provide a good insight into a person's personality/intelligence and sense of humour. After reading a lady's writings, that first and foremost makes me think "I want to meet her" And as a sidebar, I don't have to agree with everything the lady says or not, but a lady who posts, and participates on this board, well she is contributing to this community, and that makes her someone I'd likely want to meet A quick rambling RG

The value of the threads here for me personally is huge. I know that I read a lot of the postings on a variety of topics, from the frivolous to to the serious. I will not say that I do not look at ads or recommendations, because I do, but what will take me to them are the forum contributions. As with many of the guys here who have expressed this on many occassions, to meet with an SP is a privelege, and for me a part of that privilege is her willingness to converse and let me see at least a part of the real person. For a supposedly well educated man, I have learned a lot of things about a lot of topics from the ladies (and gents) who contribute. I really do get the feel or sense that many of the ladies here are a part of a larger mutual support group and that many of the men are right there with them. Seeing what the women post demonstrates the personal characteristics that I value and seek and I would hate to be in a position of having to make a decision based on a shout box comment or an ad. To extend the discussion just a bit further to encompass the title of the thread, I have read and been a part of discussions that have educated me, made me laugh, made me cry, made me think, made me question some basic beliefs, made me aware of the silly stereotypes that I had/have, and the forums DO play an important role for me in many many ways. How else would I have have known that a guy like Old Dog can make such bad jokes and puns and then be the same person to write with such wisdom and compassion and clearly make his point of view understood. Are there TWO Old Dogs? Yes ladies, for at least this one member, the forum contributions that you make are important. I love reading them, and please don't go away from this aspect of CERB.

I like Old Dog because he takes the marshmallows I offer. Plus, he makes me laugh.

I like Angela because she thinks I'm funny and is ALWAYS there for me!

I like the way OD makes everything seem easy and always makes me laugh :)

I thought I was a fan of small little tiny ones, but then I discovered this truth. I am man, man I am. I've liked breasts for a while. I really like them any style. Would I like them big or small? I would like them one and all. Would I like them on a beach? I would like them in my reach Would I like them here or there? I would like them anywhere. Would I lick them in the night? I would lick them with delight. Sorry Dr Suess, but hey, you would understand. It's a guy thing.:)

Blond moment! I was confusing the nominate post icon with the comment. Sorry bout that :icon_redface:

I also agree with Sophia. I had a website,and still got inquiries about services.I wouldn't say it's a waste of money but I do know for certain that if you were ever charged with solicitation whether it be a girl on the streets or an under cover police officer trying to crack down on SP's providing sex in there homes,the crown prosecutor would Most Definitely look into all your business and use it against you.(prostitution is illegal) and websites state rates,and services so if that's not a give away then what is. Not to say that websites are not a useful tool,however in my opinion(and I stress MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION) I took my down just because to me it was useless. I don't want every Tom dick n hairy knowing services I provide,rates, etc.. Maybe use a website that shows photos,services but not rates,to keep your mind at ease. OR just post on here? Your a smart girl do what is best for Sophia! And remember peoples opinions don't really matter when it comes to your safety,and mental well being. Additional Comments: Really? How many people are on CERB intentionally trying to get someone in trouble?? None! It's others out there that don't understand or want to about this lifestyle that can cause trouble. Enough said about this from me. Cudos to the ladies that have website,good luck wish you all the best,hope there useful to you,and for those who don't get used to typing your speal every time some one inquiries lol.

I like Alexandra sky bc... -she came up with this awesome possum thread -she is just a super chill girl -she is cool & unique like green tea ice cream -she is nice like rice (hey that rhymes) -she gives great imaginary hugs -she is pretty f'in cool Posted via Mobile Device

Fingers off my windows!

Yes, I would. Would you go to a KISS concert wearing KISS makeup if you were given prime seats for free?

when u watch porn movie and the girls bend over and spread there butt checks that is not a small whole must be all the anal they do so it must be the more you do it the more the whole get's bigger

este cálice oh yeah? Suck on this! RTFM (read the f___ing manual) dickwad

bah! just realized my all the time cool words are in Spanish, not fair! At least I'm having fun reading your words :)

This post deserved rep. points but I couldn't give 'em to you...at least I tried!

I like Steve because he seems genuine. Oh, and he's considerate enough to cover up his cold feet when crawling into bed.

Yes, yes it is! cat

Have you tried anal sex on yourself, using a finger(s) or toys? That way you're in complete control of how fast and how deep you go. Glass toys are really good because they are non-porous and stay lubricated well. It would be a really safe way to experiment. It might be a good first step in determining if it's for you. As far as the mechanics of it go... (a) take you're time, (b) there's no such as thing as too much lube when it comes to anal sex, and © stay away from vaseline or any oil-based lubes! As the saying goes, different strokes for different folks. If it turns out that anal strokes aren't for you, leave the anal strokes for other folks.

Irregardless Indubitably Shenanigans Fortnight Go Penguins!! Hello Nurse! (_8(|) D'oh!! Elsewise Peacefully seize the day. Right on b'y! Frig off! Shag Scrog Where to? Thrice even Cheers!

The question was about your SO, not your ex-SO :) Probably. I've had it done to me a couple of times, so I see no reason not to be on the right end of it for once. Would you give your life to save a friend's?

ALL Natural, is the only way for me, I say either all natural or go home.

....and you may also drop by their profile and leave a message of appreciation... I know I'll be leaving one to Carley...

Could you not just quote the post in question and reply with "I agree" or as others do simply state "I can't give you rep. points at this time but I agree with you."

I think...and don't quote me, it's a safeguard so one member doesn't artificially inflate another members rep point count by continually giving them out to the same member, post after post. Likewise, if there is a member you don't like, uncontrolled use of the rep point system could allow someone to keep giving negative rep points to a member, no matter what that member posts There is nothing stopping you from nominating a post however But I'm speculating, and don't know for sure RG

My preference is for natural, but do whatever makes you happy, not the men (no offense guys).

Obviously I am not of the male persuasion but I prefer natural :)

Isn't CERB online shopping. :icon_wink:

Hello everyone, I may ruffle a few feathers but after reading many threads over the past several months in the General Discussion area, I have a few things I need to address and have faith that most of the hobbiests here are Gentleman I would consider spending my time with. First off, I have learned many new acronyms or Urban Dictionary terminology from the threads on this board. Do I agree that a vagina is a pussy or kitty? I do not, but the word surfaces daily on this board in discussion. I may just not be cut out to read these threads as I am a woman with substance and will not let you know how big my other lips are, if it's shaved or unshaved, or respond publically to any of these threads. Is it just the ignorance of grasping for the proper ways to ask a question? I"m sure I will quickly figure out the answers and have so far continued the faith that the Gent's who start these threads are respectful. However, I'm having a hard time just seeing these threads up even though I don't read them. So when I wake up with my morning coffee, log into to read the General Discussion area and see thread titles of "Daty vs Digits." "Greek or no Greek", etc. It really makes me question things here and a few have almost made me spit of my coffee on a few occasions. Every sensual, sexual erotic encounter is a gift for both the provider and client and I will use "YMMV" for this one. Please don't disrespect us, get to know us a little and ask us personally. Please always remember as well that we are women. If ever I had anyone in my personal life speak to me in this way they wouldn't be with me. Yet, here we are spoken to this way, asked very personal questions, menu item questions randomly thrown out there, etc. I may be old school but do believe old fashioned chivalry goes a long way, even here as we explore our sexual needs. I will always value and cherish my clients that treat me as Erin, not as a menu item or topic of the ??? day.. Hoping this falls upon understanding ears and do enjoy being a part of this board. I just had to get it off my chest as this has bothered me for some time. Cheers! Erin

By a special request, I'm reposting the story that I had posted, then removed. Please enjoy this tale... again. _______________________________________________________ Pooner Diaries: Truth (originally posted 14 July 2011) I know you've been reading these stories for a while now. And by now, I imagine that you're probably wondering about me. Who I am. What it would be like to be with me in person. You want to know the truth. So you've been reading these stories, poring over every clue, every detail. Trying to put the pieces together, and to figure out who the feathered enigma behind them is. I'm going to break it to you gently. You won't find the truth in these tales. Looking for the truth on an escort review board is a search for the proverbial needle in the haystack, a pointless snipe hunt in the electronic age. For as this business is the fulfillment of fantasies, entertainment in the most intense sense, my tales are light fabrications of the sexy kind. Like my times with the ladies, my tales are meant to be enjoyed, savored, then forgotten. Till the next time. What's that you say? You're still curious? Well, perhaps I'll show you the truth sometime. You see, the truth could never be anything I could say, or anything I could do in these words here. You might glimpse a glimmer of truth in an animated discussion over coffee, unrestrained laughter as I tell a funny tale. Perhaps there will be a spark of truth in a quiet walk together down a tree-lined lane on a hot summer night as we near your home. The truth is in my fingertips on the back of your neck, my lips grazing your cheek as I move closer to whisper in your ear. The truth is in my hands stroking your hair as I gently kiss your lips, as if it were for the very first time. The truth is in our thrusts together, wild and free as we share our pleasure. The truth is in the little explosions we both have, where the world is lost to us for the briefest of moments where we are together but alone in our joy. And the truth is there when we lie together, skin cooling, our limbs twined together. The truth is there because it is when we are together I am bare to you. I will have no words to hide behind then. It is then that you see my face, hear my voice first hand. You'll see me naked. Not just because we are skin to skin, but also because you've looked into my eyes and peered into my soul. It is there that you'll find the truth you seek, and who I really am. And like art, you won't know what the truth is, but you'll know it when you see it. And I know you'll find it.

I have to agree with OldDog, there are so many reasons, and I am starting to wonder if this might have been me! I have recently moved and it has been a little hectic at best! Though I am normally quite organized with weekends and getting settled it is possible I might have let a few emails fall through the cracks- I agree with everyone, highly unprofessional, but we are only human! Just because someone posts that they are available doesn't mean that they are %100 committed to working the hours they listed, often I'll post my availability but if no one books me right away or if something comes up (lately lots has!) I might decide shortly after to take the day off... Sue me for being a slacker, lol, I am normally quite the hard worker, just not so much in the summer! If nothing has happened to upset your communications apart from a couple missed emails, like others have said, send another email just to find out if this person might get back to you! There may just be a reasonable explanation for your crossed lines. If you are truly interested in seeing this girl I would suggest you keep trying, you are not choosing her for her office skills, more so her sensual skills! Some of the best MPs I have known have been terribly organized! In a perfect world we would all be perfect! In reality... Now, off to see if I missed replying to anyone:oops: Bethany Xoxox

Out of the blue but on topic I just wanted to say that Vulger words like hard cock and ass, soaking wet pussies,... or as I like to say"I'll have a pussy/ass combo, please" Turns me on! Yumm!

You have every right to your opinion, but I don't think that some of the guys who have spoken up have anything to apologize for. There's a lot of very good stuff here, but some of the guys posting here (and I would include myself in this group) are responding the way they are as they are likely getting a little fed up with the recent negative comments about how "many" of us (or is it "most" of us ... Smile) are objectifying women or are otherwise being jerks. That's a lot of baloney IMO and we have the track records here to prove it.

The Rules of CERB say" If you have nothing nice to say, don't say nothing at all"!! (In my own words and not verbatim). Most gentlemen say "I have seen her. No comment", which is considered to be a more gentleman like response and follows the Rules.

Lots of guys and maybe some girls may hate this post, but here goes.... I used to browse CERB a lot, not because of all the wonderful women, but the boards had some intelligent, insightful conversations about meaningful things. It gave me insight about perspectives that I wouldn't have thought of, educated me about issues that I didn't know too much about, and sometimes even just was a thread for a nice laugh. Lately though, to be honest, people may hate this, but I think a lot of the threads here are $%#$. I'm talking about threads such as the Best Bums on the Planet, DATY vs DIGITS, How to get extras in a strip club, Red Head Appreciation Group, etc. I think they involve very little thought, and are treating the women here like they are on a lesser level. It's like they are judges on American Idol, and the women are contestants. I think the people think just because they have the freedom to write or post whatever they want, they have the power to nitpick on every single little negative thing about the girls. They might not think they are doing it with these threads, but let's be real, they are. How would the guys like if they were put on a stage? Spotlight shining right on them. I'm sure anybody put on that stage with the spotlight right on them, with a judge, judging them would find numerous negatives. I just don't think it's right. I think they are shallow. To be honest, I am sad that all these threads exist. Sure I don't have to look at them and I don't. But it saddens me that a majority of the threads when I open up the general discussion are exactly like that. I don't even look at the reco's to be honest. To be brutally honest, I think they're $hit. These girls aren't like take-out or delivery. You just can't pick out all the items on a plate and expect to get it from a girl. Every experience should be unique, and to be honest, when choosing a girl, it isn't because somebody writes they give expletive expletive expletive sloppy hot wet bare back blowjob, I'll choose her because I find a connection thru PM's, e-mails, whatever. These girls aren't just menu items, or can be replicated. They are unique, and each session is unique. Just because situation A happens with billy bob, doesn't mean situation A will happen with Willy Wonka. Each session is unique, and I'm glad it's that way. These women aren't robotic, they are real human beings. I wish guys started treating them that way. Sure, you have the freedom to write whatever you want. But whatever happened to simple common courtesy and respect?

I, for one, don't think that this is all that fair. I don't think that asking questions relating to a woman's body means that the questioner is equating the woman to a "sperm socket". Let's not forget that this board is an escort review board - not strictly a social board. While not all clients have preferences, many do. And that's ok. There's a way to ask questions in a respectful manner - for certain. And for many of us, myself included, time with a provider is an honor, not a privilege. Still, it's entirely fair for a client to want to know certain things before entering into a commercial relationship. And asking should be ok. This is, in the end, a board about matching clients with providers. For many of us, it's more, but in essence, that is it's main function. Some guys use the term "kitty", others care if the "kitty" is shaved. Who are we to judge. As long as there is respect shown, even in the eye of the beholder, I don't think we should chastise. We're all different. In the end, we're all here to have fun. Sexual and sensual fun. I would hate to see this place so sanitized that we can't be open with our desires, our questions, our preferences, and our fantasies. Sorry if this is out of line - but this thread hit a nerve. I have always loved CERB partly because I can be me here... Even if "me" isn't perfect.

I was ever so fortunate to have recently met with Gabriella. We had been in correspondence for a short while and when I saw that she would be in Halifax, ever so close to home, it was an opportunity that I did not feel that I could pass up. First meetings for me are always so awkward but thanks in part to our prior communications but more so because of her kind and happy and positive outlook on life she had me relaxed in no time. She gave me a tour of her beautiful condo on the Halifax waterfront before we grabbed the umbrella and walked to a great Italian restaurant that was nearby where we were ever so lucky to have a private table. We had an extended dinner complete with a shared bottle of wine and she was my personal sommelier for the evening. The conversation was wide ranging from the events of her trip to Halifax to a sharing of personal histories. It was a thoroughly enjoyable time and if I had left her at that point it would have been a perfect evening. Much to my delight we returned to her Halifax locale. It was not long before a shared bubble bath led to a wonderful interlude in the bedroom and there I knew that I was in good hands. She was fun, and enjoyed herself, and led me in directions that were entirely impromptu and ever so pleasurable. Dessert in bed was a whole new experience. We are already planning a repeat visit, but perhaps in Montreal. However, should she return to Halifax in the fall..... :) Gentlemen if you have an opportunity to meet Gabriella I am confident that you will enjoy your time together. Thank you Gabriella for a wonderful evening. It was a pleasure to have met you.