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Although this thread was not started by me, it was initiated as a result of a comment that I had made elsewhere. To this point I have been merely reading and digesting the thoughts and opinions expressed by others, and it does seem as if there is a consensus developing. I am going to present a dissenting opinion, dissenting in the sense of a viewpoint that takes into consideration some very personal aspects of my situation. Every person involved with CERB has their own very personal reasons for doing so and everyone's situations are different. What I would like to express is going to cause some to think that I am living in a fairytale world and to others it will probably just appear as being corny or too much. I am widowed with three adult children. I have always been close with my girls, but until recently never in the way that they were with their mother. They were like four best friends rather than a mother and 3 daughters. Since my wife passed away I have become closer with my kids than at any time ever in our lives. They have introduced me to the world of texting and there are constant little messages back and forth, and yes, they are watching out for me and watching over me. It is pretty touching actually, but as it relates to CERB, rather inconvenient. None of them live with me or even close by. For me to visit an SP normally requires a minimum of a four hour trip each way that often results in an overnight. My kids know that I am not home, and I lie to them. I HATE that. I hate making up stories, I hate even lying by omission. So with certainty, my first reason for wanting them to know that I am seeing SP's is 100% selfish, it will make me feel better. My biggest concern is that I also know that initially they will look at this as a betrayal of their mother, by me. THAT is why I am thinking long and hard about this and have to ask myself if it is worth it. My kids are smart. It won't take too many "mystery" disappearances before they will be talking amongst themselves. They probably already are doing so. Yes, I am parent, and the idea of a parent being sexual may not be their preferred image, but they saw the intimacy their mother and I had and they know that it extended to the bedroom. They have to be wondering how I am coping with that aspect of my loss already. My kids are smart. With proper preparation on my part, and yes, with time, I am confident that they would be OK with this. A bottom line for me is that I am not looking for or interested in a girlfriend, or a relationship, or a wife. I had my soulmate and I know it as do they. Several SP's have recommended a book to me entitled The Ethical Slut, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy as a means of further educating myself but also as a resource for my kids. I have only recently started to read it, and I shall consider that information as well. A whole new paradigm for sure. Am I going to do this tomorrow or next week. No. Am I going to think long and hard? Yes. Have I decided what is best for them? No. And ultimately, what I think is best for them is where I shall go. It may well turn out to be that the 'unspoken secret' that they will figure out all by themselves is best for all. I really do not know what I shall decide. I have received a few PM's from CERB members when they saw this thread, wondering what good could come of it, and just cautioning me to think about it. It is those sort of little PM's that have made this community a special place for me. This sounds corny, but is very real. I want to be open and honest. I trust my kids and that they will accept what is best for me . I do not want to lie. I am not ashamed of meeting such amazing women as those that I have met. Every time I lie to my children I am in my own way putting the SP's that I have met into that stereotypical nether land of being people to be ashamed of. You don't deserve that from me. Thinking, thinking, thinking. Learning, learning, learning. Thank you Cerb.

A fellow Cerb friend of mine sent me a PM telling me how he met a girl named xxxxx who was advertising via a friend on CL. He went to meet her a it was a setup and he was robbed of his money but luckily was able to leave unharmed but def shaken up. He wasn't comfortable posting this himself so I said I would. All of us fellow Cerb members need to warn one another about these scam artists on CL. This situation could have been a lot worse for sure. We all know about all the BS on Cl and this goes on to prove that we should all take great caution in seeing anyone on that site. I myself feel we have many wonderful honest girls here on Cerb and need not to look to any other site. FYI the ad that was posted for this girl seems to be gone ...he told me it was at a Apt. building off of *********** ) He thinks he remembers the phone # to be ******** Lets all be careful and stick to Cerb address, name and phone number has been removed by the mod

members can contact us through the club for info. please do not share any info via PM on CERB

This poll is skewed LOL It's because you divided red into two categories and split the vote!! Not fair ;) ;)

Since this wasn't you it happened to and no one knows the entire story and we don't even know if this really happened..but if it's a robbery, wouldn't it be best to notify the police in this case? Couldn't posting someone's address and phone number put them in danger? Seems fishy..I'm all for warning people about dangers, but this girl didn't even belong to this forum and just reminds me of some of the former "owners" I've worked for that make up stuff with multiple handles and have said bad stuff about some girls *shudders*. I do say that Cerb is spectacular and the IT place to be!

His words not mine btw lol. Steve is a guy that although I have not met I have had the pleasure to get to know through our communication and as most here know, he is a great guy so he deserves me and whoever wants to post here wishing him a happy birthday and a special cake :)

The only licensed establishments I know of are Massage parlours. There are some cities where escorts are required to buy their own licenses, but we have yet to see a licensed in-call (brothel). No offence to the OP (Boomer), but this is technically second hand information and even though it may be true, I still think it's up to the member to post the information because he is riding on your reputation. Also, this does not belong here, but in the warnings section.

My fantasy is a little different, and it's just that for now, a fantasy. If you've ever been to a Moxie's restaurant, you may have noticed that the hostesses are very attractive, and they are very scantily dressed. They typically wear a very, very short form fitting dress, which has spaghetti straps, and reveals plenty of cleavage. Well, my fantasy involves a Moxie's hostess and me. I arrive at the restaurant after leaving from a long day at work. The hostess at the entrance is a real stunner in her tight dress, and she immediately greets me with this inviting smile. She asks me what I'm stopping by for; just drinks or to dine as well. When I look at her, all I can think of is one thing. I want to eat her as she is gorgeous and is dressed to kill. I tell her I've stopped by to have a quick drink and possibly a bite to eat, so she leads me towards the dining room. As she leads me to my table, walking in these sexy high heels, my eyes are totally fixated on her firm butt. Then at one point she stops, turns around and gets very touchy-feely as she puts her hand on my shoulder, and looks deep into my eyes and says 'have you been here before?'. I didn't know what to say as I've never been so captivated by a woman so quickly. So as she continues on we get to my table, she pulls out the chair and helps me sit down. She describes the specials on the menu, but all the time I'm looking at her gorgeous figure and her inviting cleavage so I'm not really hearing much of what she's saying. She walks away for a minute then comes back with a glass of water for me, then says 'you looked thirsty, like you needed this'. I said thanks, thinking all along that there was really only one thing I wanted to taste, and that was the sweet juice from her p___y. Next thing I know she's pulling up a chair and sitting next to me. She starts to come on to me, playing with her hair, licking her lips, and caressing my inner thigh. At this point I can feel myself getting hard as a rock. I can feel her fingers caressing across my stiff member, and as I look at her face she has this devilish smile upon it, like she wants me, and wants me in the baddest way. I started to look around the restaurant, then I realized there was no one else here but us. I said 'where is everyone else', and she replied 'that this section of the restaurant is closed off for now, don't worry babe it's just us'. She then stands up out of her chair and raises one leg as she straddles me, sitting across my lap as I feel her fit, tight body close to mine. She looks deep into my eyes and lays her full lips on mine, resulting in an electrifying, passionate exchange. I could feel that she was getting really turned on, and she needed to have it now. We continued to lock lips and I can tell this girl is just driving me crazy, to the point where I want to taste her. I squeeze her by the hips and raise her off of me so she is standing right in front of me, and order her to raise her dress. I remove her string thong to reveal a glistening wet p___y that is just begging to be sucked and licked. I tell her to raise and position one foot up on my chair, while bringing those beautiful lips closer to my waiting lips and tongue. I begin to feel her moist p___y against my lips, and immediately I can hear her soft moans, and the second my tongue pokes out to slide between her, moans and groans, and she is starting to cry 'oh f__k, just like that, don't stop babe!'. I'm loving every minute of this as I taste her, but it's time to switch up so I get her to sit down in my chair while I stand in front of her. I say 'ok, let's see what you can do with those beautiful lips', and she starts to undress me to reveal my stiff hard c__k waiting for this sexy hostess. She doesn't wait a second before swallowing me down, and I can feel her lips tightly sliding up and down my shaft, causing me to moan with pleasure, especially each time I feel her tongue flick over the head of my c__k. This hostess knows exactly what she's doing, and she loves the control she has over me right now. For me, I'm loving every second of it but I'm beginning to imagine myself inside this wild one. So I start to stand up to signal a change but this hot babe doesn't want to stop and starts sucking me back so intense I feel I'm gonna loose it. The touch of her hands over my body at the same time is really turning me on. I can't take much more of this and need to feel myself inside her. I stand her up, and remove her tight dress, kissing her all over as I undress her. With my own clothes quickly removed we are both naked and holding each other close as we engage in another deep, passionate kiss. Then, I take her, turn her around, and bend her over the table so her ass is pointing out at me, waiting to be taken. F__k, she's got a gorgeous ass and she looks fantastic from this end. Then I tell her 'take each hand and spread your ass wide for me. I want you to expose your p___y for me to enter'. I can see those pink p___y lips beckoning me to probe them with the head of my c__k, and as I slide it in it feels fantastic. The harder I penetrate her, the more she cries 'F__k me harder', so I enter her harder and harder until I can feel this warmth building in my balls, and can start to feel myself about to cum. With each thrust I can feel this explosion about to occur, and I moan 'oh f__k yeah, I'm gonna cum!', and I hear her immediately say 'don't cum in me babe, I want to taste you'. And just as I withdrew from her I squeeze my c__k as my lovely hostess gets down on her knees and I unload my hot cum all over her warm moist outstretched tongue. Oh man, that's the best service I've ever received in a restaurant by a long shot! I'm going to have to leave a fantastic tip for sure!

Smoked oysters on black peppered triscut crackers, with very aged cheese. So good!!! Also Pizza, little secret I eat it almost 3 times a week :) xox

Think with the right head boys...there is a reason why they are posting on the other site and not this one or ones like it.They would be found out. If it seems to good to be true then it most likely is.

Does anyone know if belladonna black is still around?

Breathing glass shards is pretty accurate as to how it felt! I was working there that night and giving a lapdance to a customer...he started coughing a bit and then two songs into the dance so did I....till 4 songs into the dance we were all coughing so hard and uncontrollably we were almost vomiting.....they evacuated the club and we all waited for police to arrive. They found the canister outside and I heard that it was bear repellent but dont quote me, lol someone said that whoever it was sprayed the whole front of the club outside and then drove off leaving the can behind....not very smart seeming as how there are 2 cameras in the front and now their prints are on the canister ;)

Absolutely true! For it to be an authentic interactive experience the ladies must attracted to each other in a very genuine way. Women bond differently than men and I've seen good female friends have a great dynamic in the bedroom because of it. We need to like the lady in front of us for the play date to flow. I have had all types of experiences ranging from fully interactive to on the job training; all are fun if the chemistry is there. Time investment is key. Know the girls separately and make sure they know each other beforehand. Otherwise you may end up with an up close and personal "theatre production" which is only fun if the participants are extremely good actors. cat

Anything authentic. When someone tries to pass off quick made foods at tradition/authentic, it's disapointing.

I haven't had a successful duo yet. I've tried maybe 4 times. I think Kubrickfan has nailed it....gotta know the girls first. I'm not even sure it's possible in a paying world....everyone needs to be attracted to each other....faking won't work. IMHO. YMMV. :) Peace to all.

I recall seeing Maude when I was last in Ottawa about two months ago. She was there earlier in the evening, about 7pm or so.

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Ladies Katherine Emily Rushton Carley Chase Angel Starr Soleil Cleo Catra Lovely Dorinda Guys MrNice Old Dog Wit Roamingguy Notchjohnson

If I may, Ladies: Isabella Gia Jessica Massage (if MAs are eligible) Ottawa Lindsay Alexandra Sky Soleil Additional Comments: Sorry, forgot my nomination for gent. My friend Big Al.

Isabella Gia , Everyday I have thoughtful conversion in chat with her . She has been a valuable member here with her thoughts and opinions be it in chat / forums/ and yes the shout board .

I saw Mary-ann this week. She is indeed slim, in great shape (nice abs in my opinion). A real sweetheart.

There would be lots of choice but one i like a lot is ... I have been waiting for a girl like you. From Foreigner..

I rarely watch movies more than once.. unless several years have gone by so it seems new again.. but I just rewatched one of my favs the other day The original Arthur.. (doubt I'll watch the new one) Another I've watched over and over but not lately ET. and my favorite to watch which I'm due for. The Princess Bride. Carol Kane and Billy Crystal are hilarious. Any Mel Brooks film.. walks away singing from..Young Frankenstein..''oh sweet mystery of life at last I've found you''

Thank-you Cato! Cheers!and to one day crossing paths;) Posted via Mobile Device

I would like to nominate the following: Emily Rushton Angel Starr Kyra Graves Malika Nathalie Levebvre Soleil Etasman2000 Mrrnice2 Notchjohnson Phaedrus I wanted to nominate more members but they have already been mentioned by others ;) SA, thank you for the nomination :)

Poison from Alice Cooper:D

Amelia's new website is mind-blowingly amazing. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll start checking prices on flights to Yellowknife. Two thumbs up! www.stateofamelia.com

I for one and glad you are getting older. :icon_wink: Happy birthday to a sweetie and stand up kind of guy. There are not many left. Lots of love from me to you, Katherine xoxoxo

Ahhhh!.....the secret is revealed to be found in an old Stephen Stills song. Good to know!

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Should I start back my out calls? I was thinking in october to start back out calls in houses or condos. It will be in the evening only after 6pm or 7pm (after traffic) What you guys think ? Jude http://www.judemasso.webs.com

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Best for Stevecurious on his b-day!

May the Sawx win a title in '11 (and every other year) to celebrate your birthday!

I told Wade Boggs it was your birthday, he seemed stoked! Happy birthday from both of us ;)

We all make mistakes. Sometimes we loudly make mistakes. I don't think any one of us who participates on a regular basis has a perfectly clean record when it comes to controversy - whatever gets stated may be misinterpreted OR be in diametric opposition to our own belief structure, moral code or personal credo. That being said, it takes a big person to step up and realize that they have offended someone and back down. That is what being part of a community is all about, bending slightly for the greater good. Will these situations happen again? Hell yes. Can we still function after? Hell Yes. Thanks Amelia. Thanks Sophia. Good night John Boy. Good night Mary Ellen.

Hi Everyone, I wish we can all get along, we are all here for the same reason and have that in common. We all have different opinions and think different things, but that's what makes us all so special and brings us together here. I hope we can all understand that we are all different..Let's all be equals and be nice, keep the peace and all that sweet moosh stuff. I like everyone's opinions and thoughts, even if they are so far out from mine, pretty interesting stuff I tell ya!

PROSTITUTION IN CANADA IS VERY MUCH LEGAL! PLEASE GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT AND DO NOT SPREAD BAD INFO! Some of you seam to be getting a little heated over this thread and I just want to remind you all that cerb is to remain a friendly, helpful and inviting place. Anyone disrupting that, starting fights, provoking, flaming, etc... may be suspended or removed. Now... this topic has been gone over again and again and some people just don't get it! Prostitution is very much LEGAL in CANADA the laws however just make it very hard to do legally. -You CAN NOT discuss anything in a PUBLIC PLACE (Internet is not a public place, your hotel room and your house is not a public place and neither is an ad in a magazine or website considered a public PLACE) discussing it on the street or in a hotel lobby or hallway is illegal. If you discuss it in PRIVATE like your hotel room or house it is very much LEGAL. -If you are caught in a place that is COMMONLY used for prostitution (Brothel) then you can be changed. -If you make money as a THIRD part (Pimp/Agent/Driver/etc..) you are LIVING OFF THE AVAILS and that is illegal Anyone on cerb posting UNTRUE facts about this is doing HARM to our community and must be STOPPED. If you pass BAD INFO you cause more problems for EVERYONE. Telling people that prostitution is illegal in CANADA is BAD. Stop watching AMERICAN TV!!! What happens on COPS and those other shows is in the USA (We DO NOT LIVE in the USA) Some municipalities have BYLAWS that license "Escorts" (Not Prostitutes) if so DO NOT use the word "ESCORT" in your ads. Use Courtesan or Prostitute or even Service Provider. If you get caught using the word "ESCORT" they can charge you. Some may try to charge you anyway cause they use this as a way to police the sex trade in a unethical and unconstitutional way.... you can appeal any by law charge and get it tossed out. Remember BY LAWS do NOT have any criminal records, they DO NOT have any JAIL TIME or anything like that. AGAIN... ANYONE SPREADING FALSE LEGAL INFORMATION IS CAUSING HARM TO OUR COMMUNITY AND NEEDS TO BE TOLD THEY ARE WRONG!

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