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Well I am glad to know that. For me, my criteria for voting is for those who make real contributions to the board: lounge posting, thoughtful comments, funny stories, passion for this industry, classy, commited, and also very very supportive of those of us involved in providing. It's because I get to "know" them that i want them to know I appreciate what they have done to help make this such a nice place to visit. I am sure that that is what this kind of voting is all about, yes? To acknowledge the real contributions of the ladies, rather than say a popularity contest or just a pretty face? Nice to give thanks to someone who takes the time to share their thoughts, is what I'm getting at here, lol.

I could be wrong, but I think Rockstar might be looking for the next 'hidden gem'. Sadly, I don't think anyone new has been rocking the industry here in Winnipeg. However, there are still very professional, reliable, friendly, fit, attractive, enthusiastic and honest providers in Winnipeg. I'm getting a little tired of constantly reading on the other board how brutal and 'bottom of the barrel' it has become in Winnipeg. It's just not true. And it's about time someone said so. I think it's about time someone defended the women who keep appointments, don't answer their phones during a session, accommodate your schedule to the best of their ability, provide fresh and clean sheets every time, take time to set the mood, dress in sexy lingerie, do their hair and make-up after having freshly showered, make you feel comfortable and incredible, providing all the services they advertise, for the fee advertised and no up-sells. I know a few Sps like that and I don't think their phones are ringing off the hook, like they should be. Of course I personally wouldn't know. I'm in Saskatoon this month. ;)

It is a slow process and that can be good and bad. I have watched people join Cerb, take the board by storm only to fade away quickly. If you take your time and eek away at growing your buisness it will happen. Its a combonation of you keeping your own personal standards high and then a little luck perhaps of getting a strong recommendation from a well known hobbiest. If you stick with it you will have many recco's before you know it. This has been my experience at least. The most important thing is to deliver the highest level of service you are able to and let the rest take care of itself. All the best!

Ever wonder why people who post complaints about CERB and the policies of the board keep coming back, reiterating their gripes in threads.... Why do they come back? Because it's a good board. They get something from being here. If that weren't the case, why would they log in, read threads, disrupt and moan... Far be it from me to say that these people are anything less than intelligent or reasonable... They just have different opinions. My point is not to insult them at all - simply to point out that even despite their opinions, they're here... A lot. Assuming they're sane, it's because they get value from logging in, reading, etc. So clearly, CERB is doing something right. Right?

There is having sex, which is one thing, and being pounded for an hour--which is something totally different. Sadly, the latter is not a fun experience for anyone but the guy and frankly, I'm not a blow-up doll. If that's all you want, please just wank off. We are human beings and just because you are paying for my services doesn't mean you get to do whatever you want. I offer the services I am comfortable offering, and I do not view full service or sex as simply being pounded. As I said in my original post, I am aware that you are paying for a service, but you must remember that you will be satisfied within the boundaries of the service provider. Paying gets you in the door, what the two of you get up to is still largely determined by the provider. So let's not forget that.

One thing I WILL NOT apologize for is my habit of thanking people for viewing my profile page. I thank women and men alike and have never posted a solicitation type message. IMHO if you don't like it you have the power to delete my sincerely nice message. On the reason for disabling this function, I commend the Mods for their vigilance in helping out the person who is being stalked. I am hoping this guy gets what's coming to him! A for the lady in question, stay strong!

How time flies. I've been on this board for about four years now but I've only started posting in earnest about a year ago. It's taken me this long to reach a hundred posts, of which this is that centenary number. To mark the occasion, I've written a tale that is truly fitting in that it couldn't have been written without my being here on CERB. Enjoy, my dear readers. -- bb ................................................................................................ Long ago, I was in one of my peculiar moods. I wanted something different. Something out of the usual for me. I knew exactly what I wanted. I wanted tattoos, piercings, ink writ large on a hot body and an angel's face. I wanted a crazy time with an alt girl. I found what I was looking for right away. She had bright, unnaturally red hair and creamy white skin. And of course, she had many tattoos and piercings. I dug deeper, and found her posts showing her spirited and spunky side. I read on into the night and knew I had to meet her. She would be my walk on the wild side, a suicide grrl that would give my the fun fun fun times I was looking for. But when I finally walked through her door, it was fun of a slightly different flavor. Oh, I wasn't quite as anonymous to her as I had thought I would be. She had read me like a book, as soon as she set eyes on me. She knew what I really wanted even better than I did. And without a word, she slipped that pierced tongue into my mouth, and we kissed tenderly like long-lost lovers. I hesitated for a moment, then changed gears. I was gentle, undressing her slowly, kissing every inch of that inked skin. I discovered her paint, read her personal credos, explored every piercing delicately with my fingertips and tongue. When I finally entered her, it was the homecoming for a place I never knew I missed. We lay back, afterwards, nestled snuggly between her sheets. I intertwined my fingers with hers and we chatted for a time. I looked at her tattoos one at a time, touching each one for emphasis as we talked. They told the story of her life, vignettes rendered in multicolored ink, and every one had a special meaning. She was genial and good natured, until I reached *the* tattoo. I felt her tense up as I ran my fingertips over it and I felt the tiny ripple of scar tissue. I saw the uncomfortable flicker in her eyes and changed the subject then, in the best way I knew how. I kissed her, softly, sensually. Too soon, it was time for me to go. I thought about her for days afterwards, closing my eyes and remembering her soft touch, her gentle kiss, the feel of her hard metal on my tongue. I called her and she was glad to hear from me. And soon enough I was in her arms, tasting those kisses, stroking her fine fine inked skin. We lay back afterwards. Her tattoos fascinated me, and I stroked and kissed each one of them in turn. I glanced down at the tattoo on the inside of her wrist. The tiny ripple of scar tissue it covered was barely visible in the dim light. I looked at her for a moment, then took her hand in mine. I traced her fingertip on the ridges of scar tissue barely visible on the suntanned skin on the inside of the wrist. My own wrist. "I have one too." She looked at me in surprise, then opened her mouth to say something and thought better of it. "I was young." I tensed as she ran her fingers along the scar and looked more closely. It was a little souvenir from the lowest point of the most trying years of my life. It was a small scar, barely visible. The plastic surgeon was a good one and most people didn't notice it unless I pointed it out. I remembered the blood, the wild ambulance ride, waking up bandaged with my family and friends around me. But that was just the proverbial tip of the iceberg. Sometimes the scars and the tales that are most meaningful are on the inside, not scattered in Technicolor memories on your skin. She watched me for a moment. I could tell she was thinking. She held me close then, soft kisses, her warmth and gentle perfume wafting close. She reached down and started to stroke my cock and in spite of the intensity of the moment I started to get hard. She climbed aboard, slipping me inside her. She was warm and she was tight, and she held me down as she started to ride me hard. I forgot about.. well whatever it was I was thinking about. I was getting close. I rolled her off of me, mounted her doggie. I rammed her hard, again and again. My eyes were squinched tight not only in the mad fury of the moment but also to hold back the tears. I pulled out and sprayed my fear, my pain, my years of regret all over the elaborate tattoo on the small of her back. I looked up to see her watching me. She mumbled something in that cute accent of hers and ran off, returning with a towel. Huh. It's funny, I thought. This is what I thought I was looking for at the beginning of all this, and yet it came when I was least expecting it. Sometimes true intimacy starts in this world, not with a gentle kisses and caresses but with something wild and rough. For it's only when you trust, that you truly let go. And sometimes what awaits you is not quite what you expected. Something special happened then. We shared not just the good, but the worst that had happened with each other. Our stories spilled out of each other. Every wonderful, sordid, evil detail. We held each other close, each wanting to shield the other from the world. We met into the fall and winter, sharing our lives, our love, our little tales. But sometimes you can become too close. Sometimes you can share too much. And in the end, the hurt and the pain that we had shared with each other defined our relationship and pushed us apart. Because some secrets are too big, too horrible to be contained in more than one heart. I think about her sometimes, my inked beauty, and wonder where she is and how she is doing. But she left me one gift I'll always treasure. Sometimes when I'm feeling lonely or sad I'll feel the faint white scars on my wrist with my fingertips and it'll make me think of her. She had taken away the bad memories and shame that those lines meant to me and replaced them with memories of her instead. I dream then of her smile, her pale creamy skin, her pierced tongue on mine. I smile back at her memory. And everything is alright in the world again.

I've learned... ... that there is no shame in being an SP. ... that I have a responsibility to myself to explore my sexuality. ... that I am not as shy as I once believed ;) ... there are amazing people in this industry- not the stereotype. ... this business is a lot more organized and respectful than I may have once assumed. ... it's a helluva lot of fun!

I have been on cerb since June of this year and I have posted on my page that all recommendations are welcome. I have seen many people in the cerb community and several of them have been repeated visitors but I dont seem to be getting recommendations. A client of mine who referred me to this site said that he tried to post a recommendation for me but mod wouldnt allow him to do so? I am just putting it out there to find out if there is a certain thing I need to do on this site to receive the recommendations. And to all previous clients , if u enjoyed urself , please feel free to write a recommendation!

Just thinking back of when we first became members on cerb and had a few chuckles....I remember poor Mod saying read read read the rules Angie after warnings and infraction and all this new stuff to learn. I was a pain in his behind sorry Mod but I thank you for your patience. I caught myself today commenting on a thread speculating without re-reading the rules (that I have went over a million times) ha ha. A BIG Bell was going off in my head and it was MOD read read the rules Angie. This got me thinking I have learned a great deal of discipline within this community. I kinda feel like a kid and Mod is a parent keeping me in-line. And if ya misbehave there is consequences for your actions. Cerb has been a journey for me :) We never stop learning and growing. And I just wanted to share today and thanks Mod and this community for helping me on my journey......you all know who you are! Angie xo Question is: What do you remember it was like when you became a new member on cerb?

Well it looks like we have plenty of new girls making their first posts today in our Halifax Section. Welcome to the wonderful world of Cerb.

There has been lots of talk again recently about sp using stolen photo"s I would like to discuss stolen texts. Awhile back I reported two separate ladies who used stolen text (word for word copy paste) in there cerb advertisement. I was surprised to learn that this is NOT necessarily against cerb rules. Personally I spend little to no time on a ladies photo albums and most of my time on what they have to say in there advertising,cerb post, and web sites. I read any Reco's that they may have and how they interact with other cerb members. I use this information to see if this is someone I would like to meet and if we are compatible. So personally I feel any lady that uses a stolen text describing there personality or services offered is just as offencive and deceiving as a stolen photo just wondering how everyone else feel about this. Just a side not the two ladies that I reported for using stolen text were eventually banned for breaking other cerb rules so you can read into that what you want

I love that. It's one of those little things that makes you want to come back for more.

I haven't watched Big Sexy but it sounds interesting. Another show that is similar and one that I watch is Drop Dead Diva where a model gets killed in a car accident. She pushes a button in heaven and is sent back down to earth in a bigger woman's body who happens to be a lawyer which no one knows about. And what's worse is she is forced to work with her ex fiance who only now sees her as big girl Jane and thinks she doesn't have a chance with him now that she's fat. She also experiences the same kind of treatment as Soleil described in the other show. As someone who has been a bigger girl, I too have experienced this kind of treatment as opposed to when I was thinner. It was like night and day. I tried to not let my weight affect me but being in this business and not being slim can be very trying. I will admit it. I do agree with Liana that if you want to lose weight, the emphasis should be on your health and not if you can get rock hard abs.

One of my friends on Facebook is a BBW - a staggeringly witty and talented one, as I often point out. Her status updates about the crap she goes through are heartbreaking. Absolutely gut-wrenching, tear-inducing, 'OMG-how-can-people-be-so-horrible' heartbreaking. People actually go out of their way to insult her. And worst of all, it's gone on so long, and become so ingrained, she's totally and utterly blind to what a one-of-a-kind legendary ultracatch she actually is. In fact, she seems to have no self-esteem left at all. And she's just one of the thousands/millions of amazing women who have just been utterly ground down by this kind of abuse. I keep thinking of this: All. The Time.

Yes, I remember when Cerb was in its infancy. Literally no one was here at all and Ottawa did not really have a board presence. Well, all that changed... I went away for a couple of years and come back to find a board with thousands of members in all different cities. It's great to be here with such nice members. It's amazing to see how far cerb has come.

Hey DotheDoo, I've been a server in Winnipeg and let me tell you the benefits of prairie living! 1.) There are more restaurants per capita, in Winnipeg, than other city in Canada. 2.) Winnipeggers like to eat out, and they tip. 3.) You could rent a 2 bedroom apartment downtown for $750 all included! 4.) Practically no matter where you work, you can walk, ride your bike or take the bus and be there in 30 minutes. 5.) Food in the grocery store is super cheap in Winnipeg. 6.) You can easily buy a little starter home for about 150,000-200,000 with only 5% down. 7.) There's lots to do, especially in the Summer. 8.) If you want to buy a car, we have the cheapest car insurance in the country. 9.) There's an IKEA coming in 2012!!!!! lol I'm sure you're not even considering Winterpeg, but it definitely has its own advantages over other cities. Food for thought, at least? ;)

In the last 4 months 6 separate Canadian born ladies have stolen my text (had they asked i probably would have said I will write you an ad) the fact that these ladies can speak english, log onto a computer and place an ad says enough that they should get there own ads. if I want an ad in french I will ask another lady who is fluent in french to translate it for me as I have done putting things into proper english for others...there is no excuse for this behaviour

eh? volunteer here! lmao. sorry off track :p

Yes, I do agree with you Soleil. Many women struggle with their weight when really size shouldn't matter. Its almost as if men can get away with the weight more so than woman can in today's society. Its sad, but true. Anyhow, I think women shouldnt care what men think about their weight. Weight is important when it comes to keeping good health. Although, women should be confident at any point in size they are. If your going to do something do it for yourself not for anyone else. Weight is definately something that is very personal, and whether someone wants to lose or gain wieght its nobody else's business. Beauty is not only outwardly, it is inwardly. Beauty that comes from the heart is what makes a women flourish like a flower, and all women should embellish that as well as their intellectuality in what they have to offer to a man.

Is there even such a thing? There's never any guarantee that you'll get along with the best-reviewed lady in town. And there's nothing to say that you won't turn out to be the kind of person the worst-reviewed lady in town actually connects with. It's as subjective and variable and crazymaking as... well, falling in love<g>. Just a lot less complicated and generally safer ;)

If I may, and not knowing the Winnipeg scene that well, but for Ottawa I will say this. I think the rec's are down for sure in Ottawa,from many long time hobbiest (including myself). Some reasons maybe but not inclusive a) Slow times in the business? after summer vacations etc etc? b) they have not been posting anymore due to comments made throughout threads, where some other hobbiest think that the rec's are _ _ _ _ (you can fill in the blanks) c)Not as busy with ladies as before. d) Some other hobbiest select ladies based on other info, instead of rec's, so that would leave the guy scratching his big head should he? or shouldn't he? e) The hobbiest simply does not kiss and tell. My thoughts on it,but I could be very wrong....

I feel like anything with ... Ok probably not anything :icon_neutral:

My thoughts exactly. Rassilon if you wish to be one of the guys simply be one of them. Start posting, become involved and there you are, in the middle of it all. Hopefully having a great time and enjoying yourself. :icon_smile:

ladiitrill: For the record, I would wholeheartedly recommend you, and have no problem telling the world. When I commented on you in one thread the reaction was "we don't know you, so your comment does not count." I completely understand the desire to not be "taken in" or allow negative changes to the board's tone to happen by making it easy for someone to intentionally manipulate things. Blocking the instant results/instant gratification from attempts to deceive helps keep things in good order. So all in all I believe it to be good overall, but it does make it difficult for me to help you out. I did not write you a recommendation even though I am allowed now because I was worried it would hurt your reputation by virtue of me not being one of "the guys". My worry is if my recommendation is the first, someone will point it out and then someone else will point out I am not one of the regular circle and then all of sudden suspicion is cast upon it and by extension you. If you still want me to write one, I will. Otherwise I will wait and when once one of the accepted members writes a recommendation to get the ball rolling in a credible way, I will write one as well. BTW, several people sent me private messages asking about you. I said good things and sent them your way.

Plaigerism is unethical and unprofessional. However, in these cases that is not what is happening. This is a copyright issue, and is against the law. As are stealing pics to use in advertisement without owning them. There is no flattery, no grey area, no just letting it go. IT is against international copyright laws to steal copy and pass it off as your own without acknowleding the author. Your ads, the text on your site, even the words I am writing right now are published on the internet, and as soon as that happens, they are protected by copyright laws. It isn't even up for debate, it is what it is. You can easily report the violators to wherever they place their ads, provide the proof, and any wise website admin will remove the text immediately. Otherwise they are participating in allowing a criminal act, altho likely you will only be able to sue them. It is not acceptable that an advertising site, even cerb, would say that that is not a violation of rules. It is a violation of actual laws, and for that reason alone, it is enough reason to remove the text at least. I am rather shocked that reporting these ads did not get results. If this was any other business advertising, it would not be acceptable. There is a restaurant in Vancouver under fire last year because its name includes the word "Olympic". Copyright protection and infringement is not a joke.

I've spent better part of my life learning stuff.. But only since I have joined CERB did I start learning more about myself! And that awareness has changed me in ways I never thought possible. SNS724

I am always offended by someone lumping women in with children. I can't see what kind of arrogance it must take to figure they know what's best for grown women, and apply a law or regulation that is designed to protect children. Why isn't someone out there creating regulations and laws to protect men and children, lets say from the evils of cigarettes? They should come up with a law that will blanketly be good for a grown man over 40 as well as a 12 year old. Shouldn't be a problem, after all, its designed for their own good.

Some say the eyes are the gateway to the soul, but a whispered hot word straight into the ear is a thunderclap, direct-connection roaring straight to my sexual brain!

I'm not sure the marriage troubles and the proposal were simply for ratings. Gene came across sincere and heartfelt in his proposal; he's just not that good an actor. And neither is Shannon, for that matter. I think alot of marriages go through some crises when the kids leave the house, so I'm not sure how much of it is simply staged for ratings. As for getting married, I understand the symbolic significance of getting married for Shannon and I understand why Gene found it so important not to get married. Honestly though; they've been together for twenty-something years. Whether he chooses to believe it or, he's been married for a loooong time (longer than most celebrity marriages!) If they ever got divorced, Shannon would get half and there isn't a lawyer in the country that could argue otherwise. On a completely different note, Gene and the band members should walk down the aisle in full KISS get-up!! Then he could spew fire when they're promounced husband and wife.

This might help you in finding a lady http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=159 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=88 RG

Well since I pressed the wrong key by mistake and didn't finish writing my note before it got posted, I will say it here: ALL ladies deserve to be treated like ladies and not like a raw piece of meat even if they receive a compensation for their time! In the end, it's all comes down to mutual respect! Thanks RG :)

Honestly, I hope your experiences aren't as you are describing, laying on your back and pounded for an hour. Whether in a relationship, or as a SP, you, as all ladies do, deserve to be treated like ladies. You aren't a piece of meat for someone's sexual gratification. No matter that you are getting paid doesn't mean you have to take whatever he gives, the money is for your time. Not trying to sound condescending, but your view leaves me somewhat sad. I really hope you have clients who treat you with respect, because you deserve to be treated with respect. Really don't know what else to say RG

Oh my stars, this young lady is a treat to behold and view. I have never come across a young lady that is filled with such passion and so much flexibility. Jenna can contort her rather sexy body into positions that I only ever dreamed about, :smile:. She has a quick wit, with puns that are comical and sexy. A very fresh ... persona, about her. Enjoyable, to say the least. Did I mention sextremely flexible and fresh, worth checking out. :tongue: :icon_cool:

This has been well covered so I will keep this short. I have had many a conversation in my adult years with my grandfather who spent his entire military career in Europe during WWI. He was single, whether that actually mattered, but regardless he always told me it was for "companionship" more than the sex. To talk to and touch a lady and relax and unwind and .....yes have sex, but have fun and laugh. He became friends with one and saw her every time he had a chance, which was rare. There where the ones indeed that wanted to get their rocks off but in his experience it was about the companionship and closeness for him and the majority of what he saw. I realize this was war time but really.....I don't think things have changed that much since then. My opinion only.....It always has been about the combination of companionship and sex, and fun ! This all can lead to sooo many wonderful and amazing experiences. In my case laying on your back for an hour doesn't work. But Hey....thats just me :)

i like hfxandy avatar. how can you not like somebody who has an avatar of clint eastwood, one of the best actor and director of is generations.

I like Isabella because she is spanish, and spanish chicks are hot, plus she as got some sexy legs.

It is sad to say, but the same things happens here also, in Ottawa. It all depends how the client feels. We cannot force reviews, or recos. There are many reasons why this happens, but here are the more common: Does'nt feel like it; Not an outstanding experience; To shy to kiss and tell; No time to do it; Feel like everything has been said. I understand your desapointment and believe me, it's the same here. But as said before, it's up to the client to decide if the sp deserves a reco or not. Eventhought we are whinning about it (me included), it will give no results. Best thing to do is to book with a well recommended sp and to write one yourself. You are lucky CERB service providers from your area seem to be awesome. Why not kiss and tell?

IMO it is only polite to say hello and to thank any visitors and I always do when able to. To complain that someone said hello and thank you, no solicitation type posts whatsoever. Is just plain sad. IMO. You do have the option to delete and/or not approve the message. Everyone is entitled to complain, it's human nature. I do hope that a solution that would enable each person to turn on or off this feature will be an option soon.

I don't know if it's just me being naive, but I thought we'd reached the point where condom use was just accepted as being a good idea on its own merits, and we had outgrown any connotations of mistrust or anything like that. I've never thought of it being about trust. Being naked, alone in a room with a stranger is trust<g>. You use condoms for the same reason you don't shower together with a toaster - it's just safety. And as the poet said, SAFE sex doesn't mean NO sex... ... it just means 'Use Your Imagination' ;)

Thanks for the explanation, Scribbles :) In an SP/client type of "relationship" I don't believe trust has anything to do with it. The risk factors involved play a major role in this particular situation. Trusting "you" won't lower my risks but if I play safe, I'm automatically lowering them ;)

In the end we all have to be responsible for our own sexual health. Asking an SP to reassure you is not taking full responsibility of your own health....its asking her to reassure you that you're safe, and no SP can do that because we're SPs...not doctors. Best to go get tested regularly if you are having multiple partners (this includes SPs and especially non SPs)..... asking someone if they are sure they are clean and asking for proof is kinda like asking someone if they're lying....or at least it feels like it on our end.

I think everyone has their text stolen from time to time, I can currently name 4 websites and ladies ads with various versions of my home page, philosophy or a few of my ads. Only once did I let it stress me and that was one of the first times someone took my ad posted it as their own and actually got credit for it - someone posted on the board an inquiry about her and people said she sounded interesting based on her ads. Anyway it took almost a month but she was found out to not be the lady she claimed and I was happy I didn't get involved in it at all. I figure this industry is hard, for some people it's likely impossible to navigate and some may not have had the work opportunities and training I've been fortunate to have so their skill set may not include marketing, web development, etc. I may not approve of their tactics but in all businesses and across all industries there are people without integrity and people without the experience to put together a business plan, the difference is in this industry when you are new you often don't know where to go for help or don't know you can even get help. I believe if you act with integrity and have a clear professional approach to the industry and display maturity with your actions it speaks more about you than any ad you can post. When someone uses my text I think it's not the text that makes the ad but my response to the situation, as they say actions speak louder than words.

The last visit to Halifax for me was almost a bomb. I had several people requesting me to go, so I advertised for 2 weeks. The first two days I was rather upset...as the very same people who were requesting me all of a sudden did not book?? Thankfully the last two days filled up, just in time too! The same thing happened to me in Ottawa, until a member spoke up and said " come on Ottawa we can do better than this!" I never did narrow the reasons down to just a single factor as there were probably many factors involved. Could be that I had not traveled there often enough and people had never meet me yet, however I had gone with many recco's behind me, or it could be I picked the wrong dates to go, perhaps there was a overflow of travelers at that time? But my question is still lingering.....why would the people who were asking me over and over to go, but then they are not the ones who booked? Really if your gonna risk spending 1000 to go, you want the advance bookings to actually show up! The pre arranged appt are the ones that you really count on, anything beyond that is a bonus to your profits. I recently been asked again from Halifax and Ottawa for another trip, but I will be much more careful on who is pre-booking, such as are they reliable?

This is very scary. There are so many young women 15-17 who could easily pass for early/mid twenties. I do sympathize with the men because I believe there was no ill intention.

In my opinion stolen words are just as bad as stolen photos. It's deception and it's wrong, the words used to describe one provider cannot possibly be used to describe another. One of the more poorly run "agencies" in town here in Ottawa that I've nailed for using fake photos in the past recently started to use real pictures but has begun to use stolen text. In the last two months I've documented this along with 3 other indies in Ottawa that have done the same. http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=2806 http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=2834 In this posting in the comments section you'll see the failed agency's defence for using stolen words, unfreakinig believable : http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=2930 In a lot of cases the descriptions aren't even close and in the agency's case the girls aren't even aware of what's been posted. I've heard all the excuses about language, i'm not a good writer etc... the fact is some one else took the time to create the original ad and did so to describe themselves. Often these descriptions are quite personal in nature and make mention of likes and dislikes but aren't revised or edited. The description gives the reader a sense of who they might meet and who they are as a person but then when they meet they are nothing like the wrote or described.

I must admit, this would be perfect for me. A mutual quick shower, a quick release on the table, then a massage and another release. I think there is more than enough time in between. Someone should make up a name for this. Shower, release before and after - SRBA

I don't think I've read a sadder public post by another paid companion. What you've written here, IslandIndependent, honestly breaks my heart. If this has been your experience in our industry, I can only say that it hasn't been mine, for the most part. I want better for you. I agree that there are plenty of men who pay for the opportunity to get right down to what they want without having to go through a lot of preliminaries. Long ago, I used to have a lot of these meetings. The transactions were simple and clear. Feeling like I was only something to pound was rare, for me, but it happened sometimes. After awhile, I realized that I'm not submissive enough to just lie there and take it, or simply to follow directions compliantly. I don't need romance, but feeling bored isn't good for me, either. I decided to change things. I took a good look at what I know about myself, what my strengths and limitations are, what interests me, how I most enjoy relating to other people, how I want to be seen and understood, what I most appreciate about men, what I enjoy in bed and out of it, what I know about my own body's workings and what I know about men's bodies, too. From all of that, I recognized that I could offer a very fine, complete and rewarding experience to anyone with whom I chose to spend my time. I was right about it and I've never looked back. I welcome clients who want to spend some time with not just any woman, but with me. They've usually gone to the effort of getting to know something about me, whether by reading my website or reading what I've written in other places before they contact me. They try to present themselves as people I might be interested in meeting. We take it from there. A few e-mail exchanges, one or two phone conversations, then we meet, having recognized that we each think we'll enjoy spending a few hours together. If this will be the only time we'll ever meet, it will at least be worthwhile. And yeah, sure, we'll have sex, too. I've found that, almost without exception, men who will take a bit of time before the meeting will be concerned about what I want, too. They want the encounter to be good for me. I want the same for them. If they had specific things they wanted to do or to try, they will have told me about that at some point and I will have said whether I'm interested in or comfortable with those things. If the mood and energy is right, they will probably happen. If it's not right, they won't, but there won't be any hard feelings, either, because we will have made the decision together. In the end, I don't feel used, degraded or ignored. I trust that my client will feel admired, appreciated and enjoyed. Time well spent! This longer dance of seductive engagement is not for everyone. But if it's what you want, you can be sure that there are plenty of good men who want it, too. They will treat you well and appreciate you. The last thing I want to say is that if you're feeling detached from what you're doing or what is being done to you; if you feel like you're not really there when that's where you are; if you don't believe you have choices and the right to say what you do and don't want to do; if you don't think that your preferences are important or would be respected.... please stop. Don't sacrifice your spirit for the sake of what your body can earn. The sex trade is not right for most women. If it feels like it's not right for you, listen to that voice. If you need help to leave, help is available: PM or e-mail me.

Very true about the YMMV scenario. Although I'm not a PSE companion (no anal and CIM) I do enjoy giving and receiving safe rimming (with a dental dam only). I know it's not the ultimate feeling but it's better than nothing and my temporary lover(s) and I still enjoy it very much! :biggrin: Needless to say that impeccable hygiene is a must in this case and not limited to this particular intimate activity! Have fun and be safe!! Additional Comments: Rimming your partner before giving him an awesome prostate massage makes for excellent relaxing preperation...