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I found some quotes that may apply to many of us. I am motivated by my own need for forgiveness and getting rid of negative energy around me. Perhaps you have some quotes to help heal wounds of actions and words that were designed to hurt us? This quote is from Norman Vincent Peale " Resentment or grudges do no harm to the person against whom you hold these feelings, but everyday and every night of your life, they are eating you alive." What is Forgiveness? Generally it is a decision of letting go of resentments and thoughts of revenge. the act that hurt you or offended you, may always remain as a part of your life but forgiveness can lessen the grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to understanding, empathy, and compassion toward the one who hurt you. Forgiveness does not mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you, and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that let's you go on with your life. I hope these words of wisdom will help all or any of us that sometimes get wrapped up in these feelings, and realize life is just too short to spend energy on what is just perpetuating negative energy. If we spend our energy on what has happened in the past, we will miss the great opportunity that our lives have to offer right here, right now! LOVE TO ALL, WISH PEACE AND HAPPINESS TO ALL!

A few more thoughts come up when looking at this nice thread idea. Only the brave know how to forgive; it is the most refined and generous pitch of virtue human nature can arrive at. Forgive thyself little, and others much. Always forgive your enemies--nothing annoys them so much Women will forgive anything. Otherwise, the race would have died out long ago The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Thanks for sharing the thread idea.

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

Angel - I, too, am on day 4. Because of you. The world is a miraculous place filled with miracles.

Anyone wanna take a stab at mine? I feel so excluded! lol

I prefer retainers. It allows for consistent budgeting, time management and dedicated guest services on my part which suits my business style and personality. It does require trust, flexibility and at times, compromise. On rare occasions it hasn't worked but nothing in life works exactly as planned every time. As long as I have done everything in my power to uphold my end of the agreement and my guest isn't left with a bitter taste then it's all good. Retainers are more than a method of payment for me. They represent a quality that I personally find very attractive in a man. I see it as a gesture that says he cares and he shows it by contributing to my financial well being. It says that regardless of what else is going on in his life, he is willing to contribute to my life in a necessary way. It shows a level of committment on his part that says "I enjoy you and want to ensure we spend time together" within the boundaries of a very unusual business arrangement. It allows us to move within the arrangement in a way that is more natural to me than the tradition business model. I prefer to have a small guest list that have me on retainer than multiples that have me on speed dial. It allows me to focus on my guests as people, giving them the attention and experience they desire. Retainers do not work for everyone but they work exceptionally well for some. The key is finding people that have the same vision for the life experience they are seeking, a willingness to negotiate the deal and the personal integrity to honor the deal once is made... cat

I think it could be true RG, people go to great strength to break up fights without getting hurt themselves. I have offered striptease to 2 different ladies of CERB and both time I was wearing my chaps.

Great thread idea, here's a few more for consideration On average, it takes two tablespoons of blood to get a man's penis erect According to Archives of General Medicine, coffee drinkers have sex more frequently and enjoy it more than non-coffee drinkers. According to the Hite Report, candles are the artificial device used more frequently by women when masturbating. In the 17th century, Spain boasted that it was free of sexual deviance. When referring to bestiality, Spanish nicknamed it "the Italian vice." Erect giraffe penises are four feet long. Average sexual intercourse between minks lasts eight hours. Kellogg's Corn Flakes were invented by a Dr. Kellogg in hopes that they would reduce masturbation

Until someone shows up in a ridiculous looking outfit because they thought it was a costume party! Old Dog, next time you will have to start a separate fashion thread on what to wear to a future social. lol. 1 more day!!!

I didn't say they shouldn't engage in it, I said they shouldn't advertise it. Unfortunately, most people do NOT educate themselves and sex workers offering BBFS do reflect poorly on sex workers and the industry. That is true and I agree with you that sex workers should not be held to a different standard, but unfortunately, that's not how the rest of the world looks at it. And I'm sorry, but offering bbfs (outside of the context of both partners agreeing beforehand and getting tested together) is unsafe, stupid and I'm going to judge you for that choice, whether you're a sex worker or not.

Finally I have a word to contribute that I think was not introduced previously. I am laughing as I write this because a short while ago I wrote a note in the highlights of the day thread saying about helping someone finish getting their winter wood inside. An SP saw it and wrote me a note and used Wood as her subject heading. I knew what she was going to refer to but the subject heading brought the other meaning to mind. She is probably writing me now saying to get my mind out of the gutter. :) So, I contribute Wood.

You know you are old when your daily allowance was .25 cents a day and this bought you AT LEAST a bag of chips, a bottle of pop and a chocolate bar. maybe some gum. Those were the days!!!

face2face - It's all extremely subjective. Some people's schedules suit a retainer and regular schedule, others don't. With regard to the 'annoyance' of a payback, speaking for myself I've only done retainers in the case where I have an amazing rapport with the gent and I look forward to our time together. Retainers are very rare to me but suit unique circumstances. Posted via Mobile Device

I'm speaking from my experiences only and I have three points: 1. Generally when a retainer is put in place, we know each other very well and there is a strong mutual trust. In my opinion, it would be foolish to enter a retainer with someone you don't trust. 2. If I enter into a retainer, I'm giving a slight discount. If I'm prepared to give someone a loyalty discount, it's because I enjoy their company and wouldn't want to out of my terms of the contract, because I genuinely enjoy his company. If I didn't enjoy his company, why would I offer a discount? 3. I ask for money upfront at the beginning of the month, so I won't fall victim to a scam. Why should he trust me, besides the above? Because if I screw up, I've lost a very valuable client. Why lose many months or even many years of income just so I can get one month of income free? That would be very stupid! I think the first point is the most important one. These relationships are built on trust. If a client thought I was untrustworthy and lacked integrity, I would not be interested in entering a retainer relationship with him. Additional Comments: I think any judge or court would laugh at "I paid her for sex and she didn't deliver!!!" Sex work is not viewed as legitimate work, and I don't believe sexual services are viewed as a legitimate service.

Absolutely correct. I appreciate the candor and openness shown in the posts by the members on this board. I probably learn more from the posts that I disagree with, than from those that share my point of view. That's a good thing for me. Overall, a very constructive, sex-positive environment that enlightens and educates me a bit more every time I log on. Plus I can see hot pics of real people and cyber-flirt with them... Another board (nameless) that I belong to has degenerated with posts that are more-or-less borderline misogynistic rants, rife with frustration and negativity. Bad scene over there, so I spend more and more time with this little community.