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People seem to often believe that sex workers, regardless of sector, lure faithful husbands away from their wives, corrupting them and ruining families. This is not something I would know on my own, as I have no experience, but after talking with several clients, I think we may actually save marriages. I've been told that many men, after being married for many years and dealing with the stresses of kids, money, etc. lose the intimacy and sexuality they once experienced with their wives. I understand how difficult it can be to be passionate with each other when the kids are acting up all day and you disagree about finances (who doesn't?). I believe that intimacy, human touch, and sexual experience is a basic human need that is required to live a happy life. When this is lacking in a marriage, men may feeling resentful towards their wives for not taking care of them in this way. Though the marriage itself may be functional, happy, and overall fulfilling, this void can be a huge strain on a marriage. My clients have told me that when they see me and their intimate/touch/sexual needs are met, they go home to their wives in a new light. They don't feel resentful. They don't feel unfulfilled. The void has been filled. They love their wives and are ready to continue being life partners and doing all the things life partners do together. I know this experience may not be that of everyone, or even most of you, but it was a perspective I thought was interesting enough to share. I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Megan

I prefer to see someone that I'd enjoy spending time with.....clothed. Peace MG

You know those moments when you wish you could have a mulligan on your life and go back to the start knowing what you know now? My kids would be the reason that I would never want to start absolutely fresh. If there was even the most remote chance that my kids would never have been born, or would have been different... it would be the end of me. I don't live for my kids, and my kids have quite an independent life a few hundred kilometers away, but when I see them, when I am near them, when I talk to them I always know that there is someone in the world that loves me unconditionally and that love is returned in the same way. I am so happy to be a father, but even happier to be daddy.

I think the concept of homewrecker is another example of passing off responsibility onto someone who shouldn't bear responsibility. Any moral judgements, and I'm not making any, so parden my use of what can be judgemental terms should be about the husband cheating on his wife. And he would cheat irrespective of which SP he saw. If one retired, he'd see another IMHO (and seriously, no judgements here, no one knows anyones personal life, and no one here is in a position to judge) If a married man sees a SP or has an affair, shouldn't he bear the responsibility for not being faithful. Also with an affair, isn't there a real risk of emotional attachment to the lady he is seeing, whereas seeing an SP, the attachment is less emotional (ie not in love) and less risk of a husband leaving his wife over an SP, because at the end of the day, the SP/Client relationship is based on the lady being compensated financially for her time, without the expectation of the man leaving his wife and marrying her My quick rambling RG

For me it is very simple. Please don't lie to me. Omission of detail and purposefully deciding not to share something is fair, genuine, and polite and will be respectfully received. It works both ways, for me.

@ JuliasUndies - tried to give you rep points but apparently I have to spread the love! My favorite part of the "baby" phase is the bums! So cute and perferct! Fresh out of the bath, smelling like Johnsons babiness. I would lay them on a towel and massage them from head to toe and they would smile then go limp. Put their diaper and onesie on then it was boobie time! A big blanket on the couch with some mood lighting and the right music (Bob Marley was my groove for nursing). I could spend hours nursing, holding them close and just smelling them... cat

To all the Ladies and Gents on CERB: Mark your calendars for Thursday, December 8th as the date for the Christmas Social being hosted in Ottawa by yours truly and Old Dog. More info will be posted in November regarding ticket sales for the Gents and Agencies (cost and number of tickets we will be selling), venue, etc. Please note that this is NOT a Cerb sponsored party so please do not bother the Mod about this upcoming event. For discretion purposes, this event is only open ONLY to Cerb members, regardless of what part of the country you are from. Out-of-town members and touring ladies are most welcome. The dress code for this event will be business-casual or Christmas wear. No micro-minis or t-shirts or ripped jeans please. I will be taking care of both e-mail money transfer and cash payments. Tickets will be available the first week of November. At previous socials, we had some generous benefactors for door prizes, so if anyone is so inclined to contribute to this one, donations of gift cards of any denomination would be welcomed. Hope to see some old familiar faces and new ones of course at the next social. Remember Ladies - If you are an SP/MA member of CERB, there is no cost for you to attend. Agency owners may also attend (with paid ticket) and are welcome to bring along up to a maximum of 4 ladies this time (for free of course).

Dear MA Connoisseurs, This is something I've always wondered about, but I feel it's too personal to ask anyone specifically. If you find this question intrusive, please carry on :) When you are with an MA, are you just enjoying the moment, the fact that a beautiful woman is slipping and sliding all over you and touching you, or are you actually fantasizing about other things, like oral or intercourse? Sincerely, A curious Megan

Sp's cannot save a relationship, only the two involved in the relationship can do that, Sp's can do their job and do it well, the rest is up to them. I understand that it's more of the idea that there was an outlet for a troubled man and made him feel different and better more able to face certain diminished factors in a relationship. If going to an SP saved the man behind the relationship then your good idea of going to the SP saved the relationship, not the SP herself. What if going to the SP ruined the marriage, then we would be home wreckers? We're trying to defend our name here and by doing one, we can do the other. No one says golf saved their relationship. A relationship is about what you are willing to sacrifice or give up not what you want to get or give each other, and if circumstances arise that the partners are not able or willing to fulfill the sexual desires of the other at that time for whatever reasons, death, hormones, sickness, stress...Then that's a sacrifice one should be willing to make for the other. If one partner chooses to search outside the marriage for answers without permission and get caught than they have wrecked their own home. We need to give ourselves some credit where credit is due and if you saved your marriage be it golf or an SP, good for you!

I am of the mindset that if a man is not getting his sexual needed fulfilled at home and sees paid companions to fill the void, he will in turn be able to concentrate on being a better husband and father. Period.

The idea that an SP or MA can be seen as a homewrecker is morally and intellectually lazy. People (neither men nor and women) wander unless they feel they have a reason to. As Emily stated previously, no one forces people to see an SP or an MA. Why is the person in question even looking? Calling other people homewrekcers, whether they be members of the sex industry or someone a person winds up having an affair with, is just another way to remove responsibility for either the problem or the solution from oneself. If a man seeks out and enjoys both the physical and emotional company of a another woman, there is a reason he is looking and that's what's "wrecking" the "home."

I've had women give me compliments that are clearly not true. Frankly I find that a real turn off. In person, as on cerb, "If you don't have anything nice to say..please don't say anything at all." Also, if I ask a question of a lady that is too personal, I would much prefer that she simply tell me that she isn't comfortable sharing that information. I am happy to respect her privacy. Please don't make up a lie in order to simply answer the question.

I don't really like assigning guilt in relationships. I'm not a relationship judge, we don't live in relationship court. I almost see a relationship as a seperate entity from the people involved if you get what I'm saying. When it's not working, it's not that it's "sombody's fault" or that one person is "the bad guy". There's usually no good guy or bad guy, or at least it's not productive to think of it that way. It's just two (or more) people in something that isn't working because it's not making them happy. It's the relationship that either needs to be fixed, redefined, or abandoned not the people.

It's taken me more than a year to see Roksi. Not for lack of trying. It just seems that life and circumstances conspired to keep us apart. Finally, last week, we met for the first time. The wait was well worth it. I had arranged a 9 AM breakfast rendezvous... my preferred appointment time. Making my way up to her room, I contemplated one last time what it might be like to have Roksi for breakfast. As she opened the door and I stepped inside, there standing before me, looking seductively demure, was the girl of my dreams. Picture perfect too! Wearing the same pink bikini featured in her recently posted (new) indy pics, Roksi looked like she had just stepped out from one of them. Beautifully shaped, toned and nearly flawless, I could see immediately that her photographer must have had a very easy time with her touch-ups. Still trying to convince myself that I was no longer dreaming, reality landed with a 'smack" as we embraced for a warm hug and a sweet-tasting kiss. For the first time I was able to look into Roksi's sparkling and slightly mischievous Irish eyes. What a beautiful woman. After a quick shower and some chit-chat, we got comfortable on the bed and began what became nearly an hour of mutual exploration and exhilarating lovemaking. I soon discovered Roksi's eyes betrayed her slightly mischievous nature and her penchant for playful teasing. Our fun physical session was sprinkled liberally with naughty quips and sexy banter. Knowing this was my first taste of Irish Cream, one by one, as I acquainted myself with her more intimate charms, she would ask me whether I liked her Irish "this" or Irish "that". A very fun down-to-earth girl. A sweet lass indeed. While Roksi appreciated the attention I gave her, it was soon deliriously apparent to me that "giving" is a turn-on for her too. Her oral skills are among the best I have ever received. I especially enjoyed the way she seemed to relish playing with me; commenting whenever she could feel me responding to her actions. With Roksi there is lots of eye contact. It was as though she took delight in watching me twitch at every flick of her deft tongue and writhe each time her eager mouth slowly engulfed a part of me. I could have easily spent the entire session at the mercy of her talented hands and mouth. I could have, but I didn't, because that would have meant forfeiting the rock'n finish we eventually shared. Face-to-face, missionary style, gazing into her beautiful smiling eyes and kissing her soft delectable lips (now aroused, they were feeling slightly fuller). Magnificent. Afterwards, a little pillow talk, where I gained further appreciation of this woman's intellect and ambition. It turned me on just listening to her and looking at her gorgeous face. I was ready to start over again, but alas, time was up... past due in fact. When we began, Roksi had "warned" me there would be no going back after getting a taste of Ireland. A wee bit of tongue-in-cheek, yes, but certainly prophetic of my intention now for many repeat visits to see this gem from the Emerald Isle. Thank you Roksi. Once again I find myself dreaming about you. However, this time it is about next time. See you again soon.

My breasts are very complimentaly to my slim and athletic body. Due to many years in competive Bodybuilding my breast tissue went away with my bodyfat. Enen though I do not compete anymore I was never going to have the breasts I once had. I just put back exaclty what I had. My breasts are very natural looking and even better they feel exactly the same as natural. In fact people can't believe it when I tell them I have had enhancement. Of course at the end of the day we all need to do what is best for ourselves and I so happy we can all make that choice. We are all beautiful and unique and breasts or no breasts that is very small part of who we are !

Absolutly, if I have permission to call a clinet I do so at the exact minute I was instructed to do you. If I am five minutes late I lose. I would way rather miss talking than put my client in a position of feeling insecure and even worse having to explain to his S O. This is just bad for everyone involved. This is why we can PM each other. Yes sometimes we can miss a date but how important is this when we think of the consequence our client may have to face. We are here to make our clients life just a little nicer, never to hurt or make then have to answer questions that didn't need to be asked in the first place.

Babies bring clarity to the confused life at times. It certainly did with me. Too young, to naive to know what I had done, but it made me what I am. They are extraordinary in every aspect and will change you in only for the better if you let them... cat

As it says at the top of the site: Cerb is not a review board - It is a recommendation board so if you do not have anything nice to say... Please don't say anything at all! This is rule #1 of the board. This is supposed to be a positive atmosphere. Yes it is open for civil discussion. But when people start to bash the site and make poor references then I agree with the Mod's decision to remove the comments.

I prefer to meet a SP that has her own personality, and authenticity. We all know that the relationship we have has the limit of SP-Hobbiest environment. I dont have any illusions on myself, and it would be a real turn off that a SP tries to flatter me ( too much, at least. lol) For one, I want to meet a real person, and I want to be considered accordingly.

I have always loved babies/kids and have been fortunate to spend lots of time around them. I also have always known I want to have children and I consider myself 'ready' for it more like I've always had the instinct but I'm in no rush as I know when the right time comes it will happen. As for the responsabilities and changes babies come with even though I am not a mom as I said have been around lots of kids and I'm ok with giving up some things in order to get others. Megan, I have seen many moms that did not plan their pregnancies and therefore were not ready and they are wonderful mothers so I think is not even about being ready and don't forget some may not have that maternal instict but when they see/feel their babies it just comes. As for the changing diapers and other stuff, is not that bad after the first couple of times lol

Chevrons :tongue:

thanks for your understanding and your comment{malika},sp's need to support one another,all the best,Cristy

I like kids but I never thought I had the maternal instinct. Having said that, yes, I have had kids. Unfortunately one has passed on and the other is now a teenager. I am the mother of a teenager! Did I just say that? lol. I guess I am not someone who goes around talking about kids all day long. I tend to keep my parts of my life separate and private. Prior to their arrival, I was so selfish and thought how am I going to be responsible for someone else? Once they are placed in your arms though some kind of weird chemistry kicks in and you become very protective. Things just fall into place and you do what you do. That's the easiest way I can describe it. I was never one of those parents who went crazy about parenting and the do and don'ts and I was never part of those mommy groups or watched those parenting shows. All of that stuff made me want to puke partly because I was a young mother, I still hadn't fully given up my social life, I worked and was also pursuing a post secondary education. I looked at all the more mature mothers and their whole lives revolved around what sound their kid made that day. That sort of thing still drives me crazy!! My worst fear as a young mother was turning into one of those frumpy matronly mothers who drove a mini van who stayed at home all day. My philosophy is that to be a good parent you have to have other interests than your kids. If you take care of yourself first, then you're more than capable to take care of others. Right now I am happy where I am. I am still young enough to have more children but the thought of it makes me tired. I don't think I could go through all of that again and my kid is used to being an only child. When I think of having another kid, I just say to myself that I will get a kitten because they are so pure and innocent like babies and are pretty much independent in the first 2 years. I dote on my cats like I do with my kid even though it drives my own kid crazy and even got jealous when I brought one cat home.lol. My kid has grown up to be a polite and caring young person and most importantly they are able to confide in me and trust me. They tell me about their friends and who they are interested in, etc and I appreciate that because I sure as hell would have never told my parents those things. I have been told I was the "cool mother". I tell them if you ever end up drinking or something at a party and you can't call anyone else, please call me. Even though I will be upset and there will be consequences, they know they count on me to be there and that I will still love them unconditionally no matter what they do. I don't try to control my kid's life and will let them make mistakes but step in if I realize they are about to make a big one. I can see how someone who doesn't have kids might think it's weird but once you have your own there is no going back and that maternal instinct WILL kick in. It's primal. I was there once. Everyone views children in a different light and we raise our children according to what we think is appropriate. Others are not interested in having children and that is a choice I respect and would never try to debate it. I don't find that weird that people don't want them. It's a personal choice. A lot of personal sacrifices are made when we have children and some people are willing to give things up. Not everyone wants to have kids and some are just not cut out for it. My advice is if you want to have kids and you worry that you're not going to have that maternal instinct.. don't sweat it. Just let it happen naturally and things will fall into place how you want them to by your own rules. Most people know themselves well enough to know whether or not that they want kids.

I love babies, I wish that I had more than the one child. Obviously if he is the only one I ever have, than I'm good with that and despite that fact we don't always get along he's all I've got so I wouldn't trade him for the world. That being said, I would still love to have more children. I may be 40, but wish I could have a couple more. Babies are fantastic, don't care about changing diapers, they're just amazing!!!

I like babies, not as much as the women that I work with who will drop everything to go hold, couchie coo and oogle over any new baby that comes into our work area.( lots do). I'm O.K. with that too, because what follows is little children. Little children are a blessing to the world. They are cuite , honesty and refeshing. Most can wipe their own bums , but if they can't and you are get pressed into service , consider it training. After that comes childhood and if you do this correctly it helps to keep you young. Then the teenage years and you just have to remember, they are individual that you don't control you just help to guide into adulthood. If you did all of that in a more or less descent manner you can be proud of the outcome and they just might bless you with a grandchild; and that is even more fun and less work and comes at a time when you could use more fun and less work. I'm waiting for my second one , but that is something I don't controle: AND that is the point of children. They are put on this earth to show you that you are not the center of the universe. Remember they don't have to be your own children though. Save some love for all the children of the world

Thanksgiving Poem TWAS THE NIGHT OF THANKSGIVING,BUT I JUST COULDN'T SLEEP. I TRIED COUNTING BACKWARDS,I TRIED COUNTING SHEEP. THE LEFTOVERS BECKONED THE DARK MEAT AND WHITE, BUT I FOUGHT THE TEMPTATION WITH ALL OF MY MIGHT. TOSSING AND TURNING WITH ANTICIPATION, THE THOUGHT OF A SNACK BECAME INFATUATION. SO, I RACED TO THE KITCHEN, FLUNG OPEN THE DOOR, AND GAZED AT THE FRIDGE, FULL OF GOODIES GALORE. GOBBLED UP TURKEY AND BUTTERED POTATOES, PICKLES AND CARROTS, BEANS AND TOMATOES. I FELT MYSELF SWELLING SO PLUMP AND SO ROUND, 'TIL ALL OF A SUDDEN, I ROSE OFF THE GROUND. I CRASHED THROUGH THE CEILING, FLOATING INTO THE SKY,WITH A MOUTHFUL OF PUDDING AND A HANDFUL OF PIE. BUT, I MANAGED TO YELL AS I SOARED PAST THE TREES.... HAPPY EATING TO ALL PASS THE CRANBERRIES, PLEASE. MAY YOUR STUFFING BE TASTY, MAY YOUR TURKEY BE PLUMP. MAY YOUR POTATOES 'N GRAVY HAVE NARY A LUMP. MAY YOUR YAMS BE YUMMY. MAY YOUR PIES TAKE THE PRIZE, MAY YOUR THANKSGIVING DINNER STAY OFF OF YOUR THIGHS.

Harder! Faster! Deeper! ;)

She's a 10+ in my books, in looks and service. I saw her again this week. Amazing. -Inspired blowjobs ;) -Awesome body. -Tons of fun to be with, laughter and pleasure. Great!!!

You can NOW hide your profile. This feature is in your UserCP area now. I have turned back on the RECENT VISITORS system and if you don't want certain people to see it just block everyone from your profile and only let select few view your profile.

So, he's supposed to write some introduction first before he asks his question? That's bullsh. If the guy wants to know who offers or is into face-fucking, and he wants to post a general request rather than search through a ton of websites and so forth, that is his perogative and I really don't see what the big deal is. We're not little kids. Face-fucking really doesn't require that much trust, even if the guy is holding your head. You know why? Because he's got his dick IN YOUR MOUTH. It goes too far or it goes south or whatever, just fucking bite it off. He won't be holding your head or ramming his dick down your throat then, will he?

For myself the answer a few years ago was to go with "Enhanced". I found that gravity had taken a bit of effect on mine and they just were not as full as they were. I didn't want to have the same look as I did when I was a teen - it wouldn't match the rest of me! :icon_smile: I feel fortunate that I was a small c to begin so mine feel very real (many a gent has been surprised to discover that I had made an addition)! I don't mind the $$ for the continued care of them, just the pain! But it is worth it for me. At the end of the day, I had it done because I wanted to be quite chesty - I have always found it feminine and attractive. I think there are so very many sexy looks and feels...I have a friend who is very slim on the bottom and has big fake melons on top! Eye catching? You bet! But some people like that sexy comic book character look - I know I enjoy the eye candy! :bigclap: