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After clicking the "Reputation for this post" area and the entry box pops up, sometime, at least on my system, when you start to type the box disappears. I've found a work around. Instead of clicking "Reputation for this post", right-click it and select either "Open in new tab" or "Open in in window". The entry box then opens in it's own tab/window, and you can type & submit it. A weird screen follows, but that's OK, you can just close the tab/window.

People in this industry often think that they are falling in love with an SP, but in my opinion it is more probably a strong like with an intense lust. Love is something extremely intense...so as lust. There are often confuse in my eyes... if you see a lady on a regular base, you may get to know her better then her other customers or even regulars, but hell...I am honest with people I see, I tell them real stories of the real me, anecdotes, share some feelings...it's all good, but I am not telling 25% of my life in reality I guess...how can you love someone that you probably don't even know the real name? or only discover it later? Lust for me is the feeling that push you to want to have sex(duh!) but also the passion of wanting to be with someone. Here is the thing...passion. Passion isn't love. It's an obsession, same as lust. Love is different...yes it can happen in this industry, but it will rarely last in my eyes. and all those randoms though...but as always, awesome story BirdBoy!

In light of needing to lift my spirits these days, I thought this would be a good thread to start. Basically, the way this will work is that everyone will post something they like about the person who posts before them. Even if you don't know the person, maybe a good suggestion is to look through their photos/posts or even commment on the very post before yours. Hopefully this thread will be ever-lasting and people will feel the ongoing love from their CERBies! Love and care for yourselves. Xo Sky

This maybe geared more towards SP's but feel free to chime in guys. I just want to get some opinions on SP expectations (maybe not the right word) of clients when it comes to physical appearance. Here's the situation: I'm the first to admit that i'm not Brad Pitt, a little out of shape, little bald spot, glasses but generally not a bad looking guy. Typically, not the guy that women/girls give a second look to. Basically every girls friend but that's it. Terrible shyness doesn't help the cause either. The only Sp experience i have is that i'd seen a local who now appears to be retired as i cannot get in contact anymore. She made me feel comfortable the first time so i went back a numerous times. But the more well respected local and numerous travelling girls are so attractive that i feel out of their league. Does a clients physical appearance matter more to a SP than a guy who is nice and respectful but slightly inexperienced? Any thoughts?

Just a thought about this concern about a lie of omission. Does everyone tell everyone else everything about their life. There are things I've shared with family, and only family, things I've shared with friends and only friends, and things shared here on CERB and with ladies, and things shared that overlap with family/friends/CERB-ladies...not to mention things that are kept to myself They really aren't lies of omission, we just allow, depending on the person, a glimpse into what makes us unique. Just because someone becomes a new friend doesn't entitle him/her to know everything about you, boundries must always be respected A quick rambling RG

Unless the ladies are in the industry they can never understand you. Woman can be jelouse of you, a lot of people have to work a whole week to make what you make in a day. If I could take it back (telling them), I would. We don't want to lie about what we do, because we want to have people that accept us for who we are..men accept me a lot more than females. It's hard to be accepted by someone that doesn't understand or have the slightest clue. I guess that's why a lot of people are close friends with their coworkers or people in the similar work. Sometimes in life, we want to just be a normal person without having our job come in the way of who we are. If I had it my way the question "what do you do" wouldn't exist.

To me, being an SP is like being in the mafia. You don't talk about it in an open manner... Separate friends for separate ocassions and you never let them be intertwined with one another. It really is no one's business. It's one of my multiple streams of income but doesn't consume my whole life either and it certainly isn't WHO I am.

To tan or not to tan. I love the color, glow and exotic. However the negative effects of tanning such as skin cancer and premature aging can't be ignored! I would recommend a spray tan, like the Mystic spray tan you will find at Itan studios around the city of Ottwa. itanstudios.com It's a great alternative to actually tanning without the adverse effects and you get instant tan line where ever you please.

I think your approach to the situation is appropriate Sophia. Telling your friends that you work in the sex industry is great! I think it's the best way to be and those who do not support you, are not friends at all! The fact that you don't want them to see your profile now that you have told them what you do is irrelevant. If they want to find you they will. As WIT pointed out, it only took him a second to find you online. I personally agree with you though Sophia, it's best not to hand out your SP name or where to find you to your friends. I have seen too many times in the past where SP's and MA's were exposed for what they do from broken friendships. Though I hope your new friends are not like that, best to be a little cautious about things with them.

The fact that I am an escort doesn't change the true person that I am. I just have more sex then my friends and probably make more money in less time then they do. Except for that...I am the same. Only few of my really close friends know what I do for a living, I told more people that I was dancing (they still think I do), it just seem that dancing is more socially acceptable then being an escort. I think it's a good idea to not tell them your stage name, your website and where you advertise, don't give them also your work phone...because as you said if you loose their friendships one day, they may be angry at you for one day and trash you with infos you gave them...and they may regret it after all their life.

I like whatever make a lady feel good about herself. The only caveat is tanning can lead to problems down the road.

Yes I think in your mind you should have clear definition of what your friends should know about you or not. So if you are comfortable telling them what you do, but not sharing all the information such as CERB stuff, that it is the right approach. Don't dilly dally on this though. If you tell one friend your CERB profile, and the other not, then it will come to bite you. Just be consistent. Don't give out your CERB profile to any of your friends.

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Beautiful, stunning... :she hot: If the media left her alone for a minute maybe she would be alright...

Wearing women's underwear. They're so soft and smooth but I never know which side is supposed to go over my face?

Well if I could I would edit the title. Ms Amelia is no longer at CMJ but has moved to ALO. I was lucky enough to get into see her last night. It was my first time at that spa but it may not be my last. Anyway, I don't want to repeat everything I have already written, it is all still true. I do want to add that she does give a great massage. I arrived last night after a fairly physical day, and she made my back feel like new again. I understand from what she was saying, she is even going to take some more training to improve those skills even more. Of course the stuff after fixing my back, only got better. The flip was amazing, sensual and built to an incredible finish. She is a gorgeous, charming, down to earth girl, and is well worth booking for a session.

I so dig Twitter and have been messing around on it for a while now. As a civilian, I have world events, graphic design and all sort of other topics of interest running by my screen in real time. It doesn't get much cooler than that! (although we know it will - I love technology!) As BA, it's where I post my latest pics even before I put them on my site. Check me out @BeautifulAnna

No worries SA, I made sure to vote on the first day! :D

Honestly, I have no preference. 5 choices in the poll and I luv em all :)

Fantasizing about Heather Vandeven :)

Watching Porn while using my Lelo toy(s) is the best mood lifter ( must admit 80% of my collection consists of Pirate Fetish Machine films) . Baking for hours wearing only heels with loud music ( maybe peaches or the cramps ),getting it all over me is the fun part :P I'll also admit to watching rediculous youtube videos such as Tom Green or Jenna Marbles.

I'm in the totally shaven camp.

Well for celebrations today, highlights included 6 pints and 6 strippers and a cab drive home ;) This lady here looked so much like a lady on stage today...yummy highlight And yes a redhead ...mmmmmmmm....

Ingredients 4 Granny Smith apples, cut in half 1/4 cup olive or canola oil 1 stick (8 tablespoons) unsalted cold butter, melted 8 tablespoons light brown sugar 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1/2 cup granola 1 pint vanilla ice cream 1/2 cup prepared caramel sauce, heated, optional Directions Heat the grill to medium. Place apples in a medium bowl and toss with the oil. Place the apples on the grill, cut-side down and grill until nicely browned. Flip the apples over and continue to grill until nicely browned on skin side. Remove from the grill and allow to cool briefly. Once they are cool enough to handle, core and cut the apples into wedges. Place the apple wedges into a bowl and toss with 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon, 4 tablespoons light brown sugar and 1/2 stick melted butter. In another bowl, toss together the remaining melted butter, cinnamon, light brown sugar and the granola. Place 1 large scoop of ice cream into 4 bowls and top with the apple mixture. Sprinkle the granola mixture over the top of the apple and drizzle with some of the caramel sauce, if using. Courtesy of Bobby Flay from the Food Network.

My expectation from clients are as follows: I don't care if you don't look like Brad Pitt. Actually I don't find Brad Pitt attractive. lol. What matters to me is politeness and hygeine. Because there is such an exchange of intimacy, cleanliness is imperative. The best thing to do is just be yourself, be kind/ considerate, hygenic, don't overstay your welcome and treat the SP/client relationship just as it is and you will be warmly welcomed.

Megan, I was gonna give you rep points, but I gotta spread the love!:icon_wink: For me, it's always been personality first. Even in my day to day personal life. I've always dated men based on the size of their heart, not bicep. If you're a gentleman, have a good sense of humour, and are kind hearted, you are at the top of my list. If you are good looking and rich, but a mean spirited person, I will most likely never even meet you. There is nothing worse than being as polite and generous as possible to a client, and having them act rude, cocky, or disrespectful in return. I generally never even think about the outward appearance of a client when making a date. As long as hygiene is in check and you are presentable, I'm happy. Also, I wanted to add that I think one of the amazing things ladies in this business have to offer is our genuine appreciation and recognition of kind hearted, good people. That we tend to not be as shallow and critical of men/women when it comes to what is important in a person. Just my thoughts. xox

As others have said, acting respectful, polite and interested, along with being clean and well dressed will address every concern. If you have a third eye in the middle of your head, or extra appendanges, or missing appendanges, or it you are extremely overweight ... well, you may want to mention something to the lady in advance to avoid any surprises.

no they don't check for them

Getting dirty text messages at work the last couple of days...my co-workers are wondering why I'm actually in a good mood for once!!!!

I'm in a course entitled Sex, Feminism and Globalization and I'm getting a lot of anti-porn, anti-bdsm feminism crammed down my throat. So my question to all the gents is this: Where did you learn what constituted acceptable sexual behaviour? Keep this quote in mind: "Pornography and its manifestations in popular culture are a major force shaping sexual behaviour in America. This is where men learn sexually appropriate behaviour and what women supposedly want sexually." Personally, I think that's utter horseshit. What about how your parents raised you, what you learned in school, what your friends told you, etc etc? Thoughts? While I agree that some pornography is problematic in that it portrays both sexes rather misleadingly (women are supposed to get wet instantly at the sight of a hard cock, guys are supposed to last forever because the only good sex is penetrative, etc) but rather than condemn the entire thing, if you have such an issue with how male and female sexuality is portrayed, why not try to make pornography more accurate? Probably because it's easier to just say, to hell with it, than to actually sit down and create some new porn. So guys, where'd you learn about sex?

People seem to often believe that sex workers, regardless of sector, lure faithful husbands away from their wives, corrupting them and ruining families. This is not something I would know on my own, as I have no experience, but after talking with several clients, I think we may actually save marriages. I've been told that many men, after being married for many years and dealing with the stresses of kids, money, etc. lose the intimacy and sexuality they once experienced with their wives. I understand how difficult it can be to be passionate with each other when the kids are acting up all day and you disagree about finances (who doesn't?). I believe that intimacy, human touch, and sexual experience is a basic human need that is required to live a happy life. When this is lacking in a marriage, men may feeling resentful towards their wives for not taking care of them in this way. Though the marriage itself may be functional, happy, and overall fulfilling, this void can be a huge strain on a marriage. My clients have told me that when they see me and their intimate/touch/sexual needs are met, they go home to their wives in a new light. They don't feel resentful. They don't feel unfulfilled. The void has been filled. They love their wives and are ready to continue being life partners and doing all the things life partners do together. I know this experience may not be that of everyone, or even most of you, but it was a perspective I thought was interesting enough to share. I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Megan

Sincerely straight or bi in 2011 there shouldn't be any tabou, humiliation or shame with the men who likes to receive strap on or prostate massage. I offered this service many times and many men who enjoy it find it normal, natural and very pleasurable. We live in a free world.