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At my age, any shot on goal is great. I am just happy that I can make it out to the rink and that the stick still has wood....

YES I DO!!! Unless there is a biological reason or reasons I am warned about at the start of the visit it will leave me unsettled after a guest has departed. Kind of like cutting the lawn without raking or trimming or washing up and leaving the dishes in the drainer. It just isn't "done", can't be ticked off the "to do list" without a twinge of guilt. It's ingrained in my work ethic and if it happens more than once with an established guest, we "have a little chat" about what I need to do to tweak the visits so that it works better for him. If it is unavoidable then the pressure is off and it's all good clean, messy, fun... cat

I can say I have gotten the second shot off in a half-hour. It's rare, but if you're feeling frisky and the SP is skilled, it happens. Then again, I've had an hour session where I couldn't get a shot off... moral of the story, don't see an SP if you're tired and super stressed. Do SP's feel dissappointed if the client doesn't get a shot off? In my case the SP was upset by it as if she did something wrong, It wasn't her, just me being tired, stressed, and biology. It happens.

I reaaaaaallly love having music playing while doing the deed. Doesn't matter what kind of music......well.....I might have problems with country and polka lol...but almost any music will do. When visiting a SP whatever music turns her on will do. When hosting a lady at my place I have a playlist, aptly titled "dirty", which I enjoy. But it's starting to get a little repetitive and I'm looking to switch it up a bit so looking for a few suggestions. Anyone else have a similar playlist or preferred songs that they like to get naughty to? In the spirit of sharing, my "dirty" playlist is as follows: 1)Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap - AC/DC 2) 3)Cruel - Tori Amos 4) 5) 6)Trash - Alice Cooper 7) 8 ) 9) 10)Tattooed Dancer-Ozzy Osbourne 11)Squealer-AC/DC 12) 13) 14) 15) 16)Hallowed Be My Name-My Life With The Thrill Kill Kult (can't find any link online for it) 17) 18 )Touch Too Much-AC/DC 19) 20)I'm Eighteen-Lorin Richards (again, can't find any link online) Looking forward to hearing your suggestions! :)

I like Mr Gump because he is a new member here and it is so nice to see his excitement at being able to post without delay. Cheers to new and positive members. Awesome.:) Additional Comments: I see I overlapped on Touch when I posted. I like Touch too because he comments on such a variety of things and I also like the word splooge. :)

I like people like MRGump who actually care about things like "not screwing up the order"! Touch

Hi Mrnice, I enjoyed The Ethical Slut and found it to be a good romp through polly thinking. I would have to say though that I did find it a little one sided toward the writers point of view. Have you read Opening Up? It's not quite as fun a read as The Ethical Slut but it does offer a more gentle view of polly. Both of these books complement each other well. Cheers Kay

Opening all of the windows to let in some fresh air only to smell manure about 20mins later. Ugg need to get some Febreeze. Not sure if all of Ottawa smells like this today but east end Orleans does...Blah!!!

I will offer MSOG in 30 minutes but only if the client requests it prior to meeting and they are certain they can acheive this since most would know if they are capable of this or not. The majority of my clients have one shot in a half hour and they are okay with that because of their busy schedules. I've also had people try to push the limit by attempting to stay longer without paying exta because they couldn't finish a second time in 30 minutes. By doing so, it's unfair for the SP to be put in this position especially if they have other obligations. I will remind clients who try and do this by letting them know their time is up jut after the 30 minute mark and if they'd like to book for a longer period of time. Normally my half hour encounters are mini versions to what I would offer in an hour. The client receives the same type of service in half the time especially where time constraints are concerned and they walk away satisfied. :)

I haven't read the book, but, isn't it perhaps a touch hypocritical for someone who deserves rightful recognition and respect for their chosen lifestyle (polyamory) judging someone else's (monogamy)? Both lifestyles should respected and accepted. As long as someone enjoys the choice they've made, all concerned parties respect each other and no one is harmed, nothing should be wrong with it. Maybe I'm misinterpreting the impressions and if so feel free to correct me but it seems like a small double standard from an author(s) who you seem to preach tolerance.

I would hope this lady was compensated for her time, as her actions had nothing to do with your decision to "bail". Kim

some peoplehave wet dreams.......but this guy had a serious problem about pipe dreams

I like Angela. She's not only a sexy chick, and a wonderful lady, she's one of my pm pen pals and friend RG

This video is strangely addictive... I hate that a strange part of me enjoys it so damn much ;)

writing Erotica in English. Fuck is it hard for me. at least it is good in French.

Dropped into Barb's Thursday afternoon (11/3) after a very timely post (thanks Reddog01!) suggested an ATF might be in attendance and found the place to be as quiet as I've ever seen it. To be fair, a number of the regulars were around and looking great on stage and a nearly deserted CR provided a relaxing atmosphere for an ATF encounter. On the other hand, Saturday (11/5) afternoon was really livelier than I've ever encountered on that day of the week - positively busy by 3:00 or so (although a bit subdued earlier) and it was a very blonde day at Barb's as well. On stage Kitty, Crystal, and blonde Mariah were noticeably gorgeous and enthusiastically received.

Here's a thought, why not throw out that mug and buy a new one RG

Nice to see that this thread has returned to civility, it was in danger of becoming a joke way too quickly... I would also like to point out that any SP who agrees to your request will likely have some additional security concerns, because she's putting herself in a more vulnerable position (no pun intended) than she usually might. So, if she ends up asking a lot of questions, don't be surprised - she's just trying to avoid getting gang-raped. If you're willing to be patient, it might be best if you saw her solo first, just to establish a bit of trust, and you can discuss the details of the three-way after she has an idea of how comfortable she is with you. She'll likely be a lot more willing to do this if she already knows you from a prior get-together, and even more so if she knows you're not abusive or too aggressive; after all, when men get horny, they sometimes push too hard, and might be inclined to be even more aggressive when there's another man in the room. Just be sure to take the SPs concerns into account when setting this up, you'll have a lot more fun if she's not concerned for her safety. For my part, I don't think I'd ever agree to see two brand-new clients at the same time; too many things could go wrong, and unless I know the guys pretty well, it could be anywhere from awkward to dangerous. On the other hand, one of the reasons I love doing duos is because other female SPs can enjoy certain things that are normally reserved for MMF threesomes; a MFT three-way has so many unique possibilities! ;)

The issue is that providers offering BBFS are putting both themselves and their clients at risk, and contributing to the harmful stereotypes that sex workers are vectors of disease and don't protect ourselves. It's not about whether or not the provider is comfortable offering it, or what you do in your personal life. If you offer BBFS there is no way to guarantee that your client is STD/HIV free. If you slept with boyfriends unprotected, and didn't catch anything, consider yourself lucky. It doesn't make you unclean, just careless.