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As I always have said I'm a visual creature, and I had just loved Emily's photo albums just recently posted. She is a MA with Paradise Spa, and today was her first day! I was quite pleased and happy to be her first client as well and her first of the day, as she said 'I popped her MA cherry' Emily is stunningly attractive, and really knew how to create sensuality,eroticism while we showered together,had some hot tub fun and of course the finale..the sensual massage. Emily did NOT need any assistance or training with another experienced lady of the spa, she was quite capable,and more then, capable of delivering one very fine hour time spent with a gorgeous lady. I will repeat no doubt about it, she is gorgeous,has a beautiful body (must of told her that several times) has an infectious smile and delivers a exploding finish to a great massage. Thanks Emily you certainly will be a sucess and Paradise Spa, Paradise has done a excellent job recruiting you. Oh here is some visual for you gents... And I just loved her perfect bum...she is amazing!!

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

Just curious how many of you out there are "legit" (as in you have a registered business and pay taxes and consider this job your "real job") and how you went about it. A friend and I were discussing the possibilities, and I am curious. If you don't want to reply so publicly, please feel free to inbox me. I am hoping to learn!

I think there are a few things to consider when talking natural vs implanted. I've been with women who have had large natural, small natural, soft feeling implants, hard feeling implants. I'm not an expert on the subject, but I imagine that the hard feeling implants are not necessarily intentional. And I will admit that of the 4 types I mentioned above they are the ones I prefer the least (that isn't to say that I dislike them though... I really likes me some boobies). This has been mentioned before, but even if a lot of guys are saying that they won't book with enhanced breasts, the fact is that you will likely get more attention after enhancement. I personally don't understand why the stated popular opinion is natural, when there's obviously a lot of guys out there who are fans of enhanced. I don't think that they should feel shame or guilt for what they enjoy. After all, that's why most of us are here right? To be able to express our preferences and follow our fantasies? In then end though, regardless of how we feel and regardless of your choice you should decide on what allows you to love yourself the most and what makes you feel most comfortable with your body. A sexy lady is a sexy lady and she is that because she has a certain level of confidence. If you're seriously considering doing this then I would HIGHLY recommend doing research on this and I'm not talking about just checking things out, I'm talking about finding out everything there is about enhancement, from the surgery, to after care, to possible side effects, to healing and so forth. There's also the fact that you need to consider the surgeon with which you will undergo the procedure. Let's face it, not every plastic surgeon is the same, some are likely very good at this and others not so much. I don't know for a fact, but I wouldn't be surprised if he could show you some examples of his work. You may want to discuss with some ladies who have already undergone this procedure, they may be willing to share their experiences and they may enlighten you to some aspects you may not have considered previously. In the end it all comes down to choice and your comfort level with making (or not making) that choice. From reading your posts you seem pretty set on doing it. And if that's the case and you really feel that that's what you need to do then I commend you on it. All I would suggest is again, that you make as informed a decision as possible and even once you've decided, to not rush to the closest surgeon who will do it for the cheapest price. This is definitely not one of those things you want to "get the best deal" on. If you decide to do it then you research should turn from "if" to "what's the best way to do it". This is a decision that you will likely need to live with for the foreseeable future and so making sure it's done right should be your primordial concern. Regardless of your decision thank you for being a sexy sexy lady :icon_cool:.

I think what is being missed is this...yes the ladies are companions, professional companions, meaning that they are seeing you in exchange for money...they are not in this profession to be asked out at a social level for a date. And at least for me, I'm not using this lifestyle to meet, date and marry the woman of my dreams. Yes, it is a very unique lifestyle. Very intimate, social and interpersonal, but the lady does so for monetary compensation. And underlying this is no strings. It is, or is supposed to be, a simple and uncomplicated arrangement. Expect any asking out to be considered by the lady as being asked out for a paid encounter, not a date at a social level And a SP, like every other person has a private personal life with friends. You are part of her professional life, and not part of her personal life Respect the boundries, don't assume because an SP is being intimate with you she wants a personal relationship with you, she is a professional companion RG

There's a beautiful song in Spanish, with lots of flamenco guitar flourishes, about the loss of a friendship. It goes "Something dies in the soul when a friend goes away." "Algo se muere en el alma, cuando un amigo se va." I wish this friend every happiness, truly, but I also know that I am diminished by losing her. The memories will remain, and will sustain. And I know that she'll flourish, and that thought relieves me. I wish her the best in all things.

So I bought my laptop tonight. Toshiba Satellite for about $500. I get home and guess who suddenly decides to start working again as if nothing ever happened??......I swear I really should murder the damn thing just out of spite now. Lol. Posted via Mobile Device

Begin legit is the proper way of doing things. It is very easy. Just the same as any self employed person. Claim your money as an entertainer. It is best to do it the proper way. In the future if you want to get a house, a new vehicle or open a business, then you can. As you can show where your money came from. There is nothing illegal about companionship.

Sometimes I can stay current with these posts and go on with my day and sometimes my imagination gets the better of me. As I read through the comments from all the beautiful providers regarding their thoughts and experiences with the sybian....I immediately lost all ability to concentrate. Now my day is totally shot. Wish it was Friday.

The awkward moment when you're having sex with a girl and her sister calls your cellphone for a booty call...

"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." -Winston Churchill

We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it - and stop there; lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove-lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove-lid again, and that is well; but also she will never sit down on a cold one anymore. -- Mark Twain

Personally I prefer bbbj, but that's me. I completely understand the SP's and/or clients who only go for cbj. And I don't think either the "cbj" or "bbbj" crowd should have any right to judge one or the other. To each their own. Of course there's a greater risk with bbbj over cbj. Bareback anything is a greater risk than covered anything. There's also a greater risk of catching something from DFK rather than a peck on the cheek. It's all about that particular person's comfort level and no one has a right to judge that. That is unless they're going all out with the BB...ie, BBFS. Then judge away. And as for......all this........really people? Am I missing something here? From reading HER posts and from chatting with HER at great length there is no doubt in my mind that SHE is all WOMAN. Pardon me for being blunt, but to anyone reading that post, it's clear that she meant that "IF" she were a man, she "WOULD" prefer bbbj. It's clear to anyone who wasn't purposely trying to start shit anyway. If I see a thread aimed at the ladies to determine if they prefer receiving manual stimulation or DATY....and, just for example, Old Dog comments that he thinks he would probably prefer DATY, I don't think anyone would suddenly start thinking he's a woman. It would be clear to everyone that he meant that IF he was a woman, he would prefer DATY. There would be no fuss, except for maybe one smartass comment from someone said as a joke, and taken as a joke, and that would be the end of it. So why shouldn't this be the case here? Why take a clear case of mistaken semantics to try and discredit someone for no reason? SHE doesn't even advertise here, so she poses no threat to you other ladies at all. What's wrong with someone, male or female, who simply wants to come here and get involved in the community? And she's been a valuable member of this community. Her posts are a pleasure to read and she's a pleasure to chat with. And I don't recall her ever having a negative word to say about anyone here. Does every woman here HAVE to advertise and get recommendations to be respected? Why try and create this kind of drama on cerb? This isn't the place for drama. There's another board that starts with a T that's better suited to this kind of BS. cerb openly accepts....with open arms....men, women, and the transgendered. No one would have any reason to come here and lie about their sex. And if I may be a little more candid. when I was going through a rough time and feeling very down in the dumps not so long ago Julia actually gave me her number via PM and said I could call her if I wanted to talk. That doesn't sound to me like something someone who is trying to hide the fact that they're a man would do. It's semantics people, that's all it was, nothing more, nothing less. Sorry for the rant but it pisses me off when people try and start this kind of shit on cerb. I, and I'm pretty sure everyone else here, hobby and come to cerb specifically to avoid exactly this kind of pointless drama. Julia doesn't deserve to be victim to it and we don't deserve to witness it. If you don't agree with her point of view on the bbbj topic, fine, express your difference in opinion. Cerb is nothing else if not a place to take in differing points of views. But don't try and slander her for no good reason.

I've been in relationships while escorting and even dated a client or two. While the other person was okay about it, i always felt a bit weird. I didn't discuss my work with them and I would leave it at the front door. Ultimately there were communication problems that didn't even involve my line of work so everything just went awry. Call me old fashioned but this time I'd rather do things the right way. If I end up finding Mr. Right and I truly love him ( and am not testing the waters or anything) I would leave this business without hesitation. And financially, escorting for some time now has been a side act with me. The way I see it if i really care about someone, I can't be screwing other guys. I think in my past relationships while escorting, I cared about them but wasn't "in love" with them and that's a huge difference for me. There was one client that I had a huge crush on and met him about 3 times. There was an instant attraction and chemistry there but I never saw him after that. I always wonder if he will call again. It was weird because I didn't know much about him and felt like that. That was not normal for me. I've always stayed within the boundaries unless the feelings were mutual. The crazy thing is he lives close to me and I see him around town all the time. My SP friend knocked some sense into me and told me he was just a client and to come back down to reality.lol. So I did and left it up to the universe to decide if he were to meet me again. I had to accept things the way they were. And as far as I know he is NOT a cerb member just in case someone else thought I was referring to them. lol. If I met a client and decided to take it to the next level, I'd probably give it a try but on a couple of conditions... he doesn't give me an ultimatum, he doesn't throw my job back in my face and he is not a possessive and controlling type of person. When I witness the above things, I run away... and fast!! Honesty and communication are big things for me and I'm a straight shooter kind of woman. If something is wrong, the other person will know about it. Many times I've heard guys saying they had dated SPs but they weren't willing to give up the money for the relationship. I'm in a position where I don't have to decide which is more important ( money is no longer the driving force for security) and I'm at a point in my life where I will be looking for someone in the near future. I am the kind of person where if my job is more important at a given time, I will not be looking for anyone because it does get complicated and I really don't need bullshit in my life. I do things on my terms and will leave the business on my terms but at the same time when i'm ready to look for a serious relationship then I will be ready to leave my job. It is very easy to find love in all the supposedly "wrong" places.

No way! Would you buy a huge fish tank and put your cat, cat's bed, food and toys inside and tell everyone who came over to check out the new cat fish you bought? (related note my friends may think I'm insane now) Posted via Mobile Device

On a recent visit to Barb's I met Sierra for the first time. Ultra-hot hard body, with beautiful thighs (I'm developing a thigh fixation as a result), and permanently erect nipples. Very, very sexy. Other notables; Shauna, Jessica, Missy, and one whose name I forget but who looks a lot like Lily Cole (minus the red hair). I'll have to check them out more closely later.

From personal experience, I know that there are a number of ladies over there that like girls as much (and in some cases more) than boys, so I'm not surprised. Not that there's anything wrong with that!

I had an amazing night at Barbs tonight. got a hot and heavy and balanced duo dance between my best guy friend and me at once by one lady. The girl was cute professional and payed equal attention to both me and my buddy. whats even more hot is that she was enthralled with how comfortable me and my friend were during the experience...thus adding to her comfort level with us. I wont name names in case she doesn't want to be reviwed as taking on "couples" but anyone who wants more info can PM me

Absolutely! The girls at Barb's are very high quality. The Champagne Rooms there are terrible, though--arranged like cattle pens or office cubicles with very narrow chairs.

I agree completely about strip clubs ... I frequent MPs and SPs, but I always come back to strip clubs. Its where I started in this hobby and there is something about the fantasy and the sexuality of being in a room full of scantily clad gorgeous women that can't be duplicated. And the possibility of sampling numerous offerings is always a plus. Yes, its pricey, but you're paying for a different sort of experience. I was at Barb's a few weeks ago and had some very sensual (although low mileage) dances from Kiki ... gorgeous latin woman (almost looked asian, but had a very spanish accent). definitely playboy material and some of the finest naturals I've seen in a while. Porthos

the challenge is to pick one up, and be able to take her home or to a motel for a private dance. Of course, forget trying to get high mileage in clubs in Ottawa. The by-law now stops that. Some champagne rooms even have video cameras now. Police spot checks are common place too.