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To be honest, in this community we all see some of the same people, so in answer to your question, yes some of us probably know the names of some of your clients/hobbyists. Sometimes people will post replies to questions or ideas that you may post about, take it with a grain of salt, read it and let it go. More than enough ladies and men have mentioned that the idea of this thread was not liked and at the end of the day it goes past what us ladies stand for...BEING DISCREET. Potential clients and existing clients want to know that there is discretion 110% of the time (before, during and after the encounter), by posting this thread you may have given some the wrong idea about how discreet you may be. If the men wish to compare one amazing ass to another let them, I hardly find it necessary to compare packages, what did you have to gain from this thread, I hardly find the subject a joking matter when ones privacy could be threatened. I will never discuss details about anyone I have ever met (unless they have harmed me) other than that the most important thing about being a companion is being discreet and keeping your clients details private. When you post on a public board, expect to hear replies you do not like, as you said everyone has an opinion.

I am out of the loop on this one, but understand what you mean Pete! I have made mistakes here on the board as well, I have learned from them ! When we screw up, we either learn from it and move on, or we will dwell and most likely repeat the mistake again. It is just a part of life and being apart of a community. As for Christmas spirit.......I have all year long. I am always helping people around me and those who are distant from me too. Just the other day I furnished an apartment for a young girl who has 2 small children and had nothing, I would do this anytime of year. One Christmas, I had visited Cuba( no Christmas there) I was curious if my " Christmas spirit" would fallow me there,. Sure enough, I awoke Christmas morning filled with love and generosity. There was one small run down Cathedral in Veradero, so I went to Christmas mass. There was a small young boy with an even smaller boy held in his arms. I knelt beside him in the peu, and slid ( 100 American dollars converted to Paso) into his tiny hands and told him to bring it to his mother and father right after mass. His dark brown eyes, filled with tears looked up at me. At that moment, I was hooked, I found so much joy in giving, that one moment changed my life for ever! I think if it is in your nature to be generous, then no matter what time of year, it will shine threw. So what IS Christmas spirit? It can be found in any cultural background, any religion...... LOVE and GENEROSITY can be shown in any culture, from any walk of life, and from any econimic standing! So weather you believe in Christan Christmas or other traditions, it is essentially all about LOVE and GENEROSITY. Think about it, what better time for our pioneers to share food, cloths for warmth, candles etc...but in the coldest and hardest time of the year( speaking about our environment here). Too bad we turned it into a consumer holiday tho, as it was in the past for making our winters just a little bit easier for our neighbors and family. To get a simple orange was a great treat in December!!

I agree. I've been a recent study in the Art of Conflict and communicating effectively. Understanding what the other is trying to say and accepting others opinions whether they agree with you or not, is not argumentative. It's actually the opposite and we can bicker effectively. It's human communication. I don't think the Christmas Spirit is what should encourage us to communicate effectively? Especially when we're a cultural community. I do celebrate and love this time of year but it doesn't have any impact on how I conduct myself or what I stand up for. I think everyone has learned something here communicating in this forum. However, I will always express myself whether it's agreed upon or not and from what I have seen, we're not too bad around here. As long as we are not attacking, it's bound to happen. I've seen very few threads of this nature and I don't think they're enough to raise an awareness. They're few and far between. Tempers will flare anywhere whether here, at the Office or now in the malls with the holiday hustle and bustle. It's how we understand others opinions even though not our own, not take things personally, be respectful and just not open a thread that may bring out an emotional reaction. Anger is the worst emotion to make us look silly or pulling tantrums when our opinions are not in agreement with the masses. Sometimes stepping away and coming back is what's needed for perspective and calming the storm. As Cat said on another touchy thread. Go eat some gummy bears and relaxxxxxxx...... There's no changing this and if we did, well, this place wouldn't be fun or expressive now would it? We're all originals and express our personalities differently. As humans, our flaws are what make us perfect. Happy Holidays everyone!

Honestly, I'm not a fan of recommendations, reviews or rating one another's various bits. Yeah, I know, the whole premise of this site is to recommend providers to each other, but I find that what works for me or makes me happy is personal, and might not appeal to someone else. Well, in principle anyways. I'm pretty vanilla. I'm more disturbed by rating body bits, whether they are male or female. I have a type I like: genealogy around my age or younger, slim, preferrably with a few tattoos. A nice tight butt. I'm not a boob guy, so I couldn't care less whether they are big or small, real or fake. I tend to prefer brunettes, as well, but it's not a hard fast rule. However. I can decide for myself whether I find someone attractive. I don't need to roll out a list of names and pictures of the ladies on here with nice asses. I enjoy the pictures, but I can definitely see how it is hurtful for one SP to see a bunch of immature banter about how a different SP has the "best" this or that. Great if you're the winner, not so much if you're not. I'm not hung like a horse. I don't really care. Much. But, I also don't want an open discussion amongst women I've met comparing my advantages and disadvantages with other providers and clients. That's hurtful too. And "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" is about as useful an excuse as "two wrongs make a right". If you don't like the "best of" threads, don't replicate them by creating your own. We all have different shapes, sizes, likes and dislikes. There's nothing "best" in any of that. Sent from my HTC EVO 3D X515a using Tapatalk

READ!!!! Don't book an appt and THEN ask for donation requirements, restrictions etc... I would say that most ladies either post their info in their ads and if not they include links to their websites. Some of us utilize the "about me" tab to explain as much as we can. Don't be lazy...get your ducks in a row and everyone will have a much more satisfying time!

This is wonderful, Angela and Old Dog. My best wishes to everyone attending. It would be a great time to extend welcome and acceptance to each other, and to renew or re-establish friendships. I wish I could be there. Have fun!

Surgery and hard work? Last time I checked there are penile implants and the procedure is far less invasive than breast implants. When it comes to hard work, I'm 5'2, no amount of hard work or dieting is going to give me the long, slender legs or bodacious booty that is depicited in 99% of the "best of" threads. Then there are the "natural vs. implants" thread that tells me the all natural is all mighty. But in reality it's only better if they are young, perky and firm. What about when the volumn disappears and the hang turns to swing? Still better than implants? This thread was started with a tongue in cheek (I think) and I understand why. I understand the fantasy vs. reality aspect and certainly respect mens need to be boys at times. I also believe it's important to remember that when taking things too seriously, life gets monotonous. I think anyone who took this topic seriously should take a bag full of gummy worms; go sit and watch something disgustingly silly and belly laugh for a bit. cat

Not on your life. Not this woman. As far as some people saying, "Well, that doesnt sound very fair." What is fair? In my relatationship it IS fair, and it is up to the two individuals in the relationship to decide what is fair for them. When I come home after spending time with a hobbyist I am bringing in something for the family. If he were to return home from hobbying empty handed, it is not the same thing at all. Business is business and personal play time is personal. I don't share.

I am talking about accidents. I recently got some news about someone relatively close being involved in a bad and unfortunate accident that had terrible consequences and it got me thinking a lot on how most of us are not careful enough to avoid something like that happening to us and I know you'll be thinking 'If accidents are unplanned how does this woman think they can be avoided?' Well, they can and the answer is in one word : prevention. So I will post a couple of links that I will invite you to check out whenever you have the opportunity and bookmark them as things mentioned there get easily forgotten and can save our lives. But before I post them I will ask you to please do not take anything for granted and do not make a common mistake most of us make often ... Thinking 'That would never happen to me.' Take care of yourselves and your beloved ones and those who have children please do not go thinking your kid would never touch that or do that because that is one main cause of accidents. So here are the links one is more focused to kids safety but they are both good, thanks to those who read my complete post ... Be safe :) xx http://www.unesco.org/education/educprog/ste/pdf_files/health/safety.pdf http://www.oh-pin.org/articles/pex-07-safety-and-accident-preve.pdf

As I was flying into the city this morning, I was thinking of all the little traditions that my family has each year. In my family we have a few: 1. enjoy seafood casserole so thick you can stand a spoon straight up, lol. 2. open 1 gift on Christmas Eve, always a pair of PJ's and house coat, not a favorite with most kids, but I LOVED IT!! 3. Christmas breakfast.....so much food!!! Almost bigger than dinner! 4. After Night time mass, we listened to the " Santa Report" on the drive home, of course only Mom and Dad could see his sleigh from the car window, lol 5. Boxing day, we have Acadian Poutine, old fashion style, with brown sugar, What are you traditions? Do you keep them alive and pass on to your kids too? Have you made new Traditions? I want to hear all about it:)

Did you know that Operation Red Nose discriminates against sex workers from their volunteers? If you have a charge for prostitution, you are banned from volunteering. Interestingly, if you have a charge for dangerous driving or driving under the influence, they will still consider your application!!! Read it here: http://operationnezrouge.com/en/documents/ottawa-form.pdf

Having run a few businesses and started 2 (currently operating very well)over a period of many years I can honestly say the best place to go and start a business is to talk to a Chatered Accountant (CA) or Certified Management Accountant (CMA) as a first step and not a book keeper. The money spent (and its not a lot) up front is not only well worth it in terms of efficient advice (time and money saver) but also in terms of credibility when you file with CCRA (i.e. less likely to get audited or questions asked) and it has a professional stamp on it. Not only that but when it comes time to seek credit as others have pointed out previously in this string, this will pay off huge when the CA puts a stamp on your "Normalized Income Statement" when you go to apply for credit at reputable financial institutions

Not sure if it was mentioned yet. WKRP in Cincinnati

I grew up in a larger family of 6 kids. A tradition I remember which has somewhat been lost was the Christmas Board Game. Mom/Dad would always have 1 gift under the tree for the '*' Family from Santa. It was the annual board game. After late breakfast it would eventually come out and a healthy competition would unfold for the afternoon. Good games like Stock Ticker were only 'paused' during dinner and then continued late into the night. Wow, many years ago. Cub Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks Megan! When I decided to include the Red Nose Operation banner along with a link to their website in my signature it was simply to remind people that they have alternatives to drinking and driving during the holiday season. I also chose this particular service because it is available in multiple cities across Canada. Cheers everyone and don't drink and drive! Gabriella xox

well first of all I hope you enjoy your Ottawa visit Sophia!! I have a tradition I share with my family and has been passed down through the years. My family spends Christmas eve socializing with loved,ones while champagne flows,and we do photos of the grandchildren,and the older generations,as we never know when the last is to come. Then we play darts(I am top dog of my family hehe) Followed my more drinks,then to the family presents! We unwrap a gift from one distant family member,before we head to midnight mass, at my grandfathers church(depending on which family I am visiting that year) it is always an emotional fulfillment to see,the entire family together chatting about our lives,and drama in it lmao! I wish everyone a sincere happy,healthy holidays. Stay safe and healthy! See you all in the new year :)

Wow, such great enthusiasm and support for this event. Remember, for those of you attending, you need to bring an unwrapped toy for a boy or girl. (No replica guns please). This will be dropped off by volunteers to the nearest Firehall for distribution by Salvation Army to those in need. If you can't manage to acquire a toy, we will have a donation jar onsite with proceeds going to a needy family consisting of a single dad and two children (boy, age 5, size 7 clothes, 13 shoes and girl, age 4, size 5 clothes, size 10 shoes). They need everything from clothing to household items. Remember to keep the car at home if you're planning on drinking and bring your smile and manners with you. Keep it safe for all! Respectfully yours, Angela :grin: and Old Dog 8)

...discovering that the weekend is one hell of a lot shorter when Friday night lasts into the wee hours of Saturday....

the real flashback.... 1974 - The Canadian Allstars featuring Skinny Minnie Miller, Diane Syverson and Paul the Pear Rupert vs the Liberators.....

Roller Derby well heres a flashback to the past RG

I don't think I've ever had so many mixed emotions as the result of an ad before. But, if it get more guys checking and to the doctor, don't see much harm.

Are some of the Own Wall Street protesters spoiled and naieve? Absolutely. Do some of them need a harsh reality check? Without a doubt. But the sweeping generalization that they are all lazy spoiled rich lids is naieve as well. At the heart of the movement is corporate greed and corruption, behaviour which lead to the great economic meltdown that the world is still wrestling with. And it also needs mentioning that every generation views the following with a thinly veiled sense of contempt and every generation feels the next one, their children no less, is lazy and stupid and will be the end of the world. Our parents thought it about of us (even if they won't admit it), and they're parents thought the same thing about them and so on. Remember when the powers that be wanted to ba rock and roll because they feared it would lead the impressionable youth astray? Remember when they said the same thing about sexual liberty? And what did the middle agers say about the kids protesting the Vietnam War, a conflict seen as senseless and stupid today but was embraced by some many people during the day? It goes on and on. I'd even wager that even Bill's parents thought he was a lazy slacker when he was in college, for no other reason then because he didn't have to face the same struggles they did when he was growing up.

Sounds... entertaining. I have to ask, though - is this traditionally done on the last day of February, for Feb 29th? It won't matter this time around, but... Also - does the infamous FB BBM agency really need further encouragement? :)

I would take Emma's suggestion.

"There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting paid companionship, or even sex, for awhile." Samantha Evans

Wow, do I hear ya Sunshine ! So jealous ! Sounds like toooo much fun :) To make matters worse, the reason I wasn't going was a "can't miss" company function because execs were coming from out of town. Got home late last night, checked my email and it was postponed !! Booo. Couldn't sleep !! Anywhoo, I hope you all have a blast as well ! Enjoy and be Merry! You have fantastic organizers who obviously know how to throw a party ... Sold out ! Guys, if you wouldn't mind, give Angela a big hug and a kiss for me ;) Ladies, give Old Dog a .....well nevermind...watch out for Old Dog ;) Have Fun !!!! Soleil, we will need to get together and once you show me your finger and toe hidden talents you talk about, we can perhaps plan a trip to the Valentines social....I don't like to fly alone .

I don't even read this thread anymore because I'm so jealous of everyone that's going. Have a blast everyone! I hope to catch the next one. Fingers and toes crossed! (that's one of my talents btw) :)

I agree with you Pete. I've seen a lot of threads go bad in the last year or so for no good reason. I really hope people make an effort to understand others points of view and exercise tolerance if those views are different than their own. Lets keep things positive in the CERB family tradition.

Being in this business means we have to be more confident and thick skinned. We have to accept people for who they are ...and thankfully through recos and best of ads we get to know people..we can then decide if we would like to be a companion of theirs. We don't have to agree to see everyone that asks to see us. That being said some will compare us, praise us,berate us. We can't like everything that is said about us but we can still stand proud because we are ladies. Comparing gents packages isn't part of our work...it would be disrespectful and lets face it mean. If we don't like to see us being compared to others or the best of threads then don't look at them. I don't...i am who i am and i'm happy. This site is for men to get to know who we are. The men are here to find a lady that meets their taste not to be compared to other men. WE have to in this job mind our manners,be respectful and most of all discrete and trustworthy. comparing packages isn't any of those things. Emma

It's been said before by others, but I will reiterate. We're in the business of being discreet. If you can't keep your mouth shut about which guys have the best package, what else are you going to let slip? Writing a review, or posting photos in a "best of" thread are totally different things--that is, the client/hobbyist chooses to participate in those--he's not outed by a third party.

I know you meant no harm CC with this post. But I want to state how I view this topic. Many times I see a gentlemen, and you can see he has a lowered self esteem for whatever reason. Perhaps his home life is unhappy, or he is just not good with the ladies, perhaps he is not as handsome as his peers, whatever the reason. I truly want to help this gentlemen feel like a man! I want him to leave me feeling like a king, on top of the world! I have had several dates that look at me with tears in the eyes, because they do not feel worthy of love and tenderness. I have had one say he felt like he didn't matter to this world, but after being with me, felt so good about himself, with his head held high! This to me is the most rewarding aspect to this industry! I would not want to further damage their self perspective by voting on this type of post. But do not feel bad CC, I know your a kind and sweet person, perhaps just a bit new to this. But I think you see how something like this is a bit too sensitive for discussion.

Living I have forgiven unforgivable mistakes, I have replaced irreplaceable people, And forgotten unforgettable ones, I have acted on impulse, I have been deceived by people Who I thought incapable of deceit, But I also deceived someone. I've held to protect, Laughed when I shouldn't have, I have made lifetime friends, I have loved and have been loved, But I have also been rejected, I have been loved but were not able to love back. I have screamed and jumped of joy, I have lived of love and made eternal oaths, I've had my heart broken ... So many times! I have cried listening to music and looking at pictures, I have called someone just to hear their voice, I have fallen in love with a smile, I even thought that I was dying from nostalgia. I have been scared of losing someone special, That I did end up losing, But I did survive and I continue living! I am not just passing through life, And you shouldn't either ... LIVE!!! The best thing in life is to fight with persuasion and motivation, To embrace life and live with passion, To lose with class and overcome with courage, Because the world belongs to those who dare. And ... Life is worth much like to be insignificant :)

Begin legit is the proper way of doing things. It is very easy. Just the same as any self employed person. Claim your money as an entertainer. It is best to do it the proper way. In the future if you want to get a house, a new vehicle or open a business, then you can. As you can show where your money came from. There is nothing illegal about companionship.

I second Kianna. I see no connection between Christmas Spirit and free speech. I think respect is always expected here not only during a certain season. I read the threads I think the OP is referring to and all I saw were concerns about someone's identity and a bit of a disagreement with a response someone made to a post. It was not the first time and I doubt it will be the last and the ones that brought that up may or may have not been right but I think they were respectful. Bottom line IMO one should always feel free to express his/her POV even if a dscussion comes out of it as long as done with respect. Something else that we should keep in mind is that most of the time someone questioning our views on something or a omment we made is nothing personal against us but something about that sitution moving him and have him ask, nothing wrong with that. Just my opinion on the topic, hope I'm not ofending anyone and hope I'm explaining myself, had it more clear earlier but lost all I typed :(

FYI: I will be replying to thoughtless and poorly worded or ridiculous PMs like the canned reply below from nowon. Providers- now might be time to add a similar "canned reply" to your list, here is my latest one inspired today by a less than intriguing PM I received that simply said: "Daimmmm, you look delicious; do you offer anything extra beside massage? Thnx Namexxxx" _____________________ Canned Reply Title: Ummmm, hi. Ummm, hi. You may want to reconsider your approach to the ladies on this board... Perhaps consider doing a little research before sending your next message to a lady, your PM was not very respectful--remember, as in most facets of life, a little class is important! Please don't take this the wrong way, just trying to save you some trouble... Read the "New to this?" posts, you can learn proper nettiquette and the more gentlemanly approach to introducing yourself to a lady, especially read this one: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=49600 Good luck! Bethany Xoxox ___________ I sincerely hope together we can educate the newbies toward more respectful and appealing approaches to us, ignoring them is so much easier, but everyone has to learn sometime! Thoughts? Bethany Xoxox

And about ducks.... as open minded as many providers are, ducks are rather off putting for nearly all of them. Believe me. It pretty much applies to all water fowl. Don't think it would be cute to bring a duck, a goose, a gull, a tern or a sand piper. Sea creatures in general -like seals, walrussesesessessses, mollusks, narwhals, octopi, squid and eels - keep them in the safety of your own bedroom. Just helping out... carry on.

If you can still perform well when you're with a woman--and particularly when you masturbate--you don't need the little blue pill (Viagra) or any of its substitutes. Don't fall into the trap of taking meds you don't need and don't try to fix what ain't broken! :icon_wink: It sounds to me like you're needing something that's not usually available from a paid companion. You might take some time to ask yourself what it is you feel you really, truly, deeply want and need from another person in your life. You don't say whether you're married or in a steady relationship, but if you are, it could be that some of your needs there aren't being fulfilled. If your partner is going through a difficult time and you're having to carry a bigger share of the load without getting a lot back from her, right now, you may be feeling emotionally drained and physically tired. If you're single, it could be that you want more non-sexual companionship as in social connection, or a relationship based on shared interests and activities. Maybe the certainty of an encounter with a paid companion is no longer what you need; dating, with all its pitfalls, uncertainties and realities can be a joyous thing in part because the outcome is not so certain. Maybe you need to know that the woman you're with is there because she wants to be with you and not because you've paid her for her time and attention. We companions often say that we're paid to go away. Maybe you want someone who might be able to stay for a long time. Maybe, for a little while, it would be better for you to get lots of good exercise, be sure to eat a healthy diet and get plenty of sleep. It's surprising how often attending to these things can improve how we feel about everything in our lives. Whatever you feel, trust that feeling and listen to your own heart. There's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting paid companionship, or even sex, for awhile! But if it seems that you don't feel you want want anything, or that you don't find pleasure in the things that used to delight you, please do talk to your doctor. Anhedonia (the loss of joy in life) is a symptom of depression. Depression is treatable, but when it's ignored, can cause serious problems in your life and at times may become life-threatening.