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I think every situation needs to be treated differently. If you have to cancel for work or other emergency its not a problem for me even same day. If this happens with the same client a lot then I would ask for a cancellation fee if its the day of the date. If you don't call and don't show up I will ask for my full donation as I did get ready and sit and wait for you. If a client refuses and doesn't understand this I will not see you again. Sorry but I spent at least two hours getting my home and myself ready for you and I believe this is fair.

This is what makes it hard for us,so many have said they like casual,which is fine but you like sexy,which is fine,I guess the best thing to do is ask the client how he would like his lady to appear,which is what I do ,lol,but most say it doesn't matter.I like to dress up ,dress down,so guys let us know when you book that way we are all happy:icon_biggrin:

Great topic! Once upon a time when working for an agency in BC, they had a dress code of lingere and heels. I'm not big on high heels, never have been. And I always thought it did take away somewhat from the fun of disrobing. Sensuality is heightened with anticipation. That's why the sexiest women know not to show too much, but rather let the imagination take over. Men like to imagine stuff. And then to discover it for themselves.... Woops... just realized this was for Nova Scotia! Hope I didn't annoy anyone posting here :S Maybe I should switch from tea to coffee...

I actually prefer it when women are fully dressed when they answer the door. It's like unwrapping a gift when it's playtime! I find a very well dressed woman to be extremely intoxicating actually.

Lately i have been pondering why i'm so shy and fear rejection from woman. when i was young i used to write and act out plays with my friends in front of my classmate and even the school. all of a sudden i had trouble speaking in front of groups and to girls one on one. i believe i found two reasons why. i was always heavier than kids my age and in high school i got teased and laughed at for being overweight daily from kids i didn't even know(this had never happened before), i believed for the first time in my life i was different from everybody cause i was FAt. i started beliving i was less than nothing cause i was fat wich made me unpopular in school. all my friends( the little i had) and i was part of the rejects. so i started always staying in corners trying not to be seen. and secondly this has to do with my fear of rejection. There was this girl who was popular but also a friend of mine, i was her confident, she told me everything. she always talked to me about her boyfriends and telling how bad they treated her. after a will she started telling me that she needed somebody like me. she told me that more than once so i took it has a sign. so i decieded to ask her out, a planned a perfect date, Bryan Adams was coming for a concert in Ottawa and i knew she loved him. so i saved my money, bought two front row tickets and on the last day of school took my couraged in hands and ask her out. she shot me down saying she didn't like bryan adams and walked away. she never talk to me again. this was the worst summer of my life. so for alot of years after that i never ask anybody out, and to this day i still have confidence issues wich holds me back. it's funny that you never associate things until alot later in life!! you don't make the connections to the event or you don't won't to say it's because of this event. i was taking stock of my life so far and wanted to make changes, taking my two biggest personnal handicaps and trying to change for the better. hopefully realising where it started will help me get over them. i just needed to say it to someone as to not keep it bottled up inside. so who better than my friends of cerb who don't judge. just writing it down and knowing it will be seen by others seems appropriate. if this helps somebody in the same situation all the better. feel free to post your own story if you like, it did me good just writing it, mabe it will for you too.

Yes I know there is already many treads on this subject...but I felt the need to create a new one...especially about discretion online. 1) Gentlemen, if you have some online accounts on different social networks (facebook, fetlife, okcupid etc.) and you find a lady on the website. Please respect her privacy and don't send a "wink" smiley. It's creepy. Especially if we don't know who the hell you are. We have private life, families. Yes we may be on dating websites, but our private emotional/sexual life doesn't concern you, unless we share it with you 2) This is about handles.I have came across different profiles on different website...where the person keep the same nickname...I am sorry but if your name is turnipgodofthezooloo...the chance that someone else have the same nickname are really low. If someone Google it, they will found your different accounts on different websites. Try to keep hobbiest lifestyle and private life separate also. and I am out

I have been complemented on my appearance, or cloths, and just general personality. Just the other day, I was stopped by a gentlemen as i was walking downtown Fredericton. He wanted to compliment me on my walk! This was a new one! I blushed profusely then Thanked him. I began to walk away, and was in deep thoughts about how unique that was. His words rang in my ear...." you have the most amazing gate I have ever seen! You gild as if you are on air! Like a fashion model or dancer." Then of course my attention was on my gate, then started to look around at other ladies walking by. I noticed how sexy a walk can be! Or unfortunately, how unappealing some are when walking. Is it the hips? The shoulders, the length of the stride? I suppose all of the above. Is this something that men notice? Does it cause you to become attracted? This was one of those moments that will have me paying more attention to the way I present myself when out and about. I thought it was interesting take on how beauty can be portrayed!

Last week I booked a massage appointment for today with someone I have wanted to see for a while. Yesterday, I slipped on some ice and fell - HARD. Essentially I loosened my kneecap without breaking it, spent 3 hours at the hospital, and will be in physio for a while. The up side is that the meds are great! I sent her a message to cancel. She was gracious. I still want to see her but would like to leave an additional tip for her trouble - what is appropriate?

If any of you are looking to travel soon via Porter Airlines . I just saw this big ad came up . Now they cant be an excuse to come to the Ottawa !! or vice verse .... " Porter is having a fabulous sale right now. With promo code BIG, get 50% off base fare. Book your ticket by Mar 9,2012 for travel by Sept 4, 2012. Discount applies to new bookings only and can't be used with any other promotions or programs. To book your ticket, or to find more information, visit their website."

I say treat it like a job interview. It's always safer to be too dressed up than too dressed down. If the ad uses words like "courtesan", "classy", "sensual"...I expect an impeccably dressed siren. Posted from my iPhone

I'm fortunate in that I get to see her in Fredericton on my trips visiting family!

Well speaking only for me Christy, casual is sexy, dressing up in dress and high heels is sexy, or lingerie, or etc etc etc Long and short of it, it's the lady that is sexy. RG

Alright that did it -- I guess that's my new fantasy (no harm in that, right?) Pretend the lady forgot about our appointment and went shopping and that you are the cleaning lady but invite me in anyways :)

Personally, life happens. If you contacted the lady ahead of your scheduled appointment, then the best compensation is to reschedule your appointment. I'm sure that most of us understand that things can and do happen, and as long as you don't make a habit of booking and cancelling, we understand.

For me, when I open the door, I love to see a gentleman who is punctual, well groomed and friendly. I don't care what he's wearing. I'm a sucker for a good personality.

I always go with full reimbursement if I have to cancel anytime less than 72 hours before a scheduled appointment, but I'm by no means saying that is "appropriate" or even affordable. I think only you can decide this one. I suppose any amount is thoughtful and considerate. Maybe just ask her opinion, if she doesn't have one (or expect this) than any amount is going to be appreciated. Hope your knee is going to be okay.

Xmas gift wrapping? Ha! I wonder if my eyes still light up the same way they must've Christmas morning... You could spot them immediately from across the living room. You knew which were yours from the wrapping alone, and the excitement doubled... ...though today, I couldn't imagine a lovely lady drapped in hot rods, lasso-twirling cowboys or the millenium falcon streaking across a starry sky. Despite that, every greeting has been very sexy, slightly revealing, entirely her(their) choice, unique and always memorable. A sexy, delicate bra & panty hidden under a short satin robe... An itsy-bitsy little colourful stringy bikini showcasing that summer tan... Dangerously daring denim shorts topped with a lacey bustier... A simple, sexy white blouse over a hip-hugging black skirt... (sighhh....) I need to open a window...later. "As requested, your hot bagel and cream cheese shmear is ready for you, Mr. Rosenbaum."

Most of my encounters are outcalls, and as I have come to learn, ladies prefer to dress comfortably so they aren't attracting attention from the hotel staff But with that said, if a first encounter, I tell the lady to dress comfortably. With an incall, of which I do much fewer, I have requested a dress. But at the end of the day, I'm much more interested in seeing the lady, no matter what she is wearing. And jeans, tee shirt, sweat shirt, sweater, dress, whatever, it's all good. It's the lady who makes the outfit after all A rambling for whatever it's worth, from a guy who prefers wearing jeans and a sweat shirt himself RG

Sounds like an idea for your next photo shoot!

A woman's gait (and a man's, too) can reveal a lot about them. I walk upright, not slouched. Chest up, back stretched. When you walk standing tall like this, it's hard not to have your hips sway since your whole torso is moving in gentle undulations with each step. I used to walk slouched a bit, always looking at the sidewalk. But a friend told me that my feet knew where the ground was, so why was I always checking? Ever since I've kept myself fully upright when walking. Much to some of my friends' dismay as I'm looking around at everything but them when we're talking. But hey... I like shiny stuff. Sue me. :-)

Sophia has left Ottawa and gone back to Fredericton

My personal comfort level is to pm and/or call on my cell phone number , which I have had for years, the provider of my choice. I once visited a very reputable provider and wanted to freshen up in the shower, her diary/ schedule was on the vanity right before me. I noticed my handle and cell number right before me, which I was not really happy about. I did not pick up the encounter listing and skim through it but I did notice other encounters of hers and recognize two other members handles on the same single page before me. I decided not to see this particular provider again because of her lack of indiscretion.

Happy birthday buddy!!! I found this nice lady... she said nothing could hold her back from meeting ya!!!

Happy Birthday, Spud! Have fun, but keep yourself together ;)

Happy Birthday Spud!!

My parents taught me well and thankfully my 3 boys are the same. It makes me smile to see them helping others. Giving up their sears on the metro or opening doors etc...makes a mom proud.

It's a two-part issue, I think. On the one hand, men should be chivalrous - gentlemanly. On the other hand, women should be gracious - lady-like. These days there's more emphasis being put on physical appearance and status symbols (expensive clothes, jewelry, designer colognes/perfumes, nice cars, etc.). As intelligent a species as we are, we are still driven to imitate that which we deem desirable, and often we see desirable lifestlyes on television and in cinema. The whole "keeping up with the Jones' " has really changed. Manners are no longer a requisite part of a functioning society. At least not to the degree we knew in past times. Most people don't even know proper dining etiquette, let alone social graces. Generally speaking, men have lost a lot of the class and gentility that women desire. And women have lost much of their grace and softness that men adore. I hold doors for people, I thank the bus driver when I disembark, I let people with only a few items go ahead of me at the grocery store. It's civility. And I still believe in it. (Which is a major contributor to my low tolerance for crass and undignified clients, but that's a whole 'nother matter.) Just keep being a good, conscientious citizen and nevermind those with a deficit of proper manners. It speaks poorly of them, not you. Being kind is contagious, afterall, and you probably made someone's day - or at least got a smile. We shouldn't do these things for the reward, but rather because it's simply the right thing to do. That's my two cents, anyhow... Posted via Mobile Device

I'm somewhere between Daria and her best friend Jane:

Maybe it was just a honest mistake, it happens.

Or maybe, just maybe, it's to celebrate Cato's birthday!! Have a good one, fine fellow!