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I've watched the vote on both boards closely. This is a trixie dilema for many reasons; the main one for me are my ability to continue to earn an income in the event one of these occurs... 1. INCURABLE -Herpes 2. INCURABLE -Gonorrhea 3. SILENT-Chlamydia 4. INCURABLE-AIDs/HIV I don't have an issue with a gentleman having a preference but I prefer that I, as a provider, have the opportunity to get to know a guest before I am forced to make a decision. And it is "forced" as I was trained to always provide the safest service - ALWAYS - so anything uncovered is going against years of conditioning and brings concern to my mind. There are few sterotypes that we can constructively work against, STI/STD transmission is one of the ones that we can stand proud on being untrue with statistics to back it up. I do understand the preference and on this board I expected the results seen in the poll. I genuinely wonder how many men will enjoy it with the outbreaks that are surfacing. I know everyone has read the articles on the newest strain of untreatable gonorrhea that is currently under scrutiny; spreading globally and certainly wouldn't enjoy explaining how their SO ended up with chlamydia now that she is hospitalized with raging infection in her girlie regions and she is now sterile. Mitigating risk is an essential part of this business and I have concerns about the disregard most have for the health and well being of their providers vs. their own pleasure. I also am surprised at the nonchalance shown about the hobbyists own health given the fallout of incurable STD's. I've copied and pasted my response to this thread from the other board. What I would like to add is that if someone isn't in a relationship, contracting one of these will certainly alter your ability to get involved in the future. I have a seen it personally with acquaintances and it's not pretty finding someone who will overlook herpes or gonorrhea... cat

I am so proud of myself! I've been talking about doing it for ages but this time I finally did it! I signed up for accordion lessons! Y'all better get ready for this sensational sound.

Gonorrhea at this point is not incurable. We are looking at the emergence of a drug-resistant strain of gonorrhea, and while there have been cases of drug-resistant gonorrhea in Canada and the US, to date we have not yet seen an incurable case in North America. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/08/09/drug-resistant-gonorrhea-cefixime-ceftriaxone-treatment_n_1761091.html "In the United States, there are approximately 300,000 reported cases of gonorrhea each year, but because infected people often have no symptoms, the actual number of cases is likely closer to 700,000, Bolan said. So-called "superbug" drug-resistant strains of gonorrhea accounted for almost one in 10 cases of sexually transmitted disease in Europe in 2010, more than double the rate of the year before, health officials from the Stockholm-based European Centre for Disease Prevention and Control said in June. Dr. Robert Kirkcaldy of the CDC said there have so far been no U.S. cases of "untreatable" gonorrhea, in which the germ resists all known treatments, but U.S. laboratory data suggest resistance is beginning to emerge." CDC guidelines fact sheet Health Canada FAQ Wired article with link to map of susceptibility and treatment-failure cases (9) in Europe I am not saying this to advocate one way or the other as to what sexual health practices one should adopt. It is not my place. What I do advocate is personal responsibility in educating ourselves regarding the risks and rates of transmission, and to use that knowledge to practice safer sex in informed ways. When getting tested for STIs, you can request rectal and/or oral swabs in addition to blood and urine cultures. This, personally, is right up the same alley as the fear-mongering that we see in abstinence-only programs. Saying things like "You won't get a girl/boyfriend if you have an STI" is the type of shaming that drives people away from being tested. I don't want to single you out, cat. But if we're comparing personal anecdotes, I have a dear friend who has herpes and is happily living with her current partner. Another friend-of-a-friend is in a relationship and has HIV. People are people regardless of the issues they live with, and the important factor is disclosure and informed consent. A healthy and happy sexuality is possible, but it requires education and awareness.

I was having a conversation with someone about how I never go on webcam and no not that kind of webcam guys I meant with friends and family (cam shy) and how my mom always asked me to. He encouraged me to do it for her and I took his advice and surprised her with a video call, I made her day and she made mine when the first thing she said was 'You look so beautiful.' And that is my highlight :)

Hello my dears, I want to add to this conversation that some times getting hard or haveing an SOG doesn't have to be the end goal of an encounter. Some times an encounter can be about touch, connection and sensuality. It's possibly to laugh and f----k and get totaly blissed and never take your pants off. Sex is so much more than PIV. If you make capital L love to the whole person with pleasure as the end goal, you'll never go wrong.

A good friend of mine not doing well. May end up in the hospital very soon due to heart problems.

Yoga pants and a tight white t-shirt.

I would not draft Tebow, he's all hype, I don't think the Jets offense scored a TD in all of preseason, whether it was Tebow or Sanchez at QB so there's nothing to indicate drafting either QB will bring you many points. Houston has a good defense, so does SF. Fantasy pools are a crapshoot really, you never know who is going to have a good year, all you can do is look at a players history and hope they do as well or better this year. Good Luck.

Old spice and body odour. Enough said! Additional Comments: Old spice and body odour. Enough said!

Actually, I've jumped the gun a little bit. I do have one fantasy which keeps playing in my mind eversince I saw her - one of my favorites and regular SPs. I fantasize that I would book her for a day and bring her home. We would be just like lovers, we would cook, we would work out in the gym, we would swim ( more like skinny-dipping) and relax in the hot tub and we would watch something interesting on tv at night. We would of course make love whenever we feel like it. This will most likely remain an unfulfilled fantasy for me.:icon_sad:

This is going to sound so dumb but it was 20x the points day at shoppers drug mart. I always keep a list of random non essential stuff and whenever 20x the points day comes around I let myself splurge. Highlights of the shopping trip were a LED eyelash curler(I have a thing for stuff that lights up) and Chanel's No. 5 Eau Première. Posted via Mobile Device

In the summer (like right now), my comfort clothes are nothing, or next-to-nothing (e.g. an undershirt and panties). In the winter when it gets colder, I might do a t-shirt and pajama bottoms. I'm not gonna lie, I have a pair of my lover's briefs (I had to borrow some kind of underpants after he cut mine off with scissors--fuck that was hot) and I sometimes wear them around the house even though I (obviously) don't have a dick and balls so there is this pouchy bit in the front.

I have been looking for months for the perfect looking/feeling/wearing robe. FINALLY I found a silk, slinky perfect fitting sexy robe <3 When Im in it I feel sooooooooooo good!

Opss, I forgot to mention one other fantasy. That is to go to Orleans, and finally meet Meg for a megalistic, orgasmic good time. After all I have been flirting with her for over a year...

Strip club's here suck. Not like the good ole days when they used to entertain you on stage with even a rookie would put on a theme show. I avoid them now because the girl's look bored to death on stage. Plus having the pay for doing a stage show lowered over the yrs. I think I'd look bored as hell too thinking why put any effort into this show for $35. I'm assuming now that most of our clubs have shut down & not sure if they still have as many club's having dancer's on jam day's, (Thurs-Sat). Used to be 50 different bars that girl's would travel around, some doing up to 20 shows in a jam day. I doubt it will be open, stripper's take holiday's too ;). But wouldn't hurt to call Lipstixx or Solid Gold/ The Gentlemen's club to see if they are open to charge you an overpriced door fee, overpriced drinks & girl's only appearing every hour or sometimes more. Better go with a buddy so you have someone to talk to while waiting in between show's. Also If a club doesn't have enough customer's & haven't sold enough drinks they will actually a lot of times cancel the dancer's show as the club can't afford to pay her. Seen it many time's even back in the good ole days when I danced. They don't do it as often to out of town girls but locals it will happen to. You must be from out East where the club's have quality & quantity of girls. A few local dancer's have become SP's, which used to be so frowned upon, but these days with lower show prices & almost zero tipping a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. You should save your money that you'd spend at the club, & get yourself a provider, lot's I'm sure would do a striptease for you. Plus you won't end up with blue ball's from looking & not being able to touch ;)

VIP is using one of my old photo's from years ago when I worked for him. He has me named as Julia....I have asked him many times to take it down, he still has it there! I took a look a few days ago, and still there. Dont really know what to do about it??

I personally really don't get much out of a blow jobs and would prefer if the SP engaged in safer practices. I've gotten atonished looks when I tell an SP that I'm not particularly fond of blow jobs. Apparently I'm unusual. I've been amused by a couple of gals who insisted that they could change my mind... they didn't.

:shehot:Every now and then when looking through the threads and coming across pictures of some of the cerb ladies I'm stunned and awed by their beauty. Some of these ladies are straight out of a magazine, has anyone ever been approached by a gentlemans magazine to pose?

Almost always a deal breaker for me, but in the other direction. BBBJ, anything unsafe for that matter, is a real turn off for me except for when I'm in a relationship. I don't judge anyone and respect other's choices with respect to services, but for me that reveals that the SP's risk tolerance for safety is considerably different than my own. I've talked to many SP's about this. I've noticed that women from areas with a lot of competition often describe how much pressure is on them to provide BBBJ. So much pressure that they ultimately caved in to keep from losing business. I think that's heartbreaking, seriously. Do it if you want, that's cool, but if you don't then stand your ground. :) :condom:

Yes. I was approached by score group. This was back in the day before I did porn and did not show my face so they were awed only by the beauty of my big naturals.. I eventually did magazine layouts and porn but by the time I decided to go ahead with it all.. I could no longer shoot for score b/c I don't have a US work permit or SSN. bah! I have since modeled for Girls over 40 magazine (twice), Gent, D-cup, Legworld, Juggs and 40 Plus. Those layouts have since ended up reprinted in several other mags.. no royalties though for moi.. lol

You have enimies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life-Winston Churchill

The same low class individual copying my website text for the second time in 2 months....

I recently exchanged a series of unfortunate e-mails with a potential patron who had never seen a companion before. I eventually declined his request because there were too many red flags. Too many questions and subjects were discussed that honestly freaked me out to the point of not seeing him. One or two of these questions on their own wouldn't have been so bad, but the combination of them all was enough to make me cancel the appointment. I'm also sorry if this turns out to be a little bit of a rant... >_<... Please do not ask me the following... Will there be 'thugs' waiting in the closet at your incall to mug me? Unless you're a thug, then no, there will be no 'thugs' in my apartment. I understand hesitancy and fear if it's the first time you've sought the services of an SP/MA, but this question is very offensive. Are you a cop? No. Are you? Are you D&D free? Yes. However, there are no guarantees. I don't intend to show you a 'report card' of cleanliness upon your arrival at my incall. Protecting yourself from STIs has everything to do with engaging in safer sex practices and getting tested regularly. STI prevention has nothing to do with trust. I could tell you I was D&D free, and you could say the same, but ultimately we hardly know each other. That's why we have safer sex. In terms of drug use, read recommendations, do your research, check out websites... use your judgment. I have no idea what to say as far as drugs are concerned. I think this question is shrouded with assumptions about who escorts are, and not based in reality. This question perpetrates the stigma that escorts are 'dirty', and into drugs. Are you an easy drunk? This is none of your business. We will not get drunk together. We are supposed to get together to have a good time, connect, and be intimate... Asking me whether I'm an easy drunk sets off a lot of red flags. Would you like me to be an easy drunk? If so, what does that insinuate about your intentions during the encounter? Do you mind just waiting for me, and I'll call you when I'm done having drinks with my buddies? Yes, I do mind. The fact that you'll be drinking with your buddies before our appointment is also a huge red flag for me. Especially when you're also asking me whether I like group and rough sex. Nothing you're doing is illegal at the incall, right? But aren't you afraid the cops will bust you? Obviously the night we get together will be the night you get busted, ha. ha. Our security isn't a laughing matter. I don't think there are any escorts or massage attendants that aren't afraid they will get targeted by an angry neighbour or landlord. Whenever I see a bylaw officer I think of the possible consequences of being targeted. There are multiple threads on CERB, and multiple resources online, that discuss the legality and risks involved in running an incall. Please do your research... End rant. ;)

This is such a perfect conversation, given that it's the 20th anniversary of Christian Louboutin! The man has created some of the sexiest heels this world has ever seen. I'm a 9.5 (they fit small...) for any gentlemen paying attention! When you see the red soul of those babies, you know you're in for some trouble...

I guess you could say that I'm partial to women in flip flops. Don't get me wrong a woman in a nice pair of heels can really get the engine revving, but there is just something about a woman in flip flops that is so playful that it just brings a smile to my face. As for myself I tend to have one or two pairs of everyday shoes that I wear till they're practically falling apart. I do have dress shoes though, for those special occasions, and a pair of sandals for the summer/beach. I have to say though my Airwalk sandals are some of the most comfortable shoes/sandals I've ever owned. I guess I have to add my winter boots too, lol.