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This is a subject I've been giving serious consideration to lately. It started last fall with my new ads. Everywhere wants to me to put in an age and I just don't know what to put in, I feel like I'm in my early 30's! When I go out with my children, no one believes I'm their mother and I don't relate at all to the number that is my year of birth. I've never looked at anyone as "old" even when I was little because all of the seniors in my life I adored and wanted to be just like them; wrinkles, grey hair and all. So I've sat and done the lists of pros and cons. The cons list is pretty short; reading glasses on occasion, wanting to get to bed at a reasonable hour and not being able to wear 5 inch stilettos for an entire day are about the only things that have really changed in the last 20 years. The pros list is longer than my arm but the top 5 are... 1. The wisdom to stay present and truly appreciate the moment 2. The joy of not taking any of the little things for granted 3. Amazing relationships that are relatively drama free 4. Amazing physical and sexual awareness that continues to get better 5. Recognizing that life is precious yet not to be taken seriously What is age? I don't have the answer for that but I've decided that it really doesn't matter in my life; I'm just me. Sometimes I feel 16 and everything is silly and fun, other times I'm ancient with quiet serenity. It is impossible to average out an age that I "am". For work, if I could pick an age to fill in the box, it would be 35 but I know it isn't accurate so I've decided to be ageless. Sometimes I put in 99, other times it's 75 and when I'm not caring I put in "timeless". In my day to day life, I refuse to give a number unless it's on a government form because it all depends on how old I am that day... cat

Wow! All of your preamble is very complimentary however I am not sure of, and I shall be curious to see how many will respond to this with a single name. For myself there is no possible way that I could answer that question because I have been so incredibly fortunate with the women that I have met. If I could answer it I would not. Women come in all shapes and sizes and temperaments and with various beliefs, attitudes. idiosyncrasies, ways of doing things, and their own likes and dislikes. The women that I have seen have been amazing but all of them are unique individuals who differ from each other in ways that make each of them a very special person to me.

Something to keep in mind. This is, or should be, mutually beneficial lifestyle. Mutually beneficial in that for the ladies, the encounters provide income for them...being companions is their livelihood. And for the gentlemen, encounters provide the pleasure and intimacy of female companionship without the complications of a relationship. And for both the lady and gentleman, hopefully the encounter is pleasant for both of them. This lifestyle shouldn't be a zero sum game, that what the gentleman gets comes at a lady's expense. If both the lady and gentleman have a positive pleasant encounter, well isn't that a good thing, and if there are more happy people in the world, would this be a better place (I know, sounds sacchrine and sickingly sweet LOL) RG :-)

Interesting, I just had a birthday that puts me just north of sixty five, and I would argue that age is an important number. But, you see so many comments such as not acting your age or looking younger, the assumption being that somehow age is somewhat of a negative. I disagree, it's just another part of living. Sure, I'm already showing some physical signs that reflect the ravages of time, and are a precursor of things to come. I might not perform sexually as I did 20 years ago, but I know with the right partner I can enjoy the mutual experience probably more than I did in my youth, because the intimacy today has a far broader base, founded on experience. I think also with this journey, I am far less inhibited. The other aspect is rather more personal, now and evolves from the fact that I am now alone. I miss my wife, but have come to terms and developed a certain amount of freedom at this stage. Since I am quite comfortable off, I can afford to experience many new things. I've probably traveled to a dozen countries in the last few years. Rather than dreading the passage of time, embrace it. For most women, I think that they worry about how their beauty is affected. I think that this is unfounded, as I know women in their fifties and sixties that are absolutely gorgeous. They understand that beauty is not all skin deep, as they rely on a twinkle in the eye and a disarming smile as part of their arsenal.

You really must! It's amazing and awe-inspiring and I wish I had more time than a weekend when I was there (two months in Jordan on a university field credit for archaeology--there were planned trips to various places in Jordan every weekend).

Personally if I don't get a lady off or make sure she doesn't enjoy herself,I don't feel great after leaving our appointment. As I have stated to some SP's it is not about" wham bam thank- you mam" it is about chemistry being sensual and erotic and ensuring the lady really gets herself off too. That itself is rewarding for both parties, there is nothing like hearing a lady moan,having her scratch your back,or pull your hair or bite your nipples ;) " it fucking turns me on hearing her,feeling her getting turned on" I really like the two hour sessions lately :) so much more time to explore, appreciate and really get off two times or more:) So if you get off myarain or really turned on "it's all good" after all that's what it is all about,so enjoy it!!

What makes you say "WTF?" For me? I say "WTF?" ...... When people walk around grocery stores wearing those giant blinking bluetooth ear sets and their on the phone and they bang into you and don't even say excuse me or apoligize... like seriously wft? They might as well have a douche bag taped to the side of their head

Tis the season and I thought why not have a thread to wish everyone a Happy ThanksGiving and give everyone a public chance to show and say thanks to what they are greatful/thankful for on this upcoming Thanksgiving Day. I know we should show thanks all the time but this is the Holiday for the gesture I am thankful for my health and well being, for great family and friends and for the WONDERFUL community of CERB I have come to know and love in the last 8-9 months I wish you all a wonderful and family/friend filled thanksgiving with lots of Turkey (or whatever you choose as your main dish) stuffing (my personal fav) and all the fixings Take Care and Gobble Gobble

yes erica is all you can ask for , as for a duo i am craving the chance to have one with both of them as the comments are so wonderful hope erica or both of them come to wpg soon so i can have my chocolate fix with some extra fixings

We are definitely very lucky to live in Canada. Women, or as you say small girls are treated so horribly in other parts of the world. Like to be female is to be a lesser being :(

There's one thing that is really bugging me about the season premiere, though. There's just no way you can kill yourself like that with a sword. Masuka mentioned hari kari, but in that case samurai would stab themselves in the gut (where it's softer and you have a better angle). You cannot get a sword through your sternum. To do that he would have had to have fallen on his sword (if you've heard the term fall on your sword - that's what it means. It's suicide, not clumbsiness, lol). Lying down and impaling yourself --while on fire!!-- is just not going to work. But everyone bought it right away. Those are the really sloppy things about Dexter that get on my nerves. I love a lot of the subtle things they do and I love the characters but I find that they ask us to suspend belief a little too much on things like how Dexter gets away with his kills.

Holly Raye is my first choice. I don't get to see her as often as I would like but when we do get together she can rock's my world.

On the way to the hospital to get my mom a walking cast, my dad dropped off his karaoke machine for Sunday Thanksging...his music is ancient :(. Guess I wil brush up on " Start spreading the news...." My bad for getting rid of the piano!

Those who approach this lifestyle with an us versus them attitude. In other words it is hobbyiest versus SP...some boards seem to thrive on this attitude. We are all, IMHO opposite sides of the same coin, in a mutually beneficial lifestyle (or should be), and that's how I approach this lifestyle. The gentlemen wouldn't be here without the ladies, and the ladies wouldn't be here without the gentlemen...see mutually beneficial RG

Well, refried beans and I don't mesh! Enjoying a wonderful cbj and all of a sudden I felt a great belch working its way up! No chance to hide it (actually is was epic and I could have probably burped the alphabet!) so unladylike but, nonetheless I couldn't help laughing my ass off. The great thing was that the recipient thought it was hilarious too! Note to self, burritos are for down time only!

Childishness people that write stupid sh-t on other sites to try and ruin ones reputation! WTFx2

construction happening on my street. Like MAJOR constructions. hell to have people coming over >.< I am sensing a slow month because of this...

I was JOKING people. JOOOOOKING!

It's still early and I haven't had any caffeine yet but waking up the the Shticky commercial makes me laugh.

Thailand and Vietnam... Italy and Spain .... Norway, Russia and Greenland.... Brazil and Argentina ....Turcs and Caicos

Outstanding afternoon/early evening at Barbs's. Dances from Ariel, Jenny, and Cherry. Not all at the same time, of course; I couldn't have survived that.:) But with adequate recovery time between sessions, it worked out very well. Plus I was joined by a cerb friend for drinks and conversation. So an excellent time at my favourite bar, with some of my favourite women.

Ditto, it's been way too long since I had my hands on that bum.

Those that have read the Walking Dead graphic novels will know that some pretty awesome stuff awaits!!!! Porthos

Can't say the vid does that much for me, but now I'm thinking about breakfast dates with Gabriella and am totally turned on!!

I was always told by older females in my family that it is rude to ask someone their age. Is there a difference if an SP is 42 but she says 40? I could understand if you're advertising at 25 and you're really 35. Or advertising at 28 but you're really 43. That is just wrong. And some SPs are guarded because of their privacy. I think that is reasonable. I'm in my 30's but is a set in stone number really necessary? I use a fake name, do people have to know my real name too? Is there is a difference between 32 and 35 when it comes to looks? Most likely they could pass for a few years younger if they take care of themelves. There are some things in this business that are on a need to know basis. Unless you're really trying to fool someone which won't work anyways, I don't think it's a big deal.

I really think age is just a number, you are only as old as your feel you are. Seriously, I usually don't "know" my exact age, right now it's an multiple of 10 so I do know but in the ten years between decades I don't keep track. I always feel absolutely miserable when a lady MUST disclose her date of birth to me (you just can buy travel medical insurance for her on that nice out of the country excursion without it) and while I use the information only for the intended purpose I refuse to do the math.

Age is just a number, I honestly believe that being in my early 50's I have more sex drive than I did when I was 40. I was very sexually active from my teens through my late 20's and its like my sexual desires have begun again at 50. I thoroughly am enjoying every moment, and the life style I'm living. There so many women that I need to meet, BUT I have so much time, so time/age is patience, and good things happened to those that enjoy life to its fullest.

Just a little anecdote regarding pimps, this came from a woman interviewed in Halifax who worked at the street level: "Pimp? What do I need a pimp for? If I'm in a car, ain't no pimp in there to protect me."

I have been told I don't look my age, so I have no issue with letting people know I am over 50. That way I can enjoy the compliments. I am fortunate though. I never smoked, went in the Sun or had kids, so my skin tone is still good which is why I have bragging rights to perky breasts. I also believe I won the genetic lottery. My mom was half Irish and French and she always looked younger than her age until she got sick in her 70s. But appearance is not everything. Like Nicki says, it's all in your attitude and outlook on life. Sometimes I wake up and say to myself "Wow, just seems like yesterday it was the summer of 1978"? Seriously though, it is just a number. Enjoy today, because really that's all we have!

Your only as old as the woman you feel. ;)

This recommendation is long overdue (sorry my dear), and I don't write many, so bear with me. After eyeing up Lexy's pictures and profile for a while I finally decided to initiate contact. From the moment I first heard back from her via email it was pure bliss. She was very easy to talk to, friendly and instantly gave me a very comfortable feeling. (I am still somewhat new to hobbling, so still get the jitters every now and then). Setting up a time was effortless, it was even very pleasurable with Lexy. Every conversation was exciting and intriguing. We had a few of these as I first sent her a message a week or so prior to our date. Along came date night..I had never hosted before. Props to all you ladies and gentlemen who do, it's a lot of work getting the place ready for a special evening. There were no surprises with Lexy. She messages when she said she would, and called when she said she would. Needless to say, she showed up right on time. I almost dropped when I opened the door. She is better looking In person than her picturs do her justice. And I think we can all agree that her pictures do her lots of justice. Lexy and I relaxed, had a nice dinner and few drinks and it seemed like we knew each other for an eternity. I won't get into the details of what took place after dinner, but let me tell you that Lexy is very beauiful, extremley talented, not a clock watcher and she definitely loves what she does. I made a great friend that night, one that I will absolutely see again. Thanks for a great time Lexy, xoxo

It's funny how people always think of our work as the time we spend with our customers. That's the one part of it that, to me, doesn't seem so much like work. But there's a lot more that customers don't think of to this job. Everything from writing ad copy and designing our web sites, to making travel arrangements, to getting audited, to laundering the linens. I guess I'm pretty good at avoiding seeing people I wouldn't like spending time with, but one part of the job that I really don't enjoy (but have learned the hard way that I really must do myself) is answering phones and emails. That's where I'm most likely to encounter people I don't like. This is a business, and every independent is running a business.

Pretty wild!! Sort of surprised no Dad talking to Dexter stuff. Peace MG

Wherever did you get the impression that it's supposed to be all about the client? You can still provide top notch service to your client while still enjoying yourself. In fact you will find many men who love to please their partner and it turns them on when you are turned on. You have absolutely NOTHING to feel bad about.

If I had the impression that my partner in an encounter wasn't turned on, it would drastically reduce my enjoyment. This is obviously not a "love affair", but a bored, uninvolved partner would feel exploitive or even assaultive to me.

This is nothing short of an outrage. Not only are the very people they claim to serve incredibly inconvenienced by the strike e.g. (the ridership), but the drivers themselves will likely make back a significant percentage in lost wages through a generous signing bonus once a deal comes along!

Cellman please be aware that most of Thunder Bay consists of independents. some of us have other lives that need to be adressed before answering e-mails and phone calls. some of us have different booking methods (ie. pre-bookings only/ two call systems/sitting by the phone waiting just in case) When someone contacts me @9 pm wanting a booking for 10pm i suggest contacting sugar (the only girl in the bay that besides myself that i would recommend to anyone) i only do pre-bookings. and the best of the best here tend to take less bookings then someone new to the market (quality vs quantity, or risk vs safety, aka learning curve) . So i tend to think that your issue may be that you are looking for high quality meals at fast food speeds. or I could be wrong. But i do agree that we need to have more out of town girls/guys come in consistanly. Changing up the choices for SP's is essential for our line of work whither your a local or not. the benifits are in both the SP's and hobbiests intrests :)

Haha! Yesss, this has been known to happen....sleep and busy-ness ;) May I suggest perhaps that you pre-book to avoid your current disappointment?

Pretty sure the OP was looking for info on who offers this, not on who thinks it's "yuck" or "nasty". If this is something you don't offer or are not interested in, fair enough, but then why even click on a thread entitled "Extreme Gagging" in the first place? A fetish is a very personal thing to many. And usually, not something one has very much control over. I feel that someone should be able to come to cerb (and to the "BDSM, Fetish, etc" section of cerb of all places) and inquire about a fetish openly without having to be told his/her fetish is gross, immoral, etc.....regardless of what it is.....assuming of course that said fetish is occurring between two (or more :p) consenting adults. Ye ol' cerb motto applies here. If thou shant have anything good or helpful to say, thou shouldn't say anything at all. That being said I'm also interesting in knowing who provides an extreme-ish DT (although for me personally, not to the point of puking). Additional Comments: You may want to inquire with Berlin about this. I haven't had the pleasure of seeing her yet and I'm not sure if she offers exactly what you're looking for. But on her website she quotes "messy/gagging blowjobs" as part of the fetish/submission services she offers. Like I said, I haven't met her yet but she's very reputable and has very good reviews. Considering the nature of the request it's probably a good idea to PM her or e-mail her first to determine if she offers exactly what you're looking for.

I went into future shop a while ago and was carrying my little dog (10 lbs), it was very busy and my dog perhaps became nervous as she decided to have a very gasy moment, you would have thought she was a great dane! Not sure if people thought it was me, as we certainly started getting alot of dirty looks lol, poor dog, it was kind of funny, smelly but funny.